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Am I the world's worst swinger??
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So after about 6 months of going to a club, and only playing a handful of times, and also having a few issues with the little man downstairs, am I the worst swinger on here???
I enjoy the social side more than playing, more of a watcher rather than a player, although a few ladies have taken advantage of me and used my tongue on a few occasions!
Swinging for me is not about getting notches on bedposts, it's more of a friendly socal where like minded people go, and sometimes have fun!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Are you enjoying what you do?"
Oh yes! I certainly enjoy the club, and sometimes I want to play but can't seem to rise to the occasion  tried the blue tablets, but still get stage fright!
Still have a good time without playing, but am I going for the right reasons? |
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"Are you enjoying what you do?
Oh yes! I certainly enjoy the club, and sometimes I want to play but can't seem to rise to the occasion tried the blue tablets, but still get stage fright!
Still have a good time without playing, but am I going for the right reasons? "
if your enjoying yourself then they are the right reasons |
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If it is just a problem at clubs sounds like you putting too much pressure on yourself. Go with the idea you are not having sex at the club but to only socialise and maybe watch. First time I visited a club I was terrified 
If the problem is also outside the club see your GP. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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" if your enjoying yourself then they are the right reasons"
The reason I keep going back is due to a few people there that make me feel good about myself, they have been soo friendly and opened my eyes to the whole swinging thing, but I just don't want to play most of the time, just being in their company is what I look forward to on a Friday night. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If it is just a problem at clubs sounds like you putting too much pressure on yourself. Go with the idea you are not having sex at the club but to only socialise and maybe watch. First time I visited a club I was terrified
If the problem is also outside the club see your GP. "
The problem is starting to affect home life too, but I am putting that down to lots of stress at the moment.
Blue pill not working, anxious about things, maybe worrying too much over trying to perform to a certain standard? Who knows what's going wrong down there! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Having a break for a few weeks, not going again until the Christmas party, then having a month off.
The stress is personal home life problems, can't be sorted overnight unfortunately.
The club is my happy place, I always get tingly feelings on the day I go, this makes me feel good, always looking forward to my next visits. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP, your erectile dysfunction may be a sign of other problems. Do you wake during the night or in the morning with a hard on?
Go and see your GP. "
There's never an issue first thing in the morning  and even having a wank by myself seems to work ok, just takes a little longer than it used to, 20 mins by myself with porn and I can make myself cum, but finding it difficult to maintain a erection for a longer period with others |
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"OP, your erectile dysfunction may be a sign of other problems. Do you wake during the night or in the morning with a hard on?
Go and see your GP. "
It could be a male GP and who's to say they'd enjoy being woken in the middle of the night for sex? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"OP, your erectile dysfunction may be a sign of other problems. Do you wake during the night or in the morning with a hard on?
Go and see your GP.
It could be a male GP and who's to say they'd enjoy being woken in the middle of the night for sex? "
Lol, don't think he will appreciate me calling him at 3am asking for a solution to get me going! |
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