Thought I'd do a proper count. In the 44 years since I popped my cherry I've had 19 sexual partners, 14 involving penetrative sex and only 5 were more than a one off.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not enough

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Partners/relationships - 0

Sexual partners I could probably count them using both hands

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have never had a partner lol. Bodybuilding and meal prepping takes up my life, loving it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thought I'd do a proper count. In the 44 years since I popped my cherry I've had 19 sexual partners, 14 involving penetrative sex and only 5 were more than a one off."

44 years! Surely that's a typo?

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By *igneachtWoman over a year ago

Upton Wirral

Up until 5yrs ago 1.... joined here and erm ..... 3 long term, plus the odd 1or 2

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have never had a partner lol. Bodybuilding and meal prepping takes up my life, loving it

It's ok Shag. You can count wanks instead

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By *ub... girlWoman over a year ago

worcester

To many

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have never had a partner lol. Bodybuilding and meal prepping takes up my life, loving it

It's ok Shag. You can count wanks instead

"
lol nice one, in that case I had over 10,000

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

2 long term partners, and a few more sexual ones.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was given wise advice to always reply 7.

So 7 of course

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thought I'd do a proper count. In the 44 years since I popped my cherry I've had 19 sexual partners, 14 involving penetrative sex and only 5 were more than a one off.

44 years! Surely that's a typo?

They start early in Cloud Cuckoo Land

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Between 10 and 20... I dont keep records

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bit confused, does he mean in partners you have been married too or casual partners? If casual I had 29.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thought I'd do a proper count. In the 44 years since I popped my cherry I've had 19 sexual partners, 14 involving penetrative sex and only 5 were more than a one off.

44 years! Surely that's a typo?

They start early in Cloud Cuckoo Land

"
lol 34 years

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thought I'd do a proper count. In the 44 years since I popped my cherry I've had 19 sexual partners, 14 involving penetrative sex and only 5 were more than a one off.

44 years! Surely that's a typo?

They start early in Cloud Cuckoo Land

lol 34 years

Thank god for that. I was going to ring child line for you

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By *alandNitaCouple over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Before our swinging lives started I think it was 5 & 10 respectively.

Now, I'm not sure, I haven't counted.

I would guess less than 30 but more than 20...including sexual encounters with women, if that counts for me.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I honestly don't know.

The only one that matters is the one that I'm with now.

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By *trawberry-popWoman over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

More than most of the people on this thread. Apart from OP with his (perhaps optimistic) 2000.

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By *iamondjoeMan over a year ago

Glastonbury

*wonders what the national average is*

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By *ingersoloWoman over a year ago

Oldham

By the time I was 29 only 3 sexual partners, in the past 5 years I've had too much fun to keep count. Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Partners: 2

Sexual: erm up until June only 8 now I can't possibly say but it's ALOT

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

how many have we had in our lives so far total - or how many we have at the mo -

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By *aneandpaulCouple over a year ago

cleveleys

One but swung with hundreds childhood sweet hearts

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"*wonders what the national average is*"

According to the NHS website a national survey has found that:

"sexual partners a woman has over a lifetime has increased from 3.7 in 1990-1991 to 7.7 in the latest survey (a similar increase in men was seen from 8.6 to 11.7)"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sexual partners "

Me , about 200

Sabrina , about 2,000

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"*wonders what the national average is*

According to the NHS website a national survey has found that:

"sexual partners a woman has over a lifetime has increased from 3.7 in 1990-1991 to 7.7 in the latest survey (a similar increase in men was seen from 8.6 to 11.7)"

.7?

Must have been that amputee I met

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"How many partners you have in your live ? Any idea ?"

Do you mean shags ? People we've shagged ? or partners. People we've been with on a fairly long/medium term loosely/strongly committed basis ... or shags.....

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By *opinovMan over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

In my whole life, I've had sex with 15 women.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In my whole life... four women, five men.

Though I've had actual intercourse 20 times. Practically a virgin.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"In my whole life... four women, five men.

Though I've had actual intercourse 20 times. Practically a virgin.

It'll heal up you know.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Rough count approximately 20, that's penetrative sexual partners

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"In my whole life... four women, five men.

Though I've had actual intercourse 20 times. Practically a virgin.

It'll heal up you know."

I know, I can practically feel it growing back

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Erm.....

I thought I had lived a sheltered life, but it seems not.

I know that I've had 3 long term partners but no idea how many guys I've had sex with.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm keeping my lips sealed but by the looks of it I'm needing to do that more often

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Proper partners not in double digits. Casual.. I stopped counting a few years back but its a 4 figure number and growing by a few each week x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How many partners you have in your live ? Any idea ?"

54 women

86 men

4 transian

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Judging by the responses here I've not had enough clearly.

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By *iamondjoeMan over a year ago

Glastonbury

This thread makes me feel secure/slutty

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By *orthyorkypairCouple over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"I wouldn't be so crass as to say

nor would we

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

three and was married to two of them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

More than 50 and fewer than 100.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Crikey no idea

I think I shagged about 10 last night

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Crikey no idea

I think I shagged about 10 last night"

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By *errynjuneCouple over a year ago

Barnsley

Only one partner, but since taking charge loads of casual ones.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Crikey no idea

I think I shagged about 10 last night"
a quiet night then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was still on a total of 1 at the age of 33.

A few more since then.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

I spoke about numbers at my last check up and it's not something that I think I'll ever be interested in. Recreational sex is akin to other stuff you do for pleasure - how many badminton games/partners have you had etc.

Just don't let others put you down, should they perceive you're inferior.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Crikey no idea

I think I shagged about 10 last night

a quiet night then

I'm not as young as I used to be

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Racked my brain n came up with 20....or 19 if you don't count the first one because I was probably shagging her thighs!

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

I have a list.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have a list.

With sub sections and performance related graded charts?

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I have a list.

With sub sections and performance related graded charts?

Nah... I'm not really one for ratings. I just wanted to see if I could remember them all. I add as I go now although it's not moved for quite some time!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have a list.

With sub sections and performance related graded charts?

Nah... I'm not really one for ratings. I just wanted to see if I could remember them all. I add as I go now although it's not moved for quite some time!

lol fair dos DG....Mines is at a standstill just now also n has been for a wee while!

Nevermind eh

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By *ettyboop61Woman over a year ago

St Neots

Mmmmm about 300

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

5 or 6..?

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By *anol6 OP Man over a year ago

London

Only ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

All my partners have been live.

In answer to your question, too many, I can't remember. But definitely all live!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

One long term, 30 years

Both under 10 sexually

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By *anol6 OP Man over a year ago

London

Any more guys ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

no idea but longterm

hubby 20 yrs

partner who passed - 3 yrs

W - 5 yrs and counting

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was going to say 5,but there was someone I forgot

6. Including one very long term.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I could probably count them using my fingers and toes

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By *inbadxxMan over a year ago

portsmouth

Lost.count at.over.60 15 years ago but then i am old and.forgetful these days lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

(male) over 50 so far, right now only one and two subs

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By *inkxRabbitWoman over a year ago

Mostly in GU24

Before I started swinging I'd only had 4 men. In my first year I set myself a target of sex with 50 guys.

I fell short at 47 and have slowed considerably but I reckon I'm up to between 60 and 70.

It's worth mentioning that these meets were all 1:1.

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By *r ManxMan over a year ago

NeverWhere

Enough to keep me smiling

But always open o offers of more

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By *ohnaronMan over a year ago

london

150 plus

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By *uny1122Man over a year ago

longeton

In 20 years nearly 100

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was a rep in ibiza for a famous holiday firm, twin that with the fact I'm on fab and it's safe to say more than most lol

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Absolutely no idea, but definitely more men than women

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman over a year ago

B & M Bargains

"I could probably count them using my fingers and toes

Bring your fingers and toes for me to count, and a friends, plus mine and that should cover it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Till I was 49 only 1....now 6...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I guess I am very much in the minority with just 1 so far.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

At a guess I would say more than 10 less than 20, the majority being in the last 5 years.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"At a guess I would say more than 10 less than 20, the majority being in the last 5 years."
Awwwww let me be one the queues down to Manchester now surely

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

not telling

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"not telling

"
hey saw you on cam said hi but no reply

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By *ickawitchCouple over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I have had one partner in a real relationship and I am still with him now and in the last 2 years I have had sex with 12 men - so 13 men........are we doing women as well?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have had one partner in a real relationship and I am still with him now and in the last 2 years I have had sex with 12 men - so 13 men........are we doing women as well?

"
yes cmon get it all out there cleanse the soul xxxx

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By *ickawitchCouple over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

"I have had one partner in a real relationship and I am still with him now and in the last 2 years I have had sex with 12 men - so 13 men........are we doing women as well?

yes cmon get it all out there cleanse the soul xxxx

Eight women

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By *D40Couple over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Until i was 38 it was 1

I dont know now, maybe 20... Am sure if i didnt maintain a standard it would be more.. I am even more sure that if guys actually spoke to me before groping me in chams it would be more

Mrs _d40

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