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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Firstly no, this isn't a shot at swinging as a whole, I'm sure couples can still enjoy an active swinging lifestyle whilst maintaining the warmth and affection of a more traditional relationship.
My question is, if you could only have one or the other, ie, a choice between only ever having sex with one person for the rest of you life, albeit one you're head over heels in love with, or an endless string of hotties with otherwise no emotional attachment, which would you choose...and why? |
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One person who truly loves me as I them. No one has come close to how I felt whilst with my husband.
I've had "better" sex, but not the total emotional feeling. After a while sex with random playmates lost its appeal.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Firstly no, this isn't a shot at swinging as a whole, I'm sure couples can still enjoy an active swinging lifestyle whilst maintaining the warmth and affection of a more traditional relationship.
My question is, if you could only have one or the other, ie, a choice between only ever having sex with one person for the rest of you life, albeit one you're head over heels in love with, or an endless string of hotties with otherwise no emotional attachment, which would you choose...and why?"
What about you OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Better to have loved to the stars and lost, and to live with sweet memories, than never to have loved...
But when there are times in your life when there's no-one to love, then a nice no-strings bonk from a stranger will do nicely, thank you!
(Still rather be in love though!!!)
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Firstly no, this isn't a shot at swinging as a whole, I'm sure couples can still enjoy an active swinging lifestyle whilst maintaining the warmth and affection of a more traditional relationship.
My question is, if you could only have one or the other, ie, a choice between only ever having sex with one person for the rest of you life, albeit one you're head over heels in love with, or an endless string of hotties with otherwise no emotional attachment, which would you choose...and why?
What about you OP"
True love, easily. As much as I do value sex, there are other things in life outside of it which excite me equally, that I wish to pursue with electricity in my eyes and fire in my heart, had I a warm pair of arms always waiting to hold me at the end of each day so I can recharge, that would be wonderful. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What if that special person goes off sex and it becomes a once a year thing....  "
Then they probably wouldn't be your 'True love' if that was the case, but even so, sometimes it's just the warmth and affection I crave more than the sexual release, we wouldn't have to have SEX as often, so long as I could count on kisses and cuddles whenever I need them x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What if that special person goes off sex and it becomes a once a year thing....
is he Santa?  "
You mean once a year, sliding down your chimney, shouting 'HO HO HO!' then emptying his sack? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What if that special person goes off sex and it becomes a once a year thing....
Then they probably wouldn't be your 'True love' if that was the case, but even so, sometimes it's just the warmth and affection I crave more than the sexual release, we wouldn't have to have SEX as often, so long as I could count on kisses and cuddles whenever I need them x"
I guess then my answer is i need the cuddles and affection... but i really really enjoy the wild sex  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What if that special person goes off sex and it becomes a once a year thing....
is he Santa?
You mean once a year, sliding down your chimney, shouting 'HO HO HO!' then emptying his sack?"
Haha unfortunately not christmas just easter |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What if that special person goes off sex and it becomes a once a year thing....
is he Santa?
You mean once a year, sliding down your chimney, shouting 'HO HO HO!' then emptying his sack?"
yes. .....& I'm very fond of venison too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What if that special person goes off sex and it becomes a once a year thing.... "
Then you work together and build a life that is centred on other things...
So long as they are still that Special Person, then it's love that matters..!
But if the love goes, then all the sex in the world isn't going to bring the magic back...
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What if that special person goes off sex and it becomes a once a year thing....
is he Santa?
You mean once a year, sliding down your chimney, shouting 'HO HO HO!' then emptying his sack?
Haha unfortunately not christmas just easter "
he just needs a bit of egging on then!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What if that special person goes off sex and it becomes a once a year thing....
is he Santa?
You mean once a year, sliding down your chimney, shouting 'HO HO HO!' then emptying his sack?
Haha unfortunately not christmas just easter
he just needs a bit of egging on then!
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I just dont understand we used to be at it like rabbits |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What if that special person goes off sex and it becomes a once a year thing....
is he Santa?
You mean once a year, sliding down your chimney, shouting 'HO HO HO!' then emptying his sack?
Haha unfortunately not christmas just easter
he just needs a bit of egging on then!
I just dont understand we used to be at it like rabbits "
Ah, so he's Warren, eh! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Once you gather opinions will you get anything from this poll? Or is this just another who likes salt n vinegar/cheese n onion type query. "
The results will be fed into my magnificent Romeo engine to produce a burst of vanilla smelling flowers and butterflies, which will then unite humankind into a new age of tender perfection, where we'll all skip merrily hand in hand through verdant green fields, beneath glorious blue skies and shimmering rainbows, singing merry songs and wearing little hats.
...actually, it's more like the crisps question. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What if that special person goes off sex and it becomes a once a year thing....
is he Santa?
You mean once a year, sliding down your chimney, shouting 'HO HO HO!' then emptying his sack?
Haha unfortunately not christmas just easter
he just needs a bit of egging on then!
I just dont understand we used to be at it like rabbits
Ah, so he's Warren, eh! "
who told you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What if that special person goes off sex and it becomes a once a year thing....
is he Santa?
You mean once a year, sliding down your chimney, shouting 'HO HO HO!' then emptying his sack?
Haha unfortunately not christmas just easter
he just needs a bit of egging on then!
I just dont understand we used to be at it like rabbits
Ah, so he's Warren, eh! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What if that special person goes off sex and it becomes a once a year thing....
is he Santa?
You mean once a year, sliding down your chimney, shouting 'HO HO HO!' then emptying his sack?
Haha unfortunately not christmas just easter
he just needs a bit of egging on then!
I just dont understand we used to be at it like rabbits
Ah, so he's Warren, eh! who told you? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've already chosen the wanton sex. Doesn't have to be a stream of hotties though, just sexy people who aren't arseholes.
I already have people i love in my life, and i feel romance isn't love anyway. |
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