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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So, i notice the status update on here along the lines of 'too many messages, deleted, starting again'.
Being the nosy type i am i check the profile out only to see the statement 'no one liners, make an effort'  
Those guys who pulled out all the stops in their messages only to be deleted within an instant.
I'm not saying she is wrong or should be lamented for it, each to their own, i just can't help but notice this type of irony is common place on here. |
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"So, i notice the status update on here along the lines of 'too many messages, deleted, starting again'.
Being the nosy type i am i check the profile out only to see the statement 'no one liners, make an effort'
Those guys who pulled out all the stops in their messages only to be deleted within an instant.
I'm not saying she is wrong or should be lamented for it, each to their own, i just can't help but notice this type of irony is common place on here."
I've read it twice.
Can't make head nor tail of it. |
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I myself often make an effort. Still get deleted and blocked so a waste of time. So give a small introductory message and then a longer one if any rapport is built up. Spend time composing long messages is sometimes not worth it so know what you mean. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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She may have read the ones that stand out and answered them. I have 61 unreads I'm going to look at later. Most will probably be a thanks anyway type message or part of a message thread I didn't open |
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By *oxesMan
over a year ago
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"Flummoxed. Are we sorry for the lady deleting messages, or the chaps sending them, or anyone left home alone without Joe Pesci trying to break in?  "
I think he is taking about the chap. Well if he serches the forum he should know what he needs to do to get meet.
Seriously I don't know why Fab just dos not have section or guide to swinging lending helpful tips and information on anything to do with swinging even if it is an extension of the forums. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Wasn't a post designed to categorise ALL women, just to clarify, for those ready to wage war.
Just find it funny some expect a guy to send them something well thought out & relevant (ie: no one line messages) only for them to be deleted without being read.
Feel a bit for the guys who go to all this effort only for his message to go unread purely because she got too many messages & nothing to do with the content of his message.
Also makes me wonder if it's worth paying for a site membership. Just my view of course.
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Something you just have to roll with on this site, it's all good 
I love how this site allows women who don't stand a chance generally, to fight fellas off with a stick here...you go those particular ladies  |
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"Wasn't a post designed to categorise ALL women, just to clarify, for those ready to wage war.
Just find it funny some expect a guy to send them something well thought out & relevant (ie: no one line messages) only for them to be deleted without being read.
Feel a bit for the guys who go to all this effort only for his message to go unread purely because she got too many messages & nothing to do with the content of his message.
Also makes me wonder if it's worth paying for a site membership. Just my view of course.
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I always personalise my messages to the individual profile, and currently have several lengthy messages that have sat unread in my sent box for a week or more now. It's the way fab is though, just have to accept it and carry on. Can understand the frustration from the male side but it's hard for women too having to sift through tons of mail each time they login. |
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By *oxesMan
over a year ago
Southend, Essex |
"Wasn't a post designed to categorise ALL women, just to clarify, for those ready to wage war.
Just find it funny some expect a guy to send them something well thought out & relevant (ie: no one line messages) only for them to be deleted without being read.
Feel a bit for the guys who go to all this effort only for his message to go unread purely because she got too many messages & nothing to do with the content of his message.
Also makes me wonder if it's worth paying for a site membership. Just my view of course.
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Sexule attraction then comes to mind. or maybe missed the message and bulk deleted the rest. it happens. |
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"So, i notice the status update on here along the lines of 'too many messages, deleted, starting again'.
Being the nosy type i am i check the profile out only to see the statement 'no one liners, make an effort'
Those guys who pulled out all the stops in their messages only to be deleted within an instant.
I'm not saying she is wrong or should be lamented for it, each to their own, i just can't help but notice this type of irony is common place on here."
. It is her profile and her decision . We do not have to worry about messages being deleted . If you send a message , you do not necessary exoect it to be read . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Something you just have to roll with on this site, it's all good
I love how this site allows women who don't stand a chance generally, to fight fellas off with a stick here...you go those particular ladies "
Thank you very much! Go me indeed!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There really is no need to moan about too many messages, filters help immensely. I get around 10 messages a day which is more than easy to cope with. If I remove all my filters I get in excess of 50 a day which I really don't need but if people are happy not to apply filters then they really shouldn't moan about message overload. |
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"cliques in  "
Aye....don't sweat it.
Anyone who has sent a message that clearly isn't a copy & paste job and is tailored to me will get a response, even if it's a no thanks. Otherwise, they go in the bin.
Some ladies like to pop themselves on pedestals here but we do get plagued with messages and can take our pick. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"cliques in
Aye....don't sweat it.
Anyone who has sent a message that clearly isn't a copy & paste job and is tailored to me will get a response, even if it's a no thanks. Otherwise, they go in the bin.
Some ladies like to pop themselves on pedestals here but we do get plagued with messages and can take our pick. "
I see how that works, i guess some eager guys encourage that also by trying again & again until deemed a weirdo by someone they prob wouldn't look at twice in the street.
Oh the joys! |
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