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Would it make me a hypocrite if I had a male and a CD profile?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Just wondering if it would make me a hypocrite if I had two profiles...

This one...as Debbie1967, and another as my male self.

At the end of the day..I'm just a bloke who likes to occasionally dress as a woman (badly admittedly)

Would/does it put people off??

Answers on a postcard/message/forum!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

People have a single and couples profile, can't see why you can't have both.

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By *aucy tiggerWoman over a year ago

Back where I belong

Other people have more than one and I doubt they asked permission xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Other people have more than one and I doubt they asked permission xx"

But is it off putting to women?

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By *ivnwcplCouple over a year ago

liverpool

Not off putting but do you really want to meet people for who you are or for who you want them to think you are....hope that makes sense

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Not off putting but do you really want to meet people for who you are or for who you want them to think you are....hope that makes sense

Yes..that makes sense.. I think I'll end up driving people away.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not off putting but do you really want to meet people for who you are or for who you want them to think you are....hope that makes sense

Yes..that makes sense.. I think I'll end up driving people away."
there is you're answer

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just wondering if it would make me a hypocrite if I had two profiles...

This one...as Debbie1967, and another as my male self.

At the end of the day..I'm just a bloke who likes to occasionally dress as a woman (badly admittedly)

Would/does it put people off??

Answers on a postcard/message/forum!!!"

No, not at all.

But any reason you don't just have a 'male' profile with 'crossdressing' ticked as an interest?

Do you cross dress with everyone?

Is it more than just crossdressing? - i.e. are you in gender therapy at a clinic?

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

There's a guy on here who has a straight and a bi profile, I don't know whether that works for him or not. Why not give it a try and just see how it goes

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By *acavityMan over a year ago

Redditch

I have a single profile and a joint profile.

Looking for different things, with different 'target audiences '.

But I do mention on both profiles about the existence of the other profile.

So no deception, just honesty

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By *aucy tiggerWoman over a year ago

Back where I belong

"Other people have more than one and I doubt they asked permission xx

But is it off putting to women?"

If you're up front and honest - although you're not going to appeal to everyone, but then nobody appeals to everybody x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thank you everybody for replying to my quandry..

I tried a male profile before...I managed to drive people off.

I am just someone who enjoys dressing.. I don't do it as a matter of fact.

Feel awful for the fact I've driven off.

If a couple or female wants me to dress I will oblige.. If they don't,, I won't

Its nothing more than that.. no gender assignment clinic required!!! Just fun!!!

So, the question now is what do I do???

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By *odareyouMan over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Suck it and see.. only way to find out, how will you know if you've it people off, I find it unlikely they'd mail you to say so..

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Suck it and see.. only way to find out, how will you know if you've it people off, I find it unlikely they'd mail you to say so..

A few people blocked and messaged sadly.

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By *amissCouple over a year ago

chelmsford

"Other people have more than one and I doubt they asked permission xx

But is it off putting to women?

If you're up front and honest - although you're not going to appeal to everyone, but then nobody appeals to everybody x"

This, but why not do as Wasp Hunter suggested and put all your interests in one profile, that way, people can make an informed choice, good luck

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By *amissCouple over a year ago

chelmsford

Just checked your profile again. It pretty much sums up you and what you are looking for, there is always someone for everyone, but they are not always easy to find, we know this!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Other people have more than one and I doubt they asked permission xx

But is it off putting to women?"

No it isn't at all .

We have met a few who like yourself have a male and a TVs profile .

And met them in both personas

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thank you everybody for replying to my quandry..

I tried a male profile before...I managed to drive people off.

I am just someone who enjoys dressing.. I don't do it as a matter of fact.

Feel awful for the fact I've driven off.

If a couple or female wants me to dress I will oblige.. If they don't,, I won't

Its nothing more than that.. no gender assignment clinic required!!! Just fun!!!

So, the question now is what do I do??? "

You feel awful because people don't find your profile attractive? Perhaps if you feel that way you might want to reconsider being here, because most people will not find most people attractive on this site.

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Thank you everybody for replying to my quandry..

I tried a male profile before...I managed to drive people off.

I am just someone who enjoys dressing.. I don't do it as a matter of fact.

Feel awful for the fact I've driven off.

If a couple or female wants me to dress I will oblige.. If they don't,, I won't

Its nothing more than that.. no gender assignment clinic required!!! Just fun!!!

So, the question now is what do I do???

This!

We will NEVER appeal to everyone, why would one want to? I'm here for particular interest, my username and profile (when visable ) makes it obvious and clear what that is.

People have posted in the forums they laugh and avoid usernames like mine. Do I care? Hell no! We're not compatible, so no loss to my enjoyment.

Do what suits you op and you'll enjoy yourself here. If you take on other people's negativity/differing sexual tastes etc personally you'll miss out.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Op whether a single male, tv or dare I say couple looking for the same as you are it is a struggle.

If you excuse me being blunt but dressing up won't make any difference to you having success only the effort you put in and being confident with who you are. There are women/couples out there who like a cross dresser so what you need to do is try and pick out those people when messaging.

Get proactive off site to by attending socials and swingers clubs of which there are several friendly to crossdressers (also at least 1 which isn't!) here in the northwest.

Hope this helps Op

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

I'm not sure that fab allows more than one single person profile per user, even if gender is different. I can appreciate how 2 profiles would reflect different personae and that people searching for someone who dresses wouldn't perhaps be searching single male profiles - so separate makes sense.

But it's important to follow fab rules, to prevent problems. You could contact admin and ask their advice. I think fab uses technology to out fake or imposter etc profiles, banned users returning under new names etc.

Users above mentioning men who have a straight as well as another bi profile is concerning - but maybe all permitted by site rules. Fab generally wants the site to be hassle free and for users to find success here, I think. They invest time and money to improve and manage its service for us all.

Rather than everyone second guessing, I'd just contact them, to see their opinion.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Where does it say that people can only have one profile per type? (1x single profile, 1x couple profile etc?)

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By *candiumWoman over a year ago

oban

i know men in the same siuation here who have 2 profiles and it didn't put me off them. I've met them in both personas and its not an issue

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do what you want, don't worry about what others think.

As long as you don't turn up dressed up as a single male on the first meet you'll be fine. Lol xx

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