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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lol I'm planning on a few road trips next year that are all more than that in mileage, admittedly I won't be driving but I'm still going! X"
And the answer to your question? Because I'm attracted to them and want a fuck! |
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Ive travelled much more than 50 miles for a meet on plenty of occasions. But the meet was coupled with a friends birthday party on one occasion, my birthday party on another, forum social a few times, the sex was just the icing on the cake of a weekend of laughs, banter, dancing and seeing friends.
Would I travel 50 miles or more for a 1-1 meet? Yes I would, and people have for me  |
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And the answer to your question? Because I'm attracted to them and want a fuck!"
This!
I tend to work on time, not distance. 50 miles on the motorway can be as quick as 20 miles but on local roads |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be fair there's not many people I'd travel more than 50 miles for. They'd have to be pretty damn special to warrant a long drive for - even if only for dinner ...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't meet anyone even local "just to get laid".
I'd travel to meet certain people on here if it felt right. "
It does help if I can get my employer to send me places. So far Bristol has not been possible... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't meet anyone even local "just to get laid".
I'd travel to meet certain people on here if it felt right.
It does help if I can get my employer to send me places. So far Bristol has not been possible... "
I doubt I'll find anyone off Fab in the places I go to work  |
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Depending on your location and transport options, 50 miles can be next to nothing. If you live remotely, mostly everyone is a long way away - if transport is good, you can cover that distance quickly. Eg, fens may be near to the A1 and A14, which takes you from the rural to built up areas fairly well. Or stuck in central London you may pop on to an intercity train and move rapidly - or crawl in a slow car. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What makes anyone drive 50+ miles just to get laid??
Haha I've driven further just for a quick snog. Worth it for the right person!"
So have I and I'm completely unashamed by it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have plans to travel in the new year heading south there are quiet a few people im looking forward to meeting  "
Quite a few up north I'm looking forward to meeting!! Lol |
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"Ive travelled much more than 50 miles for a meet on plenty of occasions. But the meet was coupled with a friends birthday party on one occasion, my birthday party on another, forum social a few times, the sex was just the icing on the cake of a weekend of laughs, banter, dancing and seeing friends.
Would I travel 50 miles or more for a 1-1 meet? Yes I would, and people have for me "
This!
Thanks Hottie... saved me typing! |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
I regularly travel 150 miles to meet my boyfriend, he lives that far away... but there's more to it than just getting laid now... although the first few times were about sex.
I've had a meet in the past who regularly made a 300 mile round trip to meet, and met a lovely couple who drove from Stoke to Aberdeen to meet socially! |
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By *sla69Woman
over a year ago
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"I have plans to travel in the new year heading south there are quiet a few people im looking forward to meeting
Quite a few up north I'm looking forward to meeting!! Lol"
let me no when you find them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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absolutely. all the time. when ever I'm aloud and even when I'm not. distance is nothing when your guaranteed a damn good shag. bit of a bugger driving home though when your legs arnt working |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find the pre meet routine quite a pleasant experience - it's an excuse to make myself feel extra sexy and a chance to see sheep that baa with a different accent to the ones I'm accustomed to... There's the part where you meet someone yummy who welcomes you into their world .....
Who wouldn't want that...? |
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I travelled to the other end of Kent to have a coffee with a sexy young forumite, admittedly we were intending to have more than coffee but traffic scuppered that plan!!
Distance isn't a problem for the right people  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Of course with the distance thing (eg, going up north) the whole 'going on a social first' kind of goes out the window, so I would really have to be sure before making that journey! |
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"I find the pre meet routine quite a pleasant experience - it's an excuse to make myself feel extra sexy and a chance to see sheep that baa with a different accent to the ones I'm accustomed to... There's the part where you meet someone yummy who welcomes you into their world .....
Who wouldn't want that...? "
I agree  |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
"Of course with the distance thing (eg, going up north) the whole 'going on a social first' kind of goes out the window, so I would really have to be sure before making that journey!"
I don't do socials since I like to travel and it's a logistical nightmare. Hence why I don't meet someone until I'm sure I want to. So far, so very good. Plus I've liked everyone I've met so if the worst came to the worst and they didn't fancy me in person then I wouldn't consider it a wasted trip. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What makes anyone drive 50+ miles just to get laid??
Because its not simply getting laid..."
That's true for me too! But has anyone noticed that most of the respondents are singles?
I think there's a difference in the way couples and (some) singles view meets!
For couples it's generally just sex - the icing on an already marvellous cake! Hopefully they meet each other's needs in every other way!!
For singles (and I'm speaking for myself here) it can be different! We don't just miss out on sex - we miss out on the intimacy/dating experience/friendship etc that comes with a good relationship!
Though I don't currently want a relationship - a good meet is my 'relationship fix' - great sex with affection and intimacy thrown in - but without any of the aggro that comes afterwards in the vanilla world (ie 50 messages a day asking 'what u up 2?')
For a meet like this I'll happily travel over 50 miles op!
I can quite understand why most couples don't though - if I ever find my ideal guy I doubt I'd travel far for the icing either!  |
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By *sla69Woman
over a year ago
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"What makes anyone drive 50+ miles just to get laid??
Because its not simply getting laid...
That's true for me too! But has anyone noticed that most of the respondents are singles?
I think there's a difference in the way couples and (some) singles view meets!
For couples it's generally just sex - the icing on an already marvellous cake! Hopefully they meet each other's needs in every other way!!
For singles (and I'm speaking for myself here) it can be different! We don't just miss out on sex - we miss out on the intimacy/dating experience/friendship etc that comes with a good relationship!
Though I don't currently want a relationship - a good meet is my 'relationship fix' - great sex with affection and intimacy thrown in - but without any of the aggro that comes afterwards in the vanilla world (ie 50 messages a day asking 'what u up 2?')
For a meet like this I'll happily travel over 50 miles op!
I can quite understand why most couples don't though - if I ever find my ideal guy I doubt I'd travel far for the icing either! "
I couldnt agree more with you |
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By *MaleMan
over a year ago
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It all depends on the person/s how you get on, what kind've fun all go for.
If it's people I click with with and its an afternoon, evening or overnight of social banter/horny repeat fun then cool, 1-2 hrs drive np.
If their just looking for half hour/one hour of fun then 1 hr drive max.
I've driven longer but that was for very good friends for fun days/party nights, naughty weekends.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My second ever meet drove over 100 miles to come see me ha ha that's some driving
Yeah it was sad we lost touch he is a funny guy "
Aww that's a shame , its sad when you loose touch with a pal xx |
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I've spent 90 mins on a train a few times now for a certain person. The 1st time was a risk but as soon as I saw him I knew I wouldn't regret it!! He's done the same & come up here too.
An hour in the car is fairly reasonable these days. I would travel further for the right person if we clicked through messaging |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because it can be an experience you'll take to the grave when you get there...And why not travel when your able? What you gonna do? Just sit about in your home town? Nah...I like getting out and about in New places and if I can take in some new people and fulfil a few fantasies then why not?
I say why wouldn't you want to travel, meet new people, have some great sex, have new experiences and generally live a little? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Of course with the distance thing (eg, going up north) the whole 'going on a social first' kind of goes out the window, so I would really have to be sure before making that journey!"
Really? Just because someone has travelled further shouldn't make a shag more mandatory - surely it's all down to connection 'in person'? |
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"I travelled to the other end of Kent to have a coffee with a sexy young forumite, admittedly we were intending to have more than coffee but traffic scuppered that plan!!
Distance isn't a problem for the right people "
Hey!! I remember it well.. |
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"Ive travelled much more than 50 miles for a meet on plenty of occasions. But the meet was coupled with a friends birthday party on one occasion, my birthday party on another, forum social a few times, the sex was just the icing on the cake of a weekend of laughs, banter, dancing and seeing friends.
Would I travel 50 miles or more for a 1-1 meet? Yes I would, and people have for me
This!
Thanks Hottie... saved me typing! "
I have my uses |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Of course with the distance thing (eg, going up north) the whole 'going on a social first' kind of goes out the window, so I would really have to be sure before making that journey!
Really? Just because someone has travelled further shouldn't make a shag more mandatory - surely it's all down to connection 'in person'? "
Just to be clear on this in case of doubt, if going miles and miles, I really have to click with the person before hand before making the trip, obviously I could get there and there isn't the same click we have built up over time but that's why I only meet forumites now, so we can get a good idea of each other etc, if we didn't click in person despite clicking before hand (lots of clicking going on!) I wouldn't force myself to have a shag. Hope that clears up any doubt  |
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I travelled 90 miles to meet a lady for a first date. Not even a chance of getting laid. We met through a dating site, enjoyed the email exchange and wanted to see if there was chemistry.
There was, and it was marvellous while it lasted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've driven 100+ miles before, and two meets have driven the same to come to me. It was absolutely worth it each time and actually adds to the sense of adventure. |
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"I've driven 100+ miles before, and two meets have driven the same to come to me. It was absolutely worth it each time and actually adds to the sense of adventure."
And the wait while driving adds to the excitement
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
Despite all the postings showing people are willing to travel all these miles, I must confess if I get a message from someone 50 plus miles away, who reckons they'll happily travel just for the joy of seeing me..... I doubt them a touch |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Of course with the distance thing (eg, going up north) the whole 'going on a social first' kind of goes out the window, so I would really have to be sure before making that journey!
Really? Just because someone has travelled further shouldn't make a shag more mandatory - surely it's all down to connection 'in person'?
Just to be clear on this in case of doubt, if going miles and miles, I really have to click with the person before hand before making the trip, obviously I could get there and there isn't the same click we have built up over time but that's why I only meet forumites now, so we can get a good idea of each other etc, if we didn't click in person despite clicking before hand (lots of clicking going on!) I wouldn't force myself to have a shag. Hope that clears up any doubt "
 sorry lovely - didn't mean to imply that you would so hopefully you didn't take it that way xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Of course with the distance thing (eg, going up north) the whole 'going on a social first' kind of goes out the window, so I would really have to be sure before making that journey!
Really? Just because someone has travelled further shouldn't make a shag more mandatory - surely it's all down to connection 'in person'? "
Totally... Quality not quantity!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Driving 170m for a social, in March - no sex, just a fun night out, with a bunch of friendly nutters.
Would never consider doing that for a potential shag. Can't imagine anyone being that good in bed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have made the decision to go to more socials next year the kids are getting older so its nice having a little more free time which is precious first one being Sheffield social in March x |
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I travelled 5000 miles on three aeroplanes to meet someone I got to know online back in 1997. She's been my wife since early 1998
But since then I have travelled three hours each way for a meet that lasted two hours and it was great. A lady travelled 90 minutes to meet me and that was fantastic too. I plan to return the favour soon.
why? Because we clicked and had a burning desire to meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've done the long distance thing twice and both didn't turn óot well even tho I assumed we had a connection but I was way off mark so now I only meet locally and for me it's worked óot great.Found myself a new fwb oot of it too.I won't go more than a a hous drive.Past experience as taught me a good lesson.
I do however have a sexy forumite travelling just over 4 hrs and two lush forumites in the ny coming over and think it's just over a hr for them.
Why I guess they want to ..And as the advert implies im worth it
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
yumsville |
"Hehe he.. Oh I had great sex 2010 he drove 200 miles new years eve.. Beat that lol.
Yes sex was out of this world... "
A girl drove 290 miles on Christmas Eve  I returned the favour in the NY. I did think it was a wind up at the time but nope. |
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"Travelled more than that just to have lunch with someone I really wanted to meet. It's only an hour in a car - what's the issue?"
I've had someone drive 180 for coffee, another 160 for lunch, but his daughter lived nearby so it wasn't just for me, but I wouldn't travel far now or want someone to travel that far to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well there's this *one* lass on here that
I would walk 500 miles
And I would walk 500 more
Just to be the man who walked a thousand miles
To fall down at her door
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well there's this *one* lass on here that
I would walk 500 miles
And I would walk 500 more
Just to be the man who walked a thousand miles
To fall down at her door
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Altogether now!! |
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From the messages we get - mainly single guys - they literally just want to get laid, and they will travel..... We just tell them you're a bit far away for us.... We're not exactly special, we haven't even rewritten our profile.... They can't be interested in us for any other reason than to get thier wellies wet.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"From the messages we get - mainly single guys - they literally just want to get laid, and they will travel..... We just tell them you're a bit far away for us.... We're not exactly special, we haven't even rewritten our profile.... They can't be interested in us for any other reason than to get thier wellies wet.... "
But isn't this a 'no strings' sex site? Isn't them wanting to have sex with you kind of the point?  |
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By *ackspopCouple
over a year ago
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"From the messages we get - mainly single guys - they literally just want to get laid, and they will travel..... We just tell them you're a bit far away for us.... We're not exactly special, we haven't even rewritten our profile.... They can't be interested in us for any other reason than to get thier wellies wet....
But isn't this a 'no strings' sex site? Isn't them wanting to have sex with you kind of the point? "
Stop it! Stop using logical reasoning to augment your argument! |
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