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"I'd rather have one quality message that leads to a meet rather than 20 'how's u?' type messages. "  getting messages is nice if they're nice messages you're getting! 
Not sure I'd want a lot of the crap that the ladies get to be honest - although a slightly busier inbox would be nice! | |||
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-Courtney | |||
"I'd rather have one quality message that leads to a meet rather than 20 'how's u?' type messages. " ^This. I don't send preemptive messages, but am happy with the amount I receive off lady forumites  | |||
"I agree with you all but wouldn't it be good for us to do the winding down being picky and choosey lol" So you're not picky and choosey? I send messages, ain't got no time for an inbox full. | |||
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"In society, women have generally gotten the short end of the stick. We get paid less, on average, we've had centuries of subjugation to men, we are physically less powerful, we get less high paying high power jobs, the list goes on. I'm not being a feminist when I say this, I'm just stating facts. Yet on fab, the women are generally in control because we have something that men don't have, and that they can't have without us saying yes. And what happens? Men get annoyed, unhappy, maybe a bit jealous. Have you ever read the Lysistrata by Aristophanes? It might be enlightening
-Courtney"Haha this made me laugh in a good way but it is so so true but I'm just saying courtney it be nice to get a message X theres so many days like steak and blowjob day,2nd December is now known as message a single male out of the blue day lol x | |||
"In society, women have generally gotten the short end of the stick. We get paid less, on average, we've had centuries of subjugation to men, we are physically less powerful, we get less high paying high power jobs, the list goes on. I'm not being a feminist when I say this, I'm just stating facts. Yet on fab, the women are generally in control because we have something that men don't have, and that they can't have without us saying yes. And what happens? Men get annoyed, unhappy, maybe a bit jealous. Have you ever read the Lysistrata by Aristophanes? It might be enlightening
-Courtney"Confirmation of how it works at last ! | |||
"I agree with you all but wouldn't it be good for us to do the winding down being picky and choosey lol So you're not picky and choosey? I send messages, ain't got no time for an inbox full. " Yes I have a certain type I go for am not going to fuck anything am not desperate just because am on this site so yes I am choosey but it be nice to have a selections to choose from  | |||
"In society, women have generally gotten the short end of the stick. We get paid less, on average, we've had centuries of subjugation to men, we are physically less powerful, we get less high paying high power jobs, the list goes on. I'm not being a feminist when I say this, I'm just stating facts. Yet on fab, the women are generally in control because we have something that men don't have, and that they can't have without us saying yes. And what happens? Men get annoyed, unhappy, maybe a bit jealous. Have you ever read the Lysistrata by Aristophanes? It might be enlightening
-Courtney"Good points well made. The power balance certainly shifts on forums/sites such as this and it is interesting how people react to that. Public cam rooms are an interesting dynamic too as the more dominant or forthright women tend to hold that shift but men tend to hawk down on new or less confident women like seagulls on chips. | |||
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*this doesn't include my usual chatterboxes! | |||
"How many guys would like to have the same experience as the women and couples on here ? Who would like to sign on fab and have 10 or more messages pending for you to read I don't think I've ever got a message out of the blue I have to browse to send people messages. Do you guys agree ?" Women have to endure a lot of dross. And most of the messages they receive are pointless nonsense which they'll just delete. I wouldn't want that. Though it must be nice to have a full inbox and the illusion of being popular. Though I imagine that begins to wear thin pretty quickly. A few more messages in my inbox here and there would be nice, just to break up the prolonged silences a little sometimes. Other than that I'm actually very happy with how things are for me on here. I have a good little group of female friends who I can chat to and who I get regular messages from. I like to take my time and put effort into my replies so I'm happy with just the odd message. I really wouldn't want to swap what I have right now as it's taken me quite a long time to build up. | |||
"Have you ever read the Lysistrata by Aristophanes? It might be enlightening
-Courtney"As a matter of fact I have. Points for classical references before lunch! *doffs bowler* | |||
"How many guys would like to have the same experience as the women and couples on here ? Who would like to sign on fab and have 10 or more messages pending for you to read I don't think I've ever got a message out of the blue I have to browse to send people messages. Do you guys agree ?" Unfortunately with NO public pics, your chances of getting a message from a woman on here are slim to none. | |||
"I have filters in place as I don't want to receive a load of pointless messages, I have then there to potentially get a message of quality. I have messaged men first in the past, but those I do message have face pics on their profile. Many men on here don't seem too bothered what the face looks like, they state we're stunning just from seeing any other feature of the body. " I've just read your full profile and Straight to the point your filters ain't doing nothing plus I got lost in your profile in that huge paragraph I wouldn't message you due to that it seems that your just rambling that's my opinion | |||
"How many guys would like to have the same experience as the women and couples on here ? Who would like to sign on fab and have 10 or more messages pending for you to read I don't think I've ever got a message out of the blue I have to browse to send people messages. Do you guys agree ?" There is a way to have your inbox fill with messages from men,women and couples.... | |||
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"How many guys would like to have the same experience as the women and couples on here ? Who would like to sign on fab and have 10 or more messages pending for you to read I don't think I've ever got a message out of the blue I have to browse to send people messages. Do you guys agree ? There is a way to have your inbox fill with messages from men,women and couples.... "Hahaa thanks but no thanks I think I know where that is leading but no thank you  | |||
"Have you ever read the Lysistrata by Aristophanes? It might be enlightening
-Courtney
As a matter of fact I have. Points for classical references before lunch!
*doffs bowler*"I do try. Most pertinent, is it not? *slight curtsy* -Courtney | |||
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"Have you ever read the Lysistrata by Aristophanes? It might be enlightening
-Courtney
As a matter of fact I have. Points for classical references before lunch!
*doffs bowler*
I do try. Most pertinent, is it not?
*slight curtsy*
-Courtney"Reconciliation. | |||
"How many guys would like to have the same experience as the women and couples on here ? Who would like to sign on fab and have 10 or more messages pending for you to read I don't think I've ever got a message out of the blue I have to browse to send people messages. Do you guys agree ? There is a way to have your inbox fill with messages from men,women and couples....
Hahaa thanks but no thanks I think I know where that is leading but no thank you "You try to help people ......  | |||
"I have filters in place as I don't want to receive a load of pointless messages, I have then there to potentially get a message of quality. I have messaged men first in the past, but those I do message have face pics on their profile. Many men on here don't seem too bothered what the face looks like, they state we're stunning just from seeing any other feature of the body. I've just read your full profile and Straight to the point your filters ain't doing nothing plus I got lost in your profile in that huge paragraph I wouldn't message you due to that it seems that your just rambling that's my opinion "You can only critique a profile if they specifically ask for it. You'll end up on the naughty step if you're not careful | |||
"Have you ever read the Lysistrata by Aristophanes? It might be enlightening
-Courtney
As a matter of fact I have. Points for classical references before lunch!
*doffs bowler*
I do try. Most pertinent, is it not?
*slight curtsy*
-Courtney
Reconciliation."I would accept that. What are men willing to bargain with in return? The Peloponnesian war is no longer an option. 
-Courtney | |||
"In society, women have generally gotten the short end of the stick. We get paid less, on average, we've had centuries of subjugation to men, we are physically less powerful, we get less high paying high power jobs, the list goes on. I'm not being a feminist when I say this, I'm just stating facts. Yet on fab, the women are generally in control because we have something that men don't have, and that they can't have without us saying yes. And what happens? Men get annoyed, unhappy, maybe a bit jealous. Have you ever read the Lysistrata by Aristophanes? It might be enlightening
-Courtney"
Well said | |||
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"How many guys would like to have the same experience as the women and couples on here ? Who would like to sign on fab and have 10 or more messages pending for you to read I don't think I've ever got a message out of the blue I have to browse to send people messages. Do you guys agree ?" I wonder how much you'd like all the messages calling you a fat slag, an arrogant cunt, a bitch, a whore, etc etc, when you either don't reply or you turn them down politely. | |||
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"How many guys would like to have the same experience as the women and couples on here ? Who would like to sign on fab and have 10 or more messages pending for you to read I don't think I've ever got a message out of the blue I have to browse to send people messages. Do you guys agree ? I wonder how much you'd like all the messages calling you a fat slag, an arrogant cunt, a bitch, a whore, etc etc, when you either don't reply or you turn them down politely." I guess they must be quite relieved when I say no or ignore them as I never get this | |||
"How many guys would like to have the same experience as the women and couples on here ? Who would like to sign on fab and have 10 or more messages pending for you to read I don't think I've ever got a message out of the blue I have to browse to send people messages. Do you guys agree ?" Yes it's really like that luckily we have staff to wade though all the mail for us ........not!! Lol we are not all inundated with mail OP | |||
"In society, women have generally gotten the short end of the stick. We get paid less, on average, we've had centuries of subjugation to men, we are physically less powerful, we get less high paying high power jobs, the list goes on. I'm not being a feminist when I say this, I'm just stating facts. Yet on fab, the women are generally in control because we have something that men don't have, and that they can't have without us saying yes. And what happens? Men get annoyed, unhappy, maybe a bit jealous. Have you ever read the Lysistrata by Aristophanes? It might be enlightening
-Courtney"as a man i agree with you on the inequality within our society and would hope one day that it changes (though not holding my breath), even if it does become more equal then some women by and large will still have the upper hand in this aspect.. just the way it is.. it says a lot about some men who get arsey about it though.. | |||
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"I don't think I would like 200 "nice cock mate" "fancy a fuck" "what are you wearing" "are you wanking" messages day ...oh wait a minute... "Obviously would block the sex I'm not wanting to play with lol | |||
"How many guys would like to have the same experience as the women and couples on here ? Who would like to sign on fab and have 10 or more messages pending for you to read I don't think I've ever got a message out of the blue I have to browse to send people messages. Do you guys agree ? I wonder how much you'd like all the messages calling you a fat slag, an arrogant cunt, a bitch, a whore, etc etc, when you either don't reply or you turn them down politely." but why do some women get these messages and not others? Maybe cause some chose to use the block feature if there not interested then they don't have to come on the forums moaning about getting such messages. | |||
"I don't think I would like 200 "nice cock mate" "fancy a fuck" "what are you wearing" "are you wanking" messages day ...oh wait a minute...
Obviously would block the sex I'm not wanting to play with lol"I blocked single guys. If you want to experience a 5th of what couples/single femmes, put bi on your profile, put up a new cock pic and watch the messages from single straight guys rolling.... | |||
"I don't think I would like 200 "nice cock mate" "fancy a fuck" "what are you wearing" "are you wanking" messages day ...oh wait a minute...
Obviously would block the sex I'm not wanting to play with lol
I blocked single guys. If you want to experience a 5th of what couples/single femmes, put bi on your profile, put up a new cock pic and watch the messages from single straight guys rolling.... "I'll stick by my guns and not pretend to be something am not but thanks for the tip . | |||
"How many guys would like to have the same experience as the women and couples on here ? Who would like to sign on fab and have 10 or more messages pending for you to read I don't think I've ever got a message out of the blue I have to browse to send people messages. Do you guys agree ? I wonder how much you'd like all the messages calling you a fat slag, an arrogant cunt, a bitch, a whore, etc etc, when you either don't reply or you turn them down politely.but why do some women get these messages and not others? Maybe cause some chose to use the block feature if there not interested then they don't have to come on the forums moaning about getting such messages. " in an ideal world where adults can take rejection i would say there would be no need to block such people.. however the reality is as we all know different.. | |||
"How many guys would like to have the same experience as the women and couples on here ? Who would like to sign on fab and have 10 or more messages pending for you to read I don't think I've ever got a message out of the blue I have to browse to send people messages. Do you guys agree ? I wonder how much you'd like all the messages calling you a fat slag, an arrogant cunt, a bitch, a whore, etc etc, when you either don't reply or you turn them down politely.but why do some women get these messages and not others? Maybe cause some chose to use the block feature if there not interested then they don't have to come on the forums moaning about getting such messages. in an ideal world where adults can take rejection i would say there would be no need to block such people.. however the reality is as we all know different.." I agree you shouldn't have to, but if the site provides a tool for you to use to stop getting such messages any wouldn't you use it? | |||
"In society, women have generally gotten the short end of the stick. We get paid less, on average, we've had centuries of subjugation to men, we are physically less powerful, we get less high paying high power jobs, the list goes on. I'm not being a feminist when I say this, I'm just stating facts. Yet on fab, the women are generally in control because we have something that men don't have, and that they can't have without us saying yes. And what happens? Men get annoyed, unhappy, maybe a bit jealous. Have you ever read the Lysistrata by Aristophanes? It might be enlightening
-Courtney
as a man i agree with you on the inequality within our society and would hope one day that it changes (though not holding my breath), even if it does become more equal then some women by and large will still have the upper hand in this aspect..
just the way it is..
it says a lot about some men who get arsey about it though.."But nothing in society can change the inequalities in the physical strength between the sexes. There are things men have that equate to power over women, same as women have some things over men. *shrugs* -Courtney | |||
"How many guys would like to have the same experience as the women and couples on here ? Who would like to sign on fab and have 10 or more messages pending for you to read I don't think I've ever got a message out of the blue I have to browse to send people messages. Do you guys agree ? I wonder how much you'd like all the messages calling you a fat slag, an arrogant cunt, a bitch, a whore, etc etc, when you either don't reply or you turn them down politely.but why do some women get these messages and not others? Maybe cause some chose to use the block feature if there not interested then they don't have to come on the forums moaning about getting such messages. in an ideal world where adults can take rejection i would say there would be no need to block such people.. however the reality is as we all know different..I agree you shouldn't have to, but if the site provides a tool for you to use to stop getting such messages any wouldn't you use it?" absolutely yes.. | |||
"How many guys would like to have the same experience as the women and couples on here ? Who would like to sign on fab and have 10 or more messages pending for you to read I don't think I've ever got a message out of the blue I have to browse to send people messages. Do you guys agree ? I wonder how much you'd like all the messages calling you a fat slag, an arrogant cunt, a bitch, a whore, etc etc, when you either don't reply or you turn them down politely.but why do some women get these messages and not others? Maybe cause some chose to use the block feature if there not interested then they don't have to come on the forums moaning about getting such messages. in an ideal world where adults can take rejection i would say there would be no need to block such people.. however the reality is as we all know different..I agree you shouldn't have to, but if the site provides a tool for you to use to stop getting such messages any wouldn't you use it?" I don't come on the forum to moan about it... but... I think your answer is like saying to women 'if you don't want to get sexually assaulted, you should wear a chastity belt'. 'No thank you' politely and once should be more than enough in any sexual situation - including Fab. And it doesn't mean that people can either keep trying, or be assholes in response. I don't want to, personally, just use the 'block' button. It seems pretty fucking rude to be honest. I'd rather put up with some unkind messages, that just block everyone that writes to me. | |||
"In society, women have generally gotten the short end of the stick. We get paid less, on average, we've had centuries of subjugation to men, we are physically less powerful, we get less high paying high power jobs, the list goes on. I'm not being a feminist when I say this, I'm just stating facts. Yet on fab, the women are generally in control because we have something that men don't have, and that they can't have without us saying yes. And what happens? Men get annoyed, unhappy, maybe a bit jealous. Have you ever read the Lysistrata by Aristophanes? It might be enlightening
-Courtney
as a man i agree with you on the inequality within our society and would hope one day that it changes (though not holding my breath), even if it does become more equal then some women by and large will still have the upper hand in this aspect..
just the way it is..
it says a lot about some men who get arsey about it though..
But nothing in society can change the inequalities in the physical strength between the sexes. There are things men have that equate to power over women, same as women have some things over men. *shrugs*
-Courtney"only some weird genetically changed future will possibly change such things.. we will both be long forgotten.. | |||
"I've not found the site to be the barren wasteland of messages that some men seem to imply. I've met some truly great people from the site through being messaged directly. I think some mens imaginative expectation of 100's of offers from beautiful women floating into their inbox shows a slight naivety of real life." A lot of men do come on here with totally unrealistic expectations. And that's when all the frustrations can set in.
Pretty much all the women I've corresponded with have come from them messaging me first. I've found if you don't come across as a total arse then they'll find you. Sometimes that may take time to take effect but I've found that works for me.
Getting meaningful messages is what counts, not the amount. You have to strike a realistic balance so you can come on here and have a little fun and games without any major frustrations and disappointments. Don't get too hung-up on things you can't change. | |||
"How many guys would like to have the same experience as the women and couples on here ? Who would like to sign on fab and have 10 or more messages pending for you to read I don't think I've ever got a message out of the blue I have to browse to send people messages. Do you guys agree ? I wonder how much you'd like all the messages calling you a fat slag, an arrogant cunt, a bitch, a whore, etc etc, when you either don't reply or you turn them down politely.but why do some women get these messages and not others? Maybe cause some chose to use the block feature if there not interested then they don't have to come on the forums moaning about getting such messages. in an ideal world where adults can take rejection i would say there would be no need to block such people.. however the reality is as we all know different..I agree you shouldn't have to, but if the site provides a tool for you to use to stop getting such messages any wouldn't you use it? I don't come on the forum to moan about it... but... I think your answer is like saying to women 'if you don't want to get sexually assaulted, you should wear a chastity belt'. 'No thank you' politely and once should be more than enough in any sexual situation - including Fab. And it doesn't mean that people can either keep trying, or be assholes in response. I don't want to, personally, just use the 'block' button. It seems pretty fucking rude to be honest. I'd rather put up with some unkind messages, that just block everyone that writes to me." i think on your 'thinking about chastity belts being a solution to stopping sexual assault' is both a bizarre and far fetched assumption given my post you refer to and does surprise me.. how you have made that connection is baffling and a bit of an insult given my position long held and verbalised on here of such things.. the block button is a feature like any other, respect our _iews differ on its use.. | |||
"How many guys would like to have the same experience as the women and couples on here ? Who would like to sign on fab and have 10 or more messages pending for you to read I don't think I've ever got a message out of the blue I have to browse to send people messages. Do you guys agree ? I wonder how much you'd like all the messages calling you a fat slag, an arrogant cunt, a bitch, a whore, etc etc, when you either don't reply or you turn them down politely.but why do some women get these messages and not others? Maybe cause some chose to use the block feature if there not interested then they don't have to come on the forums moaning about getting such messages. in an ideal world where adults can take rejection i would say there would be no need to block such people.. however the reality is as we all know different..I agree you shouldn't have to, but if the site provides a tool for you to use to stop getting such messages any wouldn't you use it? I don't come on the forum to moan about it... but... I think your answer is like saying to women 'if you don't want to get sexually assaulted, you should wear a chastity belt'. 'No thank you' politely and once should be more than enough in any sexual situation - including Fab. And it doesn't mean that people can either keep trying, or be assholes in response. I don't want to, personally, just use the 'block' button. It seems pretty fucking rude to be honest. I'd rather put up with some unkind messages, that just block everyone that writes to me. i think on your 'thinking about chastity belts being a solution to stopping sexual assault' is both a bizarre and far fetched assumption given my post you refer to and does surprise me.. how you have made that connection is baffling and a bit of an insult given my position long held and verbalised on here of such things.. the block button is a feature like any other, respect our _iews differ on its use.. " My point is - that in any sexual situation 'no' should not warrant either an abusive situation or someone trying to coerce you otherwise. Fab is a sexual situation, just like doing it in person is a sexual situation. The onus shouldn't be on the person saying 'no thankyou' to safeguard themselves. The onus should be on the person being rejected to not be a dick. | |||
"How many guys would like to have the same experience as the women and couples on here ? Who would like to sign on fab and have 10 or more messages pending for you to read I don't think I've ever got a message out of the blue I have to browse to send people messages. Do you guys agree ? I wonder how much you'd like all the messages calling you a fat slag, an arrogant cunt, a bitch, a whore, etc etc, when you either don't reply or you turn them down politely.but why do some women get these messages and not others? Maybe cause some chose to use the block feature if there not interested then they don't have to come on the forums moaning about getting such messages. in an ideal world where adults can take rejection i would say there would be no need to block such people.. however the reality is as we all know different..I agree you shouldn't have to, but if the site provides a tool for you to use to stop getting such messages any wouldn't you use it? I don't come on the forum to moan about it... but... I think your answer is like saying to women 'if you don't want to get sexually assaulted, you should wear a chastity belt'. 'No thank you' politely and once should be more than enough in any sexual situation - including Fab. And it doesn't mean that people can either keep trying, or be assholes in response. I don't want to, personally, just use the 'block' button. It seems pretty fucking rude to be honest. I'd rather put up with some unkind messages, that just block everyone that writes to me. i think on your 'thinking about chastity belts being a solution to stopping sexual assault' is both a bizarre and far fetched assumption given my post you refer to and does surprise me.. how you have made that connection is baffling and a bit of an insult given my position long held and verbalised on here of such things.. the block button is a feature like any other, respect our _iews differ on its use.. My point is - that in any sexual situation 'no' should not warrant either an abusive situation or someone trying to coerce you otherwise. Fab is a sexual situation, just like doing it in person is a sexual situation. The onus shouldn't be on the person saying 'no thankyou' to safeguard themselves. The onus should be on the person being rejected to not be a dick." and on that we are in agreement however i still fail to see just why you thought it necessary to make your vague and unfounded point above that i was making any connection to assault and chastity belts.. your clearly ignoring it..? | |||
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"How many guys would like to have the same experience as the women and couples on here ? Who would like to sign on fab and have 10 or more messages pending for you to read I don't think I've ever got a message out of the blue I have to browse to send people messages. Do you guys agree ?" I would rather watch the telly As to messages I don't meet here only in clubs I do okay made some good friends that keep me busy | |||
"How many guys would like to have the same experience as the women and couples on here ? Who would like to sign on fab and have 10 or more messages pending for you to read I don't think I've ever got a message out of the blue I have to browse to send people messages. Do you guys agree ? I wonder how much you'd like all the messages calling you a fat slag, an arrogant cunt, a bitch, a whore, etc etc, when you either don't reply or you turn them down politely.but why do some women get these messages and not others? Maybe cause some chose to use the block feature if there not interested then they don't have to come on the forums moaning about getting such messages. in an ideal world where adults can take rejection i would say there would be no need to block such people.. however the reality is as we all know different..I agree you shouldn't have to, but if the site provides a tool for you to use to stop getting such messages any wouldn't you use it? I don't come on the forum to moan about it... but... I think your answer is like saying to women 'if you don't want to get sexually assaulted, you should wear a chastity belt'. 'No thank you' politely and once should be more than enough in any sexual situation - including Fab. And it doesn't mean that people can either keep trying, or be assholes in response. I don't want to, personally, just use the 'block' button. It seems pretty fucking rude to be honest. I'd rather put up with some unkind messages, that just block everyone that writes to me. i think on your 'thinking about chastity belts being a solution to stopping sexual assault' is both a bizarre and far fetched assumption given my post you refer to and does surprise me.. how you have made that connection is baffling and a bit of an insult given my position long held and verbalised on here of such things.. the block button is a feature like any other, respect our _iews differ on its use.. My point is - that in any sexual situation 'no' should not warrant either an abusive situation or someone trying to coerce you otherwise. Fab is a sexual situation, just like doing it in person is a sexual situation. The onus shouldn't be on the person saying 'no thankyou' to safeguard themselves. The onus should be on the person being rejected to not be a dick. and on that we are in agreement however i still fail to see just why you thought it necessary to make your vague and unfounded point above that i was making any connection to assault and chastity belts.. your clearly ignoring it..?" I didn't suggest you made that point. *I* made that point, and drew a similarity. | |||
"How many guys would like to have the same experience as the women and couples on here ? Who would like to sign on fab and have 10 or more messages pending for you to read I don't think I've ever got a message out of the blue I have to browse to send people messages. Do you guys agree ? I wonder how much you'd like all the messages calling you a fat slag, an arrogant cunt, a bitch, a whore, etc etc, when you either don't reply or you turn them down politely.but why do some women get these messages and not others? Maybe cause some chose to use the block feature if there not interested then they don't have to come on the forums moaning about getting such messages. in an ideal world where adults can take rejection i would say there would be no need to block such people.. however the reality is as we all know different..I agree you shouldn't have to, but if the site provides a tool for you to use to stop getting such messages any wouldn't you use it? I don't come on the forum to moan about it... but... I think your answer is like saying to women 'if you don't want to get sexually assaulted, you should wear a chastity belt'. 'No thank you' politely and once should be more than enough in any sexual situation - including Fab. And it doesn't mean that people can either keep trying, or be assholes in response. I don't want to, personally, just use the 'block' button. It seems pretty fucking rude to be honest. I'd rather put up with some unkind messages, that just block everyone that writes to me." you make the most bizarre analogies, I agree a no should be a no end off. But if I was getting abusive messages and there was away to stop them I'd use it. Some women just like to make it hard for themselves. Oh and no I don't block that many people because shock horror in 9 years I've had less than a handful of nasty messages. Now why is that I wonder People can make things as hard or easy for themselves as they chose. | |||
"How many guys would like to have the same experience as the women and couples on here ? Who would like to sign on fab and have 10 or more messages pending for you to read I don't think I've ever got a message out of the blue I have to browse to send people messages. Do you guys agree ? I wonder how much you'd like all the messages calling you a fat slag, an arrogant cunt, a bitch, a whore, etc etc, when you either don't reply or you turn them down politely.but why do some women get these messages and not others? Maybe cause some chose to use the block feature if there not interested then they don't have to come on the forums moaning about getting such messages. in an ideal world where adults can take rejection i would say there would be no need to block such people.. however the reality is as we all know different..I agree you shouldn't have to, but if the site provides a tool for you to use to stop getting such messages any wouldn't you use it? I don't come on the forum to moan about it... but... I think your answer is like saying to women 'if you don't want to get sexually assaulted, you should wear a chastity belt'. 'No thank you' politely and once should be more than enough in any sexual situation - including Fab. And it doesn't mean that people can either keep trying, or be assholes in response. I don't want to, personally, just use the 'block' button. It seems pretty fucking rude to be honest. I'd rather put up with some unkind messages, that just block everyone that writes to me. i think on your 'thinking about chastity belts being a solution to stopping sexual assault' is both a bizarre and far fetched assumption given my post you refer to and does surprise me.. how you have made that connection is baffling and a bit of an insult given my position long held and verbalised on here of such things.. the block button is a feature like any other, respect our _iews differ on its use.. My point is - that in any sexual situation 'no' should not warrant either an abusive situation or someone trying to coerce you otherwise. Fab is a sexual situation, just like doing it in person is a sexual situation. The onus shouldn't be on the person saying 'no thankyou' to safeguard themselves. The onus should be on the person being rejected to not be a dick. and on that we are in agreement however i still fail to see just why you thought it necessary to make your vague and unfounded point above that i was making any connection to assault and chastity belts.. your clearly ignoring it..? I didn't suggest you made that point. *I* made that point, and drew a similarity." in relation to what i posted.. its a bizarre and frankly ridiculous point and out of context.. however best we agree to clearly differ.. | |||
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"How many guys would like to have the same experience as the women and couples on here ? Who would like to sign on fab and have 10 or more messages pending for you to read I don't think I've ever got a message out of the blue I have to browse to send people messages. Do you guys agree ? I wonder how much you'd like all the messages calling you a fat slag, an arrogant cunt, a bitch, a whore, etc etc, when you either don't reply or you turn them down politely.but why do some women get these messages and not others? Maybe cause some chose to use the block feature if there not interested then they don't have to come on the forums moaning about getting such messages. in an ideal world where adults can take rejection i would say there would be no need to block such people.. however the reality is as we all know different..I agree you shouldn't have to, but if the site provides a tool for you to use to stop getting such messages any wouldn't you use it? I don't come on the forum to moan about it... but... I think your answer is like saying to women 'if you don't want to get sexually assaulted, you should wear a chastity belt'. 'No thank you' politely and once should be more than enough in any sexual situation - including Fab. And it doesn't mean that people can either keep trying, or be assholes in response. I don't want to, personally, just use the 'block' button. It seems pretty fucking rude to be honest. I'd rather put up with some unkind messages, that just block everyone that writes to me. i think on your 'thinking about chastity belts being a solution to stopping sexual assault' is both a bizarre and far fetched assumption given my post you refer to and does surprise me.. how you have made that connection is baffling and a bit of an insult given my position long held and verbalised on here of such things.. the block button is a feature like any other, respect our _iews differ on its use.. My point is - that in any sexual situation 'no' should not warrant either an abusive situation or someone trying to coerce you otherwise. Fab is a sexual situation, just like doing it in person is a sexual situation. The onus shouldn't be on the person saying 'no thankyou' to safeguard themselves. The onus should be on the person being rejected to not be a dick." So very true, I have often been turned down because of my age and accepted their decision gracefully, with a message stating I understand. After a while those same people have come back to me and we have met and played. | |||
"Have you ever read the Lysistrata by Aristophanes? It might be enlightening
-Courtney
"Courtney, Jeremy Corbyn could do with all the options potentially available to stop a war! | |||
"How many guys would like to have the same experience as the women and couples on here ? Who would like to sign on fab and have 10 or more messages pending for you to read I don't think I've ever got a message out of the blue I have to browse to send people messages. Do you guys agree ?" I wouldn't swop being a guy in any event. There are lots of women on here who don't have a wonderful experience of Fab. | |||
"Have you ever read the Lysistrata by Aristophanes? It might be enlightening
-Courtney
Courtney, Jeremy Corbyn could do with all the options potentially available to stop a war!"Haha! Good point!
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" But if I was getting abusive messages and there was away to stop them I'd use it. Some women just like to make it hard for themselves. Oh and no I don't block that many people because shock horror in 9 years I've had less than a handful of nasty messages. Now why is that I wonder People can make things as hard or easy for themselves as they chose. " By the time you've had the abusive message, the 'block' doesn't make a difference. And maybe it's because I'm an asshole that lots of people send me abusive messages after asking me for sex. But I hardly think that saying 'No thank you' is particularly extraordinary. Literally, that's all I usually write. | |||
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" But if I was getting abusive messages and there was away to stop them I'd use it. Some women just like to make it hard for themselves. Oh and no I don't block that many people because shock horror in 9 years I've had less than a handful of nasty messages. Now why is that I wonder People can make things as hard or easy for themselves as they chose. By the time you've had the abusive message, the 'block' doesn't make a difference. And maybe it's because I'm an asshole that lots of people send me abusive messages after asking me for sex. But I hardly think that saying 'No thank you' is particularly extraordinary. Literally, that's all I usually write. " it could be your an arsehole I have no idea I'm not privy to your messages, but if you block as soon as you say no thankyou not sure how they can sneak a nasty message in. People really do need to take responsibility for themselves | |||
"How many guys would like to have the same experience as the women and couples on here ? Who would like to sign on fab and have 10 or more messages pending for you to read I don't think I've ever got a message out of the blue I have to browse to send people messages. Do you guys agree ? I wonder how much you'd like all the messages calling you a fat slag, an arrogant cunt, a bitch, a whore, etc etc, when you either don't reply or you turn them down politely.but why do some women get these messages and not others? Maybe cause some chose to use the block feature if there not interested then they don't have to come on the forums moaning about getting such messages. in an ideal world where adults can take rejection i would say there would be no need to block such people.. however the reality is as we all know different..I agree you shouldn't have to, but if the site provides a tool for you to use to stop getting such messages any wouldn't you use it?" I don't use filters. I don't have anyone on my block list. I reply to every message politely. Occasionally I get cheek/abuse. I respond ever so politely. It's very difficult to be rude to a very polite person, even if you're a bellend. | |||
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"How many guys would like to have the same experience as the women and couples on here ? Who would like to sign on fab and have 10 or more messages pending for you to read I don't think I've ever got a message out of the blue I have to browse to send people messages. Do you guys agree ? I wonder how much you'd like all the messages calling you a fat slag, an arrogant cunt, a bitch, a whore, etc etc, when you either don't reply or you turn them down politely.but why do some women get these messages and not others? Maybe cause some chose to use the block feature if there not interested then they don't have to come on the forums moaning about getting such messages. in an ideal world where adults can take rejection i would say there would be no need to block such people.. however the reality is as we all know different..I agree you shouldn't have to, but if the site provides a tool for you to use to stop getting such messages any wouldn't you use it? I don't use filters. I don't have anyone on my block list. I reply to every message politely. Occasionally I get cheek/abuse. I respond ever so politely. It's very difficult to be rude to a very polite person, even if you're a bellend. "Challenge accepted. -Courtney | |||
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" But if I was getting abusive messages and there was away to stop them I'd use it. Some women just like to make it hard for themselves. Oh and no I don't block that many people because shock horror in 9 years I've had less than a handful of nasty messages. Now why is that I wonder People can make things as hard or easy for themselves as they chose. By the time you've had the abusive message, the 'block' doesn't make a difference. And maybe it's because I'm an asshole that lots of people send me abusive messages after asking me for sex. But I hardly think that saying 'No thank you' is particularly extraordinary. Literally, that's all I usually write. it could be your an arsehole I have no idea I'm not privy to your messages, but if you block as soon as you say no thankyou not sure how they can sneak a nasty message in. People really do need to take responsibility for themselves " Because some people are nice to chat. I chat to loads of people on here that I've rejected. If the minority of rude people weren't dickheads, then we wouldn't have to be rude and antisocial by blocking people instantly. | |||
"I have filters in place as I don't want to receive a load of pointless messages, I have then there to potentially get a message of quality. I have messaged, men first in the past, but those I do message have face pics on their profile. Many men on here don't seem too bothered what the face looks like, they state we're stunning just from seeing any other feature of the body. I've just read your full profile and Straight to the point your filters ain't doing nothing plus I got lost in your profile in that huge paragraph I wouldn't message you due to that it seems that your just rambling that's my opinion "Think what you like, I didn't ask. But as a matter of fact my filters do a lot as they automatically stop people from messaging me. I've had people in the forum and chat say they couldn't message me because of my filters. Nothing to do with my profile text. | |||
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"How many guys would like to have the same experience as the women and couples on here ? Who would like to sign on fab and have 10 or more messages pending for you to read I don't think I've ever got a message out of the blue I have to browse to send people messages. Do you guys agree ?" No thanks. Had a couples profile and frankly it was Shit. Wouldn't want to be on here as anything but a single guy cheers, happy as larry | |||
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"I don't think I would like 200 "nice cock mate" "fancy a fuck" "what are you wearing" "are you wanking" messages day ...oh wait a minute...
Obviously would block the sex I'm not wanting to play with lol"What kind of messages do you think women send to the irresistible men on here? | |||
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"I don't think I would like 200 "nice cock mate" "fancy a fuck" "what are you wearing" "are you wanking" messages day ...oh wait a minute...
Obviously would block the sex I'm not wanting to play with lol
What kind of messages do you think women send to the irresistible men on here? "I always get the stupid messages.... I like stupid messages though, I get silly conversation from them | |||
"I'd rather have one quality message that leads to a meet rather than 20 'how's u?' type messages. getting messages is nice if they're nice messages you're getting!
Not sure I'd want a lot of the crap that the ladies get to be honest - although a slightly busier inbox would be nice!" my inbox suddenly got very busy ha ha!
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"I don't think I would like 200 "nice cock mate" "fancy a fuck" "what are you wearing" "are you wanking" messages day ...oh wait a minute...
Obviously would block the sex I'm not wanting to play with lol
What kind of messages do you think women send to the irresistible men on here?
I always get the stupid messages....
I like stupid messages though, I get silly conversation from them "I've only sent a few messages,usually something silly or pointless about a pic. | |||
" But if I was getting abusive messages and there was away to stop them I'd use it. Some women just like to make it hard for themselves. Oh and no I don't block that many people because shock horror in 9 years I've had less than a handful of nasty messages. Now why is that I wonder People can make things as hard or easy for themselves as they chose. By the time you've had the abusive message, the 'block' doesn't make a difference. And maybe it's because I'm an asshole that lots of people send me abusive messages after asking me for sex. But I hardly think that saying 'No thank you' is particularly extraordinary. Literally, that's all I usually write. it could be your an arsehole I have no idea I'm not privy to your messages, but if you block as soon as you say no thankyou not sure how they can sneak a nasty message in. People really do need to take responsibility for themselves Because some people are nice to chat. I chat to loads of people on here that I've rejected. If the minority of rude people weren't dickheads, then we wouldn't have to be rude and antisocial by blocking people instantly." rude and antisocial for using a site tool? | |||
"I don't think I would like 200 "nice cock mate" "fancy a fuck" "what are you wearing" "are you wanking" messages day ...oh wait a minute...
Obviously would block the sex I'm not wanting to play with lol
What kind of messages do you think women send to the irresistible men on here?
I always get the stupid messages....
I like stupid messages though, I get silly conversation from them
I've only sent a few messages,usually something silly or pointless about a pic. "Those are often the best conversations, odd bits off sillyness that while away the time...I'm on here a lot, I don't just wanna talk meets and sex the whole time | |||
"In society, women have generally gotten the short end of the stick. We get paid less, on average, we've had centuries of subjugation to men, we are physically less powerful, we get less high paying high power jobs, the list goes on. I'm not being a feminist when I say this, I'm just stating facts. Yet on fab, the women are generally in control because we have something that men don't have, and that they can't have without us saying yes. And what happens? Men get annoyed, unhappy, maybe a bit jealous. Have you ever read the Lysistrata by Aristophanes? It might be enlightening
-Courtney"Indeed so but, whilst recognising the multitudinous way in which women are discriminated against (and I understand why women get unhappy, annoyed and a bit jealous), there are many other ways in which men get the rough end of the stick in society too - for example: we have to work longer before we retire, even though our average life span is shorter - we tend to be the first sent into the hell of war whenever conscription is imposed, and most vilified as cowards, traitors or “terrorist sympathisers” for expressing reasonable conscientious objections - we're _iewed with suspicion when we walk down a street alone with our kids (“what's he doing with them?”, I once heard a woman ask another as I walked by) - women's right are hailed as a fair struggle against misogyny (quite rightly) but men's rights are seen as a part of that misogyny and god forbid anyone mentions misandry - we are traditionally at the back of the queue when in need of safety (“women and children first”) - it is perfectly acceptable to say that all men are potential rapists (since most are committed by men), but not so to say that all women are potential child poisoners (since most are committed by women) - our mental health issues are trivialised and our suicide rates are ignored - when things get too much and we finally cannot go on any more, society tells us to “man up”... Sure, I get that there is an over-abundance of men on here who act like twats and send totally unwelcome messages to women, but women can be twats too... people are people. | |||
"In society, women have generally gotten the short end of the stick. We get paid less, on average, we've had centuries of subjugation to men, we are physically less powerful, we get less high paying high power jobs, the list goes on. I'm not being a feminist when I say this, I'm just stating facts. Yet on fab, the women are generally in control because we have something that men don't have, and that they can't have without us saying yes. And what happens? Men get annoyed, unhappy, maybe a bit jealous. Have you ever read the Lysistrata by Aristophanes? It might be enlightening
-Courtney
Indeed so but, whilst recognising the multitudinous way in which women are discriminated against (and I understand why women get unhappy, annoyed and a bit jealous), there are many other ways in which men get the rough end of the stick in society too - for example: we have to work longer before we retire, even though our average life span is shorter - we tend to be the first sent into the hell of war whenever conscription is imposed, and most vilified as cowards, traitors or “terrorist sympathisers” for expressing reasonable conscientious objections - we're _iewed with suspicion when we walk down a street alone with our kids (“what's he doing with them?”, I once heard a woman ask another as I walked by) - women's right are hailed as a fair struggle against misogyny (quite rightly) but men's rights are seen as a part of that misogyny and god forbid anyone mentions misandry - we are traditionally at the back of the queue when in need of safety (“women and children first”) - it is perfectly acceptable to say that all men are potential rapists (since most are committed by men), but not so to say that all women are potential child poisoners (since most are committed by women) - our mental health issues are trivialised and our suicide rates are ignored - when things get too much and we finally cannot go on any more, society tells us to “man up”...
Sure, I get that there is an over-abundance of men on here who act like twats and send totally unwelcome messages to women, but women can be twats too... people are people.
"Oh yes, the trouble with being a man! If you were able to go back to almost any other time in history and be any type of person you wanted, if you said you would rather have been a woman, I would laugh at you. But, this wasn't the intention behind my post. I was drawing an analogy. And as I've said, physical strength is actually a rather good analogy here. Perhaps better than the societal examples. Next you'll be telling me how damn hard it is to be a white middle income man in today's world
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"I can't tell you the last time I got a message that was worthy of a response that didn't include my usual no thanks. Happy to forward you the shite* that comes through my inbox so you don't feel left out.
*this doesn't include my usual chatterboxes! "Here, here!!!
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"I agree with you all but wouldn't it be good for us to do the winding down being picky and choosey lol" who says we shouldn't... if you aren't picky and choosey.... they says a whole lot more about you!!! you can make of the site what you want, and i am as equal as any woman or couple... regardless of what they sometimes like to think! | |||
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"In society, women have generally gotten the short end of the stick. We get paid less, on average, we've had centuries of subjugation to men, we are physically less powerful, we get less high paying high power jobs, the list goes on. I'm not being a feminist when I say this, I'm just stating facts. Yet on fab, the women are generally in control because we have something that men don't have, and that they can't have without us saying yes. And what happens? Men get annoyed, unhappy, maybe a bit jealous. Have you ever read the Lysistrata by Aristophanes? It might be enlightening
-Courtney
Indeed so but, whilst recognising the multitudinous way in which women are discriminated against (and I understand why women get unhappy, annoyed and a bit jealous), there are many other ways in which men get the rough end of the stick in society too - for example: we have to work longer before we retire, even though our average life span is shorter - we tend to be the first sent into the hell of war whenever conscription is imposed, and most vilified as cowards, traitors or “terrorist sympathisers” for expressing reasonable conscientious objections - we're _iewed with suspicion when we walk down a street alone with our kids (“what's he doing with them?”, I once heard a woman ask another as I walked by) - women's right are hailed as a fair struggle against misogyny (quite rightly) but men's rights are seen as a part of that misogyny and god forbid anyone mentions misandry - we are traditionally at the back of the queue when in need of safety (“women and children first”) - it is perfectly acceptable to say that all men are potential rapists (since most are committed by men), but not so to say that all women are potential child poisoners (since most are committed by women) - our mental health issues are trivialised and our suicide rates are ignored - when things get too much and we finally cannot go on any more, society tells us to “man up”...
Sure, I get that there is an over-abundance of men on here who act like twats and send totally unwelcome messages to women, but women can be twats too... people are people.
Oh yes, the trouble with being a man!
If you were able to go back to almost any other time in history and be any type of person you wanted, if you said you would rather have been a woman, I would laugh at you.
But, this wasn't the intention behind my post. I was drawing an analogy. And as I've said, physical strength is actually a rather good analogy here. Perhaps better than the societal examples.
Next you'll be telling me how damn hard it is to be a white middle income man in today's world
-Courtney"Possibly - other than in developed countries during the present day, in which I'd say it probably is better to be a woman than a man.... mind you, I'd also say most people would rather have been a woman during the first world war too. I do find telling your quickness to trivialize examples of discrimination against men with such a glib throwaway comment about the trouble with being a man... as though to say: "urgh, they're just men - why would I want to trouble myself with their concerns?... it's not as if they suffer." As for dismissing my points by means of characterizing me as a white male in the middle income bracket, I can only say the nobody can have a window into another person's mind or personal pain or angst - though I'm not saying I'm in pain or in angst (at least most of the time), as much as that gender, wealth or status does not buy satisfaction or happiness in life. Can you honestly tell me that you can tell whether or not a person walking down a street is going through some kind of awful personal trauma on the basis of their gender or attire?... tell me yes and it will be you who is recipient to my mirth... as well as for missing my point that people are simply people - no tenuously rationalized analogy needed there. In the meantime I can't comment about the middle income thing because it's been too long - but, if you like, I could take a little wander and perhaps condescend to chat with some of my employees to see what they think. | |||
"In society, women have generally gotten the short end of the stick. We get paid less, on average, we've had centuries of subjugation to men, we are physically less powerful, we get less high paying high power jobs, the list goes on. I'm not being a feminist when I say this, I'm just stating facts. Yet on fab, the women are generally in control because we have something that men don't have, and that they can't have without us saying yes. And what happens? Men get annoyed, unhappy, maybe a bit jealous. Have you ever read the Lysistrata by Aristophanes? It might be enlightening
-Courtney
Indeed so but, whilst recognising the multitudinous way in which women are discriminated against (and I understand why women get unhappy, annoyed and a bit jealous), there are many other ways in which men get the rough end of the stick in society too - for example: we have to work longer before we retire, even though our average life span is shorter - we tend to be the first sent into the hell of war whenever conscription is imposed, and most vilified as cowards, traitors or “terrorist sympathisers” for expressing reasonable conscientious objections - we're _iewed with suspicion when we walk down a street alone with our kids (“what's he doing with them?”, I once heard a woman ask another as I walked by) - women's right are hailed as a fair struggle against misogyny (quite rightly) but men's rights are seen as a part of that misogyny and god forbid anyone mentions misandry - we are traditionally at the back of the queue when in need of safety (“women and children first”) - it is perfectly acceptable to say that all men are potential rapists (since most are committed by men), but not so to say that all women are potential child poisoners (since most are committed by women) - our mental health issues are trivialised and our suicide rates are ignored - when things get too much and we finally cannot go on any more, society tells us to “man up”...
Sure, I get that there is an over-abundance of men on here who act like twats and send totally unwelcome messages to women, but women can be twats too... people are people.
Oh yes, the trouble with being a man!
If you were able to go back to almost any other time in history and be any type of person you wanted, if you said you would rather have been a woman, I would laugh at you.
But, this wasn't the intention behind my post. I was drawing an analogy. And as I've said, physical strength is actually a rather good analogy here. Perhaps better than the societal examples.
Next you'll be telling me how damn hard it is to be a white middle income man in today's world
-Courtney
Possibly - other than in developed countries during the present day, in which I'd say it probably is better to be a woman than a man.... mind you, I'd also say most people would rather have been a woman during the first world war too. I do find telling your quickness to trivialize examples of discrimination against men with such a glib throwaway comment about the trouble with being a man... as though to say: "urgh, they're just men - why would I want to trouble myself with their concerns?... it's not as if they suffer."
As for dismissing my points by means of characterizing me as a white male in the middle income bracket, I can only say the nobody can have a window into another person's mind or personal pain or angst - though I'm not saying I'm in pain or in angst (at least most of the time), as much as that gender, wealth or status does not buy satisfaction or happiness in life. Can you honestly tell me that you can tell whether or not a person walking down a street is going through some kind of awful personal trauma on the basis of their gender or attire?... tell me yes and it will be you who is recipient to my mirth... as well as for missing my point that people are simply people - no tenuously rationalized analogy needed there.
In the meantime I can't comment about the middle income thing because it's been too long - but, if you like, I could take a little wander and perhaps condescend to chat with some of my employees to see what they think.
"I think you took a rather basic analogy and made it into something rather personal. If you think that men have it harder than women today, then we don't need to discuss further, as we are bound to disagree. And I wasn't calling you a white middle income man. I don't know anything about you. I was saying that if you really think men have a harder time in society than women, overall, based on some very specific situations, then it could also be argued that middle income white men have difficulties that their poorer brethren don't have (affirmative action opponents in the US often argue this, for example). And I disagree with you. Don't take every comment I write as a personal affront to you.
-Courtney | |||
"Men do have a harder time on here but fuck me some of you really bring it on yourselves. Some of the profiles I read from women and couples with ludicrous hoops for people to jump through make me wonder why anyone with any self respect would go along with it. Yet they have veris so people obviously do. Do yourself a favour and if you don't want to go through all that just have a wank, it will probably be nearly as much fun. "
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"I can't tell you the last time I got a message that was worthy of a response that didn't include my usual no thanks. Happy to forward you the shite* that comes through my inbox so you don't feel left out.
*this doesn't include my usual chatterboxes! "So glad you added that little * bit on the end there Dirty girl, you had me worried for a moment. | |||
"I'd rather have one quality message that leads to a meet rather than 20 'how's u?' type messages. " | |||
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