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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Bollocks.
Watched a video that brought back painful memories earlier.
Oh well.
It's just another obstacle to overcome.
Big hugs to everyone with painful memories.... So, everyone then  |
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As you said we all have painful memories its how you deal with them that count.
I watched something last year and really brought to the surface something I'd compartmentalised many years ago.
As long as your memories don't intrude and affect your current life, if they do they need to be delt with.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"As you said we all have painful memories its how you deal with them that count.
I watched something last year and really brought to the surface something I'd compartmentalised many years ago.
As long as your memories don't intrude and affect your current life, if they do they need to be delt with.
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Very well said. I tend to find that even if it doesn't affect current life, it's useful to observe the emotional responses and see how my emotions change as a result without any input.
However, I couldn't continue to study after that point, so I had some chill out time with Dr who and the planet of the spiders |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bollocks.
Watched a video that brought back painful memories earlier.
Oh well.
It's just another obstacle to overcome.
Big hugs to everyone with painful memories.... So, everyone then "
Sending a big Bella hug Mr M, keep smiling lovely xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bollocks.
Watched a video that brought back painful memories earlier.
Oh well.
It's just another obstacle to overcome.
Big hugs to everyone with painful memories.... So, everyone then "
I ask myself if I need to revisit the painful emotions from the memory... It's a no. Try it mwah. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Bollocks.
Watched a video that brought back painful memories earlier.
Oh well.
It's just another obstacle to overcome.
Big hugs to everyone with painful memories.... So, everyone then
Sending a big Bella hug Mr M, keep smiling lovely xxx"
Thank you Bella, sending you a cheeky grin and wink   |
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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago
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I had a dream like that last night. First time in over 8 years after the event - and it rocked me in a bad way for a few hours.
But some Rammstein helped (along with copious amounts of perry) and now punching people in the face in GTA is helping even more!!
So massive *hugs* to you big man - now pull up your big girls pants and get on with life!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As you said we all have painful memories its how you deal with them that count.
I watched something last year and really brought to the surface something I'd compartmentalised many years ago.
As long as your memories don't intrude and affect your current life, if they do they need to be delt with.
Very well said. I tend to find that even if it doesn't affect current life, it's useful to observe the emotional responses and see how my emotions change as a result without any input.
However, I couldn't continue to study after that point, so I had some chill out time with Dr who and the planet of the spiders "
Good choice! Be kind to yourself Lovely. Fist bump.x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Bollocks.
Watched a video that brought back painful memories earlier.
Oh well.
It's just another obstacle to overcome.
Big hugs to everyone with painful memories.... So, everyone then
I ask myself if I need to revisit the painful emotions from the memory... It's a no. Try it mwah."
Couldn't be helped so I just watched what happened, but mwah back  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I had a dream like that last night. First time in over 8 years after the event - and it rocked me in a bad way for a few hours.
But some Rammstein helped (along with copious amounts of perry) and now punching people in the face in GTA is helping even more!!
So massive *hugs* to you big man - now pull up your big girls pants and get on with life!! "
That sounds fun, I used to do that, but since mindfulness practice, I tend to take time out to focus on my emotional responses. However, if I had GTA access, I would totally play that, but back to college, then seeing my cuddle buddy afterwards, so no drinking and driving.
Also, girls pants need pulling down and copious quantities of spankings would be preferred to pulling them up |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"As you said we all have painful memories its how you deal with them that count.
I watched something last year and really brought to the surface something I'd compartmentalised many years ago.
As long as your memories don't intrude and affect your current life, if they do they need to be delt with.
Very well said. I tend to find that even if it doesn't affect current life, it's useful to observe the emotional responses and see how my emotions change as a result without any input.
However, I couldn't continue to study after that point, so I had some chill out time with Dr who and the planet of the spiders
Good choice! Be kind to yourself Lovely. Fist bump.x"
My all time favourites to date is Dr who and the silurians, but Jon Pertwee is my favourite doctor, so I enjoyed fist bump and jazz hand sparkle thingy like on big hero 6 x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bollocks.
Watched a video that brought back painful memories earlier.
Oh well.
It's just another obstacle to overcome.
Big hugs to everyone with painful memories.... So, everyone then
Sending a big Bella hug Mr M, keep smiling lovely xxx
Thank you Bella, sending you a cheeky grin and wink "
I like it when you smile, keep it up |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Bollocks.
Watched a video that brought back painful memories earlier.
Oh well.
It's just another obstacle to overcome.
Big hugs to everyone with painful memories.... So, everyone then
Sending a big Bella hug Mr M, keep smiling lovely xxx
Thank you Bella, sending you a cheeky grin and wink
I like it when you smile, keep it up "
Will do lovely thank you, and you too x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ah bugger. Sounds like you're on your way to shaking that feeling.
Have a hug anyhow x"
Ooh, always happy to share hugs thank you Mrs, gives you a big kiss also x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I fabbed your smiley pic, you can smile at that?
Definitely, along with your public gallery wowser"
Awww I'm blushing kind sir .
And I agree with your sentiment on girls knickers down  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bollocks.
Watched a video that brought back painful memories earlier.
Oh well.
It's just another obstacle to overcome.
Big hugs to everyone with painful memories.... So, everyone then "
hugs
I was hear Beyonce very painful memories x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bollocks.
Watched a video that brought back painful memories earlier.
Oh well.
It's just another obstacle to overcome.
Big hugs to everyone with painful memories.... So, everyone then "
. Big hugs |
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