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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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For me at least, it very much does exist...and I feel I've travelled from initially being 'straight only' to now, 'mostly straight' or 'bi-situational' ...and the situation tends to involve a sexy bi mf couple (whom I'm attracted to and have built a connection with) as opposed to a single guy.
What I find a little strange - though perhaps it's not all that odd - is that I'm currently mostly attracted to stroking and sucking willies that closely resemble mine...I.e. circumcised and shaven.
I never ever thought that one day I'd enjoy and MMF as much as an MFM!
It's all rather wonderful.
Have any others journeyed through the spectrum..and surprised themselves..? |
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I've gone the other way. I've always been bi all my sexual life then just stopped wanting experiences with women. I now class myself as straight but would never say never, but over the years I've really changed sexually |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think people need to stop taking the piss about what mmf and mfm and fmm means! Us straight guys just think we are getting a fuck! "
Think of it just like really life.
If the MM'S are touching it's a bit gay. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've gone the other way. I've always been bi all my sexual life then just stopped wanting experiences with women. I now class myself as straight but would never say never, but over the years I've really changed sexually"
I swing about all over the shop lol.
From bi to straight to my current position of women and TS only.
I've trademarked the term "awesomeosexual" to describe this |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"I think people need to stop taking the piss about what mmf and mfm and fmm means! Us straight guys just think we are getting a fuck!
Think of it just like really life.
If the MM'S are touching it's a bit gay."
honestly, one quick invite and my innocence would be ruined |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Iv always generally been straight. A few times on here over the few years iv been here iv changed it to bi-curious.
Years ago I dry humped a few girl-friends thighs and had a friend randomly kiss me in a club. I often have thoughts about a scenario with a women, but very never been in the position to carry it out. |
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Yes, I do believe there is a sexual spectrum. I was always totally straight, then overnight as a result of a bi mmf, became bi. These days I tend more towards the straighter end of bisexual but in a bi mmf, will be equally as enthusiastic with the guy as the lady. |
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Yeah, definite spectrum.
There was already awareness of it back in the 70s  with Kinsey and his spectrum.
For shorthand, I like to say I'm a Kinsey 2.5 straight woman, but no one ever knows what I'm talking about. lol |
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Until we joined fab I would have said I was straight, and was just curious to try women.
Thinking back now, I realise that I've always been bi and just never done anything about it until we got here! |
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By *d871Man
over a year ago
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Very few people are exclusively straight or exclusively gay. Alfred Kinsey devised a scale based upon sexual history that ranged subjects from 0 to 6 (straight to gay) and others have devised similar scales to rate degrees of bisexuality.
Personally, I don't give a toss about labels, just go with the flow. If it feels good, enjoy it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I really don't care, but it's easier being a woman because no one else really cares either. I class myself as straight because I'd never seek sex with a woman alone and am not really sexually attracted to women. But if there's a woman there with a man as well then I can enjoy sexual contact with them. But to class myself as bi would be misleading. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I really don't care, but it's easier being a woman because no one else really cares either. I class myself as straight because I'd never seek sex with a woman alone and am not really sexually attracted to women. But if there's a woman there with a man as well then I can enjoy sexual contact with them. But to class myself as bi would be misleading. "
I'm very similar - in the sense that I could enjoy sexual contact with a guy whilst playing with a lady...
With regards to labelling myself bi, on occasion the shoe fits...and bi-situational doesn't exist.
I have never had the emotional feelings of lust or love for a man that I've often had for a woman... Different part of the brain/heart I suppose x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I really don't care, but it's easier being a woman because no one else really cares either. I class myself as straight because I'd never seek sex with a woman alone and am not really sexually attracted to women. But if there's a woman there with a man as well then I can enjoy sexual contact with them. But to class myself as bi would be misleading.
I'm very similar - in the sense that I could enjoy sexual contact with a guy whilst playing with a lady...
With regards to labelling myself bi, on occasion the shoe fits...and bi-situational doesn't exist.
I have never had the emotional feelings of lust or love for a man that I've often had for a woman... Different part of the brain/heart I suppose x"
Bi situational is a good description for me. I didn't want to use curious, because I've done it and I liked it so it's not a curiosity thing. But luckily being female no one minds anyway  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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oh i wonky for sure - getting wobblier by the day - but im also thick - what is the difference between mfm and mmf? obviously more than a connection between 2 males and a fem - didnt realise the order meant anything |
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Also, I think there's a difference between sexuality and romance.
So, someone might be bisexual, but hetero-romantic, which would mean they are sexually aroused with other members of the same sex, but wouldn't engage with them on any romantic level. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Also, I think there's a difference between sexuality and romance.
So, someone might be bisexual, but hetero-romantic, which would mean they are sexually aroused with other members of the same sex, but wouldn't engage with them on any romantic level."
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"Also, I think there's a difference between sexuality and romance.
So, someone might be bisexual, but hetero-romantic, which would mean they are sexually aroused with other members of the same sex, but wouldn't engage with them on any romantic level."
That's me |
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