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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is a "post op"?
Either a dude who's had his willy made into a pussy, or vice versa as I understand it  correct"
A male to female 'post op' is a woman. So what's the issue? |
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"we have been chatting too a couple she is bi he is straight on there profile how ever they got a verie from a post op which they all played ??"
Well.... that's a huge grey area isn't it.
Personally for me, once a man always a man. For many others though, after the "gender re-assignment" is completed then they are whatever they have chosen to be. Just think about the recent up-road about the Trans-Gender chap(ess) recently sent to a male prison.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"we have been chatting too a couple she is bi he is straight on there profile how ever they got a verie from a post op which they all played ??
Well.... that's a huge grey area isn't it.
Personally for me, once a man always a man. For many others though, after the "gender re-assignment" is completed then they are whatever they have chosen to be. Just think about the recent up-road about the Trans-Gender chap(ess) recently sent to a male prison.
Cal"
Okay, what should the man have selected from the options on here? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well, if someone is post-op male to female, then they are a woman, I think. And it sounds like the couple think that, too.
If you disagree with that, which is your choice, then you have to then decide for yourself whether that is a reason not to play with them.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"we have been chatting too a couple she is bi he is straight on there profile how ever they got a verie from a post op which they all played ??
Well.... that's a huge grey area isn't it.
Personally for me, once a man always a man. For many others though, after the "gender re-assignment" is completed then they are whatever they have chosen to be. Just think about the recent up-road about the Trans-Gender chap(ess) recently sent to a male prison.
Cal"
I agree.
Female to me means someone born with a womb/ovaries/fallopian tubes/cervix.
People are free to describe themselves as they see fit though, obviously. |
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Okay, what should the man have selected from the options on here? "
Well, if THEY identify a Trans Gender Guy or Girl as their new gender, then the guy in question will see himself as straight, so he is within his own definition of straight.
The thing is on this site, people get to choose their own labels, so that means it's up-to them to work out what that label means to them. |
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I think sexuality is on a spectrum and people can move up and down it from time to time. It doesn't really matter. I used to think it was a bit odd that straight men had sex with people that weren't women but there's so much of it, the explanations have made it clear and I can't really be faffed to worry about it all anymore. I'm bi but mainly have sex with women. Should my label be straight but coloured purple and 'I suck cocks too' written on it or a bisexual label with 'no men (very often) written on it?
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"we have been chatting too a couple she is bi he is straight on there profile how ever they got a verie from a post op which they all played ??"
Depends on what gender you think someone is after they have undergone all the necessary surgeries, etc
If you think she is now female, then that guy is straight; if you think she is still male then the guy is bisexual. If you want to have babies with her then you need someone with a womb  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Profile sexuality just enables you to filter and hopefully, get a good match.
After that its all down to attraction... if your fancy what you see, regardless of sexuality, then go for it.
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By *hy-tot OP Couple
over a year ago
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"we have been chatting too a couple she is bi he is straight on there profile how ever they got a verie from a post op which they all played ??
Depends on what gender you think someone is after they have undergone all the necessary surgeries, etc
If you think she is now female, then that guy is straight; if you think she is still male then the guy is bisexual. If you want to have babies with her then you need someone with a womb "
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"we have been chatting too a couple she is bi he is straight on there profile how ever they got a verie from a post op which they all played ??
Well.... that's a huge grey area isn't it.
Personally for me, once a man always a man. For many others though, after the "gender re-assignment" is completed then they are whatever they have chosen to be. Just think about the recent up-road about the Trans-Gender chap(ess) recently sent to a male prison.
Cal
I agree.
Female to me means someone born with a womb/ovaries/fallopian tubes/cervix.
People are free to describe themselves as they see fit though, obviously."
My friend will be quite upset and sad to hear that; she had to undergo a full hysterectomy in her 20s due to cancer running riot in her family
She should have been advised to keep all that tissue in a brine jar and to produce it as evidence from time-to-time to prove that she is female |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"not got issues with either was just trying too understand if a guy plays with such a person is he bi or straight "
Well legally no as the person is legally a woman.
Outside of pure legality there is no real consensus.
So asking other people will not get you an answer it's up to you to decide.
And then it's up for the man involved to completely ignore you and go with how he personally feels as he is the only person qualified to judge his own sexualoty in this situation.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"we have been chatting too a couple she is bi he is straight on there profile how ever they got a verie from a post op which they all played ??
Well.... that's a huge grey area isn't it.
Personally for me, once a man always a man. For many others though, after the "gender re-assignment" is completed then they are whatever they have chosen to be. Just think about the recent up-road about the Trans-Gender chap(ess) recently sent to a male prison.
Cal
I agree.
Female to me means someone born with a womb/ovaries/fallopian tubes/cervix.
People are free to describe themselves as they see fit though, obviously.
My friend will be quite upset and sad to hear that; she had to undergo a full hysterectomy in her 20s due to cancer running riot in her family
She should have been advised to keep all that tissue in a brine jar and to produce it as evidence from time-to-time to prove that she is female"
I quite clearly said "born with". |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"If someone is post op going from male to female then they are female
OMG you can edit your posts!!!
I saw the original "
It was the same post....I just added "going from male to female" because someone would have pulled up my post and then I would have had to write out more to explain what I meant and I can't be arsed as I have only had one cuppa up to now, so I added some words that were missing to save me typing more and now you post saying oooo I saw what you posted and it looks like I had posted something awful so I felt obliged to explain and now I have ended up typing way much more than I would have done to answer someone else....you sod  |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"If someone is post op going from male to female then they are female
OMG you can edit your posts!!!
I saw the original
It was the same post....I just added "going from male to female" because someone would have pulled up my post and then I would have had to write out more to explain what I meant and I can't be arsed as I have only had one cuppa up to now, so I added some words that were missing to save me typing more and now you post saying oooo I saw what you posted and it looks like I had posted something awful so I felt obliged to explain and now I have ended up typing way much more than I would have done to answer someone else....you sod "
PS I can't edit, I just removed the original  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If someone is post op going from male to female then they are female
OMG you can edit your posts!!!
I saw the original
It was the same post....I just added "going from male to female" because someone would have pulled up my post and then I would have had to write out more to explain what I meant and I can't be arsed as I have only had one cuppa up to now, so I added some words that were missing to save me typing more and now you post saying oooo I saw what you posted and it looks like I had posted something awful so I felt obliged to explain and now I have ended up typing way much more than I would have done to answer someone else....you sod "
Haha ^_^
My cunning plan.
I need that feature it's such a pain posting then seeing all the typos I missed and deleting and retyping it all |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"we have been chatting too a couple she is bi he is straight on there profile how ever they got a verie from a post op which they all played ??
Well.... that's a huge grey area isn't it.
Personally for me, once a man always a man. For many others though, after the "gender re-assignment" is completed then they are whatever they have chosen to be. Just think about the recent up-road about the Trans-Gender chap(ess) recently sent to a male prison.
Cal
I agree.
Female to me means someone born with a womb/ovaries/fallopian tubes/cervix.
People are free to describe themselves as they see fit though, obviously.
My friend will be quite upset and sad to hear that; she had to undergo a full hysterectomy in her 20s due to cancer running riot in her family
She should have been advised to keep all that tissue in a brine jar and to produce it as evidence from time-to-time to prove that she is female
I quite clearly said "born with"."
That sutble qualification would surely set her mind at ease  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"we have been chatting too a couple she is bi he is straight on there profile how ever they got a verie from a post op which they all played ??
Well.... that's a huge grey area isn't it.
Personally for me, once a man always a man. For many others though, after the "gender re-assignment" is completed then they are whatever they have chosen to be. Just think about the recent up-road about the Trans-Gender chap(ess) recently sent to a male prison.
Cal
I agree.
Female to me means someone born with a womb/ovaries/fallopian tubes/cervix.
People are free to describe themselves as they see fit though, obviously.
My friend will be quite upset and sad to hear that; she had to undergo a full hysterectomy in her 20s due to cancer running riot in her family
She should have been advised to keep all that tissue in a brine jar and to produce it as evidence from time-to-time to prove that she is female
I quite clearly said "born with"."
What happens to the organs after that doesn't change the fact someone was "born with" them does it
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By (user no longer on site)
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"we have been chatting too a couple she is bi he is straight on there profile how ever they got a verie from a post op which they all played ??
Well.... that's a huge grey area isn't it.
Personally for me, once a man always a man. For many others though, after the "gender re-assignment" is completed then they are whatever they have chosen to be. Just think about the recent up-road about the Trans-Gender chap(ess) recently sent to a male prison.
Cal
I agree.
Female to me means someone born with a womb/ovaries/fallopian tubes/cervix.
People are free to describe themselves as they see fit though, obviously.
My friend will be quite upset and sad to hear that; she had to undergo a full hysterectomy in her 20s due to cancer running riot in her family
She should have been advised to keep all that tissue in a brine jar and to produce it as evidence from time-to-time to prove that she is female
I quite clearly said "born with".
That sutble qualification would surely set her mind at ease "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"we have been chatting too a couple she is bi he is straight on there profile how ever they got a verie from a post op which they all played ??
Well.... that's a huge grey area isn't it.
Personally for me, once a man always a man. For many others though, after the "gender re-assignment" is completed then they are whatever they have chosen to be. Just think about the recent up-road about the Trans-Gender chap(ess) recently sent to a male prison.
Cal
I agree.
Female to me means someone born with a womb/ovaries/fallopian tubes/cervix.
People are free to describe themselves as they see fit though, obviously.
My friend will be quite upset and sad to hear that; she had to undergo a full hysterectomy in her 20s due to cancer running riot in her family
She should have been advised to keep all that tissue in a brine jar and to produce it as evidence from time-to-time to prove that she is female
I quite clearly said "born with".
What happens to the organs after that doesn't change the fact someone was "born with" them does it
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Hermaphrodites bugger it up a bit though don't they.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If they're post op so they identify as a woman and would now legally be a woman, then I wouldn't suggest that makes the man bi. There's nothing there to suggest that he is attracted to men, which is what in my eyes is required to qualify as bisexual. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"we have been chatting too a couple she is bi he is straight on there profile how ever they got a verie from a post op which they all played ??
Well.... that's a huge grey area isn't it.
Personally for me, once a man always a man. For many others though, after the "gender re-assignment" is completed then they are whatever they have chosen to be. Just think about the recent up-road about the Trans-Gender chap(ess) recently sent to a male prison.
Cal
I agree.
Female to me means someone born with a womb/ovaries/fallopian tubes/cervix.
People are free to describe themselves as they see fit though, obviously.
My friend will be quite upset and sad to hear that; she had to undergo a full hysterectomy in her 20s due to cancer running riot in her family
She should have been advised to keep all that tissue in a brine jar and to produce it as evidence from time-to-time to prove that she is female
I quite clearly said "born with".
What happens to the organs after that doesn't change the fact someone was "born with" them does it
Hermaphrodites bugger it up a bit though don't they.
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"lol I did do what everyone does , but I like a tidy thread so I deleted it altogether  "
You have the 'power' to do that???
Can I PM you a list of my comments on previous threads which I now regret  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If blue is blue and yellow is yellow then when we mix them is it blue/yellow? Is it still blue but not, but I'm still gonna call it blue anyway? Or is green now? When a person identifies with a gender that's what they are. If they're pre-op then that's up to the persons individual attraction as to if they sleep with them. Post OP I defy many to spot the difference |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"lol I did do what everyone does , but I like a tidy thread so I deleted it altogether
You have the 'power' to do that???
Can I PM you a list of my comments on previous threads which I now regret "
Look what you started Thx118.
No, but I can tidy up any posts you posted then removed within the set time and then posted again. ( I like a tidy thread ) |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"lol I did do what everyone does , but I like a tidy thread so I deleted it altogether
You have the 'power' to do that???
Can I PM you a list of my comments on previous threads which I now regret
Look what you started Thx118.
No, but I can tidy up any posts you posted then removed within the set time and then posted again. ( I like a tidy thread ) "
Oh well, it was worth a try |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"we have been chatting too a couple she is bi he is straight on there profile how ever they got a verie from a post op which they all played ??
Well.... that's a huge grey area isn't it.
Personally for me, once a man always a man. For many others though, after the "gender re-assignment" is completed then they are whatever they have chosen to be. Just think about the recent up-road about the Trans-Gender chap(ess) recently sent to a male prison.
Cal
I agree.
Female to me means someone born with a womb/ovaries/fallopian tubes/cervix.
People are free to describe themselves as they see fit though, obviously."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"we have been chatting too a couple she is bi he is straight on there profile how ever they got a verie from a post op which they all played ??
Well.... that's a huge grey area isn't it.
Personally for me, once a man always a man. For many others though, after the "gender re-assignment" is completed then they are whatever they have chosen to be. Just think about the recent up-road about the Trans-Gender chap(ess) recently sent to a male prison.
Cal
I agree.
Female to me means someone born with a womb/ovaries/fallopian tubes/cervix.
People are free to describe themselves as they see fit though, obviously.
My friend will be quite upset and sad to hear that; she had to undergo a full hysterectomy in her 20s due to cancer running riot in her family
She should have been advised to keep all that tissue in a brine jar and to produce it as evidence from time-to-time to prove that she is female
I quite clearly said "born with".
What happens to the organs after that doesn't change the fact someone was "born with" them does it
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well, if someone is post-op male to female, then they are a woman, I think. And it sounds like the couple think that, too.
If you disagree with that, which is your choice, then you have to then decide for yourself whether that is a reason not to play with them.
-Courtney"
This. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well, if someone is post-op male to female, then they are a woman, I think. And it sounds like the couple think that, too.
If you disagree with that, which is your choice, then you have to then decide for yourself whether that is a reason not to play with them.
-Courtney"
To be fair, if the couple are open minded enough to be happy to play with a transperson, I doubt they'd want to play with the OP who appears to be pretty judgemental.
Problem solved! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Does it matter?
I've met a TS and by no means do I now want to grab a nice big juicy dick and go to town.
If a man meets a post op TS then its most likely for the feminine and not the masculine qualities.
He isn't automatically going to indulge in some dick playing action. |
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"we have been chatting too a couple she is bi he is straight on there profile how ever they got a verie from a post op which they all played ??
Well.... that's a huge grey area isn't it.
Personally for me, once a man always a man. For many others though, after the "gender re-assignment" is completed then they are whatever they have chosen to be. Just think about the recent up-road about the Trans-Gender chap(ess) recently sent to a male prison.
Cal
I agree.
Female to me means someone born with a womb/ovaries/fallopian tubes/cervix.
People are free to describe themselves as they see fit though, obviously.
My friend will be quite upset and sad to hear that; she had to undergo a full hysterectomy in her 20s due to cancer running riot in her family
She should have been advised to keep all that tissue in a brine jar and to produce it as evidence from time-to-time to prove that she is female
I quite clearly said "born with"."
My aunt was born without a uterus, cervix, fallopian tubes and only a tiny part of an ovary.
I'm sure she'll be delighted to find out that she's not a woman. And not at all devastated to be reminded that society thinks she's shit because she couldn't give birth. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"we have been chatting too a couple she is bi he is straight on there profile how ever they got a verie from a post op which they all played ??
Well.... that's a huge grey area isn't it.
Personally for me, once a man always a man. For many others though, after the "gender re-assignment" is completed then they are whatever they have chosen to be. Just think about the recent up-road about the Trans-Gender chap(ess) recently sent to a male prison.
Cal
I agree.
Female to me means someone born with a womb/ovaries/fallopian tubes/cervix.
People are free to describe themselves as they see fit though, obviously.
My friend will be quite upset and sad to hear that; she had to undergo a full hysterectomy in her 20s due to cancer running riot in her family
She should have been advised to keep all that tissue in a brine jar and to produce it as evidence from time-to-time to prove that she is female
I quite clearly said "born with".
My aunt was born without a uterus, cervix, fallopian tubes and only a tiny part of an ovary.
I'm sure she'll be delighted to find out that she's not a woman. And not at all devastated to be reminded that society thinks she's shit because she couldn't give birth."
Yawn.
Go and tell all that to the part of society that said she's shit |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"we have been chatting too a couple she is bi he is straight on there profile how ever they got a verie from a post op which they all played ??
Well.... that's a huge grey area isn't it.
Personally for me, once a man always a man. For many others though, after the "gender re-assignment" is completed then they are whatever they have chosen to be. Just think about the recent up-road about the Trans-Gender chap(ess) recently sent to a male prison.
Cal
I agree.
Female to me means someone born with a womb/ovaries/fallopian tubes/cervix.
People are free to describe themselves as they see fit though, obviously.
My friend will be quite upset and sad to hear that; she had to undergo a full hysterectomy in her 20s due to cancer running riot in her family
She should have been advised to keep all that tissue in a brine jar and to produce it as evidence from time-to-time to prove that she is female
I quite clearly said "born with".
My aunt was born without a uterus, cervix, fallopian tubes and only a tiny part of an ovary.
I'm sure she'll be delighted to find out that she's not a woman. And not at all devastated to be reminded that society thinks she's shit because she couldn't give birth.
Yawn.
Go and tell all that to the part of society that said she's shit"
She is also telling the part of society who think her aunt is not a woman; thankfully, that is a minority part of society just as the racists are a minority part of society |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"we have been chatting too a couple she is bi he is straight on there profile how ever they got a verie from a post op which they all played ??
Well.... that's a huge grey area isn't it.
Personally for me, once a man always a man. For many others though, after the "gender re-assignment" is completed then they are whatever they have chosen to be. Just think about the recent up-road about the Trans-Gender chap(ess) recently sent to a male prison.
Cal
I agree.
Female to me means someone born with a womb/ovaries/fallopian tubes/cervix.
People are free to describe themselves as they see fit though, obviously.
My friend will be quite upset and sad to hear that; she had to undergo a full hysterectomy in her 20s due to cancer running riot in her family
She should have been advised to keep all that tissue in a brine jar and to produce it as evidence from time-to-time to prove that she is female
I quite clearly said "born with".
My aunt was born without a uterus, cervix, fallopian tubes and only a tiny part of an ovary.
I'm sure she'll be delighted to find out that she's not a woman. And not at all devastated to be reminded that society thinks she's shit because she couldn't give birth.
Yawn.
Go and tell all that to the part of society that said she's shit
She is also telling the part of society who think her aunt is not a woman; thankfully, that is a minority part of society just as the racists are a minority part of society"
Gosh you have some kind of fixation with race/ism |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"we have been chatting too a couple she is bi he is straight on there profile how ever they got a verie from a post op which they all played ??
Well.... that's a huge grey area isn't it.
Personally for me, once a man always a man. For many others though, after the "gender re-assignment" is completed then they are whatever they have chosen to be. Just think about the recent up-road about the Trans-Gender chap(ess) recently sent to a male prison.
Cal
I agree.
Female to me means someone born with a womb/ovaries/fallopian tubes/cervix.
People are free to describe themselves as they see fit though, obviously.
My friend will be quite upset and sad to hear that; she had to undergo a full hysterectomy in her 20s due to cancer running riot in her family
She should have been advised to keep all that tissue in a brine jar and to produce it as evidence from time-to-time to prove that she is female
I quite clearly said "born with".
My aunt was born without a uterus, cervix, fallopian tubes and only a tiny part of an ovary.
I'm sure she'll be delighted to find out that she's not a woman. And not at all devastated to be reminded that society thinks she's shit because she couldn't give birth.
Yawn.
Go and tell all that to the part of society that said she's shit
She is also telling the part of society who think her aunt is not a woman; thankfully, that is a minority part of society just as the racists are a minority part of society
Gosh you have some kind of fixation with race/ism"
It's not the worst thing to have a fixation on when it damages so many lives. |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"we have been chatting too a couple she is bi he is straight on there profile how ever they got a verie from a post op which they all played ??
Well.... that's a huge grey area isn't it.
Personally for me, once a man always a man. For many others though, after the "gender re-assignment" is completed then they are whatever they have chosen to be. Just think about the recent up-road about the Trans-Gender chap(ess) recently sent to a male prison.
Cal
I agree.
Female to me means someone born with a womb/ovaries/fallopian tubes/cervix.
People are free to describe themselves as they see fit though, obviously.
My friend will be quite upset and sad to hear that; she had to undergo a full hysterectomy in her 20s due to cancer running riot in her family
She should have been advised to keep all that tissue in a brine jar and to produce it as evidence from time-to-time to prove that she is female
I quite clearly said "born with".
My aunt was born without a uterus, cervix, fallopian tubes and only a tiny part of an ovary.
I'm sure she'll be delighted to find out that she's not a woman. And not at all devastated to be reminded that society thinks she's shit because she couldn't give birth.
Yawn.
Go and tell all that to the part of society that said she's shit
She is also telling the part of society who think her aunt is not a woman; thankfully, that is a minority part of society just as the racists are a minority part of society
Gosh you have some kind of fixation with race/ism"
Yeah, it is a bad thing; shouldn't be allowed; calling people of different races names causes them hurt; don't you agree?
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"we have been chatting too a couple she is bi he is straight on there profile how ever they got a verie from a post op which they all played ??
Well.... that's a huge grey area isn't it.
Personally for me, once a man always a man. For many others though, after the "gender re-assignment" is completed then they are whatever they have chosen to be. Just think about the recent up-road about the Trans-Gender chap(ess) recently sent to a male prison.
Cal
I agree.
Female to me means someone born with a womb/ovaries/fallopian tubes/cervix.
People are free to describe themselves as they see fit though, obviously.
My friend will be quite upset and sad to hear that; she had to undergo a full hysterectomy in her 20s due to cancer running riot in her family
She should have been advised to keep all that tissue in a brine jar and to produce it as evidence from time-to-time to prove that she is female
I quite clearly said "born with".
My aunt was born without a uterus, cervix, fallopian tubes and only a tiny part of an ovary.
I'm sure she'll be delighted to find out that she's not a woman. And not at all devastated to be reminded that society thinks she's shit because she couldn't give birth.
Yawn.
Go and tell all that to the part of society that said she's shit
She is also telling the part of society who think her aunt is not a woman; thankfully, that is a minority part of society just as the racists are a minority part of society
Gosh you have some kind of fixation with race/ism
It's not the worst thing to have a fixation on when it damages so many lives."
Does it?
Not mine. I've had a great childhood, fantastic parents, great friends of all colours and consider myself a lucky person, for which I'm truly grateful.
I won't be a martyr for anyone
Enjoy the rest of your day |
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"we have been chatting too a couple she is bi he is straight on there profile how ever they got a verie from a post op which they all played ??
Well.... that's a huge grey area isn't it.
Personally for me, once a man always a man. For many others though, after the "gender re-assignment" is completed then they are whatever they have chosen to be. Just think about the recent up-road about the Trans-Gender chap(ess) recently sent to a male prison.
Cal
I agree.
Female to me means someone born with a womb/ovaries/fallopian tubes/cervix.
People are free to describe themselves as they see fit though, obviously.
My friend will be quite upset and sad to hear that; she had to undergo a full hysterectomy in her 20s due to cancer running riot in her family
She should have been advised to keep all that tissue in a brine jar and to produce it as evidence from time-to-time to prove that she is female
I quite clearly said "born with".
My aunt was born without a uterus, cervix, fallopian tubes and only a tiny part of an ovary.
I'm sure she'll be delighted to find out that she's not a woman. And not at all devastated to be reminded that society thinks she's shit because she couldn't give birth.
Yawn.
Go and tell all that to the part of society that said she's shit"
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"we have been chatting too a couple she is bi he is straight on there profile how ever they got a verie from a post op which they all played ??
Well.... that's a huge grey area isn't it.
Personally for me, once a man always a man. For many others though, after the "gender re-assignment" is completed then they are whatever they have chosen to be. Just think about the recent up-road about the Trans-Gender chap(ess) recently sent to a male prison.
Cal
I agree.
Female to me means someone born with a womb/ovaries/fallopian tubes/cervix.
People are free to describe themselves as they see fit though, obviously.
My friend will be quite upset and sad to hear that; she had to undergo a full hysterectomy in her 20s due to cancer running riot in her family
She should have been advised to keep all that tissue in a brine jar and to produce it as evidence from time-to-time to prove that she is female
I quite clearly said "born with".
My aunt was born without a uterus, cervix, fallopian tubes and only a tiny part of an ovary.
I'm sure she'll be delighted to find out that she's not a woman. And not at all devastated to be reminded that society thinks she's shit because she couldn't give birth.
Yawn.
Go and tell all that to the part of society that said she's shit
She is also telling the part of society who think her aunt is not a woman; thankfully, that is a minority part of society just as the racists are a minority part of society
Gosh you have some kind of fixation with race/ism
It's not the worst thing to have a fixation on when it damages so many lives.
Does it?
Not mine. I've had a great childhood, fantastic parents, great friends of all colours and consider myself a lucky person, for which I'm truly grateful.
I won't be a martyr for anyone
Enjoy the rest of your day"
Would it have been such a great childhood if the majority had not fought for the minority not to be ridiculed or made fun of? |
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"we have been chatting too a couple she is bi he is straight on there profile how ever they got a verie from a post op which they all played ??
Well.... that's a huge grey area isn't it.
Personally for me, once a man always a man. For many others though, after the "gender re-assignment" is completed then they are whatever they have chosen to be. Just think about the recent up-road about the Trans-Gender chap(ess) recently sent to a male prison.
Cal
I agree.
Female to me means someone born with a womb/ovaries/fallopian tubes/cervix.
People are free to describe themselves as they see fit though, obviously.
My friend will be quite upset and sad to hear that; she had to undergo a full hysterectomy in her 20s due to cancer running riot in her family
She should have been advised to keep all that tissue in a brine jar and to produce it as evidence from time-to-time to prove that she is female
I quite clearly said "born with".
My aunt was born without a uterus, cervix, fallopian tubes and only a tiny part of an ovary.
I'm sure she'll be delighted to find out that she's not a woman. And not at all devastated to be reminded that society thinks she's shit because she couldn't give birth.
Yawn.
Go and tell all that to the part of society that said she's shit
She is also telling the part of society who think her aunt is not a woman; thankfully, that is a minority part of society just as the racists are a minority part of society
Gosh you have some kind of fixation with race/ism
It's not the worst thing to have a fixation on when it damages so many lives.
Does it?
Not mine. I've had a great childhood, fantastic parents, great friends of all colours and consider myself a lucky person, for which I'm truly grateful.
I won't be a martyr for anyone
Enjoy the rest of your day"
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You can make your life as simple of as complicated as you may wish to.
If an adult has the physical form of one gender and lives their lives true to that form, then it would be respectful to consider that this is their gender. It is improper to be hostile towards someone because of who they are or thinks they are. Each of us get to determine our own gender and when things like this are raised her, consider also that what you may say will impact on others, and may hurt some - even if it wasn't your intention to do so.
As such, keeping life simple for ourselves, it just makes an awful lot of sense to just let other be who are they, living their own lives as they see fit, where it's not harming you.
As for sexual orientation - thousands of threads here on fab discuss this through the ages. What someone has done in their past, perhaps when curious etc, doesn't indicate what their current sexual interests are. And until users write their own verifications, none of us are to know what has been to/with anyone.
It's fine to have your own preferences for partners and set your own rules. It troubles me when others exclaim limitations to my life and characteristics that are none of their business whatsoever. My gender, my business. |
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"You can make your life as simple of as complicated as you may wish to.
If an adult has the physical form of one gender and lives their lives true to that form, then it would be respectful to consider that this is their gender. It is improper to be hostile towards someone because of who they are or thinks they are. Each of us get to determine our own gender and when things like this are raised her, consider also that what you may say will impact on others, and may hurt some - even if it wasn't your intention to do so.
As such, keeping life simple for ourselves, it just makes an awful lot of sense to just let other be who are they, living their own lives as they see fit, where it's not harming you.
As for sexual orientation - thousands of threads here on fab discuss this through the ages. What someone has done in their past, perhaps when curious etc, doesn't indicate what their current sexual interests are. And until users write their own verifications, none of us are to know what has been to/with anyone.
It's fine to have your own preferences for partners and set your own rules. It troubles me when others exclaim limitations to my life and characteristics that are none of their business whatsoever. My gender, my business."
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