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The dark bad side of swingers
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a meet that went south (not from this site, way before I joined here, hence the reason I joined!)
Not good at all and really, really knocked me sideways for a little bit x |
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Yep I think sexually motivated men are more likely to get violent. Take precautions. Had a mutual blocking session with a woman who thought it was fun to wind up single guys. You have to be as safe online as you are in the real world. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a meet that went south
Surely that's the idea ? (cigar smoking emoticon)"
I was wondering when someone would mention that!! Yes your right but no, it wasn't pleasant |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Be on here bit had one bad meeting ending up in a punch up all im saying please be safe x
That's the wrong type of fisting!
Seriously though - report them. "
Report them for what?
Was it a virtual online punchup through fab?
Fab can't police and be held accountable for what happens away from the site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Be on here bit had one bad meeting ending up in a punch up all im saying please be safe x
That's the wrong type of fisting!
Seriously though - report them.
Report them for what?
Was it a virtual online punchup through fab?
Fab can't police and be held accountable for what happens away from the site."
Why report them? How do we know if the op wasn't the instigator? |
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"Be on here bit had one bad meeting ending up in a punch up all im saying please be safe x
That's the wrong type of fisting!
Seriously though - report them.
Report them for what?
Was it a virtual online punchup through fab?
Fab can't police and be held accountable for what happens away from the site.
Why report them? How do we know if the op wasn't the instigator? "
Reporting other users provides admin with one perspective of events, and allows the reporter to justify why they are reporting. Most peoples' recollections and reports will be biased and somewhat distorted but admin realise that. But, if anyone thinks that someone else is a potential threat to others here, then it would be negligent not to report them, even if you would never, ever meet them again.
Admin have to rely on users reporting activities on and off-site that are possibly indications of breaking fab rules etc. The user who started this thread didn't provide much detail at all - they may well have been more aggressive or done something far worse. But they are still able to notify admin of anything that they believe is pertinent for admin to know.
We all help keep the standards of Fab up as high as possible and it does work, which is partly why the site is so popular. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We arranged a meet a few years ago where we were going to meet in a pub and if happy all go back to a room they had booked in a Travelodge, pretty standard stuff.
When we arrived we texted them and they texted back that they were in the room waiting and to forget about the pub.
This rang a few alarm bells which we discussed but went up anyway .
They were indeed ready and off we went.
Whilst playing he kept wanting to do various stuff that Mrs T didn't want to do and received a polite "no".
This went on a bit, his other half though enjoying herself didn't say much, but he kept on until I asked him to pack it in,which he did and it was an ok meet, just broken rules with no eyeballing before fucking.
He was a swarthy guy, we are fairly fit and can look after ourselves, but he didn't seem threatening.
Some time later we met a couple who had met them and they had called a stop and left, another couple they were friends with had had such a bad experience with them that the wife had put a stop to their swinging.
We keep to our ground rules now and insist on a social first.
This wasn't a meet from Fabs but we were lucky so take care out there.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a "dark side of Fab" meet myself about a month ago... no details as I'll get put on the naughty step but it's sorted, but it's put me off Fab for a bit.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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had a bad meet with a nice couple ..but the single girl that i foolishly gave a lift too bad mouthed me the whole 30 miles there wanted to smoke in the car which i disallowed then went into a rage,,when we arrived at the party it got worse all night picking arguements and stirring trouble and the next morning on the way back it was worse,,put me off it for near a year i see she is still on fab god help the folk she meets a nut job |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a "dark side of Fab" meet myself about a month ago... no details as I'll get put on the naughty step but it's sorted, but it's put me off Fab for a bit. "
I would just like to point out as I'm currently the only person on your veri list by meeting that it wasn't with me....just to clear that up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a "dark side of Fab" meet myself about a month ago... no details as I'll get put on the naughty step but it's sorted, but it's put me off Fab for a bit. "
And also, just to state that the person is question is no longer on Fab... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep I think sexually motivated men are more likely to get violent. Take precautions. Had a mutual blocking session with a woman who thought it was fun to wind up single guys. You have to be as safe online as you are in the real world. "
I think you'll find the woman in question here is VERY safety conscious & not just a wind up merchant.
On the safety theme though, it really is absolutely vital. Care is needed with both genders, singles & couples. Be careful who you meet, where you meet & especially if there is any alcohol or any drugs involved. |
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Thankfully no bad meets yet. Fab has been a blessing for me as I've always been a bad one for going out, getting d*unk and then pulling. Not the best way! I'm now loving being in control. I always insist on a social and all so handy seeing the veris first. Can def see there being risks still but my hope is I will catch the bad eggs before it goes too far. Sad to hear people have had such nasty meets. |
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By *ephistoCouple
over a year ago
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It happened many years when we were considering swinging. We were at our first meet and greet and met a couple about 15-20 years older than us. They seemed harmless. The husband had bought my wife a drink and within 30 minutes this couple as if on cue is pawing and grabbing on both of us without any type of invitation or agreement. I look over at my wife and she was drugged. I see this and get up to retrieve her quite quickly. I took her to the car, find the couple who made a fast exit, and reported them to the organizers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been on fab for a few years and only met one couple for fun, however I have made a few friends on the way. Got a message from a "couple" asking to meet me as their daughter was interested in some fun. Obviously I didn't go, and how old was the daughter. Not everyone one here are out for fun and there are quite a few psychos.... Men and women, just be careful
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a incident at a party once. My then partner a couple and I locked ourselves in a room for some naughty fun. While the organisers weren't happy (fair enough) but the husband of another couple started having a go at me calling us disrespectful threw a dirty spunky towel in my face and just ripped into me, I retaliated (verbally) we then left and never went back. Funny enough I bumped into them in another club miles away and someone there knew them and were warning people off them as the husband is a known hot head. |
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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago
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"Be on here bit had one bad meeting ending up in a punch up all im saying please be safe x"
Don't you just hate it when a OP puts a thread up then does not contribute to it, makes you think some people just make up stuff just to be noticed  |
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By *lectrumMan
over a year ago
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"Be on here bit had one bad meeting ending up in a punch up all im saying please be safe x
Don't you just hate it when a OP puts a thread up then does not contribute to it, makes you think some people just make up stuff just to be noticed "
My thoughts exactly  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Be on here bit had one bad meeting ending up in a punch up all im saying please be safe x
Don't you just hate it when a OP puts a thread up then does not contribute to it, makes you think some people just make up stuff just to be noticed "
People on fab seeking attention? You really think so? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On a social meet with a man, I asked him what a scar was just below his eye and he told me that during a social meet at a pub, the woman he met pulled a knife out of her handbag and attacked him, luckily the staff called the police and helped him. She went to prison.
Another man I was chatting to said he was looking to explore his bi side and put that on his profile. He was contacted by someone from here who wanted to use him as the centre of an all male gang bang (didn't know such things happened  )he declined as wasn't ready for that yet and the man threatened to come round his house and smash his face in  |
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