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After a recent convo with someone who said I was gorgeous when they hadn't even seen my face and I pointed out that I might look totally hideous and they said they didn't care..
Who honestly would meet someone with a hot body even though they didn't find them attractive facially??
For me there's no way, I could meet someone with a nice face who didn't match my preferences body wise though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've got to the stage now that anyone who messages us winks us invites us or anything else us and who has no pictures what so ever in either a public or private galley gets deleted and blocked.
Does anyone even have the time to meet up with some one who they've not seen a picture of first !
Or is it a case of some people will F--- anyone . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've seen some gorgeous bodies but the face didn't match, which is a huge let down, for me I have to fancy them, which is why I don't shag every offer I get! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I certainly wouldn't want someone to meet me despite the fact that they found me unattractive. I wouldn't do that to someone else either.
Attractiveness depends on a lot of things for me and an essential factor in a meet. |
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"Face means more.And personality too. Mind with my body I would say that. "
Yes I also wouldnt wanna fuck anyone who's personality was lacking. Maybe in a club or if it was dogging (which I don't do) as you don't really get as much chance to chat to people but ive had messages from some gorgeous people on here and thought I just can't coz they come across as proper tools! lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe some people aren't shallow.
How is it shallow to not fuck someone you don't fancy??
This is very true. I wldnt fuck a guy i didnt fancy.
Then you're as shallow as me.  "
we can have a little im shallow gang lol.... wonder how many members we wld have lol xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I met a gorgeous woman with a great body but talking to her was like getting blood from a stone, personality of a sock
Do. Not. Want
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Ive met a few socks in my time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Should I have added one of these 'lol'. maybe its the manflu your sufferring that made you think funny thoughts lol"
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Think I better back away from the forum and get back to my sick bed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"After a recent convo with someone who said I was gorgeous when they hadn't even seen my face and I pointed out that I might look totally hideous and they said they didn't care..
Who honestly would meet someone with a hot body even though they didn't find them attractive facially??
For me there's no way, I could meet someone with a nice face who didn't match my preferences body wise though. "
have you actually forgotten where you are ,some of these guys would meet a woman without pics fullstop and in clubs I've been told of women who actually ask the staff have I Fucked him or him       |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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everybody has their thing though.
i like faces and not that fussed on the body, doesn't make me a nice person or unshallow coz i need a nice face.
some people don't care about the face but do care about the body.
a big hard cock turns me on more than anything, some people would find me weird for that coz they don't like them.
people are fussy mainly, they'll find something about that person attractive. even if nobody else does. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find that if I'm attracted to their personality, I'm more attracted to their physical appearance, it's a pity that there's not alot of people who are the same |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe some people aren't shallow. "
I'm shallow on here....that said I've had sex with women away from the site who have amazing bodies even though I didn't initially fancy them. Some people become attractive to you over conversation.
I'm still shallow though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If they have a nice face but not my taste in body type i could sleep with somone. Or if they had the body type i like but not the face, i could do as well. But defo if i dont like their face, body or attitude! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"After a recent convo with someone who said I was gorgeous when they hadn't even seen my face and I pointed out that I might look totally hideous and they said they didn't care..
Who honestly would meet someone with a hot body even though they didn't find them attractive facially??
For me there's no way, I could meet someone with a nice face who didn't match my preferences body wise though. "
For me I always have an idea in my head how I think they will look, im never right though. Sometimes im pleased sometimes I'm disappointed, it's just the way it is.
I would never meet someone who didn't ask for a face pic, as I wouldn't want to have the chance of disappointing them when I turned up.
Maybe he's just trying to be nice OP, other then that he's probably abit desperate |
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"Maybe some people aren't shallow.
How is it shallow to not fuck someone you don't fancy??
This is very true. I wldnt fuck a guy i didnt fancy.
Then you're as shallow as me.
and me apparently  "
And me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Attraction" consists of many separate elements. For example, we once met a couple who were physically very "attractive" and who facially were very "attractive". They were, however, both so far up their own arses that the "attractive" actually for us turned to "ugly" - we totally lost interest - and to this day they probably can't figure out why - because of their over-inflated egos. Chemistry and personality have an awful lot to do with it in our opinion - which is why pictures can often be unsatisfactory (although granted they are a start). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't go any further than a social if there wasn't a mutual attraction. Face, body, personality, intellect. I'm a sapiophile."
Funny you should say that.... |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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I've called people gorgeous before when I haven't seen their face but (and it's a big but) it's because I've been talking to them and find their personality gorgeous since that's what does it for me. I have received unsolicited messages from people saying I am gorgeous when they haven't seen my face or spoken to me at all and my reaction is exactly the same as the OP's - if you've only seen a few body shots how the hell can I be gorgeous? I could have a face like a melted wellie or no personality to speak of. I get that it's only the body that matters to some people but it's not the case for me so I take it as a sign we're not compatible and won't meet those people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've called people gorgeous before when I haven't seen their face but (and it's a big but) it's because I've been talking to them and find their personality gorgeous since that's what does it for me. I have received unsolicited messages from people saying I am gorgeous when they haven't seen my face or spoken to me at all and my reaction is exactly the same as the OP's - if you've only seen a few body shots how the hell can I be gorgeous? I could have a face like a melted wellie or no personality to speak of. I get that it's only the body that matters to some people but it's not the case for me so I take it as a sign we're not compatible and won't meet those people."
Exactly this ^^ It's a good a good filtering method, if anything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe some people aren't shallow.
How is it shallow to not fuck someone you don't fancy??
This is very true. I wldnt fuck a guy i didnt fancy.
Then you're as shallow as me. "
i must be shallow to then cos i wouldnt fk any guy that i didnt fancy why would any1 unless there desperate |
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