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By *lay-with-Me OP Man
over a year ago
Whitchurch Shropshire |
What is it about the lady's on this site, you send a message for it just to be ignored or they read it and just delete it, no message back of the reason why.
They say be polite when messaging, or say they are looking for a gentleman, you send a polite and gentlemanly message and get ignored.
Please lady's, us men like you to be polite too, so please don't ignore our messages, a simple thank you no thank you would survice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just take no reply as no thank you. |
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Most women don't have the time to reply to the plethora of messages they get, take no reply as a not interested  |
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"What is it about the lady's on this site, you send a message for it just to be ignored or they read it and just delete it, no message back of the reason why.
They say be polite when messaging, or say they are looking for a gentleman, you send a polite and gentlemanly message and get ignored.
Please lady's, us men like you to be polite too, so please don't ignore our messages, a simple thank you no thank you would survice."
Read the sites FAQ. It is NOT rude to ignore a random message that someone thinks is polite. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If women would send replys it would be a full time job lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And don't look to see if your message has been read or deleted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is it about the lady's on this site, you send a message for it just to be ignored or they read it and just delete it, no message back of the reason why.
They say be polite when messaging, or say they are looking for a gentleman, you send a polite and gentlemanly message and get ignored.
Please lady's, us men like you to be polite too, so please don't ignore our messages, a simple thank you no thank you would survice."
They have the power to be picky
It's annoying for us gentlemen like but image the amount of crap they get just keep it up and be you will be right |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else |
What I find turns the women on most, is reading the FAQs.
I know,it may seem illogical, but it's like turning on a gushing tap of gash.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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dont tar all us ladies with the same brush
and plenty of guys dont bother replying either
so whats good for the goose is good for the gander |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I checked tonight and had so many messages. To take the time to say a simple no thankyou to the people you aren't interested in would take me such a long time. Time I don't have to spend on here. I deleted all my messages tonight. But I still won't be able to reply to all I get now I've added a meet. Xx |
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"I checked tonight and had so many messages. To take the time to say a simple no thankyou to the people you aren't interested in would take me such a long time. Time I don't have to spend on here. I deleted all my messages tonight. But I still won't be able to reply to all I get now I've added a meet. Xx"
Here's another message. I like your banana photo  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I checked tonight and had so many messages. To take the time to say a simple no thankyou to the people you aren't interested in would take me such a long time. Time I don't have to spend on here. I deleted all my messages tonight. But I still won't be able to reply to all I get now I've added a meet. Xx
Here's another message. I like your banana photo "
Haha thankyou. It's quite a popular 1... |
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Not all ladies don't reply to messages. I reply to all messages I get off male female or couples even if it's a no thanks. so don't tar all ladies the same way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Given that most of the ladies I know on Fab receive mountains of messages every day . It would be an impossible task replying to them all , then there are the replies to their replies.
Chaps if a lady is interested she will open and reply , you need to have patience. Just chill and relax .
If you send a message and receive no reply , just smile and move on
be Zen about fab  |
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"I checked tonight and had so many messages. To take the time to say a simple no thankyou to the people you aren't interested in would take me such a long time. Time I don't have to spend on here. I deleted all my messages tonight. But I still won't be able to reply to all I get now I've added a meet. Xx
Here's another message. I like your banana photo
Haha thankyou. It's quite a popular 1..."
see the 'fruit masturbation' thread  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is it about the lady's on this site, you send a message for it just to be ignored or they read it and just delete it, no message back of the reason why.
They say be polite when messaging, or say they are looking for a gentleman, you send a polite and gentlemanly message and get ignored.
Please lady's, us men like you to be polite too, so please don't ignore our messages, a simple thank you no thank you would survice."
What makes you deserve a reply? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP, last message I politely replied to saying thanks but no thanks for a reason that was already clear in the first line of my profile, I got called some rather uncalled for names. Not saying every guy that you politely decline will do that but I've had a few so instead of blaming the women, blame the minority of guys on here who think its acceptable to hurl abuse as they are too immature to take polite rejection. |
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By *lay-with-Me OP Man
over a year ago
Whitchurch Shropshire |
Yes I'm being to understand that the lady's on here get lot's of messages, so I think the site should have a option after you have read the message, a couple of click option buttons 1: sorry no thank you 2: I have read your message, and am interested but not at is time, please be patient I will get back to you as soon as I can. This may help us all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is it about the lady's on this site, you send a message for it just to be ignored or they read it and just delete it, no message back of the reason why.
They say be polite when messaging, or say they are looking for a gentleman, you send a polite and gentlemanly message and get ignored.
Please lady's, us men like you to be polite too, so please don't ignore our messages, a simple thank you no thank you would survice."
hey you're going to have to get used to it that's how it works here ,even if you get friendly with a woman and she chats fairly regularly theirs a good chance she still may not always reply its just the sheer volume of messages    |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is it about the lady's on this site, you send a message for it just to be ignored or they read it and just delete it, no message back of the reason why.
They say be polite when messaging, or say they are looking for a gentleman, you send a polite and gentlemanly message and get ignored.
Please lady's, us men like you to be polite too, so please don't ignore our messages, a simple thank you no thank you would survice."
Do you reply to junk mail that the postie delivers? |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
I usually try and answer all of my messages but there are times when it's just not possible. Like when you log on and there are 100+!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I usually try and answer all of my messages but there are times when it's just not possible. Like when you log on and there are 100+!!! "
...or maybe it then becomes Room 101 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I'm being to understand that the lady's on here get lot's of messages, so I think the site should have a option after you have read the message, a couple of click option buttons 1: sorry no thank you 2: I have read your message, and am interested but not at is time, please be patient I will get back to you as soon as I can. This may help us all."
Just delete your sent mail as soon as you've sent it so you don't know what the recipient has done with it. You'll either get a reply or you won't. No point stressing about something you have no control over. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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how weird they always reply to me,even if I'm rude |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I'm being to understand that the lady's on here get lot's of messages, so I think the site should have a option after you have read the message, a couple of click option buttons 1: sorry no thank you 2: I have read your message, and am interested but not at is time, please be patient I will get back to you as soon as I can. This may help us all."
There's no need for those options though as it's already clear in the FAQ that if someone doesn't reply then it means "no thanks" ! If they are interested then they will get back to you !
Plus, as had already been mentioned, that sometimes when we reply "no thanks" we then get more messeges from the guy questioning us and therefore it's often easier to simply ignore and delete ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"how weird they always reply to me,even if I'm rude "
You're so good at being rude. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't get unwanted messages as I search for guys myself but some don't reply to me. Doesn't bother me in the slightest. Get used to it op, its life on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know it can't be nice not getting a reply but the way I look at it is this:
If I send a message and the guy or girl says 'sorry not my type' that would deflate me a little, seeing those words would 'crush me' for a nano second and then I'll get over it, if it's ignored I don't have that problem, still says the same thing really but you don't actually have to see the rejection!
I sent one the other day to a guy, I felt awful for doing it and it's the first time I've done it, I won't be doing it again; it's a simple block and delete for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I'm being to understand that the lady's on here get lot's of messages, so I think the site should have a option after you have read the message, a couple of click option buttons 1: sorry no thank you 2: I have read your message, and am interested but not at is time, please be patient I will get back to you as soon as I can. This may help us all."
wanna pay for them to add this button ??? Cause it's a basic site for a reason !!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If we're interested we'll message you back, that's really all you need to know. |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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"Yes I'm being to understand that the lady's on here get lot's of messages, so I think the site should have a option after you have read the message, a couple of click option buttons 1: sorry no thank you 2: I have read your message, and am interested but not at is time, please be patient I will get back to you as soon as I can. This may help us all."
You really don't want to read the FAQs, do you?
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