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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I should elaborate more. There is a girl on this site who looks amazing but I don't want to cross that line of desparation and message her more than once.
So hence why I said, is it really worth it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I should elaborate more. There is a girl on this site who looks amazing but I don't want to cross that line of desparation and message her more than once.
So hence why I said, is it really worth it?"
If you have messaged her once, personally I wouldn't bother again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I should elaborate more. There is a girl on this site who looks amazing but I don't want to cross that line of desparation and message her more than once.
So hence why I said, is it really worth it?"
If you've already messaged her and she hasn't responded take it as a not interested and move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some guys i have liked the look of them, and their message was good too, but i didn't reply until they'd messaged me a few times because i didn't have time to the other times thet messaged.
So sometimes messaging someone more than once works.
But make sure not to pester, and you do run the risk of being blocked because some women block guys they have no interest in if they message more than once. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I should elaborate more. There is a girl on this site who looks amazing but I don't want to cross that line of desparation and message her more than once.
So hence why I said, is it really worth it?
If you've already messaged her and she hasn't responded take it as a not interested and move on. "
^ This. But maybe you were 'bulk deleted' if she gets loads of messages. It's one of those 'can't win' situations really. If you don't message again then in reality she may never have even seen it under a bulk delete. If she opened it and read it and no response - definitely not interested. But if it was just deleted unopened possibly wait a while to endure an appropriate passage of time and try politely one more time - if ignored again then definitely no chance!
Damned if you do, Damned if you don't on this one I think! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I take it you've messaged before? I would leave it, I would never message more than once if my first message was ignored x"
What women actually messages first on here? It's a rare and dying breed. Thought they had too many messages to read let alone search and instigate a conversation lol...ok sarcasm over.....but seriously. ..who has in the last week? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I take it you've messaged before? I would leave it, I would never message more than once if my first message was ignored x
What women actually messages first on here? It's a rare and dying breed. Thought they had too many messages to read let alone search and instigate a conversation lol...ok sarcasm over.....but seriously. ..who has in the last week?"
I do. Actually I've done that twice in the past week. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I take it you've messaged before? I would leave it, I would never message more than once if my first message was ignored x
What women actually messages first on here? It's a rare and dying breed. Thought they had too many messages to read let alone search and instigate a conversation lol...ok sarcasm over.....but seriously. ..who has in the last week?"
I send first messages frequently. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I should elaborate more. There is a girl on this site who looks amazing but I don't want to cross that line of desparation and message her more than once.
So hence why I said, is it really worth it?
If you have messaged her once, personally I wouldn't bother again."
If you are local and she is looking for a local meet she will find you if you are what she is looking for |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has her message been read?
How long ago did you send it?
If it was more than three days ago and it hasn't been read or deleted, I'd send another."
My experience has been you'll get blocked. If not read after 3 days and they've been online...they just trying to be nice instead of honest. Move on...its a woman's world on here and you'll need to search harder...go into forums and join in if you see someone in there that's nice...be nice and reference to their comment in a positive way...It'll get her attention.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I take it you've messaged before? I would leave it, I would never message more than once if my first message was ignored x
What women actually messages first on here? It's a rare and dying breed. Thought they had too many messages to read let alone search and instigate a conversation lol...ok sarcasm over.....but seriously. ..who has in the last week?"
Some women do ..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I take it you've messaged before? I would leave it, I would never message more than once if my first message was ignored x
What women actually messages first on here? It's a rare and dying breed. Thought they had too many messages to read let alone search and instigate a conversation lol...ok sarcasm over.....but seriously. ..who has in the last week?
I do. Actually I've done that twice in the past week."
Oh, no... wait. Three times actually  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Write her username on a post-it note, stick it on a tea cosy, pop the tea cosy on your cock and upload a photo. That'll get her attention.  "
What of you don't have a tea cosy ha ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I take it you've messaged before? I would leave it, I would never message more than once if my first message was ignored x
What women actually messages first on here? It's a rare and dying breed. Thought they had too many messages to read let alone search and instigate a conversation lol...ok sarcasm over.....but seriously. ..who has in the last week?"
I never used to but someone convinced me it was the way forward apparently |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Write her username on a post-it note, stick it on a tea cosy, pop the tea cosy on your cock and upload a photo. That'll get her attention.
What of you don't have a tea cosy ha ha"
write her user name on your cock. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate it when I look at a profile and notice that I have actually sent a message months ago but haven't a clue what it was about 
I wish it had a reminder even the topic would jog my memory  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Write her username on a post-it note, stick it on a tea cosy, pop the tea cosy on your cock and upload a photo. That'll get her attention.
What of you don't have a tea cosy ha ha
write her user name on your cock. "
Ha ha it's only 7 inches |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"If you've sent a message and it has been read and ignored she's clearly forgotten to reply so needs a reminder. Or 12. One every 10 minutes.
Or
Just leave it. "
Yeah, that's how you wore me down Stalky McStalkerson. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Funny thing is this person might of wrote on this forum "
get writing her name on your cock then, have that pic as your profile pic, she won;t miss it then.
plus i'm nosey and think i know who it is but want confirmation. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Funny thing is this person might of wrote on this forum
get writing her name on your cock then, have that pic as your profile pic, she won;t miss it then.
plus i'm nosey and think i know who it is but want confirmation."
Send me a private message who you think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I take it you've messaged before? I would leave it, I would never message more than once if my first message was ignored x
What women actually messages first on here? It's a rare and dying breed. Thought they had too many messages to read let alone search and instigate a conversation lol...ok sarcasm over.....but seriously. ..who has in the last week?"
I do but they often get read and deleted |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Send me a private message who you think.
Oh, very subtle
It can't be against the rules for me to guess.... but I'll add a courtesy overlay of subtlety of my own.
My money is on ***l*******"
Ha ha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Funny thing is this person might of wrote on this forum
get writing her name on your cock then, have that pic as your profile pic, she won;t miss it then.
plus i'm nosey and think i know who it is but want confirmation.
Send me a private message who you think."
If i have to. plus if i can tell then so will she probably... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Send me a private message who you think.
Oh, very subtle
It can't be against the rules for me to guess.... but I'll add a courtesy overlay of subtlety of my own.
My money is on ***l*******
Ha ha "
oh nvm, i guessed someone else actually.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Funny thing is this person might of wrote on this forum
get writing her name on your cock then, have that pic as your profile pic, she won;t miss it then.
plus i'm nosey and think i know who it is but want confirmation.
Send me a private message who you think.
If i have to. plus if i can tell then so will she probably... "
Well you never know |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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"Send me a private message who you think.
If i have to. plus if i can tell then so will she probably... "
If she's posted on the thread, then there's no need for the second message - she'll figure it out and act accordingly.
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"If you've sent a message and it has been read and ignored she's clearly forgotten to reply so needs a reminder. Or 12. One every 10 minutes.
Or
Just leave it.
Yeah, that's how you wore me down Stalky McStalkerson. "
It was hypnotic 'shag Steve....shag Steve.....shag Steve..." |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else |
"Send me a private message who you think.
Oh, very subtle
It can't be against the rules for me to guess.... but I'll add a courtesy overlay of subtlety of my own.
My money is on ***l*******
Ha ha
oh nvm, i guessed someone else actually. "
Maybe you should pm me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Send me a private message who you think.
Oh, very subtle
It can't be against the rules for me to guess.... but I'll add a courtesy overlay of subtlety of my own.
My money is on ***l*******"
That's my guess too  |
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By *huramMan
over a year ago
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"I should elaborate more. There is a girl on this site who looks amazing but I don't want to cross that line of desparation and message her more than once.
So hence why I said, is it really worth it?"
Always send another message.
(Just not another fifty) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Send me a private message who you think.
Oh, very subtle
It can't be against the rules for me to guess.... but I'll add a courtesy overlay of subtlety of my own.
My money is on ***l*******
Ha ha
oh nvm, i guessed someone else actually.
Maybe you should pm me! "
Haha i nearly did as well. |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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When I first replied to the BF on here it was to his second or third message. I wasn't meeting at the time but I had mentally clocked them without replying or deleting them. He didn't bombard me and I replied when the time was right. |
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"I hate it when I look at a profile and notice that I have actually sent a message months ago but haven't a clue what it was about
I wish it had a reminder even the topic would jog my memory "
That's what the private notes are for.
Every time someone I don't chatter to sends me a message, I copy and paste it in the private notes with the date and my special code for whatever I replied with. It takes less than a minute and provides me with much humour when I can go back and say this is the fourth message and the fourth no thank you.
I'm easily amused! 
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else |
"Send me a private message who you think.
Oh, very subtle
It can't be against the rules for me to guess.... but I'll add a courtesy overlay of subtlety of my own.
My money is on ***l*******
That's my guess too "
You're my second choice! |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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Why are you all trying to guess you nosy bunch!!!
He started it, miss!
Besides, it's not a guess. I'm certain...
I also did tell you too"
No, you neither confirmed or denied.
Which was suitably discreet, I thought.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I take it you've messaged before? I would leave it, I would never message more than once if my first message was ignored x
What women actually messages first on here? It's a rare and dying breed. Thought they had too many messages to read let alone search and instigate a conversation lol...ok sarcasm over.....but seriously. ..who has in the last week?
I do. Actually I've done that twice in the past week.
Oh, no... wait. Three times actually "
Damn and I was hoping it was me but nope...empty again... .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Send me a private message who you think.
If i have to. plus if i can tell then so will she probably...
If she's posted on the thread, then there's no need for the second message - she'll figure it out and act accordingly.
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Hopefully |
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By *nfamyMan
over a year ago
Goole |
"Write her username on a post-it note, stick it on a tea cosy, pop the tea cosy on your cock and upload a photo. That'll get her attention. "
Do this and follow around Tesco's she will take it as a compliment |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You could have posted your area in the title op, which may have attracted attention.
True.
North Yorkshire"
Oh hold on. I think my first choice was right and the other person put too many **** in their guess.
Coz both people have ***l... |
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"I take it you've messaged before? I would leave it, I would never message more than once if my first message was ignored x
What women actually messages first on here? It's a rare and dying breed. Thought they had too many messages to read let alone search and instigate a conversation lol...ok sarcasm over.....but seriously. ..who has in the last week?"
Me I've all filters active and initiate contact. Ive Veris too and 2 more coffee dates pending I do my own hunting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You could have posted your area in the title op, which may have attracted attention.
True.
North Yorkshire
Oh hold on. I think my first choice was right and the other person put too many **** in their guess.
Coz both people have ***l..."
It's not me, the op has never messaged me before. It's the other North Yorkshire lady with the ***l |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You could have posted your area in the title op, which may have attracted attention.
True.
North Yorkshire
Oh hold on. I think my first choice was right and the other person put too many **** in their guess.
Coz both people have ***l...
It's not me, the op has never messaged me before. It's the other North Yorkshire lady with the ***l "
but you're north yorkshire.
i used to think i was good at puzzles...always been crap at geography though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You could have posted your area in the title op, which may have attracted attention.
True.
North Yorkshire
Oh hold on. I think my first choice was right and the other person put too many **** in their guess.
Coz both people have ***l...
It's not me, the op has never messaged me before. It's the other North Yorkshire lady with the ***l
but you're north yorkshire.
i used to think i was good at puzzles...always been crap at geography though. "
Gotham's in North Yorkshire |
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"Write her username on a post-it note, stick it on a tea cosy, pop the tea cosy on your cock and upload a photo. That'll get her attention. "
Wow, that is inspired. Shit I've just been arrested for standing outside my neighbours house with a tea cosy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You could have posted your area in the title op, which may have attracted attention.
True.
North Yorkshire
Oh hold on. I think my first choice was right and the other person put too many **** in their guess.
Coz both people have ***l...
It's not me, the op has never messaged me before. It's the other North Yorkshire lady with the ***l
but you're north yorkshire.
i used to think i was good at puzzles...always been crap at geography though.
Gotham's in North Yorkshire "
yeah that wasn't obvious haha. oh well now we know. |
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Always message again - the mail system on her is so bad it is so easy to lose people you meant to reply to if you are having a busy weekend, or chatting to others already, or press a button by mistake......No one minds a polite second message!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm never sure if I should message again. i've had some messages stay unread for ages and some read but not replied. Is that because who I've written to has had too many PM's to deal with or just not interested?
A polite no thanks helps a lot I think..
Incidentally, there's been a couple of messages that have been friendly and polite that were instantly deleted and i was blocked I don't understand those people..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Write her username on a post-it note, stick it on a tea cosy, pop the tea cosy on your cock and upload a photo. That'll get her attention.
What of you don't have a tea cosy ha ha
write her user name on your cock. "
What if she's got a long name? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Write her username on a post-it note, stick it on a tea cosy, pop the tea cosy on your cock and upload a photo. That'll get her attention.
What of you don't have a tea cosy ha ha
write her user name on your cock.
What if she's got a long name? "
why do you think i made my name so long? if he can't fit it on his cock then i'm not interested. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Write her username on a post-it note, stick it on a tea cosy, pop the tea cosy on your cock and upload a photo. That'll get her attention.
What of you don't have a tea cosy ha ha
write her user name on your cock.
What if she's got a long name?
why do you think i made my name so long? if he can't fit it on his cock then i'm not interested. "
You never know :P |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Write her username on a post-it note, stick it on a tea cosy, pop the tea cosy on your cock and upload a photo. That'll get her attention.
What of you don't have a tea cosy ha ha
write her user name on your cock.
What if she's got a long name?
why do you think i made my name so long? if he can't fit it on his cock then i'm not interested.
You never know :P"
Each letter needs to be 1cm long, and a space of 5mm between each letter.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Write her username on a post-it note, stick it on a tea cosy, pop the tea cosy on your cock and upload a photo. That'll get her attention.
What of you don't have a tea cosy ha ha
write her user name on your cock.
What if she's got a long name?
why do you think i made my name so long? if he can't fit it on his cock then i'm not interested. "
Inbox me who you thought it was |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Write her username on a post-it note, stick it on a tea cosy, pop the tea cosy on your cock and upload a photo. That'll get her attention.
What of you don't have a tea cosy ha ha
write her user name on your cock.
What if she's got a long name?
why do you think i made my name so long? if he can't fit it on his cock then i'm not interested.
Inbox me who you thought it was"
haha nope. I know who it was now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Write her username on a post-it note, stick it on a tea cosy, pop the tea cosy on your cock and upload a photo. That'll get her attention.
What of you don't have a tea cosy ha ha
write her user name on your cock.
What if she's got a long name?
why do you think i made my name so long? if he can't fit it on his cock then i'm not interested.
You never know :P
Each letter needs to be 1cm long, and a space of 5mm between each letter.
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Upper case? |
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"I take it you've messaged before? I would leave it, I would never message more than once if my first message was ignored x
What women actually messages first on here? It's a rare and dying breed. Thought they had too many messages to read let alone search and instigate a conversation lol...ok sarcasm over.....but seriously. ..who has in the last week?
I do. Actually I've done that twice in the past week."
Sorry Harley I really did mean to reply to you but was so flabbergasted that you messaged first I'm still in shock |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Each letter needs to be 1cm long, and a space of 5mm between each letter.
Flaccid or tumescent?"
If you're a grower then while it's hard, a shower i don't mind either way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I should elaborate more. There is a girl on this site who looks amazing but I don't want to cross that line of desparation and message her more than once.
So hence why I said, is it really worth it?"
If I were her and you messaged me again, I would delete both your messages |
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