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over a year ago
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Why do majority of men not know how to touch a vagina? It's a delicate flower , and a lot of men play and rub it like don't know what, it hurts for god sake, I know these porn stars are rough with there bits slapping it and stuff but normal people who still have feeling in there vaginas are not really in to that, flicking really ?? |
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over a year ago
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"Why do majority of men not know how to touch a vagina? It's a delicate flower , and a lot of men play and rub it like don't know what, it hurts for god sake, I know these porn stars are rough with there bits slapping it and stuff but normal people who still have feeling in there vaginas are not really in to that, flicking really ??"
And the current status
"Faith restored in men!!! He's a keeper! Feel battered lol"
Seems some what at odds |
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Porn has a lot to answer for! I think people's perception of "how to fuck" has been skewed massively in recent years with the ease of availability of online porn - today's 'norm' was yesterday's 'extreme'  |
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"Porn has a lot to answer for! I think people's perception of "how to fuck" has been skewed massively in recent years with the ease of availability of online porn - today's 'norm' was yesterday's 'extreme' "
It all sounds fake too.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes but if you rub it really hard, a genie will come out "
hahaha some guys really want their 3 wishes. 
I've beeen quite lucky that most guys are careful, and thanks to wording my profile differently i'm attracting the guys i want. but yeah had a couple of guys pump their hand in me, i dunno how else to describe that but it wasn't fisting it was just awful foreplay. i tell them i don't like fingers inside of me now.
in fact, if i don't like something i will try to make it so i have more control, to be subtle like, and if that doesn't work i'll just say i don't like it and the guy is usually fine about me saying something and stops doing it. although one time a guy said he liked it so it didn't matter and wasn't gonna stop, which kind of scared me a little so i had to stop play and he left luckily. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Lol my current status is about one guy I got lucky with, but I'd say the few other I've had rub at it like a man trying to make fire lol, once this happens it puts me off and I end up coming across rude, saying something along the lines of, wtf r u doing  |
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Porn is to blame for this one I'm afraid. Also inexperience. Some of them maybe need more training. But women have got to have the confidence to let them know what is and isn't working. |
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"Yes but if you rub it really hard, a genie will come out
hahaha some guys really want their 3 wishes.
I've beeen quite lucky that most guys are careful, and thanks to wording my profile differently i'm attracting the guys i want. but yeah had a couple of guys pump their hand in me, i dunno how else to describe that but it wasn't fisting it was just awful foreplay. i tell them i don't like fingers inside of me now.
in fact, if i don't like something i will try to make it so i have more control, to be subtle like, and if that doesn't work i'll just say i don't like it and the guy is usually fine about me saying something and stops doing it. although one time a guy said he liked it so it didn't matter and wasn't gonna stop, which kind of scared me a little so i had to stop play and he left luckily."
With all this squirting going on, i think some want three pishes  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes but if you rub it really hard, a genie will come out
hahaha some guys really want their 3 wishes.
I've beeen quite lucky that most guys are careful, and thanks to wording my profile differently i'm attracting the guys i want. but yeah had a couple of guys pump their hand in me, i dunno how else to describe that but it wasn't fisting it was just awful foreplay. i tell them i don't like fingers inside of me now.
in fact, if i don't like something i will try to make it so i have more control, to be subtle like, and if that doesn't work i'll just say i don't like it and the guy is usually fine about me saying something and stops doing it. although one time a guy said he liked it so it didn't matter and wasn't gonna stop, which kind of scared me a little so i had to stop play and he left luckily.
With all this squirting going on, i think some want three pishes "
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By (user no longer on site)
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Maybe there should be a forum titled "how to" where members explain their techniques just like they do on car forums on how to change the brake pads on a renault Clio !!  |
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I know I'm probably generalising but that's why I've always preferred older guys as they know what they are doing. I've had so many messages from younger guys trying to get to meet me so that I can teach them.....why would I want to do that?  |
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This is so incredibly subjective though. Yes they always need to be careful and rough is generally never good, but if someone was taught that what all women wanted was some gentle little feathery strokery stuff then that would do absolutely nothing for me. Women are all different so the idea of a "how to" for men is just awful. I'd rather men who watched and listened and picked up on what I enjoy, not what the last women he shagged told him was the right way to do it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is so incredibly subjective though. Yes they always need to be careful and rough is generally never good, but if someone was taught that what all women wanted was some gentle little feathery strokery stuff then that would do absolutely nothing for me. Women are all different so the idea of a "how to" for men is just awful. I'd rather men who watched and listened and picked up on what I enjoy, not what the last women he shagged told him was the right way to do it."
I was joking about the "how to " lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is so incredibly subjective though. Yes they always need to be careful and rough is generally never good, but if someone was taught that what all women wanted was some gentle little feathery strokery stuff then that would do absolutely nothing for me. Women are all different so the idea of a "how to" for men is just awful. I'd rather men who watched and listened and picked up on what I enjoy, not what the last women he shagged told him was the right way to do it.
I was joking about the "how to " lol"
Yeah I know, but every woman on the thread appears to be assuming that what all women want is "gentle". It's not what I want! Perhaps I'm just the weird one. |
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"This is so incredibly subjective though. Yes they always need to be careful and rough is generally never good, but if someone was taught that what all women wanted was some gentle little feathery strokery stuff then that would do absolutely nothing for me. Women are all different so the idea of a "how to" for men is just awful. I'd rather men who watched and listened and picked up on what I enjoy, not what the last women he shagged told him was the right way to do it."
I think communication is the key as all are different. I have met women who prefers it being 'rubbed' hard and fast. I usually start slowly and gradually pick up my pace judging by her moans |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do majority of men not know how to touch a vagina? It's a delicate flower , and a lot of men play and rub it like don't know what, it hurts for god sake, I know these porn stars are rough with there bits slapping it and stuff but normal people who still have feeling in there vaginas are not really in to that, flicking really ??"
Because some people like it?
Why don't you say to them that you prefer being touched a different way? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do majority of men not know how to touch a vagina? It's a delicate flower , and a lot of men play and rub it like don't know what, it hurts for god sake, I know these porn stars are rough with there bits slapping it and stuff but normal people who still have feeling in there vaginas are not really in to that, flicking really ??"
I'm the same as you, gentle flicking with the tip of a finger, not pushing hard and rubbing. That way there is no need for them to be spitting all over me!!!
We are all different and what suits one doesn't suit all. Also it would be good if once they find the spot they stay there, not go off all over the place!!!
I have been known to "fake" to get them to stop!!! But only after giving instructions and still not doing it right.
I actually like to show a guy what works for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I must not be normal then
Me either. I don't have multiple orgasms at the lightest stroke of a gentle finger "
Doctors have a very firm, but controlled touch... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's hard to try and find that balance between rough play and just plain right rough as fuck not knowing what he's doing down there!
I had a guy recently who did know he's way around down there and asked for harder, he did it but did it in a way that didn't hurt me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I'm not suggesting were all the same, but crikey it just seems a lot of men generally just rub slap and tug like it's made of steel, I don't necessarily like it gentle the whole time I like different speeds , a bit more pressure at other times just not to the point where my clit it numb and 100 degrees ?? But I agree older men are usually more switched on,and communication is the key even if I do come across rude |
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"I'm not suggesting were all the same, but crikey it just seems a lot of men generally just rub slap and tug like it's made of steel, I don't necessarily like it gentle the whole time I like different speeds , a bit more pressure at other times just not to the point where my clit it numb and 100 degrees ?? But I agree older men are usually more switched on,and communication is the key even if I do come across rude "
Your probably not being rude if they jump on and start rubbing you like they are sanding a chair 
I think for me is they forget to warm it up xx |
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Hold on just a second, if i could just add that it's not just men, there's a fair few women out there that think touching another woman's pussy is similar to stuffing the xmas turkey. We had one lady round, angel thought she was trying to pick her clit off, i thought she was trying to get it out like a winkle |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Gonna get slaughtered here but Its not just the men I also blame the women that didn't say that it was shit in the first place to many just pretend it's ok and dodge round it and then the guy thinks he is good at it when wrong or rightly it's pants if you don't explore with the person your with how you going to know what each other likes |
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"Gonna get slaughtered here but Its not just the men I also blame the women that didn't say that it was shit in the first place to many just pretend it's ok and dodge round it and then the guy thinks he is good at it when wrong or rightly it's pants if you don't explore with the person your with how you going to know what each other likes "
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By (user no longer on site)
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Surely there isn't a right or wrong way..
Just everyone's individual preferences..
I know girls who like the gentlest of kisses and touches down there, and I know girls who like very rough play.
Surely just treat everyone to their own preferences...watch how she reacts and what she enjoys and play accordingly |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Gonna get slaughtered here but Its not just the men I also blame the women that didn't say that it was shit in the first place to many just pretend it's ok and dodge round it and then the guy thinks he is good at it when wrong or rightly it's pants if you don't explore with the person your with how you going to know what each other likes "
Your right.
Two people in bed, two people's responsibility to communicate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Surely there isn't a right or wrong way..
Just everyone's individual preferences..
I know girls who like the gentlest of kisses and touches down there, and I know girls who like very rough play.
Surely just treat everyone to their own preferences...watch how she reacts and what she enjoys and play accordingly "
Your not allowed to be so diplomatic its against the rules |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The same goes for nobs. Some women wank me off like they are trying to rip my helmet from my shaft. WTF!"
Like a Parkinson's sufferer trying to unblock a sink wi' a plunger |
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"Gonna get slaughtered here but Its not just the men I also blame the women that didn't say that it was shit in the first place to many just pretend it's ok and dodge round it and then the guy thinks he is good at it when wrong or rightly it's pants if you don't explore with the person your with how you going to know what each other likes
Your right.
Two people in bed, two people's responsibility to communicate."
Well. ..that's the ball gag gone for a Burton then   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Surely there isn't a right or wrong way..
Just everyone's individual preferences..
I know girls who like the gentlest of kisses and touches down there, and I know girls who like very rough play.
Surely just treat everyone to their own preferences...watch how she reacts and what she enjoys and play accordingly
Your not allowed to be so diplomatic its against the rules "
Oh....sorry...
What I meant was I just like to running punch 'em in the cunt
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Gonna get slaughtered here but Its not just the men I also blame the women that didn't say that it was shit in the first place to many just pretend it's ok and dodge round it and then the guy thinks he is good at it when wrong or rightly it's pants if you don't explore with the person your with how you going to know what each other likes
Your right.
Two people in bed, two people's responsibility to communicate.
Well. ..that's the ball gag gone for a Burton then "
You don't need your mouth to communicate |
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