For a little while at least. I've quite enjoyed being hidden and going directly to those I'm interested in or just chatting on the forums. However, I wanted to try out the who's near function. Hoping to not be bombarded again.
What does everyone else do to manage messages coming in? Think its best just to block everyone? |
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over a year ago
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"For a little while at least. I've quite enjoyed being hidden and going directly to those I'm interested in or just chatting on the forums. However, I wanted to try out the who's near function. Hoping to not be bombarded again.
What does everyone else do to manage messages coming in? Think its best just to block everyone?"
I just rely on being naturally fugly to limit messages! It works!  |
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I think it's important to reply if u can - and just make it one sentence. People have taken the time to write. I have been "bombarded" like u say and it's almost impossible to reply - now I have as standard on my profile "that I may not reply...." If it was reversed it would be nice for me to receive a reply - it keeps me humble and connected to my humanity.
1. Profile says I don't reply to all
2. I don't have boxes ticked
3. Filters on and really tight
4. And if "hi and here is my cock" - delete
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"For a little while at least. I've quite enjoyed being hidden and going directly to those I'm interested in or just chatting on the forums. However, I wanted to try out the who's near function. Hoping to not be bombarded again.
What does everyone else do to manage messages coming in? Think its best just to block everyone?
I just rely on being naturally fugly to limit messages! It works! "
You are so far away from fugly! |
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Don't be polite and say you're not looking so that guys don't bother messaging you, it doesn't work.
I just shrink my age filters usually, that helps get messages down, or turn them off altogether if i'm busy chatting to friends already. |
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I opened up my filters today for the first time in ages and widened my age range. It's been ok so far,just about manageable with the other things I'm doing today. |
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
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"For a little while at least. I've quite enjoyed being hidden and going directly to those I'm interested in or just chatting on the forums. However, I wanted to try out the who's near function. Hoping to not be bombarded again.
What does everyone else do to manage messages coming in? Think its best just to block everyone?
I just rely on being naturally fugly to limit messages! It works! "
That's ok for you but what about poor sods like me that aren't fugly? |
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Thanks guys. I've been hidden a couple of weeks and it has worked nicely so its always an option to go back to. Have added something to my profile to say I may not respond to every message. See how the first 24 hours go and then may tighten up ... the filters  |
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