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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Who feels that tinge of disappointment when you see on local updates the someone local has viewed your profile, but then there is no message.
I'm not saying that people have any obligation to, but I do sometimes wonder what it is that's put them off.
Of course not everybody finds everybody attractive.
I think my absolutely massive pppppersonality might deter folk.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Who feels that tinge of disappointment when you see on local updates the someone local has viewed your profile, but then there is no message.
I'm not saying that people have any obligation to, but I do sometimes wonder what it is that's put them off.
Of course not everybody finds everybody attractive.
I think my absolutely massive pppppersonality might deter folk. "
I dunno I think my personality is better than my looks lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've just checked mine and had about 7 views 'just the minute' not one message, I don't mind though, I'm not everyone's cup of tea x"
Have you got your filters on ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Who feels that tinge of disappointment when you see on local updates the someone local has viewed your profile, but then there is no message.
I'm not saying that people have any obligation to, but I do sometimes wonder what it is that's put them off.
Of course not everybody finds everybody attractive.
I think my absolutely massive pppppersonality might deter folk. "
Massive personality is actually a turn on for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've just checked mine and had about 7 views 'just the minute' not one message, I don't mind though, I'm not everyone's cup of tea x
Have you got your filters on ?"
Nope, well no one over the age of 55 but anyone 22 and up can message etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Who feels that tinge of disappointment when you see on local updates the someone local has viewed your profile, but then there is no message.
I'm not saying that people have any obligation to, but I do sometimes wonder what it is that's put them off.
Of course not everybody finds everybody attractive.
I think my absolutely massive pppppersonality might deter folk. "
Yes, so I don't look at who has looked at me very often, nor do I look at my sent box. But, I flip it around and think it's complimentary to my pictures and/or posts on the forum to have enticed them into my lair, and they leave knowing a little more about silly ole me  so, I recommend focusing on the positives and important stuff as who is watching is unimportant in the grand scheme of things |
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
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"Who feels that tinge of disappointment when you see on local updates the someone local has viewed your profile, but then there is no message.
I'm not saying that people have any obligation to, but I do sometimes wonder what it is that's put them off.
Of course not everybody finds everybody attractive.
I think my absolutely massive pppppersonality might deter folk. "
Allo, Allo monsieur. We get loads of people viewing our profile and not just local, with no message..... not bothered though, they probably haven't even read the profile anyway, just looked at the pics.... whatever haha....  xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've just checked mine and had about 7 views 'just the minute' not one message, I don't mind though, I'm not everyone's cup of tea x"
Doh, I've just realised I'm bloody guilty. I've looked at your profile and not messaged before, although I also have messaged you too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Usually get a handful of views most weeks,can't see who though as I'm not a site supporter at the moment.
Don't bother thinking about it too much....if they want to message they'll message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Who feels that tinge of disappointment when you see on local updates the someone local has viewed your profile, but then there is no message.
I'm not saying that people have any obligation to, but I do sometimes wonder what it is that's put them off.
Of course not everybody finds everybody attractive.
I think my absolutely massive pppppersonality might deter folk. "
Actually I think 'their loss'
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've just checked mine and had about 7 views 'just the minute' not one message, I don't mind though, I'm not everyone's cup of tea x
Doh, I've just realised I'm bloody guilty. I've looked at your profile and not messaged before, although I also have messaged you too. "
You don't have to message when you look!! Go into stealth mode!! Perfect!!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Who feels that tinge of disappointment when you see on local updates the someone local has viewed your profile, but then there is no message.
I'm not saying that people have any obligation to, but I do sometimes wonder what it is that's put them off.
Of course not everybody finds everybody attractive.
I think my absolutely massive pppppersonality might deter folk. "
Tbh I'm grateful that everyone who looks at me doesn't message me!
It typically takes about an hour for 100 people to view me. When I post a new pic it takes about 6 minutes!
If all those people messaged me is have to have my profile permanently hidden!
A tip though:
If someone looks at you more than once they're possibly interested - so try sending them a friendly message? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I never look at the updates thing. I wonder if I'm missing much 
-Courtney
Depends on what's happening in your area
Fair point!
-Courtney"
I like my area, I get updates from Derby, Nottingham and Sheffield. Always something going on, but I don't look often because the forums are more interactive |
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"Who feels that tinge of disappointment when you see on local updates the someone local has viewed your profile, but then there is no message.
I'm not saying that people have any obligation to, but I do sometimes wonder what it is that's put them off.
Of course not everybody finds everybody attractive.
I think my absolutely massive pppppersonality might deter folk. "
I've just realised that I've only ever had literally two or three local ladies EVER message me  (And this was before I changed my profile to 'not meeting at the moment').
I'd never really given this any thought before now. Thanks OP!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've just checked mine and had about 7 views 'just the minute' not one message, I don't mind though, I'm not everyone's cup of tea x
Have you got your filters on ?
Nope, well no one over the age of [b]55[/b] but anyone 22 and up can message etc"
As I mentioned in another thread, I am now 56 |
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