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"No, Fab just has too many single men..." Men have a lot to give - just not many to recieve | |||
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"Goddammit, shut up man. I like my inbox full of messages to ignore. " Nothing quite so beautiful as That yellow wall of ignorance... Driven many good men unlos that has | |||
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"Goddammit, shut up man. I like my inbox full of messages to ignore. Nothing quite so beautiful as That yellow wall of ignorance... Driven many good men unlos that has " I wouldn't mind them messaging someone else really, just to clarify. Hardly any of them leave i noticed...they're back the next day or sometimes within 5 mins, until they're blocked. | |||
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"Cuz if there was - most of the women on here wouldn't be bombarded with messages... Solution? Well simple really... We need to get our lady friends on here also So get cracking people INVITE INVITE INVITE" op what if it is maybe a government conspiracy/plot to undermine and demoralise men away from the swinging life style?... | |||
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"Cuz if there was - most of the women on here wouldn't be bombarded with messages... Solution? Well simple really... We need to get our lady friends on here also So get cracking people INVITE INVITE INVITE" what about an advert in the daily telegraph we could get the clubs to fund it ,let's face it its all guys money that pays for them | |||
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"Goddammit, shut up man. I like my inbox full of messages to ignore. Nothing quite so beautiful as That yellow wall of ignorance... Driven many good men unlos that has I wouldn't mind them messaging someone else really, just to clarify. Hardly any of them leave i noticed...they're back the next day or sometimes within 5 mins, until they're blocked. " Persistent little buggers then... | |||
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"Goddammit, shut up man. I like my inbox full of messages to ignore. Nothing quite so beautiful as That yellow wall of ignorance... Driven many good men unlos that has I wouldn't mind them messaging someone else really, just to clarify. Hardly any of them leave i noticed...they're back the next day or sometimes within 5 mins, until they're blocked. Persistent little buggers then..." Starting to think i look desperate for sex or something. | |||
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"I haven't sent a "Fancy a fuck" message for years, I'll have to up ma game " Ahh...I just love those kind of messages...keep em coming! | |||
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"I haven't sent a "Fancy a fuck" message for years, I'll have to up ma game Ahh...I just love those kind of messages...keep em coming! " Well do ya Oh hang on, you don't meet smokers so that's me out | |||
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"Too many singles if you ask me x" Good job no-one did then | |||
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"I haven't sent a "Fancy a fuck" message for years, I'll have to up ma game Ahh...I just love those kind of messages...keep em coming! Well do ya Oh hang on, you don't meet smokers so that's me out " That'd be it! | |||
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"Too many singles if you ask me x" yes I agree singles ruin the swinging scene ,get em off | |||
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"Too many singles if you ask me x yes I agree singles ruin the swinging scene ,get em off " What's so wrong with a single guy? | |||
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"Too many singles if you ask me x Good job no-one did then " | |||
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"There are women on fab , just 4000 miles away" Excuse for a vacation | |||
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"Too many singles if you ask me x yes I agree singles ruin the swinging scene ,get em off What's so wrong with a single guy?" nothing wrong with this one but someone said to many single guys x | |||
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"Too many singles if you ask me x yes I agree singles ruin the swinging scene ,get em off What's so wrong with a single guy?" fabbed nice legs | |||
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"Too many singles if you ask me x yes I agree singles ruin the swinging scene ,get em off What's so wrong with a single guy?" They're not 'real' swingers... They have to leave fab, find a lady somewhere other than the swinging scene, become a couple and only then are they worthy to be here apparently | |||
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"There are women on fab , just 4000 miles away Excuse for a vacation " He could come to Leeds to meet Courtney | |||
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"There are women on fab , just 4000 miles away Excuse for a vacation He could come to Leeds to meet Courtney " She could be part of the naturalization committee | |||
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"Too many singles if you ask me x" Coming from a couple who are looking for single women... | |||
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"fab needs more single northern guys" Aye up | |||
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"fab needs more single northern guys Aye up " hii | |||
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"fab needs more single northern guys Aye up hii " Oooh see...I knew there were a good reason I loved the north How you doing this mornin' red? or tonight...whichever it is for you? | |||
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"fab needs more single northern guys Aye up hii Oooh see...I knew there were a good reason I loved the north How you doing this mornin' red? or tonight...whichever it is for you? " oh you carnt beat the north it has some hot guys and Newcastle brown ale im all good this evening thanks how are you doing | |||
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"Too many singles if you ask me x yes I agree singles ruin the swinging scene ,get em off What's so wrong with a single guy?fabbed nice legs " I rather liked the casual jaunt of the shirt! | |||
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"Too many singles if you ask me x yes I agree singles ruin the swinging scene ,get em off What's so wrong with a single guy?fabbed nice legs I rather liked the casual jaunt of the shirt!" thankyou love your legs ,so long x | |||
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"Too many singles if you ask me x yes I agree singles ruin the swinging scene ,get em off What's so wrong with a single guy?fabbed nice legs I rather liked the casual jaunt of the shirt!thankyou love your legs ,so long x " Thank you trademark! | |||
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"Too many singles if you ask me x Good job no-one did then " Yes they did, forums are for the public xx | |||
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"Too many singles if you ask me x Coming from a couple who are looking for single women..." I said Too Many, not No Singles xx | |||
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"Shall I be naughty and add to the discussion by saying 'and of those it does have, 80% are deluded' " Deluded in what way? | |||
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"That's not enough Single guys aged 25-40 that can accommodate within a 10 miles radius Just saying. " 10 miles bit ambitious why don't you just go for your neighbour | |||
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"Shall I be naughty and add to the discussion by saying 'and of those it does have, 80% are deluded' Deluded in what way? " You know ... in that way that, erm ... well ya know | |||
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"I only want one or two at a time. " thats just being greedy | |||
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"Shall I be naughty and add to the discussion by saying 'and of those it does have, 80% are deluded' " I hope you aren't suggesting that even with far more women on here, many of the men that complain still would struggle to get meets? That would be naughty! | |||
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"Shall I be naughty and add to the discussion by saying 'and of those it does have, 80% are deluded' Deluded in what way? " You know,we're fat and old and think we're something special,because with so few women the hot men lower their standards to fuck us,thus giving us a false sense of worth. | |||
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"Shall I be naughty and add to the discussion by saying 'and of those it does have, 80% are deluded' " | |||
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"Shall I be naughty and add to the discussion by saying 'and of those it does have, 80% are deluded' I hope you aren't suggesting that even with far more women on here, many of the men that complain still would struggle to get meets? That would be naughty! " | |||
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"So, fab doesn't have enough women. Does it have enough ladys then? " Gals,I'm a gal | |||
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"No, Fab just has too many single men..." Or married men pretending to be single xx | |||
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"So, fab doesn't have enough women. Does it have enough ladys then? Gals,I'm a gal " Apologies, I'd seen "ladys" far too often and thought it must be a new breed | |||
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"Its impossible for men here women have it easy " Then men regularly achieve the impossible here. Might be harder in vagina city...though it doesn't sound that way to be fair. | |||
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"Too many singles if you ask me x" Bet you don't complain about single women | |||
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"Its impossible for men here women have it easy " Say the men with no thought or personality to their photos, profile or posts. | |||
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"Its impossible for men here women have it easy Say the men with no thought or personality to their photos, profile or posts. " | |||
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"So true. I'm having to travel for hours as I've slept with all the local Fab girls. " | |||
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"So true. I'm having to travel for hours as I've slept with all the local Fab girls. " I have to lure men up from miles away because until the supply is replenished I've slept with nearly all the local Fab men who I actually want to meet. | |||
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"It needs more watches on profiles. " I watch your profile #nowayastalker | |||
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"I have to lure men up from miles away because until the supply is replenished I've slept with nearly all the local Fab men who I actually want to meet. " Ruby, are you extending your patio? | |||
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" Quite a few cpls I know have left the site and headed back to clubland or private party land. Easier to see the true people in person whilst socialising in clubs or parties. " This sums us up quite well but without leaving the site, mainly just use the forums. | |||
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"It's become a 'fancy a fuck?' sex site over a swingers site. Quite a few cpls I know have left the site and headed back to clubland or private party land. Easier to see the true people in person whilst socialising in clubs or parties. Common thing they mentioned was the masses of 'fancy a fuck' or all night all talkers, then on the night its wham bam, bulls#it story & gone. " Although we chat a bit here, we meet many more at clubs and parties. Fabs just opened the door for us .... | |||
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"Its impossible for men here women have it easy Say the men with no thought or personality to their photos, profile or posts. " And it is not easy for women on here. I very rarely meet via fab - I have more success on a night out. Too many married men (without permission... I'm fond of the ones who meet, even better if they take their wife along too!) who expect a quick half hour suck or fuck when it suits them. And way too many who think waving a semi-erect penis will be enough to get my attention. Thankfully, there are some amazing couples and singles of both sexes on here who are fantastic! | |||
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"Hey I think you lot are classy " | |||
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"Personally I'd love more single men on here as some of them might truly be single " fetch them on...a competitive market just makes us up our game.... | |||
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"Goddammit, shut up man. I like my inbox full of messages to ignore. Nothing quite so beautiful as That yellow wall of ignorance... Driven many good men unlos that has " Is it yellow? I like yellow! | |||
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"Hey I think you lot are classy " Really | |||
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"Goddammit, shut up man. I like my inbox full of messages to ignore. Nothing quite so beautiful as That yellow wall of ignorance... Driven many good men unlos that has Is it yellow? I like yellow! " very yellow! you'd love it | |||
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"Goddammit, shut up man. I like my inbox full of messages to ignore. Nothing quite so beautiful as That yellow wall of ignorance... Driven many good men unlos that has Is it yellow? I like yellow! very yellow! you'd love it " Aw lovely! We'll have to meet for coffee and a tour of the wall! Not seen you for ages! | |||
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"It needs more watches on profiles. " What time is it please? | |||
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"It needs more watches on profiles. What time is it please? " What time is it Mr wolf? Remember that? I'm obviously in nostalgia mode!! | |||
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"No, Fab just has too many single men..." more so those who have been on a year and still not met! | |||
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"Its impossible for men here women have it easy " And the award for most ridiculous comment of the week goes to.... | |||
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"Goddammit, shut up man. I like my inbox full of messages to ignore. Nothing quite so beautiful as That yellow wall of ignorance... Driven many good men unlos that has Is it yellow? I like yellow! very yellow! you'd love it Aw lovely! We'll have to meet for coffee and a tour of the wall! Not seen you for ages! " A year in Jan I believe...rather long now I think about it :/ May have to see what events your planning attending in the new year and slope by and catch up | |||
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"It needs more watches on profiles. I watch your profile #nowayastalker" No autographs, though | |||
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"I only want one or two at a time. thats just being greedy " I'm willing to share and I don't care what they do before or after.... | |||
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"Too many singles if you ask me x Bet you don't complain about single women " Yes I do, that's why I said Too Many Singles xx | |||
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"Too many singles if you ask me x Bet you don't complain about single women Yes I do, that's why I said Too Many Singles xx" And I'm going to refer you back to my previous point... | |||
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"Too many singles if you ask me x Bet you don't complain about single women Yes I do, that's why I said Too Many Singles xx And I'm going to refer you back to my previous point... " Which was? Xx | |||
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"No, Fab just has too many single men..." . . . some of which are pretending to be women or couples. | |||
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"No, Fab just has too many single men... . . . some of which are pretending to be women or couples. " Easily delt with though. If in doubt we tell them that if only one turns up then we won't let them in. In fact last time we did that they went unlos, we guessed right that time xx | |||
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"Too many singles if you ask me x Coming from a couple who are looking for single women..." Sharp! I like! | |||
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"Too many singles if you ask me x Bet you don't complain about single women Yes I do, that's why I said Too Many Singles xx And I'm going to refer you back to my previous point... " hey gorgeous just block them that's what they do to everyone else x | |||
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"It's ok because with too many men or too few women, only the best stand a chance." That was my point, competitive market is good for the buyer as it were, and keeps the seller sharp or he goes bankrupt..or pussycrupt rather | |||
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"It needs more professional couples prohibiting Sydney University from using their pictures without permission " SOOO funny! I love threads like this one when more people contribute with excellent sense of humour! | |||
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"Hypocritical I know, but fab has way, waaaaaaaaaaaay too many men. I've noticed other sites (non swing related, mind) have intrigued quotas for single men. Once the quote is reached for that quarter, no new single men are permitted to register. And single male accounts should be subject to more qualifications - a compulsory verification photo, for starters. " That would be awful. If I'd met all the men I wanted to meet and no more were able to join, I wouldn't suddenly change my mind and meet those I didn't originally want to, I'd just wait and not meet anyone. I only really think photo verification has any merit for women and couples. There aren't many people out there pretending to be men. | |||
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"However many women were on here, you could never have enough. So I'm with you OP! More women!! Lol " Dan if we all chip in three women we could get the balance better xx | |||
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"This sums us up quite well but without leaving the site, mainly just use the forums. " The first FOUR years of my Swinging life I never used the Forum, not even once. But I visited most clubs in the North East, North West and the Midlands. | |||
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" That would be awful. If I'd met all the men I wanted to meet and no more were able to join, I wouldn't suddenly change my mind and meet those I didn't originally want to, I'd just wait and not meet anyone. I only really think photo verification has any merit for women and couples. There aren't many people out there pretending to be men. " With regards to your first point, are you saying you meet men that frequently? :P there are thousands of men on this site, so it's reasonable to conclude that at least a dozen will appeal to you and be nearby... Right? After three months, registration will reopen and a dozen more will crop up. I see your second point, but I suggested compulsory verification photos not as proof of identity, but proof of commitment, I guess. Fewer blank profiles sending out one liners! | |||
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"would it make a difference if there were more women on here, I'm not convinced.... there are hundreds of men on here but only a handful I want to meet & I'm sure I'm not alone in that way of thinking. Quantity doesn't necessarily equal success. " | |||
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" That would be awful. If I'd met all the men I wanted to meet and no more were able to join, I wouldn't suddenly change my mind and meet those I didn't originally want to, I'd just wait and not meet anyone. I only really think photo verification has any merit for women and couples. There aren't many people out there pretending to be men. With regards to your first point, are you saying you meet men that frequently? :P there are thousands of men on this site, so it's reasonable to conclude that at least a dozen will appeal to you and be nearby... Right? After three months, registration will reopen and a dozen more will crop up. I see your second point, but I suggested compulsory verification photos not as proof of identity, but proof of commitment, I guess. Fewer blank profiles sending out one liners! " No I don't meet that frequently. But there are currently 2 men in my local area I want to meet. There are no others. | |||
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"would it make a difference if there were more women on here, I'm not convinced.... there are hundreds of men on here but only a handful I want to meet & I'm sure I'm not alone in that way of thinking. Quantity doesn't necessarily equal success. " Ok then... Fab needs more desirable women. Happy? | |||
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" No I don't meet that frequently. But there are currently 2 men in my local area I want to meet. There are no others. " In which case, more emphasis must be made to improve the standard of single guys on here... Ones who will make the effort to sell themselves a bit, and be more social. It sounds elitist I know, but how else can rude, immature, antisocial and sometimes scary guys be kept off here? | |||
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"would it make a difference if there were more women on here, I'm not convinced.... there are hundreds of men on here but only a handful I want to meet & I'm sure I'm not alone in that way of thinking. Quantity doesn't necessarily equal success. Ok then... Fab needs more desirable women. Happy? " Truth. And less men who will fuck someone for the sake of a fuck. | |||
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"Cuz if there was - most of the women on here wouldn't be bombarded with messages... Solution? Well simple really... We need to get our lady friends on here also So get cracking people INVITE INVITE INVITE" I tried it. Got a galpal to join & she was inundated in minutes with a ton of uninspiring, dull mails. It was as if some users sit deliberately on the New Female Members button waiting to pounce & get in first. She hadn't even managed to get a pic up! So I set her filters & still she got heaps of mail. I restricted her profile further, & despite being very specific on her profile those within the criteria still got messages through that contained cock pics, or went against what was asked on the profile. It gave me an insight as to what women go through on a daily basis, & made me realise what some guys go through never getting a reply if they don't get a response & feel the need to mail repeatedly. In another thread someone suggested a "thanks, but no thanks" button (might work but then the guys would grumble about getting an automated response) though I'd hate to have to still be the person pressing the button to so many rejections. However, on the flip side I did read a thread where a woman suddenly realised the boot was on the other foot when she was ignored & has a rejection from a male member. So it works both ways. Best thing is to focus on folk you have an instant connection with or take yourself off to a local Social. New members will join on a daily basis & replace ones who leave. So rather than more women... let's just have more genuine members. | |||
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" No I don't meet that frequently. But there are currently 2 men in my local area I want to meet. There are no others. In which case, more emphasis must be made to improve the standard of single guys on here... Ones who will make the effort to sell themselves a bit, and be more social. It sounds elitist I know, but how else can rude, immature, antisocial and sometimes scary guys be kept off here? " So,once you get rid of those kind of men,what will you do about upping the quality of the women on here for the elite men left behind? | |||
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" No I don't meet that frequently. But there are currently 2 men in my local area I want to meet. There are no others. In which case, more emphasis must be made to improve the standard of single guys on here... Ones who will make the effort to sell themselves a bit, and be more social. It sounds elitist I know, but how else can rude, immature, antisocial and sometimes scary guys be kept off here? " The same could be said for women and couples though. The cream rises to the top so it's a moot point anyway. | |||
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"... However, on the flip side I did read a thread where a woman suddenly realised the boot was on the other foot when she was ignored & has a rejection from a male member. ... " Bet she had a hissy fit and tons of simpering posts backing her up. | |||
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"... However, on the flip side I did read a thread where a woman suddenly realised the boot was on the other foot when she was ignored & has a rejection from a male member. ... Bet she had a hissy fit and tons of simpering posts backing her up. " Don't recall a hissy fit, & can't really remember many of the replies, but I'm sure there were the fair share of White Knights replying. | |||
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"... However, on the flip side I did read a thread where a woman suddenly realised the boot was on the other foot when she was ignored & has a rejection from a male member. ... Bet she had a hissy fit and tons of simpering posts backing her up. " I think they're talking about the recent "why was I blocked?" thread. She took it well, just wanted to know why it could've been. | |||
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" No I don't meet that frequently. But there are currently 2 men in my local area I want to meet. There are no others. In which case, more emphasis must be made to improve the standard of single guys on here... Ones who will make the effort to sell themselves a bit, and be more social. It sounds elitist I know, but how else can rude, immature, antisocial and sometimes scary guys be kept off here? " I guess I don't see it as that important. I don't really care enough to be concerned about how to do it. If I run out of men I run out of men. I think it would probably be different if I lived in a different area. | |||
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"... However, on the flip side I did read a thread where a woman suddenly realised the boot was on the other foot when she was ignored & has a rejection from a male member. ... Bet she had a hissy fit and tons of simpering posts backing her up. I think they're talking about the recent "why was I blocked?" thread. She took it well, just wanted to know why it could've been. " No, it was a local room thread rather than generic room. Tho I did read that one too. Another example that women don't always get it their own way on here & all sexes & sexualties go through some form of rejection. The best policy is to move on & accept not everyone is going to match up, irrespective of gender or criteria. In the big scheme of things it's no biggie & up to the individual to put in the required effort to find what they're looking for. It pays off when you do. | |||
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"This sums us up quite well but without leaving the site, mainly just use the forums. The first FOUR years of my Swinging life I never used the Forum, not even once. But I visited most clubs in the North East, North West and the Midlands." Which has a better success rate? Oh sorry, you are a lady... | |||
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"Too many singles if you ask me x Bet you don't complain about single women Yes I do, that's why I said Too Many Singles xx And I'm going to refer you back to my previous point... hey gorgeous just block them that's what they do to everyone else x " Only to the people we won't meet xx | |||
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"would it make a difference if there were more women on here, I'm not convinced.... there are hundreds of men on here but only a handful I want to meet & I'm sure I'm not alone in that way of thinking. Quantity doesn't necessarily equal success. Ok then... Fab needs more desirable women. Happy? " I'm sure that could be the case, I don't know I'm not looking for women, same can be said for more desirable men tho..... | |||
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"Too many singles if you ask me x" pretend singles | |||
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"Too many singles if you ask me xpretend singles " That's true too xx | |||
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"Goddammit, shut up man. I like my inbox full of messages to ignore. Nothing quite so beautiful as That yellow wall of ignorance... Driven many good men unlos that has Is it yellow? I like yellow! very yellow! you'd love it Aw lovely! We'll have to meet for coffee and a tour of the wall! Not seen you for ages! A year in Jan I believe...rather long now I think about it :/ May have to see what events your planning attending in the new year and slope by and catch up " Great stuff! It'll be lovely to see you again! | |||
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"It doesn't matter how many men versus the number of women there are on here, as most of the local men in my areas just aren't worth meeting. If suddenly you had a few thousand women register tomorrow, it still doesn't mean most guys on here will get meets out of it. Still the same number of men being rude, desperate, pushy etc..." I have to disagree! I've met loads of really lovely local men! Looking at your profile it's not very friendly and very demanding! If I was a guy I doubt I'd message you! | |||
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"It doesn't matter how many men versus the number of women there are on here, as most of the local men in my areas just aren't worth meeting. If suddenly you had a few thousand women register tomorrow, it still doesn't mean most guys on here will get meets out of it. Still the same number of men being rude, desperate, pushy etc... I have to disagree! I've met loads of really lovely local men! Looking at your profile it's not very friendly and very demanding! If I was a guy I doubt I'd message you! " Don't forget there are more men on here... Profiles by anyone other than men is their preferences'!!! | |||
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"That's not enough Single guys aged 25-40 that can accommodate within a 10 miles radius Just saying. " are you not seeking up to 60 yr olds? | |||
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"It doesn't matter how many men versus the number of women there are on here, as most of the local men in my areas just aren't worth meeting. If suddenly you had a few thousand women register tomorrow, it still doesn't mean most guys on here will get meets out of it. Still the same number of men being rude, desperate, pushy etc..." its the expectation that anyone will meet off the back of a 'wanna fuck' message... | |||
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"No, Fab just has too many single men..." | |||
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"It doesn't matter how many men versus the number of women there are on here, as most of the local men in my areas just aren't worth meeting. If suddenly you had a few thousand women register tomorrow, it still doesn't mean most guys on here will get meets out of it. Still the same number of men being rude, desperate, pushy etc... I have to disagree! I've met loads of really lovely local men! Looking at your profile it's not very friendly and very demanding! If I was a guy I doubt I'd message you! " Luckily for me, you're not a guy and I have to say, I get too many messages as it is. I'm demanding because I can be and the messages I receive tell me some guys like that in a woman. If someone doesn't like my profile then they're not what I'm looking for, put simply. | |||
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"This sums us up quite well but without leaving the site, mainly just use the forums. The first FOUR years of my Swinging life I never used the Forum, not even once. But I visited most clubs in the North East, North West and the Midlands. Which has a better success rate? Oh sorry, you are a lady... " That's a really good question. Because I started Swinging fromt the Swinging side, not from the Internet, it has always been a bit of a mystery to me why on Earth people wanted to (waste time) trying to meet through a web site? So to answer your question, my success rate would be in between 66% to 75% in clubs. Through forums 0%. p.s. I define as a woman. | |||
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"It doesn't matter how many men versus the number of women there are on here, as most of the local men in my areas just aren't worth meeting." There are 2.55 million inhabitants in Greater Manchester, 514,417 inhabitants in the city of Manchester. "I have to disagree! I've met loads of really lovely local men! Looking at your profile it's not very friendly and very demanding! ..." Oh dear, all she says is she doesn't like army lads, mixed race, black or Asian males, bi guys, women, couples, chavs, shaved heads, bald heads, bad skin, bad teeth or any facial hair, Mr Average, training slaves or any old fucker, and they will incur instant 'delition' if they send the wrong phtotos at the wrong time. Surely it's just the population of Manchester there's something wrong with... | |||
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"It doesn't matter how many men versus the number of women there are on here, as most of the local men in my areas just aren't worth meeting. There are 2.55 million inhabitants in Greater Manchester, 514,417 inhabitants in the city of Manchester. I have to disagree! I've met loads of really lovely local men! Looking at your profile it's not very friendly and very demanding! ... Oh dear, all she says is she doesn't like army lads, mixed race, black or Asian males, bi guys, women, couples, chavs, shaved heads, bald heads, bad skin, bad teeth or any facial hair, Mr Average, training slaves or any old fucker, and they will incur instant 'delition' if they send the wrong phtotos at the wrong time. Surely it's just the population of Manchester there's something wrong with... " | |||
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"This sums us up quite well but without leaving the site, mainly just use the forums. The first FOUR years of my Swinging life I never used the Forum, not even once. But I visited most clubs in the North East, North West and the Midlands. Which has a better success rate? Oh sorry, you are a lady... That's a really good question. Because I started Swinging fromt the Swinging side, not from the Internet, it has always been a bit of a mystery to me why on Earth people wanted to (waste time) trying to meet through a web site? So to answer your question, my success rate would be in between 66% to 75% in clubs. Through forums 0%. p.s. I define as a woman." Will you my lady do me the honour of disvirgining your forum 0% please? | |||
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"It doesn't matter how many men versus the number of women there are on here, as most of the local men in my areas just aren't worth meeting. If suddenly you had a few thousand women register tomorrow, it still doesn't mean most guys on here will get meets out of it. Still the same number of men being rude, desperate, pushy etc... I have to disagree! I've met loads of really lovely local men! Looking at your profile it's not very friendly and very demanding! If I was a guy I doubt I'd message you! Luckily for me, you're not a guy and I have to say, I get too many messages as it is. I'm demanding because I can be and the messages I receive tell me some guys like that in a woman. If someone doesn't like my profile then they're not what I'm looking for, put simply." Ok Hun! Your pics are great and you clearly have a great figure so many guys would message you whatever the context of your text! I was just trying to say, perhaps clumsily, that your profile text might put off a lot off the guys who have the profile traits that you're looking for! Anyhow Hun - your profile,your choice! Have a lovely day! | |||
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"It doesn't matter how many men versus the number of women there are on here, as most of the local men in my areas just aren't worth meeting. If suddenly you had a few thousand women register tomorrow, it still doesn't mean most guys on here will get meets out of it. Still the same number of men being rude, desperate, pushy etc... I have to disagree! I've met loads of really lovely local men! Looking at your profile it's not very friendly and very demanding! If I was a guy I doubt I'd message you! Luckily for me, you're not a guy and I have to say, I get too many messages as it is. I'm demanding because I can be and the messages I receive tell me some guys like that in a woman. If someone doesn't like my profile then they're not what I'm looking for, put simply. Ok Hun! Your pics are great and you clearly have a great figure so many guys would message you whatever the context of your text! I was just trying to say, perhaps clumsily, that your profile text might put off a lot off the guys who have the profile traits that you're looking for! Anyhow Hun - your profile,your choice! Have a lovely day! " Personality traits - not profile traits! | |||
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"So true. I'm having to travel for hours as I've slept with all the local Fab girls. I have to lure men up from miles away because until the supply is replenished I've slept with nearly all the local Fab men who I actually want to meet. " Read SuperFanny last week with 189 meets in 7 months and climbing. .. I stopped reading the displayed ones after about number 20 lol...A competition amongst them to write a better one than the previous one....bit like the new alpha male in the wolf pack...hahahahaha. | |||
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"Hypocritical I know, but fab has way, waaaaaaaaaaaay too many men. I've noticed other sites (non swing related, mind) have intrigued quotas for single men. Once the quote is reached for that quarter, no new single men are permitted to register. And single male accounts should be subject to more qualifications - a compulsory verification photo, for starters. " It's the single men that pay for it to work...not just the site but the fringe costs like clubs and swinger venues...couple and single ladies get in free in most but single guys pay upwards of £75 to have the pre vile due and then there's the drinks and travel on top. So....do you really think they want to quota the single me? That raises lots of other issues too....about single mens expectations at many of these venues. Chicken and Egg. | |||
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"No, Fab just has too many single men..." true. | |||
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"Exactly. It's the single men that fund the site and that's the precise reason why you'll never get any official stats on the gender ratios etc. Could be worse, could be Ashley Madison. " How do the single men fund the site? Men women and couples all pay the same for site supporter. | |||
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"Exactly. It's the single men that fund the site and that's the precise reason why you'll never get any official stats on the gender ratios etc. Could be worse, could be Ashley Madison. " They don't. | |||
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"Single men are clearly the biggest revenue stream by a long long way. Take them away and the site is struggling." I didn't realise you're the site accountant. | |||
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"Single men are clearly the biggest revenue stream by a long long way. Take them away and the site is struggling." I doubt many single men become site supporters. | |||
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"Single men are clearly the biggest revenue stream by a long long way. Take them away and the site is struggling. I doubt many single men become site supporters." Most of the single men on the forum are site supporters, but we aren't the norm (in many ways). Thr proof that most men aren't site supporters is the number of messages and fabs you get when you reach Page1 Hottest Pics, because non-site-supporters can only see Page1. So, single men are the biggest freeloaders, not the biggest source of revenue. | |||
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"Cuz if there was - most of the women on here wouldn't be bombarded with messages... Solution? Well simple really... We need to get our lady friends on here also So get cracking people INVITE INVITE INVITE" He he he | |||
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"Come off it, the largest numbers are single men and they have the biggest incentive to be a site supporter. Common sense dictates they spend the most in that sense. And yes agreed about club nights!" If it's such a no-brainer, why are you not a site supporter ? Common sense? And single blokes? You'll have to do better than that to convince me (especially when you can just do a quick online now check and see that it's bollocks) | |||
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"Come off it, the largest numbers are single men and they have the biggest incentive to be a site supporter. Common sense dictates they spend the most in that sense. And yes agreed about club nights! If it's such a no-brainer, why are you not a site supporter ? Common sense? And single blokes? You'll have to do better than that to convince me (especially when you can just do a quick online now check and see that it's bollocks) " Me not being a site supporter has nothing to do with what I was saying. It's impossible to do an online check as the results are filtered. I don't know how you can argue against it. Let's say there are 40 single men to every other category. The supporters out of those 40 will be spending more on the site than the one of the other categories. | |||
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"Come off it, the largest numbers are single men and they have the biggest incentive to be a site supporter. Common sense dictates they spend the most in that sense. And yes agreed about club nights! If it's such a no-brainer, why are you not a site supporter ? Common sense? And single blokes? You'll have to do better than that to convince me (especially when you can just do a quick online now check and see that it's bollocks) Me not being a site supporter has nothing to do with what I was saying. It's impossible to do an online check as the results are filtered. I don't know how you can argue against it. Let's say there are 40 single men to every other category. The supporters out of those 40 will be spending more on the site than the one of the other categories. " Male to female ratio on here is 7:1 to 10:1 depending on Region | |||
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"Single men are clearly the biggest revenue stream by a long long way. Take them away and the site is struggling. I doubt many single men become site supporters. Most of the single men on the forum are site supporters, but we aren't the norm (in many ways). Thr proof that most men aren't site supporters is the number of messages and fabs you get when you reach Page1 Hottest Pics, because non-site-supporters can only see Page1. So, single men are the biggest freeloaders, not the biggest source of revenue. " Never even thought of that! I'm now very happy I've never made it beyond page 2!! | |||
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"Come off it, the largest numbers are single men and they have the biggest incentive to be a site supporter. Common sense dictates they spend the most in that sense. And yes agreed about club nights! If it's such a no-brainer, why are you not a site supporter ? Common sense? And single blokes? You'll have to do better than that to convince me (especially when you can just do a quick online now check and see that it's bollocks) Me not being a site supporter has nothing to do with what I was saying. It's impossible to do an online check as the results are filtered. I don't know how you can argue against it. Let's say there are 40 single men to every other category. The supporters out of those 40 will be spending more on the site than the one of the other categories. Male to female ratio on here is 7:1 to 10:1 depending on Region " stats, gotta luvre 'em I'd say it's lower in my area. | |||
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"Male to female ratio on here is 7:1 to 10:1 depending on Region stats, gotta luvre 'em I'd say it's lower in my area." Cool! Found the threads that worked it out! https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/395699 | |||
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"Single men are clearly the biggest revenue stream by a long long way. Take them away and the site is struggling. I doubt many single men become site supporters. Most of the single men on the forum are site supporters, but we aren't the norm (in many ways). Thr proof that most men aren't site supporters is the number of messages and fabs you get when you reach Page1 Hottest Pics, because non-site-supporters can only see Page1. So, single men are the biggest freeloaders, not the biggest source of revenue. Never even thought of that! I'm now very happy I've never made it beyond page 2!! " Now that I didn't know. I was chuffed with page 3 once. Many moons ago. | |||
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