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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Had a discussion at work about what a gf or bf would class as harmless flirting or what is classed as cheating?
So most do the workplace banter , maybe a suggestive joke. And most agreed that's fine.
But any texts, emails, or messenger type things were thought of as cheating in some way.
Thoughts? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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No flirting with others is cheating.
If you really love that bf or gf you would not need to flirt.
Suggestive flirts are also a no no. Then you are not in love with your bf or gf.
Texts are also a way of cheating.. Ditch them if they do. No one is second best. X |
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"Had a discussion at work about what a gf or bf would class as harmless flirting or what is classed as cheating?
So most do the workplace banter , maybe a suggestive joke. And most agreed that's fine.
But any texts, emails, or messenger type things were thought of as cheating in some way.
Thoughts? "
Sticking your penis in is cheating. Thinking that you might be able to stick it in is cheating. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Our definition is quite simple, anything that would hurt the feelings of the other, or has to be hidden, is cheating."
I agree with this.  anything that is within agreed boundaries within a relationship isn't cheating. |
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Someone once told me that their definition of cheating is doing something that they would have to hide from their partner. And I agree with this definition.
For example, if you send flirty texts and you have ever felt the need to hide them from your partner? I would say that is cheating (emotionally, anyway).
I do lots of flirting on here, but Marc knows about it all and doesn't mind one bit. So I wouldn't say its cheating.
Its about how you and your partner view your relationship, not some abstract idea of what is defined as cheating.
-Courtney |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Had a discussion at work about what a gf or bf would class as harmless flirting or what is classed as cheating?
So most do the workplace banter , maybe a suggestive joke. And most agreed that's fine.
But any texts, emails, or messenger type things were thought of as cheating in some way.
Thoughts? "
Exactly. People only flirt with people they find attractive. So therefore it's cheating. Imagine if your wife or gf was flirting. You wouldn't like it. works both ways really. |
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"If the other partner would class it as some kind of betrayal then yes it is. If they wouldn't, it's not. "
This for me. Anything that you know the other partner wouldn't like.
I don't think flirting is cheating.. nor do I find it disrespectful... Texting would depend on if it's hidden from the partner or not x |
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