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Do you prefer to get to know someone on here first?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Morning everyone. I get quite a few messages off women on here who dive straight in asking if I want to talk on the phone etc..
I would at least prefer to exchange messages first before phoning/meeting someone.
Am I being old fashioned or is that how everyone does it on here? haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Morning everyone. I get quite a few messages off women on here who dive straight in asking if I want to talk on the phone etc..
I would at least prefer to exchange messages first before phoning/meeting someone.
Am I being old fashioned or is that how everyone does it on here? haha"
No I completely agree why give your number to someone u know nothing about? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do like to chat and get to know some one first.
Its all part of the sensuality passion and fun.
Sharing jokes and likes and dislikes .
When you get to know some one first it makes meeting them so much more delightful  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On the other hand these women may have been messed around in the past and before they get into long drawn out chat they would like to establish straight away that you are a women too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Morning everyone. I get quite a few messages off women on here who dive straight in asking if I want to talk on the phone etc..
I would at least prefer to exchange messages first before phoning/meeting someone.
Am I being old fashioned or is that how everyone does it on here? haha"
   the reason they do it is because they've been chatting to loads of women for ages and its not been going anywhere or they suspect the woman is a man ,so they cut to chase and want to speak so they know you are a woman    |
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As most of my meets on here come through the forums, I can get a general feel of what the person is all about anyway. I much prefer to get to know someone first, and will swap phone numbers early doors if after a few pm's a meet seems imminent.
I state on my profile that I like a social first, but I know that's not everyone's cup of tea, nor is it practical if a lady has traveled 2 or 3 hundred miles to see me. |
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I like a few messages on here but then soon get bored of ping pong messages if the other person has no intention of meeting. But then i dont understand when i dont talk to them anymore.. yes i like talking but am not looking for chat buddies |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me communication is key..chatting on here and getting to know someone first then once you feel comfortable exchange numbers and flirt outrageously before luring victim into my web of debauchery, |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I do like to chat and get to know some one first.
Its all part of the sensuality passion and fun.
Sharing jokes and likes and dislikes .
When you get to know some one first it makes meeting them so much more delightful "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Morning everyone. I get quite a few messages off women on here who dive straight in asking if I want to talk on the phone etc..
I would at least prefer to exchange messages first before phoning/meeting someone.
Am I being old fashioned or is that how everyone does it on here? haha"
Great way to end an exchange here. I don't like phone calls or Skype or any of that, so if someone expects phone calls, jog on |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I like to get to know them on here, then move on to kik or whatsapp after, hopefully a social next then a meet (obviously sometimes distance doesn't allow for a social first!) bit those are rare.
I generally use the block function for anyone too heavy in their first message.
However there is a limit to how much I will talk to them first (well now their is) after chatting to a few guys for months on end and they can't commit for no good reason to a social or meet (the 'I'm gonna fuck you this way and that when we meet' brigade) there is getting to know someone and them using me for a wank. Obviously the ones I do chat too for months and have good reason why they can't meet or I can't etc, that's entirely different |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For one to one meets, yes, otherwise its a bit clinical or souless for me and I like fun and sensual.
In a club, in the heat of the moment- not so much. In fact talking too much in a club can work the opposite way! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Chatting on here & getting to know someone is all part of the allure & fun for me ....can't be a big of banter & flirting "
I can think of a couple of things which you may prefer over banter and flirting. May I show you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Chatting on here & getting to know someone is all part of the allure & fun for me ....can't be a big of banter & flirting
I can think of a couple of things which you may prefer over banter and flirting. May I show you? "
Please do |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Morning everyone. I get quite a few messages off women on here who dive straight in asking if I want to talk on the phone etc..
I would at least prefer to exchange messages first before phoning/meeting someone.
Am I being old fashioned or is that how everyone does it on here? haha"
I can understand why women do this with other women
I'd say a lot would want phone chat first to make sure your female before they start talking and getting to know you |
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