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When is too many too many?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Picking up from a response on another thread to a question re someone's friends list ...
I've noticed this being said more than once on threads in here ... if someone has loads of verifications they need therapy. They're slags/sluts okay, maybe not those actual words used but as good as. So when is too many too many? And who decides when it's too many? What if some are into gangbangs so shag ten men at a time? Does that make them slappers? If swinging is about open NSA sex, why is there a cut off and who decides or has the right to say what it is? |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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I wouldnt consider them slappers at all, it is their choice.
If I saw a profile and the person met different guys every second day, I would not meet them but that would be my choice. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't believe there is a 'too many'.
However, the need 'some' people have to detail every meet they have ever had is a different matter."
True, but that's a different thing altogether. I find the life stories on status's quite strange lol but each to their own  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some of mine are just social meets, not all mine are playtimes, i dont play with everyone i meet. And the gentleman i meet on as regular occasions as we can, doesnt comment every time as thats pointless.
I did think if they had a lot, that was bad but i didnt read so their list maybe like mine  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't believe there is a 'too many'.
However, the need 'some' people have to detail every meet they have ever had is a different matter.
True, but that's a different thing altogether. I find the life stories on status's quite strange lol but each to their own "
But maybe it was needed to stop explaining to everyone that messages why they didnt want to meet, it goes on par with comments that "women get 100 messages per day", if thats true, thats 100 messages to explain why i dont want to meet at this time  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Some of mine are just social meets, not all mine are playtimes, i dont play with everyone i meet. And the gentleman i meet on as regular occasions as we can, doesnt comment every time as thats pointless.
I did think if they had a lot, that was bad but i didnt read so their list maybe like mine "
I hear that kitten, but it almost sounds like you're trying to justify your verifications. Why should you explain that some are social and some are not, and the one that isn't is regular. Why does it matter? It's a sex site. I guess what I'm getting at is, do people look down on people who have sex with loads of folk? And would you care if they did? |
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I don't show my friends list, I don't believe other people need to know who I'm friends with.
Same goes for verifications, although my friend wrote me a really nice one at Christmas so I put it on display cause it made me smile. The rest are hidden because I don't believe it's anyone else's business who I fuck.
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"I don't believe there is a 'too many'.
However, the need 'some' people have to detail every meet they have ever had is a different matter.
True, but that's a different thing altogether. I find the life stories on status's quite strange lol but each to their own "
I am think more of people who not only have a long list but refer to it in a contaxt that implies it proves something or makes them 'better' in some way.
Whether someone wants to shag 1 person or 1000, it is their choice and fair play to them... neither is a 'better' or 'worse' person purely because of their sexual activity. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don't believe there is a 'too many'.
However, the need 'some' people have to detail every meet they have ever had is a different matter.
True, but that's a different thing altogether. I find the life stories on status's quite strange lol but each to their own
But maybe it was needed to stop explaining to everyone that messages why they didnt want to meet, it goes on par with comments that "women get 100 messages per day", if thats true, thats 100 messages to explain why i dont want to meet at this time "
That's not your life story lol some of them are an open argument on display. Beats day time telly tho |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't believe there is a 'too many'.
However, the need 'some' people have to detail every meet they have ever had is a different matter.
True, but that's a different thing altogether. I find the life stories on status's quite strange lol but each to their own
I am think more of people who not only have a long list but refer to it in a contaxt that implies it proves something or makes them 'better' in some way.
Whether someone wants to shag 1 person or 1000, it is their choice and fair play to them... neither is a 'better' or 'worse' person purely because of their sexual activity."
I agree. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some of mine are just social meets, not all mine are playtimes, i dont play with everyone i meet. And the gentleman i meet on as regular occasions as we can, doesnt comment every time as thats pointless.
I did think if they had a lot, that was bad but i didnt read so their list maybe like mine
I hear that kitten, but it almost sounds like you're trying to justify your verifications. Why should you explain that some are social and some are not, and the one that isn't is regular. Why does it matter? It's a sex site. I guess what I'm getting at is, do people look down on people who have sex with loads of folk? And would you care if they did?"
When i first registered yes, to be honest i did look down on them and vowed not to have as many yet here i am just over a year later, and ive as many  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Some of mine are just social meets, not all mine are playtimes, i dont play with everyone i meet. And the gentleman i meet on as regular occasions as we can, doesnt comment every time as thats pointless.
I did think if they had a lot, that was bad but i didnt read so their list maybe like mine
I hear that kitten, but it almost sounds like you're trying to justify your verifications. Why should you explain that some are social and some are not, and the one that isn't is regular. Why does it matter? It's a sex site. I guess what I'm getting at is, do people look down on people who have sex with loads of folk? And would you care if they did?
When i first registered yes, to be honest i did look down on them and vowed not to have as many yet here i am just over a year later, and ive as many "
lol, fair play with the honesty! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't believe there is a 'too many'.
However, the need 'some' people have to detail every meet they have ever had is a different matter.
True, but that's a different thing altogether. I find the life stories on status's quite strange lol but each to their own
But maybe it was needed to stop explaining to everyone that messages why they didnt want to meet, it goes on par with comments that "women get 100 messages per day", if thats true, thats 100 messages to explain why i dont want to meet at this time
That's not your life story lol some of them are an open argument on display. Beats day time telly tho "
Ah right, sorry got a bit paranoid there 
but that is ridiculous then, almost the same as facebook and other social network sites  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Picking up from a response on another thread to a question re someone's friends list ...
I've noticed this being said more than once on threads in here ... if someone has loads of verifications they need therapy. They're slags/sluts okay, maybe not those actual words used but as good as. So when is too many too many? And who decides when it's too many? What if some are into gangbangs so shag ten men at a time? Does that make them slappers? If swinging is about open NSA sex, why is there a cut off and who decides or has the right to say what it is?"
If this is in response to what i said in the other thread about therapy, it was a joke, hence the "lol" after it!
If not, crack on!
Whats that?
Oh my dog thinks she heard a troll?! LOL |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Picking up from a response on another thread to a question re someone's friends list ...
I've noticed this being said more than once on threads in here ... if someone has loads of verifications they need therapy. They're slags/sluts okay, maybe not those actual words used but as good as. So when is too many too many? And who decides when it's too many? What if some are into gangbangs so shag ten men at a time? Does that make them slappers? If swinging is about open NSA sex, why is there a cut off and who decides or has the right to say what it is?
If this is in response to what i said in the other thread about therapy, it was a joke, hence the "lol" after it!
If not, crack on!
Whats that?
Oh my dog thinks she heard a troll?! LOL "
it is, which is why I mentioned the thread, but also, as I stated it's also because it's been brought up more than once in other threads. I didn't post on that thread because it wasn't in direct response to your jokey one, it was in response to a subject I've noticed come up a few times and you just reminded me of it.
If you're calling me a troll, cool. Sticks and stones and all that ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Picking up from a response on another thread to a question re someone's friends list ...
I've noticed this being said more than once on threads in here ... if someone has loads of verifications they need therapy. They're slags/sluts okay, maybe not those actual words used but as good as. So when is too many too many? And who decides when it's too many? What if some are into gangbangs so shag ten men at a time? Does that make them slappers? If swinging is about open NSA sex, why is there a cut off and who decides or has the right to say what it is?
If this is in response to what i said in the other thread about therapy, it was a joke, hence the "lol" after it!
If not, crack on!
Whats that?
Oh my dog thinks she heard a troll?! LOL
it is, which is why I mentioned the thread, but also, as I stated it's also because it's been brought up more than once in other threads. I didn't post on that thread because it wasn't in direct response to your jokey one, it was in response to a subject I've noticed come up a few times and you just reminded me of it.
If you're calling me a troll, cool. Sticks and stones and all that ... "
Yup, coulda been me, coulda been you xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Picking up from a response on another thread to a question re someone's friends list ...
I've noticed this being said more than once on threads in here ... if someone has loads of verifications they need therapy. They're slags/sluts okay, maybe not those actual words used but as good as. So when is too many too many? And who decides when it's too many? What if some are into gangbangs so shag ten men at a time? Does that make them slappers? If swinging is about open NSA sex, why is there a cut off and who decides or has the right to say what it is?
If this is in response to what i said in the other thread about therapy, it was a joke, hence the "lol" after it!
If not, crack on!
Whats that?
Oh my dog thinks she heard a troll?! LOL
it is, which is why I mentioned the thread, but also, as I stated it's also because it's been brought up more than once in other threads. I didn't post on that thread because it wasn't in direct response to your jokey one, it was in response to a subject I've noticed come up a few times and you just reminded me of it.
If you're calling me a troll, cool. Sticks and stones and all that ...
Yup, coulda been me, coulda been you xx "
Now I got the song in my head, can't remember who sung it lol "could a been so beautiful .. could a been so right ..." |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Picking up from a response on another thread to a question re someone's friends list ...
I've noticed this being said more than once on threads in here ... if someone has loads of verifications they need therapy. They're slags/sluts okay, maybe not those actual words used but as good as. So when is too many too many? And who decides when it's too many? What if some are into gangbangs so shag ten men at a time? Does that make them slappers? If swinging is about open NSA sex, why is there a cut off and who decides or has the right to say what it is?
If this is in response to what i said in the other thread about therapy, it was a joke, hence the "lol" after it!
If not, crack on!
Whats that?
Oh my dog thinks she heard a troll?! LOL
it is, which is why I mentioned the thread, but also, as I stated it's also because it's been brought up more than once in other threads. I didn't post on that thread because it wasn't in direct response to your jokey one, it was in response to a subject I've noticed come up a few times and you just reminded me of it.
If you're calling me a troll, cool. Sticks and stones and all that ...
Yup, coulda been me, coulda been you xx
Now I got the song in my head, can't remember who sung it lol "could a been so beautiful .. could a been so right ..." "
The song was Could have been so Beautiful by Tiffany, and the chorus went like this:
tra la la
Could've been so beautiful
Could've been so right
Could've been my lover every day of my life
Could've been so beautiful
Could've been so right
I'll never hold what could've been
on a cold and lonely night...
Tra tra la la la |
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By (user no longer on site)
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like everything in life there are good trolls and bad trolls and trolls who are of their little trollies.
veris have loads of uses. they are links to friends and friends' friends and we have established new and interesting contacts to to peeps reading our veris.
I would have though a group of peeps who imagine themselves "open minded" would have been able to see things a bit more "outa the box"? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Picking up from a response on another thread to a question re someone's friends list ...
I've noticed this being said more than once on threads in here ... if someone has loads of verifications they need therapy. They're slags/sluts okay, maybe not those actual words used but as good as. So when is too many too many? And who decides when it's too many? What if some are into gangbangs so shag ten men at a time? Does that make them slappers? If swinging is about open NSA sex, why is there a cut off and who decides or has the right to say what it is?"
and to this I would say there is summat wrong with peeps who decided it is ok to swing "within reason". It is a pursuit of pleasure. Can one really have too much pleasure?
Enough is enough and too much is plenty. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't believe there is a 'too many'.
However, the need 'some' people have to detail every meet they have ever had is a different matter."
it's their choice, I really do not see the need for this derisory comment (albeit covertly implied) |
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