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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My personality doesn't change, but my libido can. Not always but sometimes I can have raging horn one minute then it's all a bit 'meh' after.
Probably not the best thing to admit to on a sex site, but true on occasion!  |
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
Chippenham Malmesbury area |
"The moment you've come? Do you run? Do you feel like running but resist the urge? Do you fall asleep? Or do you cuddle up for a sexy snooze, and then start again when you wake?"
Got to have a cuddly - feel 'robbed' if I don't and oh yes, if there's time, round two, three... |
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Hi Artemisia,
It's an odd one about being tempted to run. I think that a mindless fuck often involves lustful desire shouting out rational thought. Then once the urge has been sated with a mindless fuck, the mind is allowed back and the first thing it says is "How did that happen, what am I doing here?!?!?". Then the person runs.
Personally I like my mind to be present during sex, after all the brain is a fantastic sex organ. Afterwards, post coital skin contact is essential. Savour the glow, hold and be held. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The moment you've come? Do you run? Do you feel like running but resist the urge? Do you fall asleep? Or do you cuddle up for a sexy snooze, and then start again when you wake?"
I prefer to cuddle up snooze and get ready for round 2 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just add a little to this...
Can anything be taken from how a guy acts straight after he's cum? Him wanting to stay the night and snuggle and sleep in bed could mean that he likes you or him wanting to get the fuck outta dodge means he was purely after a fuck and nothing else? |
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I mainly prefer to clean up the gooey mess with some tissue.....then go to the bathroom and wash the lube/spunk off my hands  .
oil/vaseline used as a lubricant are particularly harder to wash out at times.. |
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Perhaps a bit more nuanced than that. Yes some men I know are mercenary about it and don't give a toss about the person.
However there are others who go into the situation with the best intentions but once the sexual haze has cleared they realise it's a horrible mistake. You might be perfect, but they realise they've had sex because they can as opposed to that being the right thing for them.
Does that make sense? I think it's about people who have a compulsive personality, whether its drink or sex, they go for gratification but regret it afterwards.
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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I don't do sexy snooze, I will happily play more if the other person wants me, if not then I will make a respectful farewell......
I am not into overnights or cuddles...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My personality doesn't change, but my libido can. Not always but sometimes I can have raging horn one minute then it's all a bit 'meh' after.
Probably not the best thing to admit to on a sex site, but true on occasion! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As soon as I've "spat the evil seed" i like to get on with stuff, if i take a day off work to fix a car or build a shed etc i have to have cum, otherwise i can't concentrate. I could be literally half way through my second spurt as it lands on some lucky bitch's face and I'll already be thinking about putting up a shelf . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends if it's morning or afternoon or evening or where. If in bed, sofa etc, post sex cuddles are a must. Will continue to play with boobs if spooning and I like to talk and whisper and talk about silly things, or what we did or what we're going to do next and build up to round 2. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't think there are too many who will honestly own up to losing interest in their partners after they've cum. "
My ex would do this to me every bloody time, roll over and go to sleep |
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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago
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"Depends if it's morning or afternoon or evening or where. If in bed, sofa etc, post sex cuddles are a must. Will continue to play with boobs if spooning and I like to talk and whisper and talk about silly things, or what we did or what we're going to do next and build up to round 2. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It does change yes, I feel very tired afterward.
But rather than be a git and roll over, I like to take this time to kiss and cuddle, shut my eyes and rest her head on my chest, then just relax together. I think this loss of energy is a very typical male thing, but with a little TLC thrown in, women seem perfectly happy with the way I deal with it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most guys here must be lying...there is a chemical released in the body after cumming which makes you tired. I certainly feel these effects! After a big session I will need 5 minutes to lie on my own and cool down. We will snuggle after but usually I wish said person would leave me alone. |
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"Most guys here must be lying...there is a chemical released in the body after cumming which makes you tired. I certainly feel these effects! After a big session I will need 5 minutes to lie on my own and cool down. We will snuggle after but usually I wish said person would leave me alone. "
Well I must be deficient in that particular chemical. I find I am energised after sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If am playing on my own once is enough and I lose the urge to play again,
But with a Woman 5-10 minutes of chilling/chatting or cuddling and I would find it impossible not to get aroused again, Saying that the first round doesn't last long enough to feel tired  |
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I don't always find I can repeat quickly, but I feel energised and am happy to do whatever the lady wants...that could be snuggle, continue playing if she needs more, or go make her a cup of tea lol.
I am reminded of a biology lesson at school when the teacher asked "What happens when the sperm meets the egg?" A smartarse kid answered "You light a cigarette" |
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By *rtemisia OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Just add a little to this...
Can anything be taken from how a guy acts straight after he's cum? Him wanting to stay the night and snuggle and sleep in bed could mean that he likes you or him wanting to get the fuck outta dodge means he was purely after a fuck and nothing else?"
Hmmm, well I wonder... I had an experience a while ago where the conversation was great and the sex was phenomenal, but he changed quite literally the moment he came. Distant. Cold. Couldn't wait to get out of there. Almost felt as though he was leaving a crime scene. Guilt perhaps? Perhaps he had a significant other in his heart at that moment. Thought he was single, but his behaviour said otherwise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just add a little to this...
Can anything be taken from how a guy acts straight after he's cum? Him wanting to stay the night and snuggle and sleep in bed could mean that he likes you or him wanting to get the fuck outta dodge means he was purely after a fuck and nothing else?
Hmmm, well I wonder... I had an experience a while ago where the conversation was great and the sex was phenomenal, but he changed quite literally the moment he came. Distant. Cold. Couldn't wait to get out of there. Almost felt as though he was leaving a crime scene. Guilt perhaps? Perhaps he had a significant other in his heart at that moment. Thought he was single, but his behaviour said otherwise."
That's just awful x |
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By *rtemisia OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Just add a little to this...
Can anything be taken from how a guy acts straight after he's cum? Him wanting to stay the night and snuggle and sleep in bed could mean that he likes you or him wanting to get the fuck outta dodge means he was purely after a fuck and nothing else?
Hmmm, well I wonder... I had an experience a while ago where the conversation was great and the sex was phenomenal, but he changed quite literally the moment he came. Distant. Cold. Couldn't wait to get out of there. Almost felt as though he was leaving a crime scene. Guilt perhaps? Perhaps he had a significant other in his heart at that moment. Thought he was single, but his behaviour said otherwise.
That's just awful x"
It cancelled out everything good which had passed between us and I left feeling de-energised. |
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That sounds very sad, if his attitude after sex spoiled it for you.
Even in a club I always offer to chat a while, though I appreciate that in clubs some people prefer not. On a meet when I've got to know someone a bit beforehand I would consider myself very rude if I switched off after the event. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think that sadly that sort of behaviour points to the 'fancy a fuck' brigade who will do or say anything to get what they want. They don't want the social side they don't want 'you' frankly they're just masturbating using someone else's body. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think that sadly that sort of behaviour points to the 'fancy a fuck' brigade who will do or say anything to get what they want. They don't want the social side they don't want 'you' frankly they're just masturbating using someone else's body. "
Wet wank springs to mind |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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An ex of mine is like Jekyll and Hyde before and after he has come. Is the most filthy, aggressive, demanding lover before he has come but literally straight after he is the most gentle, caring, serene guy ever n loves to just cuddle up. We split about 10 years ago but have always stayed friends and occasionally still play together and in all that time I've never known him able to have any other kind of sex.xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a friend who would fall asleep straight after coming whilst mumbling sorry it's psychosomatic. He would fall into a deep sleep for about half an hour,then wake up refreshed but with no more desire for more sex. |
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