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Ok random question time  What's people's _iews on going to the loo in front of your partner? Do you find it awkward, especially the first time you do it? Are you a person who's happy to do this early in a relationship or does it take you longer to feel comfortable enough around your partner to do it? Maybe you don't give it any thought at all. Or are you someone who never does this or doesn't allow it? Or maybe you even find it quite arousing. Oh that's a lot of questions!
Me personally, being the deviant that I am are quite happy to have a woman pee in front of me. Though I myself can sometimes be quite pee shy around someone I don't know too well, so may take me a bit of time to lead up to this.
I'd be interested to know people's thoughts on the subject, being the oddball that I am |
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"Ok random question time What's people's _iews on going to the loo in front of your partner? Do you find it awkward, especially the first time you do it? Are you a person who's happy to do this early in a relationship or does it take you longer to feel comfortable enough around your partner to do it? Maybe you don't give it any thought at all. Or are you someone who never does this or doesn't allow it? Or maybe you even find it quite arousing. Oh that's a lot of questions!
Me personally, being the deviant that I am are quite happy to have a woman pee in front of me. Though I myself can sometimes be quite pee shy around someone I don't know too well, so may take me a bit of time to lead up to this.
I'd be interested to know people's thoughts on the subject, being the oddball that I am "
I've done it from 1st day lol x |
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My ex was really open and therefore I just got used to it with him
A couple of playmates love to watch me pee so I'm ok with leaving the door open or them coming in to watch
For anyone else id lock the door and keep it private |
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Ha! A thread I can partake in, I have always and will continue to piss and shit in front of my ex husband! While he is in the bath, I'm always taking a dump!  |
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Don't mind peeing in front of sweet,but any other business is a totally private affair.I don't even like anyone trying to talk to me when I'm having a pooh. |
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"Ha! A thread I can partake in, I have always and will continue to piss and shit in front of my ex husband! While he is in the bath, I'm always taking a dump!
I like the way you think   "
Why thank you kind sir |
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I always went in private until I had a big operation which made me fairly imobile. I had no choice but to pee infront of him and especially needed his help when he took me out as some disabled loos aren't always very suitable for someone with limited mobilty.
However I have only peed infront of him |
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I'd pee in front of the world.. I don't care.. It's weird though cos I can't wee when it comes to watersports... It's like my brain goes.. Nope, you're not on the loo or squatting in a bush so no peeing for you.
I'm a magical unicorn and I don't go number 2  |
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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago
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I'll pee infront of anyone, that doesn't bother me.
I've lived with four men over the years. Three of them would be completely open about all toileting and bodily functions (especially changing tampons) and as it was initiated by them, I followed suit. I'd never just presume it was okay though with someone I'm not incredibly intimate with. It doesn't bother me though. I like the idea of not having to hide anything from the person I'm cohabiting with and they feel the same back.
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"I'd pee in front of the world.. I don't care.. It's weird though cos I can't wee when it comes to watersports... It's like my brain goes.. Nope, you're not on the loo or squatting in a bush so no peeing for you.
I'm a magical unicorn and I don't go number 2 "
I can be like that. I've been known to suffer from pee shyness. It's all in the mind  |
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"I'll pee infront of anyone, that doesn't bother me.
I've lived with four men over the years. Three of them would be completely open about all toileting and bodily functions (especially changing tampons) and as it was initiated by them, I followed suit. I'd never just presume it was okay though with someone I'm not incredibly intimate with. It doesn't bother me though. I like the idea of not having to hide anything from the person I'm cohabiting with and they feel the same back.
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I think it's nice if you can be totally open like that |
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On holiday i was having a shower and my (ex)fella came in and sat on the loo, so i started doing a sexy show, rubbing my boobs on the glass and that, then i realised he was taking a dump and the sexy left me. Luckily it didn't smell, and i didn't mind him taking a dump (even though there was another toilet) but yeah the sexy left. |
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"On holiday i was having a shower and my (ex)fella came in and sat on the loo, so i started doing a sexy show, rubbing my boobs on the glass and that, then i realised he was taking a dump and the sexy left me. Luckily it didn't smell, and i didn't mind him taking a dump (even though there was another toilet) but yeah the sexy left."
Yeah, that's understandable. That doesn't scream romance to me! |
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My ex used to be happy leaving the door open or using the toilet when I was in the shower or shaving and I've always thought it lacked class.
I haven't really analysed it until now. I think it's not actually the peeing and the pooping that I find offensive because I can't really see what's going on, it's the wiping!!
Now I have another thing to discuss with my therapist....! |
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"On holiday i was having a shower and my (ex)fella came in and sat on the loo, so i started doing a sexy show, rubbing my boobs on the glass and that, then i realised he was taking a dump and the sexy left me. Luckily it didn't smell, and i didn't mind him taking a dump (even though there was another toilet) but yeah the sexy left.
Yeah, that's understandable. That doesn't scream romance to me! "
I'm not very romantic anyway, i just asked him if he was taking a dump and laughed and went back to having a proper shower. |
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"My ex used to be happy leaving the door open or using the toilet when I was in the shower or shaving and I've always thought it lacked class.
I haven't really analysed it until now. I think it's not actually the peeing and the pooping that I find offensive because I can't really see what's going on, it's the wiping!!
Now I have another thing to discuss with my therapist....!"
Leave/look awake when they wipe xD |
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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago
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"I'll pee infront of anyone, that doesn't bother me.
I've lived with four men over the years. Three of them would be completely open about all toileting and bodily functions (especially changing tampons) and as it was initiated by them, I followed suit. I'd never just presume it was okay though with someone I'm not incredibly intimate with. It doesn't bother me though. I like the idea of not having to hide anything from the person I'm cohabiting with and they feel the same back.
I think it's nice if you can be totally open like that "
I should also say those men were the type that would grab tweezers and pluck your ingrown pubic hair or squeeze spots or when you tried to explain how heavy/light your period was, they'd say 'show me.'
I often find that the dominant guys from the fet scene, in particular, the sadists, are quite curious about bodily function. Not in a kink way... In a fascinated 'your body is mine' kind of way. They won't let you hide any part of you.
It's also not uncommon in my experience, if I need to pee or anything mid scene and ask to go to the bathroom, then it's a dead cert they are coming with you. |
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Peeing in front of people isn't a problem. Number 2's should be kept a private activity at all times, even when in a LTR. I must be left alone and I don't wish to be present when other people do them either. |
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"My ex used to be happy leaving the door open or using the toilet when I was in the shower or shaving and I've always thought it lacked class.
I haven't really analysed it until now. I think it's not actually the peeing and the pooping that I find offensive because I can't really see what's going on, it's the wiping!!
Now I have another thing to discuss with my therapist....!
Leave/look awake when they wipe xD "
Even when I take my dog for a walk and she's having a poo she will give me a "is a little privacy to much to ask?" Look! |
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"I'll pee infront of anyone, that doesn't bother me.
I've lived with four men over the years. Three of them would be completely open about all toileting and bodily functions (especially changing tampons) and as it was initiated by them, I followed suit. I'd never just presume it was okay though with someone I'm not incredibly intimate with. It doesn't bother me though. I like the idea of not having to hide anything from the person I'm cohabiting with and they feel the same back.
I think it's nice if you can be totally open like that
I should also say those men were the type that would grab tweezers and pluck your ingrown pubic hair or squeeze spots or when you tried to explain how heavy/light your period was, they'd say 'show me.'
I often find that the dominant guys from the fet scene, in particular, the sadists, are quite curious about bodily function. Not in a kink way... In a fascinated 'your body is mine' kind of way. They won't let you hide any part of you.
It's also not uncommon in my experience, if I need to pee or anything mid scene and ask to go to the bathroom, then it's a dead cert they are coming with you. "
First chat I had on the phone with my then girlfriend now wife was whilst she had the runs lol.
Ive wiped her bum, changed her sanitary towel when shes d*unk.
Bodily functions are part of everyday life. Cant see what the fuss is |
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"I'll pee infront of anyone, that doesn't bother me.
I've lived with four men over the years. Three of them would be completely open about all toileting and bodily functions (especially changing tampons) and as it was initiated by them, I followed suit. I'd never just presume it was okay though with someone I'm not incredibly intimate with. It doesn't bother me though. I like the idea of not having to hide anything from the person I'm cohabiting with and they feel the same back.
I think it's nice if you can be totally open like that
I should also say those men were the type that would grab tweezers and pluck your ingrown pubic hair or squeeze spots or when you tried to explain how heavy/light your period was, they'd say 'show me.'
I often find that the dominant guys from the fet scene, in particular, the sadists, are quite curious about bodily function. Not in a kink way... In a fascinated 'your body is mine' kind of way. They won't let you hide any part of you.
It's also not uncommon in my experience, if I need to pee or anything mid scene and ask to go to the bathroom, then it's a dead cert they are coming with you.
First chat I had on the phone with my then girlfriend now wife was whilst she had the runs lol.
Ive wiped her bum, changed her sanitary towel when shes d*unk.
Bodily functions are part of everyday life. Cant see what the fuss is"
Now that's a good relationship x |
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"I'll pee infront of anyone, that doesn't bother me.
I've lived with four men over the years. Three of them would be completely open about all toileting and bodily functions (especially changing tampons) and as it was initiated by them, I followed suit. I'd never just presume it was okay though with someone I'm not incredibly intimate with. It doesn't bother me though. I like the idea of not having to hide anything from the person I'm cohabiting with and they feel the same back.
I think it's nice if you can be totally open like that
I should also say those men were the type that would grab tweezers and pluck your ingrown pubic hair or squeeze spots or when you tried to explain how heavy/light your period was, they'd say 'show me.'
I often find that the dominant guys from the fet scene, in particular, the sadists, are quite curious about bodily function. Not in a kink way... In a fascinated 'your body is mine' kind of way. They won't let you hide any part of you.
It's also not uncommon in my experience, if I need to pee or anything mid scene and ask to go to the bathroom, then it's a dead cert they are coming with you.
First chat I had on the phone with my then girlfriend now wife was whilst she had the runs lol.
Ive wiped her bum, changed her sanitary towel when shes d*unk.
Bodily functions are part of everyday life. Cant see what the fuss is
Now that's a good relationship x"
Now that's what you call an intimate relationship |
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"I'll pee infront of anyone, that doesn't bother me.
I've lived with four men over the years. Three of them would be completely open about all toileting and bodily functions (especially changing tampons) and as it was initiated by them, I followed suit. I'd never just presume it was okay though with someone I'm not incredibly intimate with. It doesn't bother me though. I like the idea of not having to hide anything from the person I'm cohabiting with and they feel the same back.
I think it's nice if you can be totally open like that
I should also say those men were the type that would grab tweezers and pluck your ingrown pubic hair or squeeze spots or when you tried to explain how heavy/light your period was, they'd say 'show me.'
I often find that the dominant guys from the fet scene, in particular, the sadists, are quite curious about bodily function. Not in a kink way... In a fascinated 'your body is mine' kind of way. They won't let you hide any part of you.
It's also not uncommon in my experience, if I need to pee or anything mid scene and ask to go to the bathroom, then it's a dead cert they are coming with you. "
I must admit I've always been fascinated by women's more intimate solitary moments (though periods definitely don't interest me ). Things men aren't normally invited to. I think a lot of men find being privy to such moments a bit of a turn on. |
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forgot my nice ex, the only one i like lol, used to follow me to the toilet when we were chatting and i used to poop in front of him. one time ended up giving him a bj while busy.
probably tmi, but i wanna see what everyone else will admit to now. |
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"forgot my nice ex, the only one i like lol, used to follow me to the toilet when we were chatting and i used to poop in front of him. one time ended up giving him a bj while busy.
probably tmi, but i wanna see what everyone else will admit to now. "
You can never have too much information! I want to see what others will admit to now as well |
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When I was with my long term ex of 9 years I'd go in the bathroom and have a pee if he was in the bath but not for a poo, don't think he would have cared but it's not how I'd want someone I'm attracted to to see me. Once we camped up a mountain and I needed a number 2 and I held it in for hours having been outside all day on the bikes, couldn't shag cos I had a bad belly so he told me to just go in a bush so I did, the next morning when it got light he went looking for it and made fun of my poo saying how big it was!
With new guys it's still not something I'd do in front of them, a pee is easy enough but not a number 2.
Even when I met a guy off my kickboxing forum and knowing it would have made his life complete if I'd done some scat stuff with him but I couldn't bring myself to lay a brick in front of someone. That being said he did bend me over the sink in the hotel and used a douche on my arse then stood by the door asking how I like my tea whilst I was sat on the loo with arse juice dribbling out. |
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"If its a pee I couldn't care less. Shite time is my time though!"
I second this one, I live with mr and a 4yo.. I use going for no 2 as a. Excuse to get 5mins to myself |
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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago
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"forgot my nice ex, the only one i like lol, used to follow me to the toilet when we were chatting and i used to poop in front of him. one time ended up giving him a bj while busy.
probably tmi, but i wanna see what everyone else will admit to now. "
I've had two exes that would follow me to the toilet to be sucked off while I was on it. |
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"When I was with my long term ex of 9 years I'd go in the bathroom and have a pee if he was in the bath but not for a poo, don't think he would have cared but it's not how I'd want someone I'm attracted to to see me. Once we camped up a mountain and I needed a number 2 and I held it in for hours having been outside all day on the bikes, couldn't shag cos I had a bad belly so he told me to just go in a bush so I did, the next morning when it got light he went looking for it and made fun of my poo saying how big it was!
With new guys it's still not something I'd do in front of them, a pee is easy enough but not a number 2.
Even when I met a guy off my kickboxing forum and knowing it would have made his life complete if I'd done some scat stuff with him but I couldn't bring myself to lay a brick in front of someone. That being said he did bend me over the sink in the hotel and used a douche on my arse then stood by the door asking how I like my tea whilst I was sat on the loo with arse juice dribbling out. "
Seawitch I just love the way you speak Always refreshingly honest
Yeah, don't you just hate it when people make fun of your poo! |
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By *ilacWoman
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"I'll pee infront of anyone, that doesn't bother me.
I've lived with four men over the years. Three of them would be completely open about all toileting and bodily functions (especially changing tampons) and as it was initiated by them, I followed suit. I'd never just presume it was okay though with someone I'm not incredibly intimate with. It doesn't bother me though. I like the idea of not having to hide anything from the person I'm cohabiting with and they feel the same back.
I think it's nice if you can be totally open like that
I should also say those men were the type that would grab tweezers and pluck your ingrown pubic hair or squeeze spots or when you tried to explain how heavy/light your period was, they'd say 'show me.'
I often find that the dominant guys from the fet scene, in particular, the sadists, are quite curious about bodily function. Not in a kink way... In a fascinated 'your body is mine' kind of way. They won't let you hide any part of you.
It's also not uncommon in my experience, if I need to pee or anything mid scene and ask to go to the bathroom, then it's a dead cert they are coming with you.
I must admit I've always been fascinated by women's more intimate solitary moments (though periods definitely don't interest me ). Things men aren't normally invited to. I think a lot of men find being privy to such moments a bit of a turn on."
I've had a fair few exes and fuckbuddies that have asked to change my tampon. Or not even asked, just pulled it out before sex then got straight to fetch a new one after sex and just attempted to replace it. Again, nothing sexual. Just curiosity. Omg and men and make up. Loads that have sat and watched me putting on make up and I've had to explain each product and what it's for and then they've attempted to put it on me. |
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"forgot my nice ex, the only one i like lol, used to follow me to the toilet when we were chatting and i used to poop in front of him. one time ended up giving him a bj while busy.
probably tmi, but i wanna see what everyone else will admit to now.
I've had two exes that would follow me to the toilet to be sucked off while I was on it. "
mmm did they sniff your panties too |
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We don't mind seeing each other pee on occasion and are quite happy indulging in watersports, but number 2's.. No no no no..
She is my sexy gorgeous woman, a fragrant rose... And I really do not want to even think about that function.. Ditto cutting toenails.. In fact.. |
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"When I was with my long term ex of 9 years I'd go in the bathroom and have a pee if he was in the bath but not for a poo, don't think he would have cared but it's not how I'd want someone I'm attracted to to see me. Once we camped up a mountain and I needed a number 2 and I held it in for hours having been outside all day on the bikes, couldn't shag cos I had a bad belly so he told me to just go in a bush so I did, the next morning when it got light he went looking for it and made fun of my poo saying how big it was!
With new guys it's still not something I'd do in front of them, a pee is easy enough but not a number 2.
Even when I met a guy off my kickboxing forum and knowing it would have made his life complete if I'd done some scat stuff with him but I couldn't bring myself to lay a brick in front of someone. That being said he did bend me over the sink in the hotel and used a douche on my arse then stood by the door asking how I like my tea whilst I was sat on the loo with arse juice dribbling out.
Seawitch I just love the way you speak Always refreshingly honest
Yeah, don't you just hate it when people make fun of your poo! "
I'd never had anyone critique a poo before, didn't think it was that big either just a regular one!
The last guy I dated wasn't in to anything kinky but think I introduced a few things to him. First time he went for a pee in my house I asked to go with him to hold his willy, reluctantly agreed and I'd wank him whilst he was trying to pee and then he'd get a hard on and I'd suck him then he'd try and pee again, I was basically trying to get him to piss in my face but was doing baby steps! |
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"forgot my nice ex, the only one i like lol, used to follow me to the toilet when we were chatting and i used to poop in front of him. one time ended up giving him a bj while busy.
probably tmi, but i wanna see what everyone else will admit to now.
I've had two exes that would follow me to the toilet to be sucked off while I was on it. "
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Pee find, I love water sports so I have no problem using the toilet in from of somebody if its only a pee
I would never do a shit infront of anybody though |
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"When I was with my long term ex of 9 years I'd go in the bathroom and have a pee if he was in the bath but not for a poo, don't think he would have cared but it's not how I'd want someone I'm attracted to to see me. Once we camped up a mountain and I needed a number 2 and I held it in for hours having been outside all day on the bikes, couldn't shag cos I had a bad belly so he told me to just go in a bush so I did, the next morning when it got light he went looking for it and made fun of my poo saying how big it was!
With new guys it's still not something I'd do in front of them, a pee is easy enough but not a number 2.
Even when I met a guy off my kickboxing forum and knowing it would have made his life complete if I'd done some scat stuff with him but I couldn't bring myself to lay a brick in front of someone. That being said he did bend me over the sink in the hotel and used a douche on my arse then stood by the door asking how I like my tea whilst I was sat on the loo with arse juice dribbling out.
Seawitch I just love the way you speak Always refreshingly honest
Yeah, don't you just hate it when people make fun of your poo!
I'd never had anyone critique a poo before, didn't think it was that big either just a regular one!
The last guy I dated wasn't in to anything kinky but think I introduced a few things to him. First time he went for a pee in my house I asked to go with him to hold his willy, reluctantly agreed and I'd wank him whilst he was trying to pee and then he'd get a hard on and I'd suck him then he'd try and pee again, I was basically trying to get him to piss in my face but was doing baby steps! "
That is seriously hot!  I really like the way you think |
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"forgot my nice ex, the only one i like lol, used to follow me to the toilet when we were chatting and i used to poop in front of him. one time ended up giving him a bj while busy.
probably tmi, but i wanna see what everyone else will admit to now.
I've had two exes that would follow me
to the toilet to be sucked off while I was on it. "
I've done this too! A pee only though never a poo |
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I'll pee in front of someone. It doesn't bother me.
As for the other? It's like Fort Knox. Door shut and locked. I don't care how well I know someone.
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Nope....hate it....even after 3 years I'll run the tap or shower if I think he's in earshot (he doesn't stand outside the loo obviously lol I mean if we are in a hotel room or something )
On one occasion he went for a wee without shutting the door but I made sure he was aware this was not acceptable. |
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I'm really uptight about bodily functions. Would die of embarrassment even breaking wind never mind peeing or pooing in front of someone. Prefer others not to do it in front of me too. Would put me right off them |
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"I made my partner laugh once and he pissed all over the bathroom floor. It was one of my favourite moments together. "
My hubby fell over while taking a d*unken wee. There was wee everywhere! It was dripping from the ceiling! |
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By *artytwoCouple
over a year ago
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Some of you are so precious lol. When you've been married for ever all sorts of 'sordid' stuff goes on.
Once when we were on holiday I got salmonella and there was me lying in the shower with foulness flying out of both ends and she had to hose me down with the shower head. |
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"Some of you are so precious lol. When you've been married for ever all sorts of 'sordid' stuff goes on.
Once when we were on holiday I got salmonella and there was me lying in the shower with foulness flying out of both ends and she had to hose me down with the shower head. "
I'm hardly precious of course illness is different but on a day to day not for me x |
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I once sat in a bog with a mirror directly opposite, from that day on I swore never to subject another living sole to that sight, I still wake up sweating 30 years later.  |
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