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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I joined this site after the breakdown of my marriage in the hope of just having a little fun but it's really hard to contact people when you're crippled with self doubt. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I joined this site after the breakdown of my marriage in the hope of just having a little fun but it's really hard to contact people when you're crippled with self doubt. "
You're contacting a lot of people now, good luck dude. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I joined this site after the breakdown of my marriage in the hope of just having a little fun but it's really hard to contact people when you're crippled with self doubt.
You're contacting a lot of people now, good luck dude."
Same here matey, the forum is the place to be. All the best.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd suggest going to a social. Neutral setting where you can meet like minded people with no pressure to chat and flirt. Ease yourself into it rather than looking for a meet straight away |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd imagine that this site will be very good therapy for you, - just reading the Charlie Sheen thread, can only do good for ones self esteem! ")
But good luck mate! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you're having alot of self doubt I don't think you should be pressuring yourself into meeting people. Maybe just chat to begin with, a few social meets. I've been where you are. You really need to sort your head first before you dive in here!!
I've found you've got to have a tough skin on here and at the mo you may not be in the right frame of mind. Just my humble thoughts. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd suggest going to a social. Neutral setting where you can meet like minded people with no pressure to chat and flirt. Ease yourself into it rather than looking for a meet straight away"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What are you doubting about yourself?"
Everything and yet at the same time nothing in particular. I'm just lacking the confidence to send that first message to someone. That's why I thought I'd try the forum because I'm not contacting anyone specific
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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A thick skin is a useful tool on here - you will face a lot of rejection.
If being here acts as a means of dealing with the bigger rejection - good luck and enjoy.
If it will make things worse - come back when the time is right for you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I joined this site after the breakdown of my marriage in the hope of just having a little fun but it's really hard to contact people when you're crippled with self doubt. "
Define just having a little fun?
If you mean sex- as a single male you need to know that the odds are stacked against you And you need a tough hide.
Personally, I don't think meeting when depressed is necessarily the best idea- I have seen some people not be able to handle it, they are not always thinking clearly x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What are you doubting about yourself?
Everything and yet at the same time nothing in particular. I'm just lacking the confidence to send that first message to someone. That's why I thought I'd try the forum because I'm not contacting anyone specific
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Send me a message if you want a chat mate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I joined online 'dating'/sex sites when my relationship went tits up.
At times i needed a break from it because i didn't trust myself, just do whatever feels right for you at the time and never feel under any pressure to do anything at all. |
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