What is being sexy?
I know we all find different things appealling, so that's not really where I am coming from. I don't mean what things do we find sexy... such as clothes, eyes, shoes and so on.
My thoughts are more around what do we mean by saying something is sexy? What does sexy mean? And more to the point does it mean different things to men and women generally?
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over a year ago
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some people just seem to have an aura of sexy. I think it's our genes though, recognising other genes as into sexual, but what makes a gene sexy or maybe it's about how many of them are sexy? I feel pretty sure that it is genetic tho. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i think it is one of the attractions of swinging. You get to enjoy the sexy bits and don't have to know about those put off unsexy bits of a person.
You can cope with those if you have strong feelings (I don't say love cos I don't understand what this is) but if you haven't those unsexy bit, well u just don't wanna know do ya? |
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over a year ago
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I rarely call anyone sexy - but the term itself, some people just have something about them - it doesn't have to be a smutty attitude or revealing clothes - some people just have a presence.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"what ever turns you on is sexy  "
It might sound weird but I won't define everything that turns me on as 'sexy'. For me sexy is something not necessarily directly related to sex but makes them more appealing |
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over a year ago
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"Women often say things like "I wear this because it makes me feel sexy"
I don't think I have ever heard a man say "I wear this to feel sexy" (shut up View!)."
ha ha, men????? they don't need a lot do they?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lets see, most of the nice ladies above= sexy
me=unsexy
there, problem solved.
Seriously though, its all in the eye of the beholder, theres common themes but its what makes you go mmmmmm and not urggggh as one person already stated. |
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"The answer is...something to which we are drawn  "
I've been thinking about this all day and that's about as close to it as I can think of.
Sexy for me is something that triggers my mind to make my bits tingle. I would never call myself sexy, not in a million years but there are many descriptives I wouldn't use. There are also many I would, that's just not one of them.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ive been told my eyes are sexy only recently i have taken note
i was flattered to learn this
sexy for me is eyes a smile and flirtatious chat with someone u find attractive |
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over a year ago
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Personally I think it’s just a shortened version of sexually appealing and can be used to describe anything really that’s sexually appealing to a person. |
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"Personally I think it’s just a shortened version of sexually appealing and can be used to describe anything really that’s sexually appealing to a person. "
I would absolutely call myself sexual. Without a doubt. Sexy or sexually appealing not a chance. I'm not sure if there's a difference, but in my head there is.  |
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sexy for me is eyes a smile and flirtatious chat with someone u find attractive"
I have a few pairs of shoes which I think are sexy... but they are not really into flirty conversation... oops sorry.
Tell ya what... replace the word 'sexy' in these statements:
I have sexy eyes.
His smile is really sexy.
I feel sexy in this dress. |
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sexy for me is eyes a smile and flirtatious chat with someone u find attractive
I have a few pairs of shoes which I think are sexy... but they are not really into flirty conversation... oops sorry.
Tell ya what... replace the word 'sexy' in these statements:
I have sexy eyes.
His smile is really sexy.
I feel sexy in this dress."
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sexy for me is eyes a smile and flirtatious chat with someone u find attractive
I have a few pairs of shoes which I think are sexy... but they are not really into flirty conversation... oops sorry.
Tell ya what... replace the word 'sexy' in these statements:
I have sexy eyes.
His smile is really sexy.
I feel sexy in this dress."
Eh...that's changing the qustion  |
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sexy for me is eyes a smile and flirtatious chat with someone u find attractive
I have a few pairs of shoes which I think are sexy... but they are not really into flirty conversation... oops sorry.
Tell ya what... replace the word 'sexy' in these statements:
I have sexy eyes.
His smile is really sexy.
I feel sexy in this dress."
I think its difficult to define. But I will try:
Her smile makes my heart beat a little faster, sends tingles down my spine and makes me want to be in physical contact with her.
Ok now someone pass round the puke bucket
How would you define sexy Polo? |
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sexy for me is eyes a smile and flirtatious chat with someone u find attractive
I have a few pairs of shoes which I think are sexy... but they are not really into flirty conversation... oops sorry.
Tell ya what... replace the word 'sexy' in these statements:
I have sexy eyes.
His smile is really sexy.
I feel sexy in this dress.
Eh...that's changing the qustion "
Not really it isn't. |
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sexy for me is eyes a smile and flirtatious chat with someone u find attractive
I have a few pairs of shoes which I think are sexy... but they are not really into flirty conversation... oops sorry.
Tell ya what... replace the word 'sexy' in these statements:
I have sexy eyes.
His smile is really sexy.
I feel sexy in this dress.
I think its difficult to define. But I will try:
Her smile makes my heart beat a little faster, sends tingles down my spine and makes me want to be in physical contact with her.
Ok now someone pass round the puke bucket
How would you define sexy Polo?"
I probably use it most in the context of being up for it or aroused. |
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over a year ago
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I find self confidence, a sharp wit, a twinkle in the eyes, a velvety voice, optimism, a good sense of humour, a nice scent, and gentlemanly behaviours to be very sexy! |
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"I find self confidence, a sharp wit, a twinkle in the eyes, a velvety voice, optimism, a good sense of humour, a nice scent, and gentlemanly behaviours to be very sexy! "
You will luv me |
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sexy to me isn't a thing... it's a feeling.... it's and unexpected pleasure that makes me in turn feel good inside, happy and stimulated. There fore this can be caused by many things... a look, a smell, an item, a person, a memory anything really that gives me the above feeling... thats sexy to me |
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"I rarely call anyone sexy - but the term itself, some people just have something about them - it doesn't have to be a smutty attitude or revealing clothes - some people just have a presence.
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I agree. It's an aura or as you say a presence. It's not even necessarily anything tangible; it just is. |
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sexy for me is eyes a smile and flirtatious chat with someone u find attractive
I have a few pairs of shoes which I think are sexy... but they are not really into flirty conversation... oops sorry.
Tell ya what... replace the word 'sexy' in these statements:
I have sexy eyes.
His smile is really sexy.
I feel sexy in this dress."
I have solicitous eyes.
His smile is intoxicating.
I feel delicious in this dress.
Best I could do, that was harder than it looked  |
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