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Fab swingers seems to be useless for single guys!! Discuss
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It works perfectly well for decent guys with good profiles  "
I connect only with men who I approach first on here, and they've all been lovely. And they've all had good profiles.
Effort in = reward out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe try the site with more fish?"
or maybe try being pro-active on this one?...I sense a lack of effort to be honest..even in the OPs appearingly short lived profile. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
Arranged 2 social meets for this weekend with single males....guess what? They both went quiet and got back to me at 8pm tonight wanting to meet now!
I don't think so! And that was after chatting to them for a couple of days!
Seems most singles just like the thought of it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe try the site with more fish?
or maybe try being pro-active on this one?...I sense a lack of effort to be honest..even in the OPs appearingly short lived profile."
What is OP?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe try the site with more fish?
or maybe try being pro-active on this one?...I sense a lack of effort to be honest..even in the OPs appearingly short lived profile.
What is OP??"
The Original Poster. Or the Original Post. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe try the site with more fish?
or maybe try being pro-active on this one?...I sense a lack of effort to be honest..even in the OPs appearingly short lived profile.
What is OP??"
you the original poster.
you have on your profile interested in adult parties..there are socials clubs parties all around you..moreso in your areas down south...research properly. And it is the best way to meet people especially if new. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No it is not, the forum is fun 
stop talking rubbish...met a good few on the forum too lol"
Same here.
In fact I prefer the forum because there's no rush, no expectations and if you get together it's great |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Funny coz ever fucker on here that messages me seems to.be married men...
Can't find a decent single guy worth chatting to never mind meeting... Oh well
We shall see
Shame you're not closer  "
proximity is no guarantee of attraction... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Funny coz ever fucker on here that messages me seems to.be married men...
Can't find a decent single guy worth chatting to never mind meeting... Oh well
We shall see"
they're probably scared of being in same room when bra straps are released .xx    hugs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It must be difficult for single guys on here, given the ratio of males to females/couples. Perhaps if more guys were a bit more respectful and reliable then life would be easier for the rest of the single guys....but that will never happen. Cynical much  |
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By *inx_xxWoman
over a year ago
Shrewsbury |
"Arranged 2 social meets for this weekend with single males....guess what? They both went quiet and got back to me at 8pm tonight wanting to meet now!
I don't think so! And that was after chatting to them for a couple of days!
Seems most singles just like the thought of it "
thank god its not just me |
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"Funny coz ever fucker on here that messages me seems to.be married men...
Can't find a decent single guy worth chatting to never mind meeting... Oh well
We shall see
Shame you're not closer
proximity is no guarantee of attraction..."
never said it was |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thinking on become a nun with my success of late
Hugs. I'm joining you x
Loads with bravado with very little follow though!  x"
Trumps are bad enough!! It's even worse when they follow through!!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thinking on become a nun with my success of late
Hugs. I'm joining you x
Loads with bravado with very little follow though! x"
I followed through..musta been last nights curry |
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Just *yet* another tiresome 'No-one will fuck me' thread...
As a last resort, take to the forum to blame the site rather than make an effort to write a decent profile and increase your chances.
Maybe the thread should be called;
OP is a useless single guy - discuss.
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"Arranged 2 social meets for this weekend with single males....guess what? They both went quiet and got back to me at 8pm tonight wanting to meet now!
I don't think so! And that was after chatting to them for a couple of days!
Seems most singles just like the thought of it thank god its not just me "
trust me, it is not just you! |
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"Thinking on become a nun with my success of late
Hugs. I'm joining you x
Loads with bravado with very little follow though! x
I followed through..musta been last nights curry "
I still luvs ya, just not at yours for a few hours |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"Thinking on become a nun with my success of late
Hugs. I'm joining you x
Loads with bravado with very little follow though! x
Trumps are bad enough!! It's even worse when they follow through!! "
Think I'll stick with the nun thing then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a tool - nothing more.
Oh Lickety that's so harsh!!
Men are more than just their tool!!!
Yup! I've changed back from my Friday night Cock Pic! "
Thank god for that! Haven't been able to stomach any food since I saw it!!  |
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"Just *yet* another tiresome 'No-one will fuck me' thread...
As a last resort, take to the forum to blame the site rather than make an effort to write a decent profile and increase your chances.
Maybe the thread should be called;
OP is a useless single guy - discuss.
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There's really no need for your tone. New people pop in all the time and they are perhaps unaware that the question has been asked many a time. How about a little tolerance and maybe some patience for newbies? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a tool - nothing more.
Oh Lickety that's so harsh!!
Men are more than just their tool!!!
Yup! I've changed back from my Friday night Cock Pic!
Thank god for that! Haven't been able to stomach any food since I saw it!! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a tool - nothing more.
Oh Lickety that's so harsh!!
Men are more than just their tool!!!
Yup! I've changed back from my Friday night Cock Pic!
Thank god for that! Haven't been able to stomach any food since I saw it!!
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That bad? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is this sex thing?
Does it match the drapes?
Depends are they straight? "
I had straight drapes once.... Then I discovered how good the ones that aren't straight are |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a tool - nothing more.
Oh Lickety that's so harsh!!
Men are more than just their tool!!!
Yup! I've changed back from my Friday night Cock Pic!
Thank god for that! Haven't been able to stomach any food since I saw it!!
That bad? "
Actually it looks pretty damned good covered in a wet white t-shirt! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Funny coz ever fucker on here that messages me seems to.be married men...
Can't find a decent single guy worth chatting to never mind meeting... Oh well
We shall see"
Same here |
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"Just *yet* another tiresome 'No-one will fuck me' thread...
As a last resort, take to the forum to blame the site rather than make an effort to write a decent profile and increase your chances.
Maybe the thread should be called;
OP is a useless single guy - discuss.
There's really no need for your tone. New people pop in all the time and they are perhaps unaware that the question has been asked many a time. How about a little tolerance and maybe some patience for newbies? "
The whole original post lacks common sense, thought and any understanding.
It's hard to be patient with new members when they show little patience or application themselves.
To infer that the whole site is useless just because you haven't met anyone, is at best lazy, at worst a complete cop out, whether you've been here 5 days or 5 years.
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By *andS4funCouple
over a year ago
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"It must be difficult for single guys on here, given the ratio of males to females/couples. Perhaps if more guys were a bit more respectful and reliable then life would be easier for the rest of the single guys....but that will never happen. Cynical much "
It certainly is hard. I (mrs) had a meet off fab , and he was a lovely guy, respectful and fit (he's in the Royal Marines) but despite a good profile, a few veris and decent pics not a single person looked at his profile in august and so after that and being messed about by a couple he gave up! He's now dating |
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"Just *yet* another tiresome 'No-one will fuck me' thread...
As a last resort, take to the forum to blame the site rather than make an effort to write a decent profile and increase your chances.
Maybe the thread should be called;
OP is a useless single guy - discuss.
There's really no need for your tone. New people pop in all the time and they are perhaps unaware that the question has been asked many a time. How about a little tolerance and maybe some patience for newbies?
The whole original post lacks common sense, thought and any understanding.
It's hard to be patient with new members when they show little patience or application themselves.
To infer that the whole site is useless just because you haven't met anyone, is at best lazy, at worst a complete cop out, whether you've been here 5 days or 5 years.
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It is hard but it's possible!
Thread repeats will be happening forever. Thoughtless questions will be happening forever. It's within our power not to be mean to people forever.
For those who join and have no idea they surely deserve a chance to learn right? If they don't learn they're easily ignored.
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else |
"Thread repeats will be happening forever. Thoughtless questions will be happening forever. It's within our power not to be mean to people forever.
For those who join and have no idea they surely deserve a chance to learn right? If they don't learn they're easily ignored.
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New people should READ the existing threads before posting.
And nobody should be able to start a thread until they'd contributed to a reasonable number of existing ones.
If inane, repetitive, unimaginative threads are allowed to proliferate unchallenged, they will become the norm....and the forum itself will be inane, repetitive and unimaginative.
Is that what we want???? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thread repeats will be happening forever. Thoughtless questions will be happening forever. It's within our power not to be mean to people forever.
For those who join and have no idea they surely deserve a chance to learn right? If they don't learn they're easily ignored.
New people should READ the existing threads before posting.
And nobody should be able to start a thread until they'd contributed to a reasonable number of existing ones.
If inane, repetitive, unimaginative threads are allowed to proliferate unchallenged, they will become the norm....and the forum itself will be inane, repetitive and unimaginative.
Is that what we want????"
Ummm we? Who made us special enough to make demands?
I don't want resurrected threads popping up. People want live conversation not talk to ghosts on threads. If you have been here so long that the forums get too repetitive for you,it's time to leave or learn to ignore the ones that bore you. |
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By *km45Man
over a year ago
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It's not just single guys that get cold feet it's ladies too. I was cancelled yesterday after weeks of chatting. Plus I've had a few no shows or as previously said they go quiet.
Luckily I've had a few lovely meets.
These forums seem to pick on the single guys. Just read people's statuses and you will see that couples and ladies are just as bad.
Us single guys have a hard time on here. Yes there are the morons on here but the genuine guys who actually make an effort still get shot down as we classed in the same bracket. Though recently it been nice to see a couple of forums praising single guys. |
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"Discuss"
. Yes . Very true if members have only a few lines as a profile and poor pictures . Why would anyone bother contacting someone who cannot bother marketing themselves correctly .
All you have to do is have a good well written profile , good pictures , and only contact those whom you believe to be suitable matches . |
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"New people should READ the existing threads before posting.
And nobody should be able to start a thread until they'd contributed to a reasonable number of existing ones.
If inane, repetitive, unimaginative threads are allowed to proliferate unchallenged, they will become the norm....and the forum itself will be inane, repetitive and unimaginative.
Is that what we want????"
I don't know cause I can't speak for everyone's wants, just my own wants and that's simply to see a little kindness now and again.
If one is going to take the time to post, one can easily be positive rather than negative in the response can one not?
I'm not expecting harmony, people can have different opinions and argue to toss till the cows come home but do it in a civil manner. Forums can bring out the worst in us if we let that happen. There's a choice. Choose to be mean or sarcastic to a perfect stranger or choose to be kind and decent. It's pretty straightforward to me.
I'm not that normal though.  |
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"Thread repeats will be happening forever. Thoughtless questions will be happening forever. It's within our power not to be mean to people forever.
For those who join and have no idea they surely deserve a chance to learn right? If they don't learn they're easily ignored.
New people should READ the existing threads before posting.
And nobody should be able to start a thread until they'd contributed to a reasonable number of existing ones.
If inane, repetitive, unimaginative threads are allowed to proliferate unchallenged, they will become the norm....and the forum itself will be inane, repetitive and unimaginative.
Is that what we want????"
Lots of the threads are just as you describe and certainly certain topics are not discussed because they are just too controversial ... I am not talking anything taboo here. I think its fine to talk about the same things, because different people are here, on and off, or the forums are in danger of becoming a clique. that's why I try to post to various different threads, start a few of my own but also avoid those that are merely a conversation that people could be having between and amongst their group without it being played out in public. In the latter case, I don't even bother with the threads, but maybe the posters should be reminded they can text or whatsapp these days |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thread repeats will be happening forever. Thoughtless questions will be happening forever. It's within our power not to be mean to people forever.
For those who join and have no idea they surely deserve a chance to learn right? If they don't learn they're easily ignored.
New people should READ the existing threads before posting.
And nobody should be able to start a thread until they'd contributed to a reasonable number of existing ones.
If inane, repetitive, unimaginative threads are allowed to proliferate unchallenged, they will become the norm....and the forum itself will be inane, repetitive and unimaginative.
Is that what we want????"
So it's ok for the elite few to post the same shit day in day out... just not ok for new people?
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
harrow |
I have met a few people from the forum, don't get me wrong most have been from a social or a club but it can happen
I think honestly some of it is luck, a connection and right place right time
There are a few people I would like to meet but due to football l, I can only really meet every other weekend in Manc though can sometimes meet in London / se
I think between now and Christmas I am free 2
Weekends (2 club evenings and 1 meet )
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thread repeats will be happening forever. Thoughtless questions will be happening forever. It's within our power not to be mean to people forever.
For those who join and have no idea they surely deserve a chance to learn right? If they don't learn they're easily ignored.
New people should READ the existing threads before posting.
And nobody should be able to start a thread until they'd contributed to a reasonable number of existing ones.
If inane, repetitive, unimaginative threads are allowed to proliferate unchallenged, they will become the norm....and the forum itself will be inane, repetitive and unimaginative.
Is that what we want????"
Thinking back to when I first joined, I didn't even know the forums existed.
Having literally stumbled over them, it was weeks before I found the courage to post. As an "outsider" it looked very much like a closed shop.
I wouldn't have had a clue about searching threads to find advice.
Also, I'd never posted on any sort of forum before. Apprehensive doesn't begin to describe how I felt.
When I see someone asking for help all I see is how I felt.
Tuppence spent..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Funny coz ever fucker on here that messages me seems to.be married men...
Can't find a decent single guy worth chatting to never mind meeting... Oh well
We shall see"
Only problem with me chatting with you is distance! That and I'm just under your lower age range but I'm a lovely guy to talk to! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Funny coz ever fucker on here that messages me seems to.be married men...
Can't find a decent single guy worth chatting to never mind meeting... Oh well
We shall see
Only problem with me chatting with you is distance! That and I'm just under your lower age range but I'm a lovely guy to talk to! "
He actually is!! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thread repeats will be happening forever. Thoughtless questions will be happening forever. It's within our power not to be mean to people forever.
For those who join and have no idea they surely deserve a chance to learn right? If they don't learn they're easily ignored.
New people should READ the existing threads before posting.
And nobody should be able to start a thread until they'd contributed to a reasonable number of existing ones.
If inane, repetitive, unimaginative threads are allowed to proliferate unchallenged, they will become the norm....and the forum itself will be inane, repetitive and unimaginative.
Is that what we want????
So it's ok for the elite few to post the same shit day in day out... just not ok for new people?
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I see where your coming from.
I can think of two threads that are started every day without fail.
Add in a few weekly snog, marry, run over with a bus, look at my lovely face threads.
I have the ability to self censor. If a thread doesn't appeal or I don't have time to participate, I don't.
Why people read a thread that they know will annoy them and then start another thread moaning about the subject or content of the thread they just read is beyond me.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Funny coz ever fucker on here that messages me seems to.be married men...
Can't find a decent single guy worth chatting to never mind meeting... Oh well
We shall see
Only problem with me chatting with you is distance! That and I'm just under your lower age range but I'm a lovely guy to talk to!
He actually is!! X"
See I'm not all mouth no trousers
Although I very rarely wear trousers at home! And I LOVE using my mouth |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Discuss"
Although i've not had any luck as yet i am fairly new and have seen a few profiles that have been getting meets so i am still optimistic, just patient as well! |
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Single guys have to work a little harder....but that helps you find a nicer person....
It's not all fun for the girls !!
Imagine waking up to a hundred messages with all sort of weird offers !!!
Believe me ...that must be a lot harder.
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"Funny coz ever fucker on here that messages me seems to.be married men...
Can't find a decent single guy worth chatting to never mind meeting... Oh well
We shall see
Shame you're not closer
proximity is no guarantee of attraction..."
Always amuses me such comments as it appears the assumption is proximity is a guarantee of a shag! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's as good as you make it...
Can't really say much else. I am a single guy, I can't even accommodate and I am a bloody student.... yet still I manage to meet great people...
Anyway good luck, manage your expectations and try not to be too disappointed when things don't work out |
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No problems specific to being single.
Had three meets this week cancelled, by couples for various reasons, but this happens to everyone.
Or are you upset because the queue of women trying to meet you isn't long enough.
This site isn't about sex, its about meeting other people who enjoy sex. |
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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago
A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain |
No complaints here. Had my unfair share of both M&F's, been very selective with only the best the site had to offer locally, waded through tons of time wasters, but after over 10 years of swinging & lots of fabulous Meets I retired last night & now only sticking to regulars as most (not all) newbs think the site is some form of instant gratification instashag & don't 'get' the lifestyle choice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Funny coz ever fucker on here that messages me seems to.be married men...
Can't find a decent single guy worth chatting to never mind meeting... Oh well
We shall see"
I'm single lol |
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