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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I had the weirdest experience today, i've not been on here long but today a woman that came in my work said she recognised me from fabswingers and quoted my username. I've since rehidden my face picture! I went redder than red! I was so embarrased! Now i think about the fact she recognised me i actually find it a really big turn on.
Has anyone had this happen to them? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We had a guy message us after we had been to the local shop, saying it was nice to see you guys in the shop and that he liked jasmine boots.
It was a bit odd! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've seen a few people from here around, in bars etc. Never approached, I don't know if the people they are with know they're on here and I'm sure most wouldn't appreciate me coming up and saying, 'I know you...'
Discretion.
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"We had a guy message us after we had been to the local shop, saying it was nice to see you guys in the shop and that he liked jasmine boots.
It was a bit odd! "
Ive had that! Bloke messages me saying he sees me walk past his work!! Kept doing it. Till I blocked him! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had the weirdest experience today, i've not been on here long but today a woman that came in my work said she recognised me from fabswingers and quoted my username. I've since rehidden my face picture! I went redder than red! I was so embarrased! Now i think about the fact she recognised me i actually find it a really big turn on.
Has anyone had this happen to them? "
Yup had a fire in our street and one of the firemen recognised E from her pics on here. Weve since hidden her face pics as he sent some creepy messages afterwards... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why would you be embarrassed?? Your both in here for the same reason x"
Yeah i know! I don't know really! Afterwards the more i think about it i'd like it to happen more often!x |
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"I had the weirdest experience today, i've not been on here long but today a woman that came in my work said she recognised me from fabswingers and quoted my username. I've since rehidden my face picture! I went redder than red! I was so embarrased! Now i think about the fact she recognised me i actually find it a really big turn on.
Has anyone had this happen to them? "
can't say I ever have been, then again for discretion reasons I have never done face pictures and only ever shown a handful of people my face on webcam...
the rest just see the lower part of my face and chest really whenever I go on cam so doubt anyone aside from those who I have shown my face too will recognise me.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why would you be embarrassed?? Your both in here for the same reason x
Yeah i know! I don't know really! Afterwards the more i think about it i'd like it to happen more often!x"
At least if it's a work mate you have something to talk about lol x |
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This is why we have our faces in 'friends only'. On the rare occasion of catching a bus home after a night out we logged on to find a message asking if it was us on the bus!!! And that was just from the pics in public |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Was chatting to a guy and I mentioned about my brother,and he said where does he live,I told him,and he said, I know a so and so who lives there,mentioning his name and I'm his personal trainer, gawd only me brother, small world lol, hope he don't tell on me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been recognised in work a couple of times in the sex shop i work in and once out shopping.
Makes for interesting conversation and few good laughs and I really don't mind it.
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
Someone came into my work once and asked if I recognised him. Then he said I should do off 'that website'. It was awkward to say the least. The second time it happened....on Feb 14th ....I had to politely ask him not to come in again. Thankfully he clearly took on board what I said and has stayed away. I think |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had the weirdest experience today, i've not been on here long but today a woman that came in my work said she recognised me from fabswingers and quoted my username. I've since rehidden my face picture! I went redder than red! I was so embarrased! Now i think about the fact she recognised me i actually find it a really big turn on.
Has anyone had this happen to them? "
Well tell the other half of the story ffs! What did she want to gain by confronting you about it? |
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By *MaleMan
over a year ago
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Outside of swinging I've recognised people and spotted people I meet or previously met. Know them or not I wouldn't be charging over to them in their workplace quoting fab & username
Seems a very strange thing for anyone to do. Saying that for some discretion doesn't come into the equation and wear their swingers badge like a worthy medal.
I recall a guy approaching someone I know in front of her kids whilst she was out shopping. Not a good idea |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have not been recognised.but I have recognised a few fab members who shop where I work.i would never speak to them about the site.well,not unless they were flirting.lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had the weirdest experience today, i've not been on here long but today a woman that came in my work said she recognised me from fabswingers and quoted my username. I've since rehidden my face picture! I went redder than red! I was so embarrased! Now i think about the fact she recognised me i actually find it a really big turn on.
Has anyone had this happen to them? "
I don't show these body parts in public. Often. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We got recognised and I ended up doing work with him. I was happy to show him the best pics of nikki funking in gang bangs etc and knew he wouldn't say anything |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had the weirdest experience today, i've not been on here long but today a woman that came in my work said she recognised me from fabswingers and quoted my username. I've since rehidden my face picture! I went redder than red! I was so embarrased! Now i think about the fact she recognised me i actually find it a really big turn on.
Has anyone had this happen to them? "
Only two nights ago someone mailed me on here n asked was I from (town) I didn't answer the question n just replied face pic.. ?? Said he had none .. In the end he didn't send one .. Turns out he knows me n said we talk to each other regularly .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep!
A little closer to home than most would like. But turned out well, very well I fact as we've met numerous times now and actually knew eachother prior to Fab extremely well.
Needless to say, the meets are naughty and exciting. |
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Three times.
All of them not so bad. One I did ostrich syndrome on and the other two I never saw but they messaged me on here to tell me exactly where I was and who I was with and what I was doing.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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being recognised isnt a problem if its someone youve met but having some idiot point you out to other fab members who you have not met, which happened to us at a recent burlesque fair, is a bit of a piss take
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's a couple who live close to me that I recognise from here. I wouldn't contact them about it as a) I wouldn't want to make it an awkward situation for any of us and b) I'm not what their looking for.
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
I was messaged recently by a guy who'd seen me in Lidl.
Also had a guy come in to where I was working at the time. We just said hi with a knowing look lol. He was there legitimately not to see me lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nawty was out in sainsburys with the kids and some imbecile came up to her to ask if she was who he thought she was!
Luckily kids weren't close enough to hear, but use some brain power if you see someone out and about and either be bloooooody discrete, or better still send a message on here! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was messaged recently by a guy who'd seen me in Lidl.
Also had a guy come in to where I was working at the time. We just said hi with a knowing look lol. He was there legitimately not to see me lol. "
Lidl is a weird shop. Where else can you find spanners between tomatoes and knickers. Weird shop. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was messaged recently by a guy who'd seen me in Lidl.
Also had a guy come in to where I was working at the time. We just said hi with a knowing look lol. He was there legitimately not to see me lol.
Lidl is a weird shop. Where else can you find spanners between tomatoes and knickers. Weird shop. "
Aldi |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was messaged recently by a guy who'd seen me in Lidl.
Also had a guy come in to where I was working at the time. We just said hi with a knowing look lol. He was there legitimately not to see me lol.
Lidl is a weird shop. Where else can you find spanners between tomatoes and knickers. Weird shop.
Aldi "
Is it Aldi?
Ok Lidl, all is forgiven |
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By *onyneMan
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"This is my biggest fear, I'm self employed and can't even begin to imagine the level of "oh fuck" I'd feel if a client recognised me "
This makes perfect sense to me...there is no shame, but privacy and discretion should mean that you can stay just that...private...
As for the 'we are all her for the same reason' line of thought, well we aren't, or there wouldn't be any threads about time wasters, fakers, people who are abusive, or creepy stalky types...To me being discrete is acceptable and good sense, and if I ever recognised someone from here in public I would never approach them.
Just shows that we are all indeed different. ...and best wishes to all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I was at a bike show and was sent a message saying I looked hotter than my pics, said they had seen me walking around with a few blokes and disappear into the beer tent said they would of come and said hi to me but didn't know if the blokes knew I was on fab ... i never left their side until we left lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was messaged recently by a guy who'd seen me in Lidl.
Also had a guy come in to where I was working at the time. We just said hi with a knowing look lol. He was there legitimately not to see me lol.
Lidl is a weird shop. Where else can you find spanners between tomatoes and knickers. Weird shop.
Aldi
Is it Aldi?
Ok Lidl, all is forgiven "
No, I think they're very similar so both are weird but I love Aldi |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is my biggest fear, I'm self employed and can't even begin to imagine the level of "oh fuck" I'd feel if a client recognised me
This makes perfect sense to me...there is no shame, but privacy and discretion should mean that you can stay just that...private...
As for the 'we are all her for the same reason' line of thought, well we aren't, or there wouldn't be any threads about time wasters, fakers, people who are abusive, or creepy stalky types...To me being discrete is acceptable and good sense, and if I ever recognised someone from here in public I would never approach them.
Just shows that we are all indeed different. ...and best wishes to all."
Well said that man! |
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By *eanontiWoman
over a year ago
Limerick |
Sitting on a wall one sunny evening drinking a cold drink and chatting. A security guard kept walking by us. Was odd but we ignored him. Logged on to fab to find a message saying they had seen me. I'd only sent him a face pic that was removed after reading the message ages before. Blocked him. He's never come near me since eventhough I'd pass him a few times a week running into the shop |
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"Why would you be embarrassed?? Your both in here for the same reason x
Yeah i know! I don't know really! Afterwards the more i think about it i'd like it to happen more often!x"
I'm sure something could be arranged.
In general it is totally inappropriate to raise something of such a personal nature to someone in a different context. Even if they were alone, it is unnerving and could appear like intimidation.
If people are forced in contact elsewhere, then just stay quiet. |
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we had a couple of instances when we first joined and had face pics public no one was ever rude or creepyou but we decided to put faces pics in private afyer we recognised a new profile as being a neighbour round the corner also blocked them before they could see us they have since left though thank God |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm getting a t-shirt made up with my username printed on it
I'm just getting one with my name on...same thing, folk ask less questions see
Anyhow...when you coming for this malt?
Alright mate, hopefully before Xmas "
There isn't much left, but it's good...
Reserved for you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seems to happen to me quite often - every few months I get a message from one guy or another saying that they've recognised me somewhere...
The oddest was when a man recognised me and approached me when I was on holiday - nearly 200 miles from home...!!!
It's very confusing as I don't have face photos on display - just body ones - and yet they recognise me..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Couple we met last night recognised us face pic.they good friends with my partner x They came for a social but ended up a filthy night x"
Why would you be embarrassed.. after all we all on here for same thing x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I haven't been recognized. But I have seen a family members profile on here! Was shocked when seeing the things she does as I didn't have her down as the type, but what is 'the type' nowadays. But I have just blocked her and haven't said a thing to her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I very recently had a lady customer at work say 'have a fab evening Miss B' as she left I didn't recognise her though but considering Bella is a fab name it was a little odd.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bumped into folk whilst shopping..
Also received mail from people who have seen me down the school.
I have no problem, as im open about it to everyone, including family.
Its only sex afterall!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just been reading all the messages and then you wonder why SOME people demand a face pic when they don't display them themselves.
liven up peeps, if the body is OK then meet, if the face is OK then go about your business, if after meeting you have a problem, then just say no thank you. xxx
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"I had the weirdest experience today, i've not been on here long but today a woman that came in my work said she recognised me from fabswingers and quoted my username. I've since rehidden my face picture! I went redder than red! I was so embarrased! Now i think about the fact she recognised me i actually find it a really big turn on.
Has anyone had this happen to them? "
That bum... .
Delicious . You have nothing to be ashamed of..
Once through fab, a cab driver I'd spoken with briefly on the phone recognised me. It wasn't awkward.. He wasn't my type though and he was married!!!
A few naughty sly gits on this.. |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
I have been recognised by two different colleagues who work in the same building as myself. I met each in clubs on seperate occasions. I don't know if they know each other professionally or otherwise. I don't know either professionally but I still won't play with them as that could complicate matters
One, I meet frequently in clubs with their partner. I have never been embarrased as we are both adults and aren't doing anything wrong |
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In the last six months i think its 8 guys now that have messaged me saying theyve seen me round the local area and where. Think more people from my area are joining as it had only happened a couple of times in the last few years. I have also inadvertantly found out a lady i know is on here |
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So I he'd the worst then on me and my ex's couples profile got a message from my step sister saying she had seen my "other social network profile when sheepishly asked what she means the word fab was all we needed to see. We had been having a bit of fun on webcam too.
Lucky where grown ups laughed it off |
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I was out one weekend last summer with a guy I met from a normal dating site. We'd been on a number of dates and the plan was he'd get his wicked way with me that night.
During the course of the night I saw 2 of my previous meets. One just said hi and passed by, the other watched until the guy I was out with had gone to the loo then came over to talk. He was lovely and wished me all the best but said if it didn't work out to get in contact.
By 1am I'd slept with my date for the 1st time. He left at 7am to go to work and by 9am the 2nd guy from the night before was laid next to me
I just ignore people I know from here nowadays, it's the only way I can be reasonably good |
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"Does it matter their on here too doing the same thing as long as they dont make a scene an keep it to themselves who cares."
I care. It's like they are in the playground. Yooooooo Hooooooo I know who you are.
If it really didn't matter they'd just get on with their daily life and let you get on with yours.
I'd expect a someone well known to me to say hi .... but a one off fuck .... or someone you've never met who saw your face online ??? That's called a total STRANGER.
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"Does it matter their on here too doing the same thing as long as they dont make a scene an keep it to themselves who cares.
I care. It's like they are in the playground. Yooooooo Hooooooo I know who you are.
If it really didn't matter they'd just get on with their daily life and let you get on with yours.
I'd expect a someone well known to me to say hi .... but a one off fuck .... or someone you've never met who saw your face online ??? That's called a total STRANGER.
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But thats what i mean you should just keep it to yourself iv seen people from here around but would never go up to them an say hey u that bird of that swingers site cos i love the pic of u with 4 guys.. |
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By *hugwelMan
over a year ago
Jersey |
Noticed an avatar on a lady's profile then shopping in Waitrose the deli counter lady looked similar, any way couple weeks later after messaging her she did not burst out laughing af her counter kept well composed and calm until after her shift |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Few years ago I was recognised by a guy on here, he mailed me a few times with nothing but my surname.
I ignored him each time until one day he told me he had taken screenshots of my profile and would show everyone at my work unless I allowed him to suck my cock.
Luckily for me he didn't realise he just screwed himself, told him go for it I'll just show them your threat, that was the end of it.
Now I just tell people that I'm on here, it's not embarrassing anymore |
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