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over a year ago
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Had a few messages from people who say they are gorgeous etc but refuse to show there faces on there profiles. I'm ok with this but they won't even send one via pm even though there profile states no picture no message if we send them a message. Very confused |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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move on then, they are prob fakes or pic collectors. anyone genuinely up for a meet will send a pic, unless they are quasimodo/ette, he/she might not want to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You maybe right but are there thst many men on here posing as women? I am sure they will get found out in the end seems pointless to me"
Much of the internet is pointless. Anonymity leads to all kinds of silly games.
Never underestimate the human capacity for sheer ludicrousness. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You maybe right but are there thst many men on here posing as women? I am sure they will get found out in the end seems pointless to me"
not if they are virtual wankers  |
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"Had a few messages from people who say they are gorgeous etc but refuse to show there faces on there profiles. I'm ok with this but they won't even send one via pm even though there profile states no picture no message if we send them a message. Very confused "
Maybe they're not really that gorgeous?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lots of people on here seem to get their kicks from the "chase", and have no real intention of meeting anyone.
We used to put our face pics in private but had a seemingly never ending stream of requests for pics.
I decided to put our mug shots on public display, and guess what? No more requests, or should I say we only get requests now from people who want to meet.
We get requests for action shots and nude pics, but I've put it on our profile that we will not do that.
We sometimes get sarcastic emails saying we are a pair of mingers, lol, but they tend to come from profiles with no pics at all.
Oh, and we've met "attractive" people that should wear masks, but at the end of the day, we're all attractive to someone.
My suiters usually carry white sticks, wear dark glasses and have a pet labrador  |
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over a year ago
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when i was swinging as a couple we had loads of "attractive" couples message us ..FFS what part of Attractive didnt they understand??? ..one woman didnt have any teeth !!!! but i guess beauty is in the eye of the beholder...and you can usually tell the fake pics cos they dont get any bigger when u open them up !!!! dead giveaway of ripped off pics |
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There is nothing to be confused about... they have already refused to send a photo so you now have to decide:
A) I'm not fussed what they look like so fuck it I'll hang on in there.
B) I'm not that fussed if it turns out to be a guy... hey, a blow job is a blow job at the end of the day.
C) I am willing to assume they are either not female or not as good looking as they think and give this one a miss... they have pissed me around enough. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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whats confusing about it? women on here call all the shots didnt you know so long as we like you it dont matter what we look like, just be grateful they talking to you |
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over a year ago
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"whats confusing about it? women on here call all the shots didnt you know so long as we like you it dont matter what we look like, just be grateful they talking to you "
I'm not grateful if it a minger, a man pretending to be a woman, unlike most on here I don't have rule after rule after rule. Maybe I should. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"whats confusing about it? women on here call all the shots didnt you know so long as we like you it dont matter what we look like, just be grateful they talking to you
I'm not grateful if it a minger, a man pretending to be a woman, unlike most on here I don't have rule after rule after rule. Maybe I should."
it was ment tongue in cheek 
gosh swinging is such serious buisness isnt it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I failed as i've lost my sense of humour must be the after xmas blues"
little tip ... dont take any of this swinging lark seriously EVER...its the only way to survive .... |
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"I failed as i've lost my sense of humour must be the after xmas blues
little tip ... dont take any of this swinging lark seriously EVER...its the only way to survive ...."
that's the best advice I've heard for ages, thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I failed as i've lost my sense of humour must be the after xmas blues
little tip ... dont take any of this swinging lark seriously EVER...its the only way to survive ....
that's the best advice I've heard for ages, thanks "
thanks i try and share my five years experience with the new boys ..and girls ... not much i dont know about all this stuff but i was new to it once ...dont ever lose your sense of humour and stay humble !!! |
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"when i was swinging as a couple we had loads of "attractive" couples message us ..FFS what part of Attractive didnt they understand??? ..one woman didnt have any teeth !!!! but i guess beauty is in the eye of the beholder...and you can usually tell the fake pics cos they dont get any bigger when u open them up !!!! dead giveaway of ripped off pics "
Well I couldn't remember where I put them after a night on the piss  |
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"whats confusing about it? women on here call all the shots didnt you know so long as we like you it dont matter what we look like, just be grateful they talking to you
I'm not grateful if it a minger, a man pretending to be a woman, unlike most on here I don't have rule after rule after rule. Maybe I should."
What not even a plan B?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"whats confusing about it? women on here call all the shots didnt you know so long as we like you it dont matter what we look like, just be grateful they talking to you
I'm not grateful if it a minger, a man pretending to be a woman, unlike most on here I don't have rule after rule after rule. Maybe I should.
What not even a plan B?
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im loving the defamation of strickland banks
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By (user no longer on site)
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"whats confusing about it? women on here call all the shots didnt you know so long as we like you it dont matter what we look like, just be grateful they talking to you "
it's actually quite amazing how many believe that  |
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"whats confusing about it? women on here call all the shots didnt you know so long as we like you it dont matter what we look like, just be grateful they talking to you
it's actually quite amazing how many believe that "
And thank god they do... I have made a fortune selling them the "just be grateful if I talk to you" t-shirts |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A gent who describes himself as good looking/(V)WE/athletic often do not get a second look in from me if I find their photos do not match his descriptions from my points of view.
The one that gets me the most is "good looking", as I often find them only average looking.
Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder afterall, and a little bit of self-depreciation/humbleness goes a long way IMHO! |
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