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But there are some of us who know that it does exist and rail against it from time to time | |||
"Having started to read the forums with some intrest a few weeks ago (never bothered befor that) I have noticed there is a hard core of posters who clearly know each other well aqnd bounce off each other. At times this is very funny and entertaining, some threads are also very innocent and caring, but no matter how they all start, they very quickly decend into complete abuse of the OP. (Yes I am aware that I am opening myself up for this and bring it on if you must) but it really puts new people off from joining in the thread for fear of being attacked I am sure. To all you other readres, and not normally posters, do you agree??? Why the need to be so nasty, if you don't agree with the OP by all means say so, but cut the abuse x" in a n open forum there is little you can do about posters ..in the main the forum regulars are great...OK some can be a little acerbic but mostly they make you smile. people shouldnt be afriad to post...at the end of the day any replies are just words on a screen and if they are really abusive there is always the report button solution ..id advise anyone to join in but BEWARE THEY ARE ADDICTIVE .... | |||
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"You are obviously referring to the FAB clique. Members of which will vehemently deny its existence
But there are some of us who know that it does exist and rail against it from time to time ". Trust you to bring the C word so early in the thread! | |||
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Seriously, you need to treat this place like the bar of your local pub, its just the same sort of chat and arguing that goes on down there. | |||
"You are obviously referring to the FAB clique. Members of which will vehemently deny its existence
But there are some of us who know that it does exist and rail against it from time to time "Some of these people have met eachother in real life a number of times... is that what you mean by clique? If people are intimidated by other people knowing eachother... then they won't want to fit in anyway will they. It never puts me off... fuck the lot of them if they disagree with me. | |||
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Seriously, you need to treat this place like the bar of your local pub, its just the same sort of chat and arguing that goes on down there.". Very true indeed! Likewise, one cannot expect to get on with everyone - it won't happen in real life, and it won't happen in the forums!  | |||
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"You are obviously referring to the FAB clique. Members of which will vehemently deny its existence
But there are some of us who know that it does exist and rail against it from time to time
Some of these people have met eachother in real life a number of times... is that what you mean by clique?
If people are intimidated by other people knowing eachother... then they won't want to fit in anyway will they.
It never puts me off... fuck the lot of them if they disagree with me."I disagree with lots of people...they don't fuck me though...damn  | |||
"Having started to read the forums with some intrest a few weeks ago (never bothered befor that) I have noticed there is a hard core of posters who clearly know each other well aqnd bounce off each other. At times this is very funny and entertaining, some threads are also very innocent and caring, but no matter how they all start, they very quickly decend into complete abuse of the OP. (Yes I am aware that I am opening myself up for this and bring it on if you must) but it really puts new people off from joining in the thread for fear of being attacked I am sure. To all you other readres, and not normally posters, do you agree??? Why the need to be so nasty, if you don't agree with the OP by all means say so, but cut the abuse x" i agree with you 110% and thats one reason why i dont post any topics anymore | |||
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" rather than flounce or get defences up, people need to take it on the chin and give it right back. "Ohhh ... I do enjoy a bit of a "flounce" now and again!!!! and it has to be said,,, I also tend to take quite a bit on the chin too.... that darm stuff splashes everywhere if ya not quick enough,,,, don't ya know,,,     | |||
"Having started to read the forums with some intrest a few weeks ago (never bothered befor that) I have noticed there is a hard core of posters who clearly know each other well aqnd bounce off each other. At times this is very funny and entertaining, some threads are also very innocent and caring, but no matter how they all start, they very quickly decend into complete abuse of the OP. (Yes I am aware that I am opening myself up for this and bring it on if you must) but it really puts new people off from joining in the thread for fear of being attacked I am sure. To all you other readres, and not normally posters, do you agree??? Why the need to be so nasty, if you don't agree with the OP by all means say so, but cut the abuse x" I disagree that the threads quickly decend into complete abose of the OP. This can sometimes happen but is by no means the norm. New people are not attacked, it's just that when you are new you are more sensitive. I felt I was ignored a lot when I was new but realised that was not the case cos I am still ignored a lot!!!! | |||
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"I disagree that the threads quickly decend into complete abose of the OP. This can sometimes happen but is by no means the norm. New people are not attacked, it's just that when you are new you are more sensitive. I felt I was ignored a lot when I was new but realised that was not the case cos I am still ignored a lot!!!! "Did anyone else hear that?! 
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"I AGREE ! if you oppose someone ,there is a little clique on here ! it does not worry me in the slightest ,and hope it does not bother others either ,we all have our own opinions , and we should not be afraid to show them ! FRANKIE XX" Talking of thick skin... | |||
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"Absolutely agree - there is so obviously a close clique on the forums - it's just not worth even trying to get involved. It's a great shame, because on other sites (of all sorts) the forum is usually a vibrant, interesting and entertaining place to use... Here, if anything sensible, entertaining or intelligently humerous is posted, it always, but always quickly descends into a childish parody... And of course - the same people will now crop up on here to deny it, and to put up so many pointless posts that the original subject is drowned... " im a regular poster,been known to kill threadss stone dead and certainly no way am i in any clique...i really beleive thats the perception of people who think they arent in it ??? you cant win any way ..but to new posters give it a go get to know the humour..its my favourite waste of time !! but its also been the source of help when ive needed it .. certainly vibrant interesting and entertaining in my opinion ??? you cant please all of the people all of the time I guess | |||
"Absolutely agree - there is so obviously a close clique on the forums - it's just not worth even trying to get involved. It's a great shame, because on other sites (of all sorts) the forum is usually a vibrant, interesting and entertaining place to use... Here, if anything sensible, entertaining or intelligently humerous is posted, it always, but always quickly descends into a childish parody... And of course - the same people will now crop up on here to deny it, and to put up so many pointless posts that the original subject is drowned... " Really? on every single thread? even the one that you statred earlier about the footprints which I thought was very funny and quite well recieved with no hint of sarcasm or abuse in sight? I have never been on a forum where there hav'nt been regulars,Everyone has to start somewhwere with a first post,I have been on forums where you're not allowed to post more than once on any thread,forums where all comments are checked by a mod before they're posted I don't think these are too bad compared with some others | |||
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"Absolutely agree - there is so obviously a close clique on the forums - it's just not worth even trying to get involved. It's a great shame, because on other sites (of all sorts) the forum is usually a vibrant, interesting and entertaining place to use... Here, if anything sensible, entertaining or intelligently humerous is posted, it always, but always quickly descends into a childish parody... And of course - the same people will now crop up on here to deny it, and to put up so many pointless posts that the original subject is drowned... im a regular poster,been known to kill threadss stone dead and certainly no way am i in any clique...i really beleive thats the perception of people who think they arent in it ??? you cant win any way ..but to new posters give it a go get to know the humour..its my favourite waste of time !! but its also been the source of help when ive needed it .. certainly vibrant interesting and entertaining in my opinion ??? you cant please all of the people all of the time I guess" agree, it's great entertainment and challenging .... sometimes. | |||
"Absolutely agree - there is so obviously a close clique on the forums - it's just not worth even trying to get involved. It's a great shame, because on other sites (of all sorts) the forum is usually a vibrant, interesting and entertaining place to use... Here, if anything sensible, entertaining or intelligently humerous is posted, it always, but always quickly descends into a childish parody... And of course - the same people will now crop up on here to deny it, and to put up so many pointless posts that the original subject is drowned... " double edged sword... because without the regular posters there is no forum to begin with... like the others have said, I treat this the way I would a pub, and I have never been in a pub where people have never seen a person in, and embrace them in on there first ever visit.... actually I think that the problem is partly newbies who jump in with both feet and take offence if anyone has the termerity to disagree... then the "victim" card is played as forums go... this is actually quite tame...you should come with me to my alma maters forum, that is wild.... | |||
"Absolutely agree - there is so obviously a close clique on the forums - it's just not worth even trying to get involved. It's a great shame, because on other sites (of all sorts) the forum is usually a vibrant, interesting and entertaining place to use... Here, if anything sensible, entertaining or intelligently humerous is posted, it always, but always quickly descends into a childish parody... And of course - the same people will now crop up on here to deny it, and to put up so many pointless posts that the original subject is drowned... " If you perceive there is a closed clique then I fear it is in your head. There are a few pods which crop up from time to time… small clusters of friends. I have never let other people knowing each other stop me from saying anything I have wanted to. I don’t go to the socials as I have no interest in socialising with the general population of the forum and I haven’t exchanged any PM’s with the vast majority. Oddly I am sometimes accused of being part of the clique… which I find highly amusing because I disagree with any post I disagree with, regardless of who posted it. Yet it seems if someone else agrees with my disagreement, then we must be in a clique…. ffs I can’t be the only one who is right all of the time, someone will eventually agree with me on something or another. So back to your perception... who does it say more about really? | |||
"Absolutely agree - there is so obviously a close clique on the forums - it's just not worth even trying to get involved. It's a great shame, because on other sites (of all sorts) the forum is usually a vibrant, interesting and entertaining place to use... Here, if anything sensible, entertaining or intelligently humerous is posted, it always, but always quickly descends into a childish parody... And of course - the same people will now crop up on here to deny it, and to put up so many pointless posts that the original subject is drowned... " I urge you to refuse to be drowned out. | |||
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Plus... Youm a Brummie... Yow ay gunna tayk sheet frum thays boogurs. | |||
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"The only clique anyone really needs to be in, is the one between our own thoughts and our own ability to assemble those thoughts into something that comfortably works for us as individuals... As for worrying whether or not they should match with any of the many interestingly random people who also frequent these forums with varying levels of regularity,it shouldnt be an issue... for no other reason those people are here for other than that fact they also enjoy listening to your opinions and observations whilst taking oppertunities venting some of their own,,, The whole process should not need intellectually dissecting,,, and simply be enjoyed for the fun it is,,,,, Ahem,,, in my humble opinion….. that is….. cough cough "the only clieque anyone really needs to be in is the one between our own thights and our own ability to assemble those thights into something that comfortable works mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm | |||
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" the only clieque anyone really needs to be in is the one between our own thights and our own ability to assemble those thights into something that comfortable works mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm" I got you sussed out fine lady,,,, ya only after stealing my sparky new tights..... the ones I just bought in the New-look sale from the girl cashier who asked what size I took?, she thought the ones I'd picked were gonna be to big for me,,,,Flipp'in heck,, I was trying to pretend they wernt for me,,,,,....bugger,,,, it made me blush.... front of a massive queue it was,,,, grrrrrr | |||
"thank you all, this is just what I wanted, comments from some of the regulars and some newbies. Welcome all. And no abuse in sight (YET). I love it when a plan comes together xxxxx "yup it has gone well
just wish the clique mentioners would hang around, rather than throw in the 'C' word and then go off line | |||
"thank you all, this is just what I wanted, comments from some of the regulars and some newbies. Welcome all. And no abuse in sight (YET). I love it when a plan comes together xxxxx "What plan is this ? | |||
"... And no abuse in sight (YET). " **ponders the need to mention this** | |||
" the only clieque anyone really needs to be in is the one between our own thights and our own ability to assemble those thights into something that comfortable works mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm I got you sussed out fine lady,,,, ya only after stealing my sparky new tights..... the ones I just bought in the New-look sale from the girl cashier who asked what size I took?, she thought the ones I'd picked were gonna be to big for me,,,,Flipp'in heck,, I was trying to pretend they wernt for me,,,,,....bugger,,,, it made me blush.... front of a massive queue it was,,,, grrrrrr "ooooo sparky n his magic tights, you gonna look like a star ... F O R N O W | |||
"thank you all, this is just what I wanted, comments from some of the regulars and some newbies. Welcome all. And no abuse in sight (YET). I love it when a plan comes together xxxxx
yup it has gone well
just wish the clique mentioners would hang around, rather than throw in the 'C' word and then go off line "As I don't think it would be quite the same as naming and shaming.... I really would be interested to see just who the clique members are thought to be. | |||
guess you'd have to ask the person who mentioned cliques..... I only said regulars | |||
" just wish the clique mentioners would hang around, rather than throw in the 'C' word and then go off line " did you notice that as well then, the "drive by" posters... throwing "post bombs" and scuttling off to see what havoc they create from a distance... | |||
"thank you all, this is just what I wanted, comments from some of the regulars and some newbies. Welcome all. And no abuse in sight (YET). I love it when a plan comes together xxxxx
yup it has gone well
just wish the clique mentioners would hang around, rather than throw in the 'C' word and then go off line
As I don't think it would be quite the same as naming and shaming.... I really would be interested to see just who the clique members are thought to be."I agree... they should just name em.. and justify and to why certain people are in and why they are, I suspect, deselecting themselves.
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"thank you all, this is just what I wanted, comments from some of the regulars and some newbies. Welcome all. And no abuse in sight (YET). I love it when a plan comes together xxxxx
yup it has gone well
just wish the clique mentioners would hang around, rather than throw in the 'C' word and then go off line
As I don't think it would be quite the same as naming and shaming.... I really would be interested to see just who the clique members are thought to be."The ones who got all the awards of course
ooops, u got one didn't you? | |||
" guess you'd have to ask the person who mentioned cliques..... I only said regulars"yeah that's what I mean... I think if someone thinks/posts there is a clique they should be allowed to say who they think is in it (just the once).... I would be genuinely interested, because besides some of the 'love-ins' (which seem to have died a death - thankfully), I just don't see them. | |||
"thank you all, this is just what I wanted, comments from some of the regulars and some newbies. Welcome all. And no abuse in sight (YET). I love it when a plan comes together xxxxx
yup it has gone well
just wish the clique mentioners would hang around, rather than throw in the 'C' word and then go off line
As I don't think it would be quite the same as naming and shaming.... I really would be interested to see just who the clique members are thought to be.
The ones who got all the awards of course
ooops, u got one didn't you? "and a couple of runner up spots too
Though fuck knows how I got over 50 votes.... there are less than 5 on here I would piss on if they were on fire.
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"I wonder if there is a "law", like Godwins law for what the op is describing. If not we need to give it a name and copyright it! I post sporadically on here, sometimes there is jibes and wot not but doesn't really bother me. Also the issue of 80% of communication been non-verbal doesn't help in a forum." yer avatar does though | |||
"I wonder if there is a "law", like Godwins law for what the op is describing. If not we need to give it a name and copyright it! I post sporadically on here, sometimes there is jibes and wot not but doesn't really bother me. Also the issue of 80% of communication been non-verbal doesn't help in a forum." You are intelligent , good humoured AND naked...... you'll do. Actually you've just joined in without making unsubstantiated accusations so that's a pretty good bonus too. | |||
"thank you all, this is just what I wanted, comments from some of the regulars and some newbies. Welcome all. And no abuse in sight (YET). I love it when a plan comes together xxxxx
yup it has gone well
just wish the clique mentioners would hang around, rather than throw in the 'C' word and then go off line "Oi... Just popped out to do a line of "C"... Pfft
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"I'm doin' a Marlon Brando with my award. " can I av im when you've done? | |||
"I'm doin' a Marlon Brando with my award. " Covering it in animal fat and stuffing it up a bum-hole? | |||
"Absolutely agree - there is so obviously a close clique on the forums - it's just not worth even trying to get involved. It's a great shame, because on other sites (of all sorts) the forum is usually a vibrant, interesting and entertaining place to use... Here, if anything sensible, entertaining or intelligently humerous is posted, it always, but always quickly descends into a childish parody... And of course - the same people will now crop up on here to deny it, and to put up so many pointless posts that the original subject is drowned... " I have to laugh at this because its a pile of tosh. Fab forums are far more active than most, 1k a month threads prove that and a large number of members. The clique is just BS as i see it. I was a bit bitter when i first came on the forums because your trying to fit in and it isnt always easy. I was guilty of using the word clique to have a go at people i didn't like but when i did meet people off the forums i realised i had it wrong. What you get is people on the forums who have met at socials and this is not a clique but it is what you call "friends" i do wonder if people who use the clique term are the sort who live on line and don't have real life friends | |||
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"I'm doin' a Marlon Brando with my award. Covering it in animal fat and stuffing it up a bum-hole?" No ! Shoving it in Sideways n mumblin like a Sicilian Mobster | |||
"I'm doin' a Marlon Brando with my award. Covering it in animal fat and stuffing it up a bum-hole? No ! Shoving it in Sideways n mumblin like a Sicilian Mobster" Oh... I got all excited for a moment there... you're off my piss on list! | |||
"I'm doin' a Marlon Brando with my award. Covering it in animal fat and stuffing it up a bum-hole? No ! Shoving it in Sideways n mumblin like a Sicilian Mobster Oh... I got all excited for a moment there... you're off my piss on list!" At least wait till im on fire ! | |||
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" I posted a thread as I was feeling a bit uncomfortable about my 'baby belly' a few weeks back... Now thanks to this bunch anyone that gives me oral gets a mighty fine slap on the head by wobbly bits!!!
Miss B x"Now youve gona and done it!! Youll have 'em queueing round the block... theres some kinky buggers on here you know... | |||
"You are obviously referring to the FAB clique. Members of which will vehemently deny its existence
But there are some of us who know that it does exist and rail against it from time to time "You find cliques everywhere unfortunately...we have always gone with the notion that the beat way to get over/around/beat them is to join them...ok..thats not easy on here. But it might be a solution..and the outcome might be that its not as cliquey as you first thought.. That said... Obviously people know each other and will respond to each others various comments..but where we dont necessarily fell its that cliquey here theres a definite case of 'we dont know you so fuck your comment, we'll disregard that and answer our friends one instead..very much like the chatrooms when you are trying to make conversation or join in. | |||
" I posted a thread as I was feeling a bit uncomfortable about my 'baby belly' a few weeks back... Now thanks to this bunch anyone that gives me oral gets a mighty fine slap on the head by wobbly bits!!!
Miss B x
Now youve gona and done it!! Youll have 'em queueing round the block... theres some kinky buggers on here you know..."I knew it!!! I knew there would be a breakthrough someday
Who's first? *hands out safety goggles* | |||
"I AGREE ! if you oppose someone ,there is a little clique on here ! it does not worry me in the slightest ,and hope it does not bother others either ,we all have our own opinions , and we should not be afraid to show them ! FRANKIE XX" Can you explain to me how that works ??? If YOU oppose a point of _iew you are simply stating your point. If SOMEONE else disagrees with you they are part of a clique ??? Aren't they merely in their own home typing on their own computer and actually responding to what you said ? | |||
"You are obviously referring to the FAB clique. Members of which will vehemently deny its existence
But there are some of us who know that it does exist and rail against it from time to time
You find cliques everywhere unfortunately...we have always gone with the notion that the beat way to get over/around/beat them is to join them...ok..thats not easy on here. But it might be a solution..and the outcome might be that its not as cliquey as you first thought..
That said...
Obviously people know each other and will respond to each others various comments..but where we dont necessarily fell its that cliquey here theres a definite case of 'we dont know you so fuck your comment, we'll disregard that and answer our friends one instead..very much like the chatrooms when you are trying to make conversation or join in."I defo can see what you mean. It is very similar to chat. I think it is easier in chat... well especially Scotland and Wales chat, as many have met each other. In the forums... I have met Femme & Big Bad at a party, Laine, Stunna & BB430 of some of the most regular posters. thats it.. Will hopefully meet many more tho , until then, bantering in the forum will continue. | |||
"I AGREE ! if you oppose someone ,there is a little clique on here ! it does not worry me in the slightest ,and hope it does not bother others either ,we all have our own opinions , and we should not be afraid to show them ! FRANKIE XX Can you explain to me how that works ??? If YOU oppose a point of _iew you are simply stating your point. If SOMEONE else disagrees with you they are part of a clique ??? Aren't they merely in their own home typing on their own computer and actually responding to what you said ? " yeah. shall I pass you the noose? | |||
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"Come on, name the ones who are supposed to be in a clique, as I am intrigued to know who they may be too! "some do stand out here but we love them for it ... most of the time. God it would be as boring as hell if we all did think the same .. its ok if people are not being rude or nasty and all taken as fun ... | |||
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"I think there is a misperception that everyone knows everyone else,has met them and are great friends as thats not always the case at all "Deffo not, I met you and canny stand ya | |||
"I think there is a misperception that everyone knows everyone else,has met them and are great friends as thats not always the case at all "well surely that's a positive thing | |||
"I think there is a misperception that everyone knows everyone else,has met them and are great friends as thats not always the case at all
well surely that's a positive thing"We have never meet but your my friend x We are all here together feel the love , lol | |||
"I think there is a misperception that everyone knows everyone else,has met them and are great friends as thats not always the case at all
Deffo not, I met you and canny stand ya "bollox slutty! | |||
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"I think there is a misperception that everyone knows everyone else,has met them and are great friends as thats not always the case at all
Deffo not, I met you and canny stand ya "ha ha what like are you? | |||
"I think there is a misperception that everyone knows everyone else,has met them and are great friends as thats not always the case at all
well surely that's a positive thing"Not always if thats the wrong perception and it makes people feel left out | |||
"I think there is a misperception that everyone knows everyone else,has met them and are great friends as thats not always the case at all "Fair point actually..but we often get the impression that theres a slight case of 'what would you know'...(as non swingers) when it comes to commenting..yeh sure, we cant really comment on gang bangs, orgies, parties, clubbing or some aspects of swinging itself, so we dont...thats not to say though that we dont have an inkling on what is going on outside number 99 Vanilla street.. | |||
"I think there is a misperception that everyone knows everyone else,has met them and are great friends as thats not always the case at all
well surely that's a positive thing
Not always if thats the wrong perception and it makes people feel left out"nearly spat me tea out! what the f is the solution then - not be friendly??? | |||
"Having started to read the forums with some intrest a few weeks ago (never bothered befor that) I have noticed there is a hard core of posters who clearly know each other well aqnd bounce off each other. At times this is very funny and entertaining, some threads are also very innocent and caring, but no matter how they all start, they very quickly decend into complete abuse of the OP. (Yes I am aware that I am opening myself up for this and bring it on if you must) but it really puts new people off from joining in the thread for fear of being attacked I am sure. To all you other readres, and not normally posters, do you agree??? Why the need to be so nasty, if you don't agree with the OP by all means say so, but cut the abuse x" I took 3 months off the forums after having to report people for the levels of personal abuse towards me. Been back a week, mostly reading and alls I can say is that it's much nicer now - go figure. Some of the "major players" appear to have either left or stopped posting. | |||
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"I think there is a misperception that everyone knows everyone else,has met them and are great friends as thats not always the case at all
well surely that's a positive thing
Not always if thats the wrong perception and it makes people feel left out
nearly spat me tea out! what the f is the solution then - not be friendly???"not at all
All im saying is people can assume things sometimes that are not even right,not suggesting any solution I just made a point thats all | |||
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"There will be the odd one that will be funny on here but just rise above it. I got sarcastic comments about a post regarding being harrassed by bi guys. Saying my cock didn't match my fully clothed pic. " Well you know the solution to that then... Dress your cock up in a uniform! | |||
"A place where people have discussion. In this case here it's a typed discussion " Thanks granny. Whats abuse ? LOL | |||
"A place where people have discussion. In this case here it's a typed discussion Thanks granny. Whats abuse ? LOL "Oh now stop it ...... tsk x | |||
"There will be the odd one that will be funny on here but just rise above it. I got sarcastic comments about a post regarding being harrassed by bi guys. Saying my cock didn't match my fully clothed pic. Well you know the solution to that then... Dress your cock up in a uniform! "ha ha never thought of that one | |||
"There will be the odd one that will be funny on here but just rise above it. I got sarcastic comments about a post regarding being harrassed by bi guys. Saying my cock didn't match my fully clothed pic. " That was from a guy who had a matching everything.... remember the red face, cushion, mug and shirt! He was bound to be picky mate lol!!! | |||
"It can be quite daunting posting a thread/joining in when you are a newbie to the forum's & some peeps have made me feel more welcome than others but that does not mean they are being funny it is just who they are... take peeps for who they are and don't take things personally "you just have to jump in here .... if you feel it say it ... x thats what we like and that s how we get to know you. xx | |||
"It can be quite daunting posting a thread/joining in when you are a newbie to the forum's & some peeps have made me feel more welcome than others but that does not mean they are being funny it is just who they are... take peeps for who they are and don't take things personally you just have to jump in here .... if you feel it say it ... x thats what we like and that s how we get to know you. xx"You were one of the ones that made me feel welcome xxx | |||
"There will be the odd one that will be funny on here but just rise above it. I got sarcastic comments about a post regarding being harrassed by bi guys. Saying my cock didn't match my fully clothed pic. That was from a guy who had a matching everything.... remember the red face, cushion, mug and shirt! He was bound to be picky mate lol!!! "and now to boot... your uniform doesn't match doesn't match you civvy gear
Are you taking the p***??? lol | |||
"A place where people have discussion. In this case here it's a typed discussion Thanks granny. Whats abuse ? LOL
Oh now stop it ...... tsk x"Oh...........okay x | |||
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"Ha ha sugar but that's a good point
did have to laugh at the man in red"What a muppet thing he said lol!!! As for you, you do realise that the only way to settle this one will be to post us (me, I mean) a video of you taking off that uniform and showing us (me again) that your fully naked body matches your fully clothed pic. I really can't see you getting any more action on here unless you have gone through the trouble
I thank you in advance for your cooperation on this matter
Miss B | |||
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*waits for Evie to come give me a slap* | |||
"Sometimes I just can't help myself. I like being cheeky!
*waits for Evie to come give me a slap* "Not sure I am into slapping just yet | |||
"Sometimes I just can't help myself. I like being cheeky!
*waits for Evie to come give me a slap*
Not sure I am into slapping just yet "Not sure you're Evie either!!
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"Sometimes I just can't help myself. I like being cheeky!
*waits for Evie to come give me a slap*
Not sure I am into slapping just yet
Not sure you're Evie either!!
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"I think there is a misperception that everyone knows everyone else,has met them and are great friends as thats not always the case at all
well surely that's a positive thing
Not always if thats the wrong perception and it makes people feel left out"And of course when someone feels left out of something it can be far easier to blame the people perceived as being part of the something than look a little closer to home (inwardly) at their own inadequacies/insecurities/limitations. It’s not uncommon for some people who want to be part of something to almost begin to envy it and then point out the thing they want as being a weakness or negative… because they are not part of it. It’s kind of another version of rejection issues. You’ll also see examples of it in the working environment … “all the managers are wankers up their own arse” said by the person you know would don that tie and suit at the drop of a hat IF they were only asked… but they will also be the last people to do something positive to earn a promotion.... because once they start trying, they have to face up to possible failure. So it becomes easier to slag of the managers and deny wanting to be one. | |||
