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over a year ago
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"how says they are str8 when
in fact they are bi just to get a shag  "
It is a difficult one because your desires can change. For many years I considered myself to be 100% heterosexual and wasn’t interested in bi play. However having experimented in other areas I found it pleasurable and exciting. It may be the slight taboo side or the fear of friends finding out but I have had some fantastic bi experiences but I often still think of myself as heterosexual at times and the bi play just experimental ventures. People do change though and should we not let people change their sexuality as they travel through life? |
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it depends how hones people are being i guess. Both to others and to themselves!
I mark myself as bi curious and i explain the extent of my bi experience in my profile. I know i am bi, i just want to experience more before i change my profile to say that. |
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"I say im straight but i love kissing females but i dont go down on a woman so i dont know what that makes me (thick i think) "
I think it makes you tactile. Women are, in general, with their female counterparts. I think if you don't fancy any women at all, the likelihood is you're not bi, same as when you fancy a guy, if you meet a woman and you feel like you do when you fancy a guy, you're bi! xx |
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"I say im straight but i love kissing females but i dont go down on a woman so i dont know what that makes me (thick i think) "
i do go down on women what do that make me
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"I say im straight but i love kissing females but i dont go down on a woman so i dont know what that makes me (thick i think) i do go down on women what do that make me"
horny xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I say im straight but i love kissing females but i dont go down on a woman so i dont know what that makes me (thick i think) i do go down on women what do that make me
horny xxx"
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By (user no longer on site)
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I am straight, have never kissed/touched/fondled another woman, I have watched porn and have got off on 2/3 even a group of women but as yet have never tried it...I like the thought of it but when it comes down to it have never wanted to badly enough that I have done it so I suppose that does make me straight? or just not met the right person yet... lol am so confused...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I love these forums you learn something new every day! I didn't realise you could be straight, have numerous same sex experiences and then be straight again! Have several more same sex experiences then become straight again, but no way Jose, no sirry, is that bi!
Alrighty then!  |
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By *ansue35Couple
over a year ago
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I count my self as striaght. but ok this sounds wiered but love fem on fem.
reason I say am staight is because, i do not fancy women, when looking at a lady when out. or have a relationship like i would with a male.
BUT WHEN SWINGING, i love to play with the female of the couple as i do the male.
But we say am bi on the profile, because i really like to play wit the ladies as well.
Now thinking about a three some (FFM).
We wee talking abou this in hot tub last month, people _iews are different on the subject.
One lady in the hot tub, said i was just doing the bi-side for Ian.
No i was not and she did agree after having an orgy in the hot tub.
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I AM TOTALLY STR8 ! but some guys put that they are str8 ! i wonder why ? it really baffles me ! my x told me she had played with 2 bi guys when we had split up , i stormed off ,and went str8 to the CLINIC , FRANKIE XX |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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" my x told me she had played with 2 bi guys when we had split up , i stormed off ,and went str8 to the CLINIC , FRANKIE XX"
Due to the forum amnesty.. I am not going to mention how offensive that reads.
hope you got the all clear.
Have a great 2011. |
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over a year ago
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" my x told me she had played with 2 bi guys when we had split up , i stormed off ,and went str8 to the CLINIC , FRANKIE XX
Due to the forum amnesty.. I am not going to mention how offensive that reads.
hope you got the all clear.
Have a great 2011."
I agree View,I started a post and then deleted it  |
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"I love these forums you learn something new every day! I didn't realise you could be straight, have numerous same sex experiences and then be straight again! Have several more same sex experiences then become straight again, but no way Jose, no sirry, is that bi!
Alrighty then! "
It’s called sexual fluidity…. and is perfectly normal. |
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It's about time we had a thread like this in the forums.
A good opportunity for everyone to have a good discussion about sex and sexuality.
Not to mention of course, a balanced and well thought out critique of what bicurious and bisexual actually mean.
Must dash now, need to clean up the fly which has landed on my carpet after a kamikaze attempt at the window. |
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"I AM TOTALLY STR8 ! but some guys put that they are str8 ! i wonder why ? it really baffles me ! my x told me she had played with 2 bi guys when we had split up , i stormed off ,and went str8 to the CLINIC , FRANKIE XX"
My new girlfirend told me she had played with you.
I went straight to the clinic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well i may be thick but............
If a guy puts straight on his profile....
Why then will he have loads of tvs etc on his mates list. ?
Is it his curiosity ?
OR just because he can ?  |
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"I AM TOTALLY STR8 ! but some guys put that they are str8 ! i wonder why ? it really baffles me ! my x told me she had played with 2 bi guys when we had split up , i stormed off ,and went str8 to the CLINIC , FRANKIE XX"
Having tried on four separate occasions in my twenties to commit suicide because of my sexuality i find this post really sad
Im So glad that nature made you straight mate and hope you have a really happy life knowing that
Its NOT a choice no more than you didn't choose to be straight
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"Well i may be thick but............
If a guy puts straight on his profile....
Why then will he have loads of tvs etc on his mates list. ?
Is it his curiosity ?
OR just because he can ? "
I am bi and have it on my profile. But nearly always the men who contact me are straight on their profile. Some are straight on here and bi on fabguys . I like to cam on another site, and it's nearly always straight men watching you on cam and whispering in the chatroom so the main room can't see it. |
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"I AM TOTALLY STR8 ! but some guys put that they are str8 ! i wonder why ? it really baffles me ! my x told me she had played with 2 bi guys when we had split up , i stormed off ,and went str8 to the CLINIC , FRANKIE XX"
Good job she didn't tell you about the 9 man bareback gang bang with the straight guys. |
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"Well i may be thick but............
If a guy puts straight on his profile....
Why then will he have loads of tvs etc on his mates list. ?
Is it his curiosity ?
OR just because he can ?
I am bi and have it on my profile. But nearly always the men who contact me are straight on their profile. Some are straight on here and bi on fabguys . I like to cam on another site, and it's nearly always straight men watching you on cam and whispering in the chatroom so the main room can't see it."
I heard recently that Coal comes from Newcastle.
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"I AM TOTALLY STR8 ! but some guys put that they are str8 ! i wonder why ? it really baffles me ! my x told me she had played with 2 bi guys when we had split up , i stormed off ,and went str8 to the CLINIC , FRANKIE XX
Good job she didn't tell you about the 9 man bareback gang bang with the straight guys."
My arse was in TATTERS after that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I AM TOTALLY STR8 ! but some guys put that they are str8 ! i wonder why ? it really baffles me ! my x told me she had played with 2 bi guys when we had split up , i stormed off ,and went str8 to the CLINIC , FRANKIE XX
Good job she didn't tell you about the 9 man bareback gang bang with the straight guys."
ha ha would of been the same outcome , but would i of needed to go to clinic 10 times LOL |
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"I AM TOTALLY STR8 ! but some guys put that they are str8 ! i wonder why ? it really baffles me ! my x told me she had played with 2 bi guys when we had split up , i stormed off ,and went str8 to the CLINIC , FRANKIE XX
Good job she didn't tell you about the 9 man bareback gang bang with the straight guys.
My arse was in TATTERS after that."
Brilliant!!
Would I be far wrong in suspecting the x (ex) hadn't slept with two bi-guys.... She just knew exactly how to ruin someones day |
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"I AM TOTALLY STR8 ! but some guys put that they are str8 ! i wonder why ? it really baffles me ! my x told me she had played with 2 bi guys when we had split up , i stormed off ,and went str8 to the CLINIC , FRANKIE XX
Good job she didn't tell you about the 9 man bareback gang bang with the straight guys.
My arse was in TATTERS after that.
Brilliant!!
Would I be far wrong in suspecting the x (ex) hadn't slept with two bi-guys.... She just knew exactly how to ruin someones day "
Hook?
Line?
Sinker? |
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"I AM TOTALLY STR8 ! but some guys put that they are str8 ! i wonder why ? it really baffles me ! my x told me she had played with 2 bi guys when we had split up , i stormed off ,and went str8 to the CLINIC , FRANKIE XX
Good job she didn't tell you about the 9 man bareback gang bang with the straight guys.
My arse was in TATTERS after that.
Brilliant!!
Would I be far wrong in suspecting the x (ex) hadn't slept with two bi-guys.... She just knew exactly how to ruin someones day "
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"I AM TOTALLY STR8 ! but some guys put that they are str8 ! i wonder why ? it really baffles me ! my x told me she had played with 2 bi guys when we had split up , i stormed off ,and went str8 to the CLINIC , FRANKIE XX
Good job she didn't tell you about the 9 man bareback gang bang with the straight guys.
My arse was in TATTERS after that.
Brilliant!!
Would I be far wrong in suspecting the x (ex) hadn't slept with two bi-guys.... She just knew exactly how to ruin someones day
xx"
NO !she had ,and then she showed me the profile she had set up in my daughters name ! WITH the verifications off the 2 guys in question ,AND even then wanted me to stay the night , LOL ha ha so funny ! |
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"I AM TOTALLY STR8 ! but some guys put that they are str8 ! i wonder why ? it really baffles me ! my x told me she had played with 2 bi guys when we had split up , i stormed off ,and went str8 to the CLINIC , FRANKIE XX
Good job she didn't tell you about the 9 man bareback gang bang with the straight guys.
My arse was in TATTERS after that.
Brilliant!!
Would I be far wrong in suspecting the x (ex) hadn't slept with two bi-guys.... She just knew exactly how to ruin someones day
xxNO !she had ,and then she showed me the profile she had set up in my daughters name ! WITH the verifications off the 2 guys in question ,AND even then wanted me to stay the night , LOL ha ha so funny !"
What a hoot, absolutely hilarious.....she barebacks? they bareback? you bareback? yet you are the one running to the clinic? I'd be running to the funny farm mate. |
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"I AM TOTALLY STR8 ! but some guys put that they are str8 ! i wonder why ? it really baffles me ! my x told me she had played with 2 bi guys when we had split up , i stormed off ,and went str8 to the CLINIC , FRANKIE XX
Good job she didn't tell you about the 9 man bareback gang bang with the straight guys.
My arse was in TATTERS after that.
Brilliant!!
Would I be far wrong in suspecting the x (ex) hadn't slept with two bi-guys.... She just knew exactly how to ruin someones day
xxNO !she had ,and then she showed me the profile she had set up in my daughters name ! WITH the verifications off the 2 guys in question ,AND even then wanted me to stay the night , LOL ha ha so funny !"
Can you send me the usernames of the two guys? |
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"I AM TOTALLY STR8 ! but some guys put that they are str8 ! i wonder why ? it really baffles me ! my x told me she had played with 2 bi guys when we had split up , i stormed off ,and went str8 to the CLINIC , FRANKIE XX"
I can't actually decide whether you're being serious by that or not... if you are then I feel a little bit sorry for you. Only a little bit mind... there's nothing to stop you educating yourself.  |
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"I AM TOTALLY STR8 ! but some guys put that they are str8 ! i wonder why ? it really baffles me ! my x told me she had played with 2 bi guys when we had split up , i stormed off ,and went str8 to the CLINIC , FRANKIE XX
I can't actually decide whether you're being serious by that or not... if you are then I feel a little bit sorry for you. Only a little bit mind... there's nothing to stop you educating yourself. "
DONT worry i have educated myself . guess was too trusting , FRANKIE XX |
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" xxNO !she had ,and then she showed me the profile she had set up in my daughters name ! WITH the verifications off the 2 guys in question ,AND even then wanted me to stay the night , LOL ha ha so funny !
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Would you have stayed the night if she hadnt put the verifications up?
Laugh out Loud ha ha so funny! |
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"I AM TOTALLY STR8 ! but some guys put that they are str8 ! i wonder why ? it really baffles me ! my x told me she had played with 2 bi guys when we had split up , i stormed off ,and went str8 to the CLINIC , FRANKIE XX
Good job she didn't tell you about the 9 man bareback gang bang with the straight guys.
My arse was in TATTERS after that.
Brilliant!!
Would I be far wrong in suspecting the x (ex) hadn't slept with two bi-guys.... She just knew exactly how to ruin someones day
xxNO !she had ,and then she showed me the profile she had set up in my daughters name ! WITH the verifications off the 2 guys in question ,AND even then wanted me to stay the night , LOL ha ha so funny !
What a hoot, absolutely hilarious.....she barebacks? they bareback? you bareback? yet you are the one running to the clinic? I'd be running to the funny farm mate."
HA HA so witty ,ONLY mistake i made was TRUSTING ? |
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"I AM TOTALLY STR8 ! but some guys put that they are str8 ! i wonder why ? it really baffles me ! my x told me she had played with 2 bi guys when we had split up , i stormed off ,and went str8 to the CLINIC , FRANKIE XX
Good job she didn't tell you about the 9 man bareback gang bang with the straight guys.
My arse was in TATTERS after that.
Brilliant!!
Would I be far wrong in suspecting the x (ex) hadn't slept with two bi-guys.... She just knew exactly how to ruin someones day
xxNO !she had ,and then she showed me the profile she had set up in my daughters name ! WITH the verifications off the 2 guys in question ,AND even then wanted me to stay the night , LOL ha ha so funny !
What a hoot, absolutely hilarious.....she barebacks? they bareback? you bareback? yet you are the one running to the clinic? I'd be running to the funny farm mate.HA HA so witty ,ONLY mistake i made was TRUSTING ? "
TRUST me, you have shot yourself in the foot with the homophobic knee jerk reaction you have shown in this forum, and your obvious enjoyment of bareback.
I know many people who play with bi guys and women.... the implication you make is that bi's are as reckless and uncaring about personal health and hygiene as you and your ex? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think i get that fellas point even if his ex had of slept with a single man he still would of went to get a check up ??"
Bi or straight single though? |
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I note with interest the following;
Our friend from planet STR8 is back here with a new profile after being 'messed about by complete timewasters and idiots'.
The briefest audit of his profile verifications shows him having sex with people who also meet MM couples and have sex with them.
I'll leave it to others to draw their own conclusions as to the poster.
I've seen enough to draw mine.
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"I think i get that fellas point even if his ex had of slept with a single man he still would of went to get a check up ??"
I read it differently, sorry! He didn't write "she slept with two guys" he wrote "she slept with two bi-guys".... the 'bi' bit included changes the whole tone when it is followed by 'running off to the clinic'.
Just because a man is bi it doesn't make him 'unclean'. We are all capable of catching something unsavourable.
Q. Are all straight fems and guys free of STD's??? Nuff said!!! |
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"I note with interest the following;
Our friend from planet STR8 is back here with a new profile after being 'messed about by complete timewasters and idiots'.
The briefest audit of his profile verifications shows him having sex with people who also meet MM couples and have sex with them.
I'll leave it to others to draw their own conclusions as to the poster.
I've seen enough to draw mine.
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I don't think we'll see a post on here for a while.... Someone has an emergency appointment at the clinic |
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"I note with interest the following;
Our friend from planet STR8 is back here with a new profile after being 'messed about by complete timewasters and idiots'.
The briefest audit of his profile verifications shows him having sex with people who also meet MM couples and have sex with them.
I'll leave it to others to draw their own conclusions as to the poster.
I've seen enough to draw mine.
I don't think we'll see a post on here for a while.... Someone has an emergency appointment at the clinic "
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I’m confused. Perhaps you could help me?
You state that when your ex-girlfriend told you she had sex with two bi-guys you ‘Stormed off and went straight to the clinic’. You then say that she had put up a new profile, in your daughters name no less, and had the temerity to ask you to stay the night.
You then say; ‘LOL ha ha, so funny’.
Just not sure where the funny part was, the one which made you ‘laugh out loud’?
Or am I missing something?
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"I’m confused. Perhaps you could help me?
You state that when your ex-girlfriend told you she had sex with two bi-guys you ‘Stormed off and went straight to the clinic’. You then say that she had put up a new profile, in your daughters name no less, and had the temerity to ask you to stay the night.
You then say; ‘LOL ha ha, so funny’.
Just not sure where the funny part was, the one which made you ‘laugh out loud’?
Or am I missing something?
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I think I'm missing something too
Oh btw..... Last login 2hrs ago... Deffo trip to the clinic |
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"how says they are str8 when
in fact they are bi just to get a shag
It is a difficult one because your desires can change. For many years I considered myself to be 100% heterosexual and wasn’t interested in bi play. However having experimented in other areas I found it pleasurable and exciting. It may be the slight taboo side or the fear of friends finding out but I have had some fantastic bi experiences but I often still think of myself as heterosexual at times and the bi play just experimental ventures. People do change though and should we not let people change their sexuality as they travel through life?"
yes and stop trying to put them in boxes. I have bi curious on my profile as I like any sensual and erotic activity with men or women.
I do like to get fucked though most of all and will only play with peeps I am attracted to. It's not everytime that you will find both the man and the woman attractive. So many variables. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love these forums you learn something new every day! I didn't realise you could be straight, have numerous same sex experiences and then be straight again! Have several more same sex experiences then become straight again, but no way Jose, no sirry, is that bi!
Alrighty then!
It’s called sexual fluidity…. and is perfectly normal."
Oh no!!! I'm a freak!!! 
50 years alive, 31 years sexually active and not ONCE have I had the desire to play with another woman!
 I'll just have to accept I'm not normal! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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speaking as a Bi female i would like to assure most of the women on here that contrary to profile statements and popular belief most bi curious women here are more Bi Playful than anything else
they enjoy the soft touching, kissing and fondling of being with a woman but draw the line there
there is generally not a lustful desire for the same sex
compounded even more by the fact you wont fancy every woman you see anyway
so rest in your beds at night
not having sex with women or just being bi playful is more the norm than you think |
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" my x told me she had played with 2 bi guys when we had split up , i stormed off ,and went str8 to the CLINIC , FRANKIE XX
Due to the forum amnesty.. I am not going to mention how offensive that reads.
hope you got the all clear.
Have a great 2011.
I agree View,I started a post and then deleted it "
So did I!
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By (user no longer on site)
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We're both Bi,
And often heave a sigh,
Sometimes in pleasure
But mostly with a wry
Smile
As it transpires
That it's not only the guys
That bluff
And huff and puff
For a while
To appeal to us
And hope we don't fuss
And accept
Their invite and wink
And message with smile
But we know they collect
Pics and are not select
But we
Go with flow and just maybe.....
You never know!!! |
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"I AM TOTALLY STR8 ! but some guys put that they are str8 ! i wonder why ? it really baffles me ! my x told me she had played with 2 bi guys when we had split up , i stormed off ,and went str8 to the CLINIC , FRANKIE XX
My new girlfirend told me she had played with you.
my wife told me she looked at your cock thats me off to the clinic
I went straight to the clinic."
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By (user no longer on site)
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Happy to say I'm bi... But as always you cut your cloth to suit so met many straight couples and play straight... But it's amazing how many straight couples and guys who put straight only on to their profiles that contact me looking to play... It seems to be much More acceptable for the girls to play and say they are bi than it is for the boys |
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"Happy to say I'm bi... But as always you cut your cloth to suit so met many straight couples and play straight... But it's amazing how many straight couples and guys who put straight only on to their profiles that contact me looking to play... It seems to be much More acceptable for the girls to play and say they are bi than it is for the boys"
I wonder why that is? |
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"Happy to say I'm bi... But as always you cut your cloth to suit so met many straight couples and play straight... But it's amazing how many straight couples and guys who put straight only on to their profiles that contact me looking to play... It seems to be much More acceptable for the girls to play and say they are bi than it is for the boys
I wonder why that is?"
That’s probably because the ladies are more open about it all and proud, rather than hiding it all making it look seedy and something people should be ashamed of.
Feel sorry for the openly bisexual people out there, it must be like a stealth mission trying to find playmates, then there’s that feel good factor when being mailed by people with straight profiles who will only meet you if you won’t tell anyone
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