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Respond to a simple 'Hi' message if you found the sender very pleasing to the eye and had a half decent profile ?
Would you delve further to see if he/she/they had more to offer or simply dismiss ? |
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I'll be honest if I get a 'hi' message and nothing more I delete it, I've probably missed out on some really nice guys this way that may not know how to start a conversation  |
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"Always. Even if they have a shit profile there's a person behind it. Some are just as bland. Some are bloody good fun. -)"
This.
All conversation starts somewhere. It may not lead anywhere, a start is a start though.
I suspect it's different for men, we *sweeping generalisation* probably have less mail to answer.
I might have a different view if I received 300 hi messages a day. |
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"Respond to a simple 'Hi' message if you found the sender very pleasing to the eye and had a half decent profile ?
Would you delve further to see if he/she/they had more to offer or simply dismiss ?"
No!
If they're the other end of the country (and I only meet locals), black (when I only meet white), Dom (when I only meet subs)...get the picture, their physical appearance has absolutely no bearing in my decision making. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Respond to a simple 'Hi' message if you found the sender very pleasing to the eye and had a half decent profile ?
Would you delve further to see if he/she/they had more to offer or simply dismiss ?
No!
If they're the other end of the country (and I only meet locals), black (when I only meet white), Dom (when I only meet subs)...get the picture, their physical appearance has absolutely no bearing in my decision making."
"their physical appearance has absolutely no bearing in my decision"
Well except for the physical apreance of their skin colour right? |
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Yes, it's mostly about looks for me. Frequently though the ensuing conversation consists of us sending entire sentences with questions and the sender of the "hi" message continuing to be monosyllabic, we give up at that point. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Respond to a simple 'Hi' message if you found the sender very pleasing to the eye and had a half decent profile ?
Would you delve further to see if he/she/they had more to offer or simply dismiss ?
No!
If they're the other end of the country (and I only meet locals), black (when I only meet white), Dom (when I only meet subs)...get the picture, their physical appearance has absolutely no bearing in my decision making."
OK then, let's say they are a white sub within 5-10 miles, would ya ?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I'm horny, yeah
Are you horny now?"
No I've just cum and am debating to rent either a bycycle or a scooter now I've learned that scooters can use the cycle lanes here in Holland |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Always. Even if they have a shit profile there's a person behind it. Some are just as bland. Some are bloody good fun. -)
This.
All conversation starts somewhere. It may not lead anywhere, a start is a start though.
I suspect it's different for men, we *sweeping generalisation* probably have less mail to answer.
I might have a different view if I received 300 hi messages a day."
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"I'd answe and see what came back. As good looking as they might be, if they can't spark any interest in my head, I'm not interested. "
What if they spark an interest in another part of your body?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I'm horny, yeah
Are you horny now?
No I've just cum and am debating to rent either a bycycle or a scooter now I've learned that scooters can use the cycle lanes here in Holland "
Oh.  I'll keep my "Hi" to myself, then.
Get the scooter!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Saying just a hi in a first message isn't the worst crime going,it's when you are still having a one word conversation three messages in! I tested this recently,it got dull!"
Then I just say sorry we're not compatible. |
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"I'd answe and see what came back. As good looking as they might be, if they can't spark any interest in my head, I'm not interested.
What if they spark an interest in another part of your body? "
I'd just have a wank and not bother replying. I don't like boring one word messages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I put about a good 20 minutes into my messages to the profiles I like! Thinking that if they see I've put genuine effort they might give me a Hi!! But genuinely I get nothing back! It can be a bit disheartening at times! But I'm sure one day I might get a Hi  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yes , and it would go one of two ways .
If they were local we would answer with - hi , fancy a meet ?
If they were quite a distance away - we would say hi , sorry we can't travel too far , but we would love to meet you sometime .
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By (user no longer on site)
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No I like a message to tell me something about the person ..a simple hi is bland, boring and lazy
Same goes for profiles.
The person may be good looking but if there is nothing behind it doesn't work for me I'm afraid
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"Respond to a simple 'Hi' message if you found the sender very pleasing to the eye and had a half decent profile ?
Would you delve further to see if he/she/they had more to offer or simply dismiss ?"
Delve |
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"Respond to a simple 'Hi' message if you found the sender very pleasing to the eye and had a half decent profile ?
Would you delve further to see if he/she/they had more to offer or simply dismiss ?"
I regularly respond to "hi". I say hello back and wait to see what the next move is. Some are so flummoxed they never message again, others move straight to wanna fuk or suk my cok (those spellings are standard) and just occasionally it's lead to a proper conversation and even more occasionally meets. |
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It very much depends on my mood and how many pushy, vulgar,sick, stupid or boring messages I have just had to plow through.
But if I'm in a good mood I will reply to every message regardless of distance, lack of pics, the 'will fill this in later' on an over a year old profile or a complete lack of common interests.
*FYI today isn't a good day to send a hi message  |
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"Respond to a simple 'Hi' message if you found the sender very pleasing to the eye and had a half decent profile ?
Would you delve further to see if he/she/they had more to offer or simply dismiss ?
Delve "
You just can't beat a good delve... |
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yes we would respond to a simple "hi" and have done,
not everyone is super articulate and can write a ballad as an opening message, could be that they are shy and maybe a little intimidated by some profiles, i know we have been.
its all about writing the right thing to the right person on the right day and you might just get lucky |
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