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Dressed for the occasion

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Who , like me finds it irritating to be told what a prospective wants you to wear.

Then to answer the door in said outfit.... Hells bells ,,.... All you guys do is splash on a bit of aftershave....... Give me a break... I'll wear what I want to wear !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My partner says he likes me in a dress, so I try to wear dresses when seeing him. I'm alright with that kind of suggestion as I want to make him happy and feel attractive. I wouldn't be okay with it if he demanded certain outfits.

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

" I'll wear what I want to wear ! "

good for you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Who , like me finds it irritating to be told what a prospective wants you to wear.

Then to answer the door in said outfit.... Hells bells ,,.... All you guys do is splash on a bit of aftershave....... Give me a break... I'll wear what I want to wear ! "

It is difficult to get out of a car in a gimp suit or order at a McDonald's drive thru

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm sometimes just wearing a towel

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

No one tells me what to wear but if I know a guy likes a certain thing I will wear it, but if they told me then pfffft

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By *sla69Woman over a year ago

coventry/Leicestershire border

"Who , like me finds it irritating to be told what a prospective wants you to wear.

Then to answer the door in said outfit.... Hells bells ,,.... All you guys do is splash on a bit of aftershave....... Give me a break... I'll wear what I want to wear ! "

I agree with you here

Although my regular friend prefers naked so i dont have to worry

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I actually love when S chooses what I wear - I ask him to decide for me!

At least that way we definitely avoid the chaos of me emptying my wardrobe and trying on every outfit in it...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As a crossdresser I get a kick out of wearing an outfit that's been requested by whoever I'm meeting....

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I always turn up for meets in ma Spiderman outfit

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I ask if they are boob or bum man!

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By *iscean MaleMan over a year ago

Darlaston

I dont ask anyone how to meet... i get bored when lady asks.."what shall i wear" yaawwwn

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

Someone begged me not to wear my sheep onesie

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Who , like me finds it irritating to be told what a prospective wants you to wear.

Then to answer the door in said outfit.... Hells bells ,,.... All you guys do is splash on a bit of aftershave....... Give me a break... I'll wear what I want to wear ! "

A special request once in a while for a partner maybe, but other than that I like independent people who know what suits them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"No one tells me what to wear but if I know a guy likes a certain thing I will wear it, but if they told me then pfffft

My thoughts entirely, and it's starting to put me off meeting people when they start making demands

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

If someone has 'you must wear stockings when we meet' on their profile I pass them by. If during a message swap they start dictating what I am to wear when meeting, I'll lose interest.

I know I know, lingerie and sexy outfits are gorgeous to look at, but they're hell to wear sometimes. Stockings are a right PITA and, as Dara O'Briain says, make women look like they've been partially dipped in ink. And why are stockings considered sexy but pop socks not? They are, essentially, the same thing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Someone begged me not to wear my sheep onesie

I've got a great commando one, but I look like one of the seven dwarves in it lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I have met them before I'm happy to dress for them. It's all part of the fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If someone has 'you must wear stockings when we meet' on their profile I pass them by. If during a message swap they start dictating what I am to wear when meeting, I'll lose interest.

I ditched the basques after breaking nails trying to tie the damned things ... Anyone want to buy them ? Lol

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I used to buy new outfits for new meets....But then I am a lingerie whore

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By *ancs MinxWoman over a year ago

Burnley

"No one tells me what to wear but if I know a guy likes a certain thing I will wear it, but if they told me then pfffft

My thoughts entirely, and it's starting to put me off meeting people when they start making demands "

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By *igeiaWoman over a year ago

Bristol

If it's someone I've met before and I know they have a thing for seamed stockings, or have mentioned a particular lingerie shot on my profile that they like or that they think I look cute in my glasses or that they like my hair up then I might think of it when I'm planning what to wear to meet then. With regular meets I've chatted about certain outfits since it ties into a shared fantasy. But anyone dictating what I wear out of nowhere gets pretty short shrift.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

First meets it's not my place to say. I'll always have a suit on unless I'm asked otherwise or circumstance dictates

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Messages asking me to wear certain items of clothing don't irritate me particularly. I would just tell them at that point that what I wear is my choice always.

I have never asked my OH, my friends etc advice on clothes or whether items of clothing look nice or suit me. I don't really care what other people think, I've always had a certain quirkiness to my clothing so I'm unlikely to seek advice from others and I wouldn't really accept requests from strangers

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By *iamondjoeMan over a year ago

Glastonbury

"Then to answer the door in said outfit.... Hells bells"

This individual can fuck right off

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

At least most guys offer to buy you the stuff they want to see you wearing.

Had some expect me to buy it, really.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've never had anyone try to dictate what I wear, but someone I was chatting too kept saying I had to make sure to 'do my nails pretty'.

I'm a gardener, nail varnish just doesn't stay on!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Then to answer the door in said outfit.... Hells bells

This individual can fuck right off"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Making demands would not go down well with me. Mentioning they like something or mentioning a specific thing they've seen me in is fine. Sometimes I'll wear it, other times I have other ideas anyway.

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By *asycouple1971Couple over a year ago

midlands

I chose Mrs last outfit for her on our last meet as she couldnt decided and she was happy. I get to choose the next outfit again.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My partner says he likes me in a dress, so I try to wear dresses when seeing him. I'm alright with that kind of suggestion as I want to make him happy and feel attractive. I wouldn't be okay with it if he demanded certain outfits. "

This

I like wearing what will turn a guy on. If he likes a specific thing, I would like to know so I can wear it for him. But if he demanded it, that won't fly with me.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't respond well to demands.

But if you know your partner likes something why would you not dress with that in mind?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've never come across anyone who has dictated to me what I should wear.

I choose my outfit with the person & where I am meeting them in mind

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Birthday suits are my favourite btw.