so your chatting away to someone just being polite going back and forth .. then the do you have a face pic question comes up....exchange face pics and bam i am blocked. not a sorry your not really someone i find attractive just blocked. Not like i am going to send abuse if someone doesnt fancy me i am not mad...... |
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People do though. Get abuse I mean.
Sometimes it's uncomfortable to have enjoyed chatting with someone but if a physical attraction is important and it's not there then maybe it's simpler just to stop contact.
Don't let it knock your confidence. We're not all attracted to everyone. Such is life. Move on and find someone who is attracted to you.  |
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"so your chatting away to someone just being polite going back and forth .. then the do you have a face pic question comes up....exchange face pics and bam i am blocked. not a sorry your not really someone i find attractive just blocked. Not like i am going to send abuse if someone doesnt fancy me i am not mad......"
But consider this: they didn't fancy you and blocked you. Had they replied 'we don't fancy you', it would have made you message them 'why not?' Messages and would have been a waste of time. As it is, you started a thread about it!!! You can be sure they are reading this and thinking 'phew! narrow escape' |
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Nasty people.. Really? I thought fab was exclusive not elusive.
Block buttons are great for guys who fear rejection and after I said no thank you.. Go off into one. Rejection is not nice but its part of being here. You guys do the same. Ask me loads of time for face pic. One or two may carry on chatting. I do not hold it against them. We are not all suited xx |
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"oh no i am i am not the kind of person to dwell on a block lol i am also not the kinda bloke to get abusive thats just playground stuff "
but some do..
and given that your peeved enough to start a thread about it maybe that in itself will have the 'blocker' thinking 'yeah we did right'..
respect that others wont think that..
its one of those things on here and on the web, give it not a thought and move on.. |
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Just out of interest, how many face pics do you send ?
I often found that if someone sent me a few, there would always be one I didn't like and that'd be enough for me to say 'no thanks'
Shallow maybe, but I can't have been on my own in doing this ? |
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"so your chatting away to someone just being polite going back and forth .. then the do you have a face pic question comes up....exchange face pics and bam i am blocked. not a sorry your not really someone i find attractive just blocked. Not like i am going to send abuse if someone doesnt fancy me i am not mad......"
Some people try to avoid the abuse and being bullied, and effectively becoming rude as well without them even knowing it. Oh well like I said in one of the threads before, kids these days are forgetting the very basics things taught at home and in school, like manners of responding. |
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"oh no i am i am not the kind of person to dwell on a block lol i am also not the kinda bloke to get abusive thats just playground stuff
but some do..
and given that your peeved enough to start a thread about it maybe that in itself will have the 'blocker' thinking 'yeah we did right'..
respect that others wont think that..
its one of those things on here and on the web, give it not a thought and move on.."
that's what I thought. |
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"so your chatting away to someone just being polite going back and forth .. then the do you have a face pic question comes up....exchange face pics and bam i am blocked. not a sorry your not really someone i find attractive just blocked. Not like i am going to send abuse if someone doesnt fancy me i am not mad......"
Some people are incredibly childish and block instead of being adult and saying "no thank you". See it as a lucky escape. |
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"so your chatting away to someone just being polite going back and forth .. then the do you have a face pic question comes up....exchange face pics and bam i am blocked. not a sorry your not really someone i find attractive just blocked. Not like i am going to send abuse if someone doesnt fancy me i am not mad......"
It happens...dont worry, it is not personal. Move on and keep enjoying yourself x  |
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"I think a lot of people are too picky lol
bollocks,,oh any holes a goal crap,,please,its up to the individual,that isn't being picky
Picky is good. I'm a big fan of that!  "
I think its normal to be picky |
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"Oh well like I said in one of the threads before, kids these days are forgetting the very basics things taught at home and in school, like manners of responding."
There shouldn't be any kids on here  |
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we say something like sorry not for us - usually this is enough - occasionally we get tell us what exactly or say we look better in the flesh and push to keep chatting - then we block - |
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"Most guys do turn nasty so after a few horrible messages, we just block. Why risk it? You got the message so what's the problem?"
Most guys? Is it really that bad on here? |
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"Most guys do turn nasty so after a few horrible messages, we just block. Why risk it? You got the message so what's the problem?
Most guys? Is it really that bad on here? "
Yes most. Run my inbox for a day and you'd be ashamed of your gender. |
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"Most guys do turn nasty so after a few horrible messages, we just block. Why risk it? You got the message so what's the problem?
Most guys? Is it really that bad on here? "
No. Most guys are really polite.  |
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"not every1 is everyones cup of tea in here tho just to block is a bit harsh in my opinion"
I've done this though, when i first joined.
I didn't know how to tell someone i'd enjoyed talking to for weeks that i didn't fancy him. He even knew i wouldn't fancy him coz he said with the message 'and here's where you stop talking to me'.So must have had women do this to him before.
It's the reason why i won't reply to messages without pics now, spares that awkwardness later. |
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