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As the philosopher Michael Ball declared in his 1990 thesis
Love, love changes everything
Hands and faces, earth and sky
Love, love changes everything
How you live and how you die |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No.
Love and sex aren't always compatible.
Just because you love someone does not mean the sex is better with them."
you,ve just shattered EVERYONES dreams on here,,huh,,hope yer pleased with yerself |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No.
Love and sex aren't always compatible.
Just because you love someone does not mean the sex is better with them.
you,ve just shattered EVERYONES dreams on here,,huh,,hope yer pleased with yerself"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No.
Love and sex aren't always compatible.
Just because you love someone does not mean the sex is better with them."
Not automatically no. But the sex that you have with someone you love means a hell of a lot more. I think that is the difference |
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"No.
Love and sex aren't always compatible.
Just because you love someone does not mean the sex is better with them.
Not automatically no. But the sex that you have with someone you love means a hell of a lot more. I think that is the difference"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No.
Love and sex aren't always compatible.
Just because you love someone does not mean the sex is better with them.
Not automatically no. But the sex that you have with someone you love means a hell of a lot more. I think that is the difference"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No.
Love and sex aren't always compatible.
Just because you love someone does not mean the sex is better with them.
Not automatically no. But the sex that you have with someone you love means a hell of a lot more. I think that is the difference"
I agree Scarlet, it does mean more even if it's not that great  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I must be the negative of most.But I'd prefer to have sex with a girl I like,but don't love.
I hate commitment.
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ok,,ok,,ffs,im not that bothered bout meeting yer mum n dad   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes it does normal sex is great with the right person xxx But when you love them and them you your not just sharing your body but your mind, heart and soul too xxx"
hmmm,,what if yer mindless  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes it does normal sex is great with the right person xxx But when you love them and them you your not just sharing your body but your mind, heart and soul too xxx"
I agree with that totally
But that's not for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes it does normal sex is great with the right person xxx But when you love them and them you your not just sharing your body but your mind, heart and soul too xxx"
I don't think I've ever shared that much of me with anyone and doubt I ever will. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I must be the negative of most.But I'd prefer to have sex with a girl I like,but don't love.
I hate commitment.
ok,,ok,,ffs,im not that bothered bout meeting yer mum n dad "
No offence Mikka,but if I took you home you would probably finish them both off 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I must be the negative of most.But I'd prefer to have sex with a girl I like,but don't love.
I hate commitment.
ok,,ok,,ffs,im not that bothered bout meeting yer mum n dad
No offence Mikka,but if I took you home you would probably finish them both off
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I didn't mean that nasty  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes it does normal sex is great with the right person xxx But when you love them and them you your not just sharing your body but your mind, heart and soul too xxx"
Totally agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it makes a difference to how you feel about sex and the other person, both during and after the act. If you love someone you dont leap up and go home right away. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not physically for me, it wouldn't make a difference.
I would tell someone i loved them while fucking them but that'd be the only difference."
Standard Practice to tell them you Love them while fucking is it not ?
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"Yes it does normal sex is great with the right person xxx But when you love them and them you your not just sharing your body but your mind, heart and soul too xxx
hmmm,,what if yer mindless "
Well your body and soul compensate xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not physically for me, it wouldn't make a difference.
I would tell someone i loved them while fucking them but that'd be the only difference.
Standard Practice to tell them you Love them while fucking is it not ?
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That would freak me out!! |
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"Yes it does normal sex is great with the right person xxx But when you love them and them you your not just sharing your body but your mind, heart and soul too xxx
I agree with that totally
But that's not for me."
Everyones different but sometimes i do wish for more especially im more of a cuddler after sex than up and run xx |
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"Yes it does normal sex is great with the right person xxx But when you love them and them you your not just sharing your body but your mind, heart and soul too xxx
Totally agree"
Thanks thats how i see it xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes it does normal sex is great with the right person xxx But when you love them and them you your not just sharing your body but your mind, heart and soul too xxx
I agree with that totally
But that's not for me.
Everyones different but sometimes i do wish for more especially im more of a cuddler after sex than up and run xx"
Cuddles are great but they do not mean love or commitment. |
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"As the philosopher Michael Ball declared in his 1990 thesis
Love, love changes everything
Hands and faces, earth and sky
Love, love changes everything
How you live and how you die"
Strictly speaking, Mr Ball was merely the conduit through which Mr Andrew Lloyd Webber's words were conveyed.
However, yes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes it does normal sex is great with the right person xxx But when you love them and them you your not just sharing your body but your mind, heart and soul too xxx
I agree with that totally
But that's not for me.
Everyones different but sometimes i do wish for more especially im more of a cuddler after sex than up and run xx
Cuddles are great but they do not mean love or commitment."
Neither does Sex though ? |
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"As the philosopher Michael Ball declared in his 1990 thesis
Love, love changes everything
Hands and faces, earth and sky
Love, love changes everything
How you live and how you die"
Planning futures, snapping years,
All our wisdom disappears.
Days are longer words mean more
But pain is deeper than before.
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"Yes it does normal sex is great with the right person xxx But when you love them and them you your not just sharing your body but your mind, heart and soul too xxx
I agree with that totally
But that's not for me.
Everyones different but sometimes i do wish for more especially im more of a cuddler after sex than up and run xx
Cuddles are great but they do not mean love or commitment."
True still prefer that than bang and go xxx Helps get over the emotional drop you get after a great session xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes it does normal sex is great with the right person xxx But when you love them and them you your not just sharing your body but your mind, heart and soul too xxx
I agree with that totally
But that's not for me.
Everyones different but sometimes i do wish for more especially im more of a cuddler after sex than up and run xx
Cuddles are great but they do not mean love or commitment.
True still prefer that than bang and go xxx Helps get over the emotional drop you get after a great session xxx"
So are you saying you are in Love with everyone you sleep with ? |
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Love makes everything so much better and so much worse.
Of course love makes sex better.
When love is there everything just seems bright and alive, when it gone it's like someone's turned the lights out.
I would never want to live a life without the possibility of love but, for now, I feel I've had my fill for a while. |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"No.
Love and sex aren't always compatible.
Just because you love someone does not mean the sex is better with them.
Not automatically no. But the sex that you have with someone you love means a hell of a lot more. I think that is the difference
I agree Scarlet, it does mean more even if it's not that great "
err other option, dont love someone whos crap in bed...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not in my opinion - you can have crap sex with someone you love and amazing sex with someone you just met... and vise versa."
Very true but if it's crap with the one you love you work on it that's the only difference |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not physically for me, it wouldn't make a difference.
I would tell someone i loved them while fucking them but that'd be the only difference.
Standard Practice to tell them you Love them while fucking is it not ?
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Not for people i don't love, that's why i said it would be a difference.
And i didn't tell them every time either, most of the time i want an animalistic, dirty fuck. Sometimes romance can stay out the bedroom too. |
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"Not in my opinion - you can have crap sex with someone you love and amazing sex with someone you just met... and vise versa.
Very true but if it's crap with the one you love you work on it that's the only difference"
What about crap sex with a fuck bud?
It happens |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"Not in my opinion - you can have crap sex with someone you love and amazing sex with someone you just met... and vise versa.
Very true but if it's crap with the one you love you work on it that's the only difference
What about crap sex with a fuck bud?
It happens"
err ...try before you buy ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not in my opinion - you can have crap sex with someone you love and amazing sex with someone you just met... and vise versa.
Very true but if it's crap with the one you love you work on it that's the only difference
What about crap sex with a fuck bud?
It happens"
Not a good fuck bud? Whole idea of a fuck bud is a fuck bud to push the boundaries surely? Or you'd be better off with you're hand..! |
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By *uzy444Woman
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"Not in my opinion - you can have crap sex with someone you love and amazing sex with someone you just met... and vise versa.
Very true but if it's crap with the one you love you work on it that's the only difference
What about crap sex with a fuck bud?
It happens
Not a good fuck bud? Whole idea of a fuck bud is a fuck bud to push the boundaries surely? Or you'd be better off with you're hand..! "
this |
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"that's cold "
It isn't cold. Sex with my partner is about mutual pleasure and it is a bonding exercise, but after twenty years, it won't hold the same kinds of thrills as sex with someone new. It is still infinitely better for the soul though. |
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"No.
Love and sex aren't always compatible.
Just because you love someone does not mean the sex is better with them.
Not automatically no. But the sex that you have with someone you love means a hell of a lot more. I think that is the difference"
Agree with you. The sex I had with my husband left me feeling different to sex I've had with others. The difference is we loved each other: not loved or been loved by anyone else.
I've had great sex...but that "something" hasn't been there. |
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"Yes it does normal sex is great with the right person xxx But when you love them and them you your not just sharing your body but your mind, heart and soul too xxx"
Couldn't have said it better myself |
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"If sex is so much better with someone you love why swing and have sex with strangers?
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Because it's a different experience , not necessarily better , but an altogether more variable one .
Together we make love , on meets we let ourselves go into a different level - Sometimes outright filthy , other times erotic and passionate .
But once over , the sex was just sex and feelings are back with just each other .
We may relive a meet together , but ultimately the meets we have have no bearing on our feelings for each other |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes it does normal sex is great with the right person xxx But when you love them and them you your not just sharing your body but your mind, heart and soul too xxx
I agree with that totally
But that's not for me.
Everyones different but sometimes i do wish for more especially im more of a cuddler after sex than up and run xx
Cuddles are great but they do not mean love or commitment.
Neither does Sex though ?"
No. Neither does sex.There is a difference between love and lust and being 'in love.'
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By (user no longer on site)
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"had pretty awesome sex, didn't even know their name
let alone love em.."
Sometimes a girl can be a right slut and play the whore with a stranger which is so difficult to do with your husband |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"had pretty awesome sex, didn't even know their name
let alone love em..
Sometimes a girl can be a right slut and play the whore with a stranger which is so difficult to do with your husband"
Ooh nicely put, I agree  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If sex is so much better with someone you love why swing and have sex with strangers?
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The op was does love make a difference, not does love make it better. The sex i have with my husband is completely different to the sex I've had with other guys...so much so that i can't compare the 2. It's like trying to compare tea and coffee. I love both but couldn't say one was better. The feelings and emotion is what i get out of sex with my husband. The sex with others can be completely out of this world but for me it still doesn't have the love and that makes a difference....and i agree with someone who said about being more slutty with others. There is something more dirty about sex without love for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If sex is so much better with someone you love why swing and have sex with strangers?
The op was does love make a difference, not does love make it better. The sex i have with my husband is completely different to the sex I've had with other guys...so much so that i can't compare the 2. It's like trying to compare tea and coffee. I love both but couldn't say one was better. The feelings and emotion is what i get out of sex with my husband. The sex with others can be completely out of this world but for me it still doesn't have the love and that makes a difference....and i agree with someone who said about being more slutty with others. There is something more dirty about sex without love for me."
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"As the philosopher Michael Ball declared in his 1990 thesis
Love, love changes everything
Hands and faces, earth and sky
Love, love changes everything
How you live and how you die"
This is so nice.
Yes, for me love does make a difference in my sex life. I don't know how to phrase it, but things to so much more enhanced because of my love for and connection with Marc.
Sex with other people can be intense and amazing, but in a different way.
-Courtney |
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"As the philosopher Michael Ball declared in his 1990 thesis
Love, love changes everything
Hands and faces, earth and sky
Love, love changes everything
How you live and how you die
Strictly speaking, Mr Ball was merely the conduit through which Mr Andrew Lloyd Webber's words were conveyed.
However, yes."
were the words not the creation of sir Tim Rice, being bought to life by the music of sir Andrew Lloyd Webber...i may be wrong of course |
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