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"whats the most annoying??? 1. Having a message read then deleted. 2. Having a message read, deleted and blocked. 3. Having a message unread and deleted. " all water of a ducks back to me... if people can't deal with the real life adult world of "rejection", then they really shouldn't be in this for a start.... | |||
"whats the most annoying??? 1. Having a message read then deleted. 2. Having a message read, deleted and blocked. 3. Having a message unread and deleted. all water of a ducks back to me... if people can't deal with the real life adult world of "rejection", then they really shouldn't be in this for a start...." Thats cuz u is an M n S single male  | |||
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"whats the most annoying??? 1. Having a message read then deleted. 2. Having a message read, deleted and blocked. 3. Having a message unread and deleted. all water of a ducks back to me... if people can't deal with the real life adult world of "rejection", then they really shouldn't be in this for a start....Thats cuz u is an M n S single male "he he he love it !!!  | |||
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"I get all 3 too (not that I send that many messages in all fairness) but it's not so much annoying, obviously a little disappointing, but if I'm not right, I'm not right, that's just the way it is, you have to move on and accept it." Well hello gorgeous, fancy seeing you here xx | |||
"whats the most annoying??? 1. Having a message read then deleted. 2. Having a message read, deleted and blocked. 3. Having a message unread and deleted. " number 3. lol. tho number 2 probably happens when you send the message and you not sure whether it's been read or not. number 1 is you not matching their preferences. why the curiousity? | |||
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"I get all 3 too (not that I send that many messages in all fairness) but it's not so much annoying, obviously a little disappointing, but if I'm not right, I'm not right, that's just the way it is, you have to move on and accept it. Well hello gorgeous, fancy seeing you here xx" Lol, hello you! xx | |||
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"whats the most annoying??? 1. Having a message read then deleted. 2. Having a message read, deleted and blocked. 3. Having a message unread and deleted. number 3. lol. tho number 2 probably happens when you send the message and you not sure whether it's been read or not. number 1 is you not matching their preferences. why the curiousity? "Doing a favour for Sidney University | |||
"whats the most annoying??? 1. Having a message read then deleted. 2. Having a message read, deleted and blocked. 3. Having a message unread and deleted. number 3. lol. tho number 2 probably happens when you send the message and you not sure whether it's been read or not. number 1 is you not matching their preferences. why the curiousity? Doing a favour for Sidney University "ALL of it? | |||
"whats the most annoying??? 1. Having a message read then deleted. 2. Having a message read, deleted and blocked. 3. Having a message unread and deleted. number 3. lol. tho number 2 probably happens when you send the message and you not sure whether it's been read or not. number 1 is you not matching their preferences. why the curiousity? Doing a favour for Sidney University
ALL of it?"Just bits n pieces | |||
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"I refuse to answer a flawed question." Well lah di dah *waves* | |||
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"I would much prefer the very clear " Im not interested in the slightest, so fuck you and the horse you rode in on." I get confused if things aren't clear "Thats cuz u is an S n M type of single... | |||
" Well lah di dah *waves*" *waves back in a non lah di dah way* | |||
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"whats the most annoying??? 1. Having a message read then deleted. 2. Having a message read, deleted and blocked. 3. Having a message unread and deleted. " look you need to get this in proportion. Just think of all those tiny little sperms that rush up for one egg, all the hard work and effort they put in racing against each other and time and then only one, or maybe two if they are lucky, get a hit. | |||
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"dont give a damn now. new year new me. " amen! | |||
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"dont give a damn now. new year new me. amen! "too many got their heads up their own butts. let them get on with it.dont need em. | |||
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"Do people actually check to see if their messages have been read or deleted? i can honestly say if i send someone a message i never look to see if its been read "I don't. If someone is interested its great to hear back from them as i was interested in the first place. If they don't then i don't waste time worried about it. I am always surprised when people make a fuss about it as it isn't worth crying over. | |||
"Do people actually check to see if their messages have been read or deleted? i can honestly say if i send someone a message i never look to see if its been read
I don't. If someone is interested its great to hear back from them as i was interested in the first place. If they don't then i don't waste time worried about it. I am always surprised when people make a fuss about it as it isn't worth crying over."well no quite so if i mail someone and they mail back then i will re reply, if they dont mail back then i dont i really dont see what it matters if they have deleted your message or not | |||
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"Do people actually check to see if their messages have been read or deleted? i can honestly say if i send someone a message i never look to see if its been read
I don't. If someone is interested its great to hear back from them as i was interested in the first place. If they don't then i don't waste time worried about it. I am always surprised when people make a fuss about it as it isn't worth crying over.
well no quite so
if i mail someone and they mail back then i will re reply, if they dont mail back then i dont
i really dont see what it matters if they have deleted your message or not "I often wonder how many potential meets some miss out on while fretting over a no reply message. If its not to be then its not to be. There are 1000's of other members here who may want to. | |||
"Do people actually check to see if their messages have been read or deleted? i can honestly say if i send someone a message i never look to see if its been read
I don't. If someone is interested its great to hear back from them as i was interested in the first place. If they don't then i don't waste time worried about it. I am always surprised when people make a fuss about it as it isn't worth crying over.
well no quite so
if i mail someone and they mail back then i will re reply, if they dont mail back then i dont
i really dont see what it matters if they have deleted your message or not "correct | |||
"Don't really care thier the sort I don't want to chat to or meet thier loss "How is it "their" loss if they don't want you?!! Surely if you met their needs they'd pursue you?!! So hardly a loss! | |||
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"I do think the sent mail status should be a supporters only feature though, it'd some people from being so obsessive about it." Really?!! You think because someone coughs up a fiver they automatically stop becoming obsessive?!! Struggle to understand your logic. Then again I struggle to understand the arrogance of some people who seem incensed that mere mortals are not beating a path to their door! I delete probably about 95% of my messages without opening. I dare say a large percentage of posters will think I'm rude as they've read my profile blah, blah and they've met it! Not counting the text speaking, under 40s, from outside London, the married, short, Dom men really read my profile and saw I wasn't looking for them but wrote any way!
Some people convince themselves they meet the criteria when they don't! | |||
"Don't really care thier the sort I don't want to chat to or meet thier loss
How is it "their" loss if they don't want you?!! Surely if you met their needs they'd pursue you?!!
So hardly a loss!"haha i always think that too you see it so many times on here when people moan about other, not mailing, not meeting etc and people always say oh well their loss as a way to make them feel better if they wanted to meet you or mail you they would so how is it their loss? | |||
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"I do think the sent mail status should be a supporters only feature though, it'd some people from being so obsessive about it." A very good comment - totally agree! | |||
"I do think the sent mail status should be a supporters only feature though, it'd some people from being so obsessive about it. Really?!! You think because someone coughs up a fiver they automatically stop becoming obsessive?!! Struggle to understand your logic. Then again I struggle to understand the arrogance of some people who seem incensed that mere mortals are not beating a path to their door! I delete probably about 95% of my messages without opening. I dare say a large percentage of posters will think I'm rude as they've read my profile blah, blah and they've met it! Not counting the text speaking, under 40s, from outside London, the married, short, Dom men really read my profile and saw I wasn't looking for them but wrote any way!
Some people convince themselves they meet the criteria when they don't! "Well said. | |||
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"and ps..;;I have my own teeth and full head of hair is bound to guarantee a shag on here... " I have most of me teeth left and some a me hair xxx | |||
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"whats the most annoying??? 1. Having a message read then deleted. 2. Having a message read, deleted and blocked. 3. Having a message unread and deleted. " In reverse order: 3. As they may have done a bulk delete and you are collateral damage. Hence why sometimes guys send a message again. 1. Well at least they opened it. Shame they don't have the time to respond... 2. They opened it and assuming the message was civil are not adult or emotionally mature enough to reply no thanks. I've had a few no thanks back and I have been polite back, but this is the rare exception. To be honest if a woman does 1 or 2 above I'd most certainly *never* be interested in them again, no matter how hot they are. I want a woman who is mature enough to face up to problems with someone, not act like they are at school. - May sound harsh but on a dating site I have found it a very good indicator; unfortunately! cheers. | |||
"I do think the sent mail status should be a supporters only feature though, it'd some people from being so obsessive about it. Really?!! You think because someone coughs up a fiver they automatically stop becoming obsessive?!! Struggle to understand your logic." No not at all, but if some people don't have access to it, they can't watch it like a sleeping baby. | |||
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"By that logic you could say none supporters can only send reply emails and not make first contact. Trying to stop "annoying" things by charging for them won't really stop it. Other ways and means of been annoying will become apparent! "I could say that - but I didn't. The site might aswell make money out of the obsessive. | |||
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"Most annoying? Turning up to meet an Amazonian girl in Steel heeled 'fuck me' shoes, only to find some northern bint in dressing gown, slippers and a fag hanging out of her mouth who (after 20 seconds of hacking coughing) blithely asks 'eeee, were it today pet?' " FFS you seemed quite happy at the time  | |||
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Civility costs nothing, as you sow, so shall you reap. | |||
"I don't go with the scattergun approach, if I've taken the time to compose a relevant mail to someone, rather than a cut & paste extension of my profile, I like to get a response, even if it's "Fuck off, ugly loser" (Yeah, thanks for that ***** ****, I got that message loud and clear!) I do realise that not everyone possesses the same mental faculties as me, I'm lucky to be an erudite chap, a man of the world, so I try to make allowances for the Retard Factor on here - some people are just mouth-breathers and the fact they look great doesn't preclude them from being unable to process the large amount of interested parties who are responding to THEIR advertisement. I can handle rejection with good grace, I'm not so good at handling ignorance from fuckwits who are inviting intercourse (social first, then perhaps sexual), yet find it impossible take 30 seconds to say "thanks but no thanks". It's not rejection to simply delete mail read/unread/and block, it's pig ignorance, I don't care how much mail you are getting. It's the equivilent of meeting someone in person, someone who purports to be open and friendly, who, when you smile and say hello,ignores and blanks you. True, no-one should feel obliged to enter into protracted correspondence with someone not suitable, it's down to choice whether you want to be polite and civil, or show that you are possibly the kind of person who is only interested in what YOU can get out of meeting people here, no-one else counts. I know naming and shaming is not allowed, so I do have a shit-list somewhere else, it isn't hard to find.... One or two people here who have been messed about by timewasters may like to sit down for a minute and consider the friendly, attractive couple they were falling over themselves to meet, but who suddenly started ignoring them, provoking more and more desperate missives as to why there was now silence. Maybe, just maybe, that profile was a bogus one created via proxy by a disgruntled single man who is teaching them that payback can be a bitch(and fucking hilarious)
Civility costs nothing, as you sow, so shall you reap."Absoflogginlutely | |||
"whats the most annoying??? 1. Having a message read then deleted. 2. Having a message read, deleted and blocked. 3. Having a message unread and deleted. " always 3. Having a message unread and deleted. | |||
"Absoflogginlutely "I've sent you a photo of my cock, seeing as I'm often just passing Inverness on my way from Coventry to Warwick. I demand you send me your mobile no so I can arrange a shag. | |||
"I do think the sent mail status should be a supporters only feature though, it'd some people from being so obsessive about it." No offense intended, but that's bollocks. | |||
"whats the most annoying??? 1. Having a message read then deleted. 2. Having a message read, deleted and blocked. 3. Having a message unread and deleted. always 3. Having a message unread and deleted." It can't "always" be number 3 as there is no way of knowing whether the mail has been read or not before it was deleted.
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I've sent you a photo of my cock, seeing as I'm often just passing Inverness on my way from Coventry to Warwick. I demand you send me your mobile no so I can arrange a shag. "Let me just get my specs ... | |||
"Surely its not that difficult for people just to say no thanks?" No, but typing it hundreds of times can be dull | |||
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"Surely its not that difficult for people just to say no thanks? No, but typing it hundreds of times can be dull "can't say I have that problem lol | |||
"Surely its not that difficult for people just to say no thanks? No, but typing it hundreds of times can be dull
can't say I have that problem lol"It's purely a statistical thing hunny bunch, so I wouldn't worry about it lol x | |||
Unread is annoying as you don't know if a decision has been made or now.
So, if any site admins are reading a button to send a polite thanks but no thanks would be great! And to the ladys of the site.... if there was one would you use it?? | |||
"Another site that I won't name has a button to send a very polite thanks for your message but I'm not interested button. This is the best option in a long way I think as you know what the score is! Other than that anything that's read but not answered sends the same message in a more abrupt way
Unread is annoying as you don't know if a decision has been made or now.
So, if any site admins are reading a button to send a polite thanks but no thanks would be great! And to the ladys of the site.... if there was one would you use it??"Of course i would, as long as there was a "id rather stick pins in my eyes " button as well | |||
"whats the most annoying??? 1. Having a message read then deleted. 2. Having a message read, deleted and blocked. 3. Having a message unread and deleted. " The best thing to do is delete the message from your sent items after you have sent it. Then you never know what the recipient done with it lol. Well you do if they reply. | |||
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"whats the most annoying??? 1. Having a message read then deleted. 2. Having a message read, deleted and blocked. 3. Having a message unread and deleted. " surely you missed a 4th option ... a couple actually replying then agreeing to meet - so gotta find an excuse NOT to meet! as 3 today have after in EACH case a long exchange of messages and coming to agreement to meet today have (1) had an emergency, (2) unable to travel because of bank holiday train services, and (3) girlfriend just phoned wanting to go out tonight !!! | |||
