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Angry replies to "no thanks"

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

My Mrs just got a response from a guy she said no thanks to, the language and name calling in the message is too explicit to repeat, needles to say he's been reported, but I do wonder why guys have to go off on one cause they got a "no thanks" he should have been happy she took the time to actually reply, bloody single guys

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some of us are polite.

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

again... lets bash the single guys!!!

tell you what.... i'll send you some of the replies i have had when this "single guy" has had the sheer nerve and audacity to say no thank you to couples and to single women.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe he thought he was doing her a favour

1 guy out of 1000s and he stands out. Your inbox must be dull

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've never had a shitty response from saying no thank you

Most men are really very gracious about it

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By *entaur_UKMan over a year ago

Cannock

"again... lets bash the single guys!!!

tell you what.... i'll send you some of the replies i have had when this "single guy" has had the sheer nerve and audacity to say no thank you to couples and to single women.....

I've had some abuse too, i mean how dare a single guy ever say no, lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"again... lets bash the single guys!!!

tell you what.... i'll send you some of the replies i have had when this "single guy" has had the sheer nerve and audacity to say no thank you to couples and to single women.....

Please do, I never get any messages

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Maybe he thought he was doing her a favour

1 guy out of 1000s and he stands out. Your inbox must be dull

Not mine you numpty, the wife's, and she only gets mail when she's online, not 100s either like most couples or other women, she replies to most mail if the message is constructive

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"again... lets bash the single guys!!!

tell you what.... i'll send you some of the replies i have had when this "single guy" has had the sheer nerve and audacity to say no thank you to couples and to single women.....

I've had some abuse too, i mean how dare a single guy ever say no, lol. "

I know... my personal favourite is "i only asked you for a dare to see who could pull the ugliest bloke"......

do you think she took rejection well???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My Mrs just got a response from a guy she said no thanks to, the language and name calling in the message is too explicit to repeat, needles to say he's been reported, but I do wonder why guys have to go off on one cause they got a "no thanks" he should have been happy she took the time to actually reply, bloody single guys

Do not tar all single guys with the same brush not all are abusive

This is the reason alot of single guys wont talk to a couple in a club

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If he said a word more rude than "cunt" then i demand to know what it was!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Maybe he thought he was doing her a favour

1 guy out of 1000s and he stands out. Your inbox must be dull

Not mine you numpty, the wife's, and she only gets mail when she's online, not 100s either like most couples or other women, she replies to most mail if the message is constructive "

I expect she gets loads of compliments,far more than she does shitty replies

Where the thread saying how lovely the guys are that say nice things to her?

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Do not tar all single guys with the same brush not all are abusive

This is the reason alot of single guys wont talk to a couple in a club "

Other reasons could include lack of social skills and being boring.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Maybe he thought he was doing her a favour

1 guy out of 1000s and he stands out. Your inbox must be dull

Not mine you numpty, the wife's, and she only gets mail when she's online, not 100s either like most couples or other women, she replies to most mail if the message is constructive

I expect she gets loads of compliments,far more than she does shitty replies

Where the thread saying how lovely the guys are that say nice things to her?

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By *harpDressed ManMan over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

The deja vu around here is getting worse...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If he said a word more rude than "cunt" then i demand to know what it was!"

You would love the message I got after letting someone down. A very rare nasty one out of hundreds of gracious ones. On the odd occasion someone doesn't take kindly to my saying no thank you I let them know they really aren't missing out on much.

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By *rladytoyMan over a year ago

bournemouth

"I've never had a shitty response from saying no thank you

Most men are really very gracious about it "

Damnnnnn! Not noticed you before. Hello there !!

(Now watch me take it gracefully)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've had some abuse too, i mean how dare a single guy ever say no, lol. "

What single guys say no!

Surely that's against site rules?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We will be advertising this weekend for a single hoping the mood has picked up since last time we did it as we got some right butthurt sent to our inbox.

No neeeeed!!!

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS over a year ago

London

"I've never had a shitty response from saying no thank you

Most men are really very gracious about it "

So far so good too.

Maybe it has to do with the way the rejection is being delivered?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why does everyone just post about the odd idiot?

Why not post about the loads of very polite lovely single men who are lovely when they're told they're not my type.

I'm sick of negative posts

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why does everyone just post about the odd idiot?

Why not post about the loads of very polite lovely single men who are lovely when they're told they're not my type.

I'm sick of negative posts

You made my wife smile today, and for that i thankyou.

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

It's simple - attack is the best form of defence.

Lots of single guys are lovely

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"Why does everyone just post about the odd idiot?

Why not post about the loads of very polite lovely single men who are lovely when they're told they're not my type.

I'm sick of negative posts

This is like asking the press why they don't print the truth. Negativity sells

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By *kindofmagicXXXMan over a year ago

Bristol

We ain't all like that. Manners are a big thing with me. Not sure if it does any good sometimes though. There are good and bad men and women.

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By *isexmistressWoman over a year ago

Prestwich

As a Pro-Single Guy resondee who pretty much replies to ALL her mail ( and at times its a ridiculous amount)

people need appreciate NOT all single guys;

Are polite.Some are charming, initially then soon `turn` and show their true self at any percieved slight..

MANY dont even bother reading profiles,surely the minimum requirement for sending any message thats going to be relevant and expecting a reply to?

Ive met loads guys off fab in my five years (now ) here..And most (not all) have been lovely..

However, replying to messages is often not appreciated ( girls inboxes pretty much inundated with single guys messaging ,so it sometimes isnt even possible/practicale to say ` thanks but no thanks` ..

Im very Pro single guy but Its a pity the general standard adopted by MOST isnt better.

MAKES IT MUCH HARDER FOR THE GENUINE GUYS,AS/AND ITS HARDER FOR THE GIRLS AND COUPLES TO DEAL WITH..

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By *ancs MinxWoman over a year ago

Burnley

"Why does everyone just post about the odd idiot?

Why not post about the loads of very polite lovely single men who are lovely when they're told they're not my type.

I'm sick of negative posts

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why does everyone just post about the odd idiot?

Why not post about the loads of very polite lovely single men who are lovely when they're told they're not my type.

I'm sick of negative posts

You made my wife smile today, and for that i thankyou.

Your wife is one of my favourite people on Fab and if she gave you the slap I asked her to, she has made me smile too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why does everyone just post about the odd idiot?

Why not post about the loads of very polite lovely single men who are lovely when they're told they're not my type.

I'm sick of negative posts

You made my wife smile today, and for that i thankyou.

Your wife is one of my favourite people on Fab and if she gave you the slap I asked her to, she has made me smile too

Maybe later...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why does everyone just post about the odd idiot?

Why not post about the loads of very polite lovely single men who are lovely when they're told they're not my type.

I'm sick of negative posts

You made my wife smile today, and for that i thankyou.

Your wife is one of my favourite people on Fab and if she gave you the slap I asked her to, she has made me smile too

Maybe later...

Haha!! If I'm ever in your neck of the woods, I'm meeting you and Scarlet for a few bottles of wine. I reckon me and Scarlet could get through a few

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why does everyone just post about the odd idiot?

Why not post about the loads of very polite lovely single men who are lovely when they're told they're not my type.

I'm sick of negative posts

You made my wife smile today, and for that i thankyou.

Your wife is one of my favourite people on Fab and if she gave you the slap I asked her to, she has made me smile too

Maybe later...

Haha!! If I'm ever in your neck of the woods, I'm meeting you and Scarlet for a few bottles of wine. I reckon me and Scarlet could get through a few

And you would drink a fair bit of wine too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Shit happens

Move on

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