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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok we all have our reasons for being on fab and choosing the lifestyle we are in. Mine are ...... Long story short!!! Controlling marriage. Divorced. Don't want a relationship. Found I've a very very naughty erotic bdsm mindfuck side to me . Who prefers sex of the mind as well as the body . And by the way is this because i was in a controlling relationship and sub conciously like that !!!!!! I'm on a journey blah blah . But I do get comments from people saying I'm weird etc . I'm not btw !!!!!! Interested in your views and reasons for it xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok we all have our reasons for being on fab and choosing the lifestyle we are in. Mine are ...... Long story short!!! Controlling marriage. Divorced. Don't want a relationship. Found I've a very very naughty erotic bdsm mindfuck side to me . Who prefers sex of the mind as well as the body . And by the way is this because i was in a controlling relationship and sub conciously like that !!!!!! I'm on a journey blah blah . But I do get comments from people saying I'm weird etc . I'm not btw !!!!!! Interested in your views and reasons for it xxx"
I think it also says that you are comfortable with yourself, your partner, and those around you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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always been interested in the scene but decided to dip my toe in and out and just sit back and look for a number of years then marriage went tits up so thought 'right I'm going for it' and I've had a very enjoyable couple of months! |
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I originally got into it as my gf at the time was desperate to experiment with her bi side but didn't want to go to a club on her own. For the first few visits I just watched but gradually I became more involved.
After about a year she had satisfied her curiosity but I then began my own swinging journey and have been doing so for the last ten years |
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I used to like sex! 
I'm a commitment phobe though which is why I hang around here. I'm contrary though cause I don't really like casual sex any more.
Double standards and very hard to please it seems. That and I've zero mojo at the moment. Hahaha... lost cause?!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I used to like sex!
I'm a commitment phobe though which is why I hang around here. I'm contrary though cause I don't really like casual sex any more.
Double standards and very hard to please it seems. That and I've zero mojo at the moment. Hahaha... lost cause?! "
Think we all go through that at one stage in our life. Hope you get that mojo back soon  xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who cares if your weird were all weird in our own ways.
Queen weirdo and proud here...I just love and don't get it at home...hey beautiful you speak for yourself nothing weird about me   hugs  "
If you say so captain |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because it's the only place I can explore many different aspects of sex without anyone batting an eyelid
Plus it's a proper mad laugh as well you do have a body for sin felicity  hugs "
Except when I've popped my hips out doing the splits |
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"Because it's the only place I can explore many different aspects of sex without anyone batting an eyelid
Plus it's a proper mad laugh as well you do have a body for sin felicity hugs
Except when I've popped my hips out doing the splits "
That doesn't sound good but I'm sure you had plenty of fun along the way!
This website is a great place to find like minded people to enjoy some quality time which can include almost anything! Some naughty fun, matching of minds and bodies plus a bit of a chat with a few laughs thrown in along the way!!  |
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"Ok we all have our reasons for being on fab and choosing the lifestyle we are in. Mine are ...... Long story short!!! Controlling marriage. Divorced. Don't want a relationship. Found I've a very very naughty erotic bdsm mindfuck side to me . Who prefers sex of the mind as well as the body . And by the way is this because i was in a controlling relationship and sub conciously like that !!!!!! I'm on a journey blah blah . But I do get comments from people saying I'm weird etc . I'm not btw !!!!!! Interested in your views and reasons for it xxx"
Having read your profile about your 'blind date', which I must admit sounds ever so arousing - that's why we come to 'play'!! Nothing weird in what you're looking for, at all! x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sex is exploration of mind and body. I love sharing mine with others. NSA suits me.. Love it then they go home both satisfied. Great place to make friends and explore bodies. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I found it by accident!
So glad I did! I'm happier now than I've ever been!
Swinging's given me a great social life, some brilliant friends, and the best sex of my life by far!
The only negative is that society frowns on us so I have to be secretive with friends and family at times - and I hate that!!  |
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"Because it's the only place I can explore many different aspects of sex without anyone batting an eyelid
Plus it's a proper mad laugh as well you do have a body for sin felicity hugs
Except when I've popped my hips out doing the splits
That doesn't sound good but I'm sure you had plenty of fun along the way!
This website is a great place to find like minded people to enjoy some quality time which can include almost anything! Some naughty fun, matching of minds and bodies plus a bit of a chat with a few laughs thrown in along the way!! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A friend died at 40,the same age as me,made me think life is to short,i have always wanted an mff talked to the mrs she was more than receptive and here we are loving it !!! |
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I'm in a sexless but otherwise really happy marriage. I can fuck people that don't want anything more from me. Plus it's a immense fun. I've met some awesome people, had mmf and mff, been to clubs and had people watch me fuck. So it'll give me something to tell the grandkids about or will be the under the fab/sex years in my autobiography x |
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By *not69Man
over a year ago
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Fuck buddy dumped me 18 months ago, female friend said "Get on fabswingers. you dont have to play with couples and you dont have to go to clubs" So I joined on Monday, went to my first club on Tuesday and had my first group sex. went to my second club Thursday, the second club again on the Saturday. Ive not looked back since. Pushing boundaries and making fantasies reality. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Aside the fact that finding sexual partner is way easier on here due to the fact that we are all here for the same thing, even if each differ from one another.
I am on here to explore and understand my sexuality through the biggest organ, as you said, the mind.
Which I pretty nailed it so far, but the journey is not over
Long life to bouncing boobs if I may add |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok we all have our reasons for being on fab and choosing the lifestyle we are in. Mine are ...... Long story short!!! Controlling marriage. Divorced. Don't want a relationship. Found I've a very very naughty erotic bdsm mindfuck side to me . Who prefers sex of the mind as well as the body . And by the way is this because i was in a controlling relationship and sub conciously like that !!!!!! I'm on a journey blah blah . But I do get comments from people saying I'm weird etc . I'm not btw !!!!!! Interested in your views and reasons for it xxx"
I'm the most vain and unrealistic person when it comes to dating.
So swinging gives me the opportunity to have great sex without dating or any emotional connections.
I can have my cake and eat it too...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ok we all have our reasons for being on fab and choosing the lifestyle we are in. Mine are ...... Long story short!!! Controlling marriage. Divorced. Don't want a relationship. Found I've a very very naughty erotic bdsm mindfuck side to me . Who prefers sex of the mind as well as the body . And by the way is this because i was in a controlling relationship and sub conciously like that !!!!!! I'm on a journey blah blah . But I do get comments from people saying I'm weird etc . I'm not btw !!!!!! Interested in your views and reasons for it xxx
I'm the most vain and unrealistic person when it comes to dating.
So swinging gives me the opportunity to have great sex without dating or any emotional connections.
I can have my cake and eat it too...
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I'm all for having my cake and eating it!!!!! This is why it works for us id say !!!! Swinging is the best sport ever Infact it should be an Olympic sport xx |
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Emotional attachments have brought such heartache in the past, so on top of my last post, I guess this explains it more, but in the lyrics of Tom O'Dell - Another Love.
I wanna take you somewhere so you know I care
But it's so cold and I don't know where
I brought you daffodils in a pretty string
But they won't flower like they did last spring
And I wanna kiss you, make you feel alright
I'm just so tired to share my nights
I wanna cry and I wanna love
But all my tears have been used up
On another love, another love
All my tears have been used up
On another love, another love
All my tears have been used up
On another love, another love
All my tears have been used up
And if somebody hurts you, I wanna fight
But my hands been broken, once too many times
So I'll use my voice, I'll be so fucking rude
Words they always win, but I know I'll lose
And I'd sing a song, that'd be just ours
But I sang 'em all to another heart
And I wanna cry I wanna learn to love
But all my tears have been used up
On another love, another love
All my tears have been used up
On another love, another love
All my tears have been used up
On another love, another love
All my tears have been used up
I wanna sing a song, that'd be just ours
But I sang 'em all to another heart
And I wanna cry, I wanna fall in love
But all my tears have been used up
On another love, another love
All my tears have been used up
On another love, another love
All my tears have been used up
On another love, another love
All my tears have been used up
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Emotional attachments have brought such heartache in the past, so on top of my last post, I guess this explains it more, but in the lyrics of Tom O'Dell - Another Love.
I wanna take you somewhere so you know I care
But it's so cold and I don't know where
I brought you daffodils in a pretty string
But they won't flower like they did last spring
And I wanna kiss you, make you feel alright
I'm just so tired to share my nights
I wanna cry and I wanna love
But all my tears have been used up
On another love, another love
All my tears have been used up
On another love, another love
All my tears have been used up
On another love, another love
All my tears have been used up
And if somebody hurts you, I wanna fight
But my hands been broken, once too many times
So I'll use my voice, I'll be so fucking rude
Words they always win, but I know I'll lose
And I'd sing a song, that'd be just ours
But I sang 'em all to another heart
And I wanna cry I wanna learn to love
But all my tears have been used up
On another love, another love
All my tears have been used up
On another love, another love
All my tears have been used up
On another love, another love
All my tears have been used up
I wanna sing a song, that'd be just ours
But I sang 'em all to another heart
And I wanna cry, I wanna fall in love
But all my tears have been used up
On another love, another love
All my tears have been used up
On another love, another love
All my tears have been used up
On another love, another love
All my tears have been used up
Wow just wow
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well I started swinging when I was 18. I guy I was dating (older than me) took me to a house party. Half naked people walking around. My eyes were well and truly opened. He never said a word about swinging and it could have turned out very different for me. At the time I was uncomfortable and hated it. Met a guy at the party and he told me to get rid of the looser I'm with Lol. I was very Naive. So this guy gives me his number and a few weeks later I spilt up with the guy I was dating.
About 2/3 mths later I found the guys number at the bottom of my bag and decided to call him. Wasn't expecting anything but he remembered me. We spent 3 years together and he was a Bdsm Dom. Wow what an experience I had. After those 3 years I decided that I needed time out and the seed of the swinging scene had been firmly logged into my head I decided to try it again on my own....19 years later I'm still loving it |
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"Well I started swinging when I was 18. I guy I was dating (older than me) took me to a house party. Half naked people walking around. My eyes were well and truly opened. He never said a word about swinging and it could have turned out very different for me. At the time I was uncomfortable and hated it. Met a guy at the party and he told me to get rid of the looser I'm with Lol. I was very Naive. So this guy gives me his number and a few weeks later I spilt up with the guy I was dating.
About 2/3 mths later I found the guys number at the bottom of my bag and decided to call him. Wasn't expecting anything but he remembered me. We spent 3 years together and he was a Bdsm Dom. Wow what an experience I had. After those 3 years I decided that I needed time out and the seed of the swinging scene had been firmly logged into my head I decided to try it again on my own....19 years later I'm still loving it "
How romantic... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Those that can, do.
Why do I need to explain myself to you?
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You don't need to explain yourself to me at all. Just interesting topic and yet you still left a comment !! |
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My reasons initially was to meet a girl for a three some as I have always been into girls but was to shy to be open about it.
Now I've done that a couple of times (not with people on fab) I'm looking to see what else I can do to add a little spice to our relationship.
Mostly like the forms as it helps me decide what it is and not for us to try plus hood way of meeting like minded people. |
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