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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Does anyone else have this little problem?! I can go for days - even weeks - without feeling horny. I just don't feel the urge. 
(And no... I don't need anyone's personal one on one help to get it back.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It must be very rare to be horny all the time.....i find real life takes over and sex goes out of my mind completely. I would have thought that was perfectly normal and not anything to worry about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It must be very rare to be horny all the time.....i find real life takes over and sex goes out of my mind completely. I would have thought that was perfectly normal and not anything to worry about."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It must be very rare to be horny all the time.....i find real life takes over and sex goes out of my mind completely. I would have thought that was perfectly normal and not anything to worry about."
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"Does anyone else have this little problem?! I can go for days - even weeks - without feeling horny. I just don't feel the urge.
(And no... I don't need anyone's personal one on one help to get it back. "
I wish I could be like that and not feel the need for weeks on end, at best I can go a week or two without it then I end up end up feeling the need again while I'm sleeping it's a right pain in the arse some times as I can't go back to sleep unless I do something... 
wonder what life would be like having an off button for it to just go away completely for long periods off time... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone else have this little problem?! I can go for days - even weeks - without feeling horny. I just don't feel the urge.
(And no... I don't need anyone's personal one on one help to get it back. "
Nope , never get this problem at all .
Must be bloody depressing though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It must be very rare to be horny all the time.....i find real life takes over and sex goes out of my mind completely. I would have thought that was perfectly normal and not anything to worry about."
Gonna be honest here , we are horny all the time !
24/7 ..... Even when we are totally shattered and real life dramas are all around us , we are still totally horny  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's normal. I haven't even had an orgasm for about six weeks, now.
It's not a biological need at all times, for women. Countless different factors affect it. Largely how we see ourselves from time to time.
If I feel unattractive or worried or depressed, I don't want sex. I particularly don't want to meet strangers for sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's normal. I haven't even had an orgasm for about six weeks, now.
It's not a biological need at all times, for women. Countless different factors affect it. Largely how we see ourselves from time to time.
If I feel unattractive or worried or depressed, I don't want sex. I particularly don't want to meet strangers for sex."
I agree, I was supposed to meet someone yesterday but just felt down so cancelled it. He was lovely about it and hopefully we can meet when I'm feeling more in the mood. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've always put it down to a seasonal thing. rampant it the spring/summer. recharge during the winter months. then came the menopause and its rampant all the way. love mother nature! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's normal. I haven't even had an orgasm for about six weeks, now.
It's not a biological need at all times, for women. Countless different factors affect it. Largely how we see ourselves from time to time.
If I feel unattractive or worried or depressed, I don't want sex. I particularly don't want to meet strangers for sex."
Guess it must be different for single women .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can go off sex for days, but not weeks.
Things that put me off sex are other peoples head fucks, or if i fuck my own head.
If you don't feel like sex then there doesn't have to be anything wrong with you. When i felt horny all the time there was something wrong with me then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can go months without even feeling the desire to perve.
But other times I get really Moody if I don't have sex at least five times a day.
Nowt right or wrong there, just the natural flow of balance in life |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find men who talk about it 24/7 slightly
creepy"
I get the impression that they're the ones overcompensating for something. But I've no evidence to prove this theory  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would say it is totally normal well as normal as anything can be.
As long as you are feeling okay in yourself then I really wouldn't worry about it. If you're feeling low & depressed them maybe pop to your GP for a chat. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I would say it is totally normal well as normal as anything can be.
As long as you are feeling okay in yourself then I really wouldn't worry about it. If you're feeling low & depressed them maybe pop to your GP for a chat. "
It's not depression, I tend to feel like it whether I'm going through a dark time or a good time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If the op has already said she has S.A.D then this could be effecting her vitamin d levels. Vitamin d deficiency can lower estrogen levels which will lower sex drive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If the op has already said she has S.A.D then this could be effecting her vitamin d levels. Vitamin d deficiency can lower estrogen levels which will lower sex drive. "
Are bananas high in vit d? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If the op has already said she has S.A.D then this could be effecting her vitamin d levels. Vitamin d deficiency can lower estrogen levels which will lower sex drive.
Are bananas high in vit d?"
I don't think so. It's more dairy and oily fish you need and egg yolks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can totally understand this as I must admit I'm getting real swings myself but I think its mostly due to tiredness.
What with work, gym workouts,running and cycling I'm very often just too exhausted to even think about it.The fact that I'm enjoying these things so much ..not the work obviously..means I'm not really too inclined to do much about it at the mo tho I do still have my moments when something or someone gets me fired up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If the op has already said she has S.A.D then this could be effecting her vitamin d levels. Vitamin d deficiency can lower estrogen levels which will lower sex drive.
Are bananas high in vit d?
I don't think so. It's more dairy and oily fish you need and egg yolks "
It's the orange juice I got confused with lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's normal. I haven't even had an orgasm for about six weeks, now.
It's not a biological need at all times, for women. Countless different factors affect it. Largely how we see ourselves from time to time.
If I feel unattractive or worried or depressed, I don't want sex. I particularly don't want to meet strangers for sex.
Guess it must be different for single women .... "
But I'm married......? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It must be very rare to be horny all the time.....i find real life takes over and sex goes out of my mind completely. I would have thought that was perfectly normal and not anything to worry about.
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I'm kind of glad sex isn't always at the forefront of my mind anyway, or I wouldn't have the headspace to concentrate on career and other things that are important in life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's normal. I haven't even had an orgasm for about six weeks, now.
It's not a biological need at all times, for women. Countless different factors affect it. Largely how we see ourselves from time to time.
If I feel unattractive or worried or depressed, I don't want sex. I particularly don't want to meet strangers for sex.
Guess it must be different for single women ....
But I'm married......?"
Do you swing together ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would say it is totally normal well as normal as anything can be.
As long as you are feeling okay in yourself then I really wouldn't worry about it. If you're feeling low & depressed them maybe pop to your GP for a chat.
It's not depression, I tend to feel like it whether I'm going through a dark time or a good time "
I think it's only a problem if you allow it to be. Get out there and focus on other aspects of your life & learn to ride the peaks & troughs.
For me sex is an enhancement to life, nothing more, nothing less. |
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