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Why are people so rude on here
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some people in here think there so special .
don't get carried away with it its surporsed to be a bit of fun and banter stuck up people really need to have a look at them self's "
You tend to find that people have many messages, people have not bothered to read their profile and what they are looking for and this can stress some people.
Imagine you getting 100 messages plus a day with one liners, wanna fucks and god I would mount you and blow my load inside of you type messages and you would lose your rag every now and again too.
We are all equal on fab and if you find it hard to deal with the occasional person like this, then maybe you are way to sensitive to be on a site like this.
If you are that worried, block the person and move on. I think nothing about doing so if I am in that situation.
I hope that helps.
It is just my personal _iew |
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"Some people in here think there so special .
don't get carried away with it its surporsed to be a bit of fun and banter stuck up people really need to have a look at them self's "
I've had a look....Yep, still stuck up and special  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We judge ourselves by our intentions and others by their actions. People have bad days, get stressed and snap every now and then. Take a look at what you're sending out and what reaction that might elicite before ranting. I've been on here for a while now and very rarely encounter anything other than nice sentiments and lovely people |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"Don't doubt that just some people think they are something special when there not .
need to stop painting people with the same brush that's all x"
why worry, if some people cause you angst, rise above it.
why would you want to meet someone you are likely not to connect with |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't doubt that just some people think they are something special when there not .
need to stop painting people with the same brush that's all x"
In what way do they think they're special? |
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"Some people in here think there so special .
don't get carried away with it its surporsed to be a bit of fun and banter stuck up people really need to have a look at them self's "
If you said it to a random woman in a bar would she:
A) immediately pounce on you and start snogging and groping you
B) laugh uproariously and buy you a drink
C) stare at you like a rabbit in the headlights then scuttle off and tell everyone she sees what you said until the whole bar is looking at you like a freak
D) throw her drink over you/slap you/shout back off creep (or all) then ask the bouncer to remove you
I get lighthearted jokey messages which are from random people that are actually offensive when read in a straightforward manner. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never really encountered any rude people on here, must be lucky.
I agree, with exception of the cycling threads, nobody has been in anyway unpleasant to me.
Cal"
It wouldn't really bother me if people were rude, its only words on a screen from a complete stranger you'll never meet and I don't get stressed or let people like that spoil my fun on here. It only acts as another filter anyway, who wants to meet rude abusive people ? |
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"Don't doubt that just some people think they are something special when there not .
need to stop painting people with the same brush that's all x"
In all seriousness I think everyone should have high self esteem and confidence it's when it spills over in to superiority that it's a problem. However if a person feels that they aren't as good as other people it's no good them blaming others for making them feel that way.
I think you need to stop starring us all with the same brush too  .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't doubt that just some people think they are something special when there not .
need to stop painting people with the same brush that's all x"
Perhaps a little detail on what's your problem would help.
As atm you're taring everyone with the same brush. |
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"Don't doubt that just some people think they are something special when there not .
need to stop painting people with the same brush that's all x
In all seriousness I think everyone should have high self esteem and confidence it's when it spills over in to superiority that it's a problem. However if a person feels that they aren't as good as other people it's no good them blaming others for making them feel that way.
I think you need to stop starring us all with the same brush too .
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Or even tarring. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never really encountered any rude people on here, must be lucky.
I agree, with exception of the cycling threads, nobody has been in anyway unpleasant to me.
Cal
It wouldn't really bother me if people were rude, its only words on a screen from a complete stranger you'll never meet and I don't get stressed or let people like that spoil my fun on here. It only acts as another filter anyway, who wants to meet rude abusive people ?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't doubt that just some people think they are something special when there not .
need to stop painting people with the same brush that's all x
In all seriousness I think everyone should have high self esteem and confidence it's when it spills over in to superiority that it's a problem. However if a person feels that they aren't as good as other people it's no good them blaming others for making them feel that way.
I think you need to stop starring us all with the same brush too .
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Exactly this, no one can belittle you or make you feel small without you allowing them to make you feel that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some people in here think there so special .
don't get carried away with it its surporsed to be a bit of fun and banter stuck up people really need to have a look at them self's "
I understand your _iew point but this is a site where single ladies and couples are in the minority so they have an enormous and varied choice of male playmates from which to choose. There is never an excuse for being rude or arrogant but as someone has pointed out above getting lots of messages can be time consuming if everyone one is answered.
I agree also, if you have read a profile and written an articulate and considered message only for it to be summarily deleted, it can be frustrating but just put it down to the minority's rule and hang on in!
There are some really lovely people on this site, honest!!! |
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If people don't message back its not rude it's up to them and their preference.
Also spelling and grammar is a big thing, don't use there when you mean their and spell 'supposed' properly when you start a thread. Start with the small things |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It seems to be grumpy forum day today
Did no one get shagged by the ghoulies last night "
i did.........but not by a ghoully more a stunning temptress who was just gorgeous!!! |
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By *icky999Man
over a year ago
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"If people don't message back its not rude it's up to them and their preference.
Also spelling and grammar is a big thing, don't use there when you mean their and spell 'supposed' properly when you start a thread. Start with the small things"
just the man to answer the op's question. why did you decided to post that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyone needs a compliment now and then, go on, make someone's day!!  "
You are very shiny.
OP cheer up. Better you find out people are stuck up before you waste time chatting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never really encountered any rude people on here, must be lucky.
I agree, with exception of the cycling threads, nobody has been in anyway unpleasant to me.
Cal
It wouldn't really bother me if people were rude, its only words on a screen from a complete stranger you'll never meet and I don't get stressed or let people like that spoil my fun on here. It only acts as another filter anyway, who wants to meet rude abusive people ?"
If the forum was a club I would just walk away from them and mingle with people who I enjoy chatting to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It seems to be grumpy forum day today
Did no one get shagged by the ghoulies last night
Isn't it? We need a positive thread to counter balance! "
I've just started one... Now will anyone post  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyone needs a compliment now and then, go on, make someone's day!!
You are very shiny.
OP cheer up. Better you find out people are stuck up before you waste time chatting. "
Haha that's a new one but I'll continue my day with a spring in my step now!! Thank you, oh and you are erm very good at clearing up by the sound of it!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It seems to be grumpy forum day today
Did no one get shagged by the ghoulies last night
Isn't it? We need a positive thread to counter balance!
I've just started one... Now will anyone post "
I can't find it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't doubt that just some people think they are something special when there not .
need to stop painting people with the same brush that's all x
In what way do they think they're special?"
people actually call themselves special pitstop ,you got them bazookas on show again hugs |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It seems to be grumpy forum day today
Did no one get shagged by the ghoulies last night
Isn't it? We need a positive thread to counter balance!
I've just started one... Now will anyone post
I can't find it"
It's called All Saints Day |
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By *he tactile technicianMan
over a year ago
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"Some people in here think there so special .
don't get carried away with it its surporsed to be a bit of fun and banter stuck up people really need to have a look at them self's "
Oh yeah? like who? |
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"Some people in here think there so special .
don't get carried away with it its surporsed to be a bit of fun and banter stuck up people really need to have a look at them self's "
Our profile actualy says if you mail us but are outside our preferences we will wind you up and take the piss.
We still get idiots mail us who haven't read the profile, so i, scruff, have some fun with them. They deserve it as far as i am concerned, i did tell them what would happen. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some people in here think there so special .
don't get carried away with it its surporsed to be a bit of fun and banter stuck up people really need to have a look at them self's "
could ask why people dont read on here...and therefore get your answer |
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"Don't doubt that just some people think they are something special when there not .
need to stop painting people with the same brush that's all x
In what way do they think they're special?"
By saying thanks but no thanks I'd wager!
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"Don't doubt that just some people think they are something special when there not .
need to stop painting people with the same brush that's all x
In what way do they think they're special?
By saying thanks but no thanks I'd wager!
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In the absence of any other explanation, this sounds most likely...
Women have had the sheer audacity and gall to turn him down....
Outrageous! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They say negativity attracts negativity. If you're experiencing a large volume of rude people then maybe have a re think as to how you approach people on here. Just a thought. |
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It seems there are certain 'trigger subjects' that set some people off, to my mind its like once the trigger is tripped they feel they have free rein to be as insulting as they like - yet on other subjects that very same poster can be all sweetness & light.
Why, I don't know, but its a pity. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It seems there are certain 'trigger subjects' that set some people off, to my mind its like once the trigger is tripped they feel they have free rein to be as insulting as they like - yet on other subjects that very same poster can be all sweetness & light.
Why, I don't know, but its a pity."
Because cyclists are sub human and deserve all they get, and more obviously   |
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"It seems there are certain 'trigger subjects' that set some people off, to my mind its like once the trigger is tripped they feel they have free rein to be as insulting as they like - yet on other subjects that very same poster can be all sweetness & light.
Why, I don't know, but its a pity.
Because cyclists are sub human and deserve all they get, and more obviously "
Well, I was actually thinking more about subjects like immigration & minority religions, but I take your point! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some people in here think there so special .
don't get carried away with it its surporsed to be a bit of fun and banter stuck up people really need to have a look at them self's "
Whatever happened to reading what you typed before you post? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some people in here think there so special .
don't get carried away with it its surporsed to be a bit of fun and banter stuck up people really need to have a look at them self's
Whatever happened to reading what you typed before you post? "
What do you mean? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Everyone needs a compliment now and then, go on, make someone's day!!
You are very shiny.
OP cheer up. Better you find out people are stuck up before you waste time chatting.
Haha that's a new one but I'll continue my day with a spring in my step now!! Thank you, oh and you are erm very good at clearing up by the sound of it!! "
Never been called shiny before!! Is that good or bad?!! Gulp |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some people in here think there so special .
don't get carried away with it its surporsed to be a bit of fun and banter stuck up people really need to have a look at them self's "
For exactly the same reasons that folks are like that in normal life. What gives you the idea that this place should be any different to normal everyday life ? After all, we are all just everyday, normal people, yourself included. |
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