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Men don't understand concept of threesome
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why is it some men when you invite for threesome. They think they are going to be only male in bedroom, expect other male to stay in living room or got out for drink.
What part of threesome don't they understand, apart from obvious he is also there to ensure no foul play and condoms stay on, not slip off when licking pussy !!!!!!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Him that posted this thread is bi so no problem .
Had a meet for threesome and the man asked him why staying ? Was speechless. .for a while "
Didnt you kick him out? No respect |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well it depends who you invite, if you are straight you only expect to fuck the woman lol."
It was on profile he's bi but now he's so fed up he's taken that off |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Men. ..he starts a thread ,tells me and then says leave you to it off to bed .. 
Men, can't live with us, can't shoot us. Lol"
Totally true, mind you he says that about me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well it depends who you invite, if you are straight you only expect to fuck the woman lol.
It was on profile he's bi but now he's so fed up he's taken that off "
Ah yes I see, maibe he was just curious but changed his mind. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well it depends who you invite, if you are straight you only expect to fuck the woman lol.
It was on profile he's bi but now he's so fed up he's taken that off Ah yes I see, maibe he was just curious but changed his mind."
No he's had quite a bit of experience |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well it depends who you invite, if you are straight you only expect to fuck the woman lol.
It was on profile he's bi but now he's so fed up he's taken that off Ah yes I see, maibe he was just curious but changed his mind.
No he's had quite a bit of experience "
He might not have found mr attractive...at least you took one for the team  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Men. ..he starts a thread ,tells me and then says leave you to it off to bed ..
Men, can't live with us, can't shoot us. Lol
We can.....and blame PMT "
Oi not nice sparkles. Pmsl |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well it depends who you invite, if you are straight you only expect to fuck the woman lol.
It was on profile he's bi but now he's so fed up he's taken that off Ah yes I see, maibe he was just curious but changed his mind.
No he's had quite a bit of experience "
I see, yeah that is one hard nut to crack lol. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well it depends who you invite, if you are straight you only expect to fuck the woman lol.
It was on profile he's bi but now he's so fed up he's taken that off Ah yes I see, maibe he was just curious but changed his mind.
No he's had quite a bit of experience I see, yeah that is one hard nut to crack lol."
Going to be polite so don't get into trouble .we've learnt from it and now are more selective .mind you had meets with straight men and they kept on about ducking another man. .It's really strange at times on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well it depends who you invite, if you are straight you only expect to fuck the woman lol.
It was on profile he's bi but now he's so fed up he's taken that off Ah yes I see, maibe he was just curious but changed his mind.
No he's had quite a bit of experience I see, yeah that is one hard nut to crack lol.
Going to be polite so don't get into trouble .we've learnt from it and now are more selective .mind you had meets with straight men and they kept on about ducking another man. .It's really strange at times on here "
That is right and good to be selective as well, yeah I recon many select what they are not on their profiles maibe lol at ducking. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Mind you one messaged the other day wanted three some and actually asked if would just be me and him while my fb stayed in other room .
Didn't bother replying just blocked |
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There used to be a spate of fake bi guys pretending to like guys and then of course failing to deliver. But sharing a room with others is standard even when there's no bi interest or action planned.
As well as texting I think you have to speak on the phone with them, and gauge how honest and uncontrived their responses are.
Never underestimate the levels of deviousness Orr stupidity of people who will try to get a shag. I recently had someone say he wouldn't read my profile but he'd like me to tell him about myself and what I like - in the same sentence from him! He had a one sentence profile, illustrating his level of invested effort. Blocked. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There used to be a spate of fake bi guys pretending to like guys and then of course failing to deliver. But sharing a room with others is standard even when there's no bi interest or action planned.
As well as texting I think you have to speak on the phone with them, and gauge how honest and uncontrived their responses are.
Never underestimate the levels of deviousness Orr stupidity of people who will try to get a shag. I recently had someone say he wouldn't read my profile but he'd like me to tell him about myself and what I like - in the same sentence from him! He had a one sentence profile, illustrating his level of invested effort. Blocked."
Sorry to hear that .now having a social first to break ice and make sure we all know and understand what we want if we decide to meet again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have had problems with single guys in threesomes. Not all but some. They just don't know how to share and try to just 'take over'. Bi guys, we have had no problem with. The ones that 'don't play nice, get shown the door. A threesome is just that ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not expecting the male partner to be involved is ridiculous. I thought that was the whole idea. And asking why he was staying shows immaturity and a lack of manners. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always confirm what you would like to happen, not scrip it, but would like, DP, spit roast, MM 69, M to fuck her whilst M is fucking him.... all what you want and of course what you don't want.
If it's two MM for the F and no bi stuff, then that's what it is.
Just becouse a man is bi, they don't jump on men, if it's a straight play. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am straight and have we had a 3sum with a bi guy from here ,we asked if he played straight ,he does,everything is cool,meeting again on monday,surely being bi gives you that option |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think this thread should be called A MAN didnt understand threesome not men. Im pretty sure the massive majority of men know what a threesome is. Definately foes NOT have to include the guys fucking each other though. Each to thier own but not on our meets thanks  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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As I said early on the male half decided to post this thread and then leave me to it .yes should be man not men but he was in a grump .to be fair as others have said some not all men don't read profile before messaging and can be very immature.
Now I need him to either take over the answering as I've got work or take down thread .thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have to admit I am often surprised by some of the men on here and other sites.
A 3some is just that. Mfm,mmf,fmf etc. Not mf with the other m sat in another room!
I remember a man posting on a similar thread that he would never stick his cock in a pussy that another cock had recently vacated.
Which I thought was very strange as this is a swinging site! Some people, probably not just men, do not understand the dynamics. |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"Him that posted this thread is bi so no problem .
Had a meet for threesome and the man asked him why staying ? Was speechless. .for a while "
If I ever have a two-some with him, I'll leave; he can then be the w**ker that he really is |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We had that in a hotel meet at Lincoln, young guy asked hubby if he'd go to the bar and leave us alone after we all agreed it was a straight MMF 3 some. Don't think so was our reply. He upped and left. His loss and we still had fun together.
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"And that's the problem, isn't it? The not sharing. That's why we do socials first. It's like an interview."
It is all about the sharing, ensuring everyone is getting something out of it and all are gaining.
There does not have to be M on M action (not my thing) but you have to be comfortable and ensure the other guy(s) in MFM are gaining out of the group thing too.
Not for the homophobic or guys just after a shag that don't consider the others in the group, or worse, pretend to be into a 3 some to gain access for 1 on 1 |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have to admit I am often surprised by some of the men on here and other sites.
A 3some is just that. Mfm,mmf,fmf etc. Not mf with the other m sat in another room!
I remember a man posting on a similar thread that he would never
stick his cock in a pussy that another cock had recently vacated.
Which I thought was very strange as this is a swinging site! Some people, probably not just men, do not understand the dynamics."
I love licking a pussy after a cock has been in the clit is lovely and swollen and more sensitive ?? |
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Some guys act as though it's all about them. I have had lots of 3sums with couples over the years and I like to make sure the woman is satisfied more than anything
However when it's two women and me I have to admit I let them take charge! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes a threesome involves Sabrina getting all the attention and others I enjoy watching her with the other guy .
There are a multitude of possibilities within the Mmf scenario .
We go with the flow , and occasionally I may nip out of the room for a bit .
We never talk beforehand about how the meet should go . Too much planning can make the meet contrived .
So I don't know that the guy in question was totally wrong . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sometimes a threesome involves Sabrina getting all the attention and others I enjoy watching her with the other guy .
There are a multitude of possibilities within the Mmf scenario .
We go with the flow , and occasionally I may nip out of the room for a bit .
We never talk beforehand about how the meet should go . Too much planning can make the meet contrived .
So I don't know that the guy in question was totally wrong . "
He didn't want dave involved full stop |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sometimes a threesome involves Sabrina getting all the attention and others I enjoy watching her with the other guy .
There are a multitude of possibilities within the Mmf scenario .
We go with the flow , and occasionally I may nip out of the room for a bit .
We never talk beforehand about how the meet should go . Too much planning can make the meet contrived .
So I don't know that the guy in question was totally wrong .
He didn't want dave involved full stop "
We say from start dave will be there. If of happy why click on couples profile that say threesome. He wants one on one there are lots of lovely single ladies on here |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's why expectations, ground rules, boundaries and such are discussed in advance when I meet people. Makes it easier all round and a more pleasant experience.
It's really not complicated. "
It is to some on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unfortunately the swinger lifestyle has change drastically with the age of computers. No longer is it a lifestyle based ettiquete, rules and trust, it's more of a sex on demand in most peoples cases. They've seen an expose on tv and think that's how it really is and pound the internet for sex. Personally i glad i started 30 years ago in the age of the po box and had to prove my way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had one message today which asked if I would have a 3some but just me and the lady playing whilst the guy watched..hmm that is not a 3some in my opinion. Love the fact they didn't read my profile which says I will not do so, only ever a 3some with all parties genuinely wanting it and involved in it! |
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By *r Man.Man
over a year ago
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"When I was part of a couple, at a spa we invited a young lad to be part of a threesome. He asked me to leave, because he couldn't perform with some watching, so I left the room."
Oh yeh, with my woman in tow |
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By *hyguyMan
over a year ago
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"It's why expectations, ground rules, boundaries and such are discussed in advance when I meet people. Makes it easier all round and a more pleasant experience.
It's really not complicated.
It is to some on here "
Surely not ..... I always enjoy discussing any expectations/boundaries before a meet just to avoid any complications later ..... It's simples !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I was part of a couple, at a spa we invited a young lad to be part of a threesome. He asked me to leave, because he couldn't perform with some watching, so I left the room.
Oh yeh, with my woman in tow "
Brilliant!! |
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By *r Man.Man
over a year ago
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"When I was part of a couple, at a spa we invited a young lad to be part of a threesome. He asked me to leave, because he couldn't perform with some watching, so I left the room.
Oh yeh, with my woman in tow
Brilliant!! "
Very true |
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By *os BobCouple
over a year ago
plymouth |
We have had several mmf 3somes and Bob has never left the room. We go with the flow ranging between taking turns with my lady to all in together, which includes MM oral but no anal. We think experienced swingers know exactly what to expect and what is expected. |
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