FabSwingers.com > Forums > The Lounge > What does the term 'bunny boiler' mean to you?
What does the term 'bunny boiler' mean to you?
Jump to: Newest in thread
 |
By *ivinefox OP Woman
over a year ago
Coventry |
Just got a message from a guy who stated no 'bunny boilers' on his profile. Personally I hate that term and think it shows a bad attitude to women and I immediately blocked him! ( after telling him just that )
What exactly do men mean when they use this term, obviously I know where it comes from, but what exactly is being implied by it..?
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
A woman that is a fruit cake...nutter. does not apply to men...sure there are other terms like stalker. .etc. have to say....not met any women that would really fill the description in my life. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
It's a reference to a sequence from the film Fatal attractions where GlenClCloses'character in the film kills a child's pet by boiling it alive in an act of revenge agaist Michael Douglas's character who was her FB in the plot. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I don't boil bunnies. I just roast them or cook them in a pie 
But seriously on herr, I'd take it as someone who continuously messages, wants to meet up, won't take no for an answer, messages other verifications you have etc, a bit like a stalker. And yes men do it too.. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I said I know where the phrase comes from but was curious to know what men mean when they say it, and why put it on a profile? "
Probably women who, can't take no for an answer, sends loads of messages, won't leave them alone etc |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I said I know where the phrase comes from but was curious to know what men mean when they say it, and why put it on a profile? "
It means they don't want a woman who's going to get all clingy and 'develop feelings'. Basically get all weird. Means they just want no strings fun. Nothing more. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ivinefox OP Woman
over a year ago
Coventry |
"I said I know where the phrase comes from but was curious to know what men mean when they say it, and why put it on a profile?
Probably women who, can't take no for an answer, sends loads of messages, won't leave them alone etc"
Ironic when it seems to be mainly men who do this! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
It's a woman who promises casual but quite clearly wants more and gets wholey jealous and phsyco when u go with someone else.... Not a real life story.. Honest  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I think 'bunny boilers' can be equally male or female!
I have experienced my fair share of male ones, and I am sure there are plenty of both sex lurking the internet  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Maybe its their way of saying they are married? Its open to interpretation but they may just be saying, they don't want someone to become part of their personal life, or who is going to get upset when that kid of access is denied….. because the guy's personal life might be more precious that he is letting on |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *iewMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Angus & Findhorn |
"Just got a message from a guy who stated no 'bunny boilers' on his profile. Personally I hate that term and think it shows a bad attitude to women and I immediately blocked him! ( after telling him just that )
What exactly do men mean when they use this term, obviously I know where it comes from, but what exactly is being implied by it..?
"
so you wrote to a random stranger, gave him feedback and then blocked him before he could explain the context behind his words.....
then you ask us to explain it.
I think that is a tad bizarre |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I said I know where the phrase comes from but was curious to know what men mean when they say it, and why put it on a profile? it means they don't want a woman who's going to get all clingy and 'develop feelings'. Basically get all weird. Means they just want no strings fun. Nothing more."
I think this is a good description
I suppose men put it on their profiles because of experiences they've had on here that don't fit their ideas of what the site is about |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"for me, it would mean the needy, clingy, whoa betide my hard life, that text and text and text' and become all warm and fuzzy by the second message."
You got a cold heart View |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *iewMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Angus & Findhorn |
"for me, it would mean the needy, clingy, whoa betide my hard life, that text and text and text' and become all warm and fuzzy by the second message.
You got a cold heart View "
you are assuming I have one |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Although both genders probably exhibit such tendencies, it's seems that, as is so often the case, the derogatory term is reserved for women....
In my experience on the swingers scene, it's guys that can constantly message until blocked..
In the real world, there have been a couple of instances in my life where a woman has taken a respectful rejection badly leading me to feel that I should, perhaps, have been firmer. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"It's interesting, a term that will never be associated to men "
Probably because the term was born from the behaviour of a female
Men just get called stalkers |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"for me, it would mean the needy, clingy, whoa betide my hard life, that text and text and text' and become all warm and fuzzy by the second message.
You got a cold heart View
you are assuming I have one "
Someone stole it  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *iewMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Angus & Findhorn |
"I said I know where the phrase comes from but was curious to know what men mean when they say it, and why put it on a profile? it means they don't want a woman who's going to get all clingy and 'develop feelings'. Basically get all weird. Means they just want no strings fun. Nothing more.
I think this is a good description
I suppose men put it on their profiles because of experiences they've had on here that don't fit their ideas of what the site is about "
exactly 
and if the behaviours on the forum are anything to be considered, there's a few |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *iewMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Angus & Findhorn |
"for me, it would mean the needy, clingy, whoa betide my hard life, that text and text and text' and become all warm and fuzzy by the second message.
You got a cold heart View
you are assuming I have one
Someone stole it "
No |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I said I know where the phrase comes from but was curious to know what men mean when they say it, and why put it on a profile? it means they don't want a woman who's going to get all clingy and 'develop feelings'. Basically get all weird. Means they just want no strings fun. Nothing more.
I think this is a good description
I suppose men put it on their profiles because of experiences they've had on here that don't fit their ideas of what the site is about
exactly
and if the behaviours on the forum are anything to be considered, there's a few"
It's the men who want a fuck n go without exchanging names...obviously |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
All men except gay are deluded they aspire to women and most castigate them derise them and humiliate them but you gotta love a trier, on a lighter note tie a yellow ribbon round an old oak tree its been 7 long years do you still love me |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Do people intend to become bunny boilers though. Can't help who steals your heart. I'm lucky,like View I don't have one "
I agree... It must be some sort imbalance somewhere, where adoration or whatever becomes a fixation and ultimately an obsession.... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *iewMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Angus & Findhorn |
"I said I know where the phrase comes from but was curious to know what men mean when they say it, and why put it on a profile? it means they don't want a woman who's going to get all clingy and 'develop feelings'. Basically get all weird. Means they just want no strings fun. Nothing more.
I think this is a good description
I suppose men put it on their profiles because of experiences they've had on here that don't fit their ideas of what the site is about
exactly
and if the behaviours on the forum are anything to be considered, there's a few
It's the men who want a fuck n go without exchanging names...obviously "
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Do people intend to become bunny boilers though. Can't help who steals your heart. I'm lucky,like View I don't have one
I agree... It must be some sort imbalance somewhere, where adoration or whatever becomes a fixation and ultimately an obsession...."
I've had a few men state they want no strings and after a few days start talking about more than that. I stop them right at the beginning and don't give my home address |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
Forum Mod O o O oo |
I think it is when a female ( or male I suppose ) think they are into NSA sex when in fact they get the wedding dress / suit out as soon as someone says they are gorgeous/ wants to fuck them/ fucks them. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
