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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Are guys who use the forums and post regularly more likely to be popular and have more requests for meets than guys who dont use the forums. Women are attracted to intelligent and funny guys. Or do you feel that it could become a little embarrassing to have played with a guy and then have to come back on the forums and act normally. Are you worried it could change the rapport you have or enhance it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not all the guys that post are nice though. Some come across as angry, petulant and devoid of humour: hardly candidates for a fun meet! 
The majority of my meets don't post on the forums but do read them. I'm also good friends with many forum regulars but you'd never tell. If they post something I disagree with I say and vice versa.
Intelligent, confident men with a backbone always a turn on as watching them squirm on the other end of a ...well, so much more fun! 
As for changing the rapport it hasn't for me or them: why would it? We're on a swinging site looking for sexual partners, not "bessie mates"! That said, you can spot regulars who have played. Usually it's the female who "shoots across the bough" in warning to other women who maybe muscling in on "her" playmate.
Sometimes, just for my own edification I check the profiles and the 101 verifications from them confirms my suspicions! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes, just for my own edification I check the profiles and the 101 verifications from them confirms my suspicions!
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Blimey have ya wet the bed??  |
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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago
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We've often thought the cleverer of the single guys post on the forums.
They are more likely to get noticed, whether that turns into meets for them only they can say. We tend to check out single guy's profiles after reading posts from them rather than doing a search.
But then it goes the complete opposite as well. Some guys post topic after topic of totally useless dross, in our _iew just to get noticed! Some names can be seen 10 or more times as topic starters on one page!
They are trying too hard and us for one get put off by this type. If they come over as too pushy when posting topics, what are they going to be like meeting face to face? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We've often thought the cleverer of the single guys post on the forums.
They are more likely to get noticed, whether that turns into meets for them only they can say. We tend to check out single guy's profiles after reading posts from them rather than doing a search.
But then it goes the complete opposite as well. Some guys post topic after topic of totally useless dross, in our _iew just to get noticed! Some names can be seen 10 or more times as topic starters on one page!
They are trying too hard and us for one get put off by this type. If they come over as too pushy when posting topics, what are they going to be like meeting face to face?"
i would agree with that as i think depending on what the forumites post determines a meet or not. It also gets someones face noticed, i like that as i feel then im meeting someone fairly trustworthy and someone that isnt going to moan or winge constantly about not getting meets  |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
I have not met many "women of fab forums" yet... but I would love to as at least I know we would have a bloody good chinwag...
does that make me more popular... I don't think so, but what it does is it give people the chance to do some backreading via the little green arrow...
if i am an arse, its there for people to see.... if i am a nice guy it may give people the chance to get a better feel for me......
I was always a person who met most of my meets via forums and socials and clubs anyway where i get the chance to actually talk to people and make a more reasoned decision.... but that is me...
sean xxxx |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"Are guys who use the forums and post regularly more likely to be popular and have more requests for meets than guys who dont use the forums. Women are attracted to intelligent and funny guys. Or do you feel that it could become a little embarrassing to have played with a guy and then have to come back on the forums and act normally. Are you worried it could change the rapport you have or enhance it?"
Why dont ya get youself to a social and meet some forumites then you can judge for yourself....im in full agreement with Jack on this one  |
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If guys spend time being funny, erudite, witty, self-depricating, intelligent, thoughtful, insightful, well-balanced, open, honest, cheeky, articulate and inclusive on the forums, then they'll be 'up to their nuts in guts' in no time.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If guys spend time being funny, erudite, witty, self-depricating, intelligent, thoughtful, insightful, well-balanced, open, honest, cheeky, articulate and inclusive on the forums, then they'll be 'up to their nuts in guts' in no time.
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which one do you profess to be?
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"If guys spend time being funny, erudite, witty, self-depricating, intelligent, thoughtful, insightful, well-balanced, open, honest, cheeky, articulate and inclusive on the forums, then they'll be 'up to their nuts in guts' in no time.
which one do you profess to be?
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'guy' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like coming to forums. I enjoy the topics raised and people I come into contact with but I don't think I'd meet anyone from here in the same way I don't think many would meet me. I'm an easy-going person and I find some people here very tense. It's hard to believe anyone has fun here sometimes!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have never played with anyone who posts regularly on the forums, but there are a number of lovely guys that I would like to. I am attracted to humour and fun guys and I see posts by guys on here and I think he's great. I would be far too nervous to approach them though in case they told me to bugger off and then Id have to face them on the forum, even though I know they would be perfect gentleman and not broadcast it.
I think Sassy made a very good point in that she said you can spot people who have played and sometimes this can be detrimental to others who may want to play with the same person.
And also are the guys just too nice and lovely to get down and dirty with.
I would love to get to a social but because of the type of work my partner does, sometimes weekends are not viable, both of us would love to attend a social, its never the case that we dont want to go. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have never played with anyone who posts regularly on the forums, but there are a number of lovely guys that I would like to. I am attracted to humour and fun guys and I see posts by guys on here and I think he's great. I would be far too nervous to approach them though in case they told me to bugger off and then Id have to face them on the forum, even though I know they would be perfect gentleman and not broadcast it.
I think Sassy made a very good point in that she said you can spot people who have played and sometimes this can be detrimental to others who may want to play with the same person.
And also are the guys just too nice and lovely to get down and dirty with.
I would love to get to a social but because of the type of work my partner does, sometimes weekends are not viable, both of us would love to attend a social, its never the case that we dont want to go. "
awww Thanks!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like coming to forums. I enjoy the topics raised and people I come into contact with but I don't think I'd meet anyone from here in the same way I don't think many would meet me. I'm an easy-going person and I find some people here very tense. It's hard to believe anyone has fun here sometimes! "
Thats a really good point,I sometimes wonder how some people meet after I read some posts in these forums 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I must admit I do get messages entitled - I saw you post in the forum, and I always think oh shit, what I have I said now! "
We get similar messages, but ousr usually end with, "and if I ever meet you I'll smash your fucking face in"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thats a really good point,I sometimes wonder how some people meet after I read some posts in these forums "
lol, we've shagged a few, unless it's all in our heads |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We get similar messages, but ousr usually end with, "and if I ever meet you I'll smash your fucking face in"
Maybe that's a spoonerism, and you're actually quite popular? "
Dammit, I never looked at it that way before - wey hey, drinks are on me, 'Mr Popular' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"wey hey, drinks are on me, 'Mr Popular'
keeps this quote for future reference at minehead
Already stockpiling the scrumpy "
Mmmm I love a bit of scrumpy pumpy |
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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago
London |
We ran into this sort of problem over at another sit..
But with relation to couples.. It all got a bit friendly and vanilla to us..
We would then not think of meeting them.. As we have enough vanilla friends.. We are here for one thing only...
But then that is our take on swinging and we know it not others.. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"I must admit I do get messages entitled - I saw you post in the forum, and I always think oh shit, what I have I said now!
We get similar messages, but ousr usually end with, "and if I ever meet you I'll smash your fucking face in"
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.....and that is why I don't go out without a gum shield and a cricket box!
Seriously in my head I think I am not as liked as I am, and apparently I am kinda intimidating in the flesh.. So sometimes you just can't win for being nice!
Also wanted to agree with sassy that some people say thing because they think it makes them look good... The one thing I can't abide is people whose opinion change with the blowing of the winds... I might not always agree with people but I respect them if they stick to what they believe |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Angus & Findhorn |
Posting definitely helps give people an impression of the poster. Shows personality and values.
Mind ya... I often make folks laugh before slitting their throats and eating them.
So I will repeat.... An IMPRESSION |
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"Posting definitely helps give people an impression of the poster. Shows personality and values.
Mind ya... I often make folks laugh before slitting their throats and eating them.
So I will repeat.... An IMPRESSION "
An Impression? That's not what you left on my arse last night you dirty, dirty liar. You promised, remember?
My 'hole' (a term used by homosexuals and children of a lesser grammar) could have been used to rescue a Chilean miner this morning.
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Angus & Findhorn |
"I is very gentle.....
To begin with...
.....Like a steel hand in a velvet glove."
. Am lulling him into a false sense of security... I sense he is ripe for a plucking... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Posting definitely helps give people an impression of the poster. Shows personality and values.
Mind ya... I often make folks laugh before slitting their throats and eating them.
So I will repeat.... An IMPRESSION
An Impression? That's not what you left on my arse last night you dirty, dirty liar. You promised, remember?
My 'hole' (a term used by homosexuals and children of a lesser grammar) could have been used to rescue a Chilean miner this morning.
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Just one?!! |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Angus & Findhorn |
"Now that sounds interesting...
Any chance of a touch of lube
Seriously, don't be seduced by that Mans charms. I was, and paid the price.
His idea of 'gentle' involved a run up."
Aye was a relay tho and never heard you complain about all 4 batons crossing your man line.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I am bloody loving it - its as a good as the time Mr View and Soapy were discussing going to the pub in jeans and sweatshirts instead of their usual bi wardrobe of velvet pantaloons and frilly shirts |
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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago
London |
Pantaloons and frilly shirts
Mr View I am surprised .. Very straight
Why do we bi guys go to all the bloody preening, grooming, eyebrow plucking and tinting, body shaving, always on a bloody diet..
To have a saggy ass from the rear? |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Angus & Findhorn |
Wash your mouth out mr east mids with the lovely cock pic...
I is never straight ..........EVER.
I swish and glide. flowing with a fragrance of creed Irish t... My fav smell.
Then elegantly slip to my knees..
AND CHOMP COCK TILL IT SPURTS JIZZ |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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thank you for your comment on my avatar, Im so pleased that the eyelashes managed to stick on properly - oh and Mr East Mids does have a gorgeous cock |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
In Your Bush |
"Posting definitely helps give people an impression of the poster. Shows personality and values.
Mind ya... I often make folks laugh before slitting their throats and eating them.
So I will repeat.... An IMPRESSION
An Impression? That's not what you left on my arse last night you dirty, dirty liar. You promised, remember?
My 'hole' (a term used by homosexuals and children of a lesser grammar) could have been used to rescue a Chilean miner this morning.
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Note to self: don't eat tea while reading this forum lol |
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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago
London |
Oh the pleasures of a multi device household.. Laptop and iPad..
Mrs new.. Dont you have a meet to sort out! Tut
And thanks iconic.. Not haplp with my hair in that photo and the cock is only at half mast but it will do..
And your eyelashes.. Dahrlink.. Very sparkly.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seriously in my head I think I am not as liked as I am, and apparently I am kinda intimidating in the flesh.. So sometimes you just can't win for being nice!
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Ha!
You are a pussy cat compared with femme! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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AAAAAAAAAAAAnd back to the thread for a sec, sorry guys!
I have met and played with someone on the forums and it doesn't change anything, really.
I am a lot more selective though, so I do have trouble getting meets, poor me! |
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"AAAAAAAAAAAAnd back to the thread for a sec, sorry guys!
I have met and played with someone on the forums and it doesn't change anything, really.
I am a lot more selective though, so I do have trouble getting meets, poor me!"
Good post, I would gladly meet any of the Lovely ladies on this forum, if they cared to invite me! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oh the pleasures of a multi device household.. Laptop and iPad..
Mrs new.. Dont you have a meet to sort out! Tut
And thanks iconic.. Not haplp with my hair in that photo and the cock is only at half mast but it will do..
And your eyelashes.. Dahrlink.. Very sparkly.."
Yes the hair was the very first thing I noticed (note to self, go back and look at the pic just in case he asks you any questions on his hair) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Posting definitely helps give people an impression of the poster. Shows personality and values.
Mind ya... I often make folks laugh before slitting their throats and eating them.
So I will repeat.... An IMPRESSION
An Impression? That's not what you left on my arse last night you dirty, dirty liar. You promised, remember?
My 'hole' (a term used by homosexuals and children of a lesser grammar) could have been used to rescue a Chilean miner this morning.
Note to self: don't eat tea while reading this forum lol"
EAT?!!! bldy ell, what kind o tea do YOU buy? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Met a couple who use the forums and met a few who don't. In all honesty it's never made any difference as i meet people i like and not just because they do anything. I have to get on with someone but i also have to find them visually appealing. I am not into the any hole thing. |
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