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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So ladies and couples, myself as well as a lot of other "single male" profiles have been messaging you lovely people, how long do you leave messages from our group before deciding to delete them, I've got messages a week old unread in my sent box, and I've deleted messages older than that in the past that haven't been read. Can you not delete to tidy up the inbox or are you getting 100s and don't want to delete any potential diamonds in the rough. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends who you are emailing. .Some females have over a hundreds or thousand emails unread... You have no idea how many the recieve. I find it amazing my friends even find mine to reply too.
Sometimes after a week it will be lost in the sands of time, the key is not to keep on emailing lots and lots as just come across as an arse...
Its a fine line and there is no right or wrong answer... |
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I try and answer all my messages, but if I've had a particular busy couple of days and not kept on top of messages, some will drop off the page and are therefore forgotten about until I say fuck it and do a mass delete because there are too many to answer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not getting 100s of guys messaging but i am talking to people so overall i probably am getting 100s of mails. I do delete once i've finished chatting. |
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Another thing, I tend to reply to friends first, they get prority, so other messages disappear into the abyss.
I have loads of filters set, so I'm not one to get hundreds a day luckily, so most of the time you'll get a reply from me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We read and reply to all messages next time we come on fab or if on and receive messages we reply straight away,as don't get many messages as others think lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am I correct in saying that if you delete a message without reading it, then it just looks as though it's still there but unread?  "
So someone told me the other day/week. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Am I correct in saying that if you delete a message without reading it, then it just looks as though it's still there but unread? "
Aaah, that may answer a few questions, might as well clear my sent box then |
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"Am I correct in saying that if you delete a message without reading it, then it just looks as though it's still there but unread?
So someone told me the other day/week."
Yeah I read it on the forum and was surprised. I just assumed it would have had a strike through. Wanna test it?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it's someone I've seen or chatted to on the forums I answer soon as I've seen it of it's someone I don't know then It depends the structure of the msg |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"done let me know when you delete it, and then i'll delete your message unopened and you can see from your end.
Unread and deleted!  "
It's got deleted next to it, and it's not yellow.
Lol that guy must have just not his messages read. |
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"done let me know when you delete it, and then i'll delete your message unopened and you can see from your end.
Unread and deleted!
It's got deleted next to it, and it's not yellow.
Lol that guy must have just not his messages read."
That's good to know!
Experiment complete! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"done let me know when you delete it, and then i'll delete your message unopened and you can see from your end.
Unread and deleted!
It's got deleted next to it, and it's not yellow.
Lol that guy must have just not his messages read.
That's good to know!
Experiment complete! "
I was hoping they couldn't tell. |
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"done let me know when you delete it, and then i'll delete your message unopened and you can see from your end.
Unread and deleted!
It's got deleted next to it, and it's not yellow.
Lol that guy must have just not his messages read.
That's good to know!
Experiment complete!
I was hoping they couldn't tell."
Me too... good to know but I'm a bit disappointed! I figured they'd be able to tell it wasn't read but simply deleted. It must be shit being a bloke! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"done let me know when you delete it, and then i'll delete your message unopened and you can see from your end.
Unread and deleted!
It's got deleted next to it, and it's not yellow.
Lol that guy must have just not his messages read.
That's good to know!
Experiment complete!
I was hoping they couldn't tell.
Me too... good to know but I'm a bit disappointed! I figured they'd be able to tell it wasn't read but simply deleted. It must be shit being a bloke! "
Yeah when i get no messages for a while i think how shit it must be being a guy on here. |
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