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Do people enjoy going for social, non-sexual meet ups?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm curious, does anyone?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yea me now, I like mingling with like minded kinksters |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes  |
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Yes.
I had no idea such things existed before joining Fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We sure do xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I love it. Most of my verifications are from socials x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, never. I'm not a sociable person and find them boring and pointless ! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Oh good ^^
I love to! Just the thing of meeting people properly, knowing what people like and don't. And just having a laugh. Its lovely ^^ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, the nervous excitement of meeting someone new is half the thrill. |
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We always like to have a social before playing anyway, so a from us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, the nervous excitement of meeting someone new is half the thrill."
Cuppa  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I'm going to one next month, I'm hoping to go to a bigger social when there is one with lots of other like minded people, to meet people that actually have something in common with me would be great! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I do. I love the buzz I get from meeting someone new for the first time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm curious, does anyone? "
I do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yes
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm curious, does anyone? I do "
with women of course though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep most definitely, good to meet up with people you've been interacting with on here!
Always up for a chat and and a coffee / wine with nothing else on the agenda ... (Just saying ... ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A must for me before a meet. As for the other social where you meet up in a group, yes and looking forward to the Norwich social at the end of the month. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep,
I've found that purely non sex socials where there's been no pressure to fancy a person and play had actually led to greater things |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No. There aren't enough hours in the day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I love it when it happens |
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Nar,too unsociable for my own good! |
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Like to meet great people, full stop. Sex can happen with those who are appropriate but swinging social meets are lovely. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes and no.
Yes, I like going to socials with people I've been chatting to on the forums because there is some banter. I can tell who I like and who would be fun to meet socially.
But if someone on fab randomly messaged asking for a social without any prior contact? Then no.
-Courtney
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social tonight in Cardiff anyone?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some of the best fun I've had has been because of vanilla socials.
No pressure, loads of laughs, cheeky flirts, etc all building towards a future meet..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't have a huge amount of time for stuff like that but I have met people on that basis and had a lovely time before. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Forumites yes!
Single males I could be shagging no! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer coffee socials to night out socials. I'm not a fan of big nights out.
Nice to have a quick coffee and a natter when time permits. It's always interesting meeting new people for whatever reason.
Mrs x |
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By *km45Man
over a year ago
UTTOXETER |
Ideally I prefer to meet for a social first. It allows you to get to know each other first and then you can take it from there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. Sometimes you meet people who you have no sexual chemistry with but have other things in common. |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
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Yes whether it's a coffee or a night out. I like meeting new ppl. If it leads to a meet even better. Red |
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Yes!
They can be socials that lead on to other things but at people's leisure and discretion. |
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"I'm curious, does anyone? "
Some of the best meetings I've had through fabs and the site before this have been pure social meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm curious, does anyone? "
Yes.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes.
Already got a couple as in two lined up x |
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Yes. But my first meets are usually more playful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yup, I totally enjoy social meets even if there's no sexual spark. I like meeting like-minded adults... |
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By *oner68Couple
over a year ago
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Yes I enjoy a social meet , it's a buzz meeting someone new |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
Yes I do and by the end of it I usually know if I want to play with them |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
Wakefield |
No we don't have much free time so prefer to meet and play |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are both very sociable people so do enjoy the big socials but have always had plenty of naughty fun too x
We tend to treat party nights at clubs the same though x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes. Sometimes you meet people who you have no sexual chemistry with but have other things in common."
Totally agree with you on that. I've met guys socially and although we have never took it any further we do meet up from time to time for a coffee and chinwag |
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"Yes I love it. Most of my verifications are from socials x "
Hence Queen of tease lol |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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I always insist on a social meet first and I have also attended the larger ones as well, they work for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What's not to like ?  |
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I like them & have 1 lined up - if cake is involved it's a bonus |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's not to like ? "
With very limited time then I'd like be sure that I'm going to want to meet sexually with that person so i may as well just do that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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With people I've chatted to on the forums, definitely! With non-forumites? If I enjoy the company I always end up having sex, thus it ceases to be a mere social  |
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Only if it's very likely to lead somewhere much more horizontal... organised group socials are a big no. Been there, done that and it was dire... I have limited time and only meet if I really think it's going to go somewhere much more interesting... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, I love meeting over a coffee or a glass of wine.
Builds up the sexual desire. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No , I have lots of vanilla friends if I want to socialize.
I will meet for a drink if playing is in the cards after if we like each other.
But a purely no sex meet is a big no for me. |
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"No , I have lots of vanilla friends if I want to socialize.
I will meet for a drink if playing is in the cards after if we like each other.
But a purely no sex meet is a big no for me."
^^ This |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I enjoy the social part of meeting but i'd expect sex as well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I'm going to one next month, I'm hoping to go to a bigger social when there is one with lots of other like minded people, to meet people that actually have something in common with me would be great!"
Exactly, unless it's a crowd of people then I wouldn't be bothered. I'd just go to a club.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"social tonight in Cardiff anyone??"
Considering most of you're pictures you can see a random woman more than you, no thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not particularly unless I'm quite sure we are going to end up in bed. I don't do socials to see if there's a spark of attraction. When I have done that there wasn't,my instincts were correct. I don't mind meeting someone for a drink or coffee for them to be sure they want to meet though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we certainly do! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've had dinner and drinks with people that we have played with and no playing afterwards. Enjoyed their company and the craic.
Tomcat |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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no .....as someone else said not enought free time to do so and some are so boring.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It would have to be a yes from us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yes |
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Love them... Personally, I think that all couples should "date" other couples. Just meet up with strangers and get to know them.
Cal |
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Yes, if they are arranged with a view to potentially playing at some point in the future. Meeting like that with no expectations is a good way to avoid any awkwardness if the attraction and spark aren't there. If it is, then a great time to start flirting and seducing…. |
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Yes from me too.
I've spent a lot of my time at socials and I find that's the best way for me to meet people. It's always been socials from the forums I've attended, that's where I find I'm most comfortable and lose the pressure that I loathe. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My first meet was the only social I've had, but I'd definitely be interested if I knew I'd get on with the person well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm curious, does anyone? "
We certainly don't .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"no .....as someone else said not enought free time to do so and some are so boring.... "
Only some ?
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Yes I love them, sometimes more comes from it and sometimes it doesn't.
But they are great fun and ours went well last night |
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"no .....as someone else said not enought free time to do so and some are so boring....
Only some ?
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Depends who's there I guess! |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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No. We don't do socials in a group as the first and only one we went to was embarrassing.
We only meet up with people we are likely to be playing with on the same day, so although yes it is a social to see if we still want to play, it isn't meeting people just for a coffee. |
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we like meeting potential sex partners socially,and ideally if we meet in a hotel bar for instance, we can progress pretty quickly if there's a spark |
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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago
Just where I need to be. |
I have met socially knowing that there would not be any future play meets involved.I get cake when I meet socially. Some people you click with and if we both have free diary space yes I meet socially. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm curious, does anyone? "
Ask the 80 plus fabsters who go to the Bradford Socials |
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"I'm curious, does anyone? "
God yes we have made some fantastic friends who we have clicked with
And enjoy very sexy meets with them since x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thinking about it though,if I liked talking to someone and he said let's go for a drink,if I fancied a drink and a chat I would go. Doesn't happen often though |
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Social meet..only to see if there is chemistry to go further. But no not looking for friends |
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Yes we do a few drinks and a chat what could go wrong lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes But life's been getting in the way recently so looking forward to getting back to it |
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By *inx_xxWoman
over a year ago
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Social Butterfly here
Enjoy the social part of this lifestyle as much as the sex.
Definitely have a coffee first to make sure im not walking into a situation with someone with other intentions than we planned  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it were with a single or couple we were attracted to then sure!
If it were a forumite social, then not without my backpack flamethrower as my plus one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A big yes from me - just love the social side, meeting new friends that I had been chatting to on here, being with liberal open-minded people, the flirtiness of it all and tend to have a good idea if you want to play with them by the end! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm curious, does anyone? "
Yeah |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes.
My first three meetings with the lovel lady in question were non sexual and they were enjoyed by all... |
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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago
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I'm having a social right now with a regular fab friend of mine  she's just popped out to make a call, lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutely, most of our veris are from socials and a few of them have become fabulous friends & play mates. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One on one social meets are not something i often do
I like going to the organised socials though, I like a good night out and its a good way to put faces to names so you know who to mail later |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. We don't do socials in a group as the first and only one we went to was embarrassing.
We only meet up with people we are likely to be playing with on the same day, so although yes it is a social to see if we still want to play, it isn't meeting people just for a coffee."
a social with a play environment
I've tried to reduce the amount of regular socials(ones that are really only a big pub meet), the people become regular...which is fine...but I dont want to be just socializing when my focus is sex. Its nice to meet new people, but I dont think it helps meeting the same people year after year that you arent sexually interested in/or they in you...
I prefer private parties or clubs for 'socializing' rather than public places...and many I've been to arent pressure envioronments. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutely, most of our veris are from socials and a few of them have become fabulous friends & play mates. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"No. We don't do socials in a group as the first and only one we went to was embarrassing.
We only meet up with people we are likely to be playing with on the same day, so although yes it is a social to see if we still want to play, it isn't meeting people just for a coffee.
a social with a play environment
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That's great of you like clubs yes |
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Love the social side to the site |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm curious, does anyone? "
Absolutely yes..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes love it |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"No. We don't do socials in a group as the first and only one we went to was embarrassing.
We only meet up with people we are likely to be playing with on the same day, so although yes it is a social to see if we still want to play, it isn't meeting people just for a coffee.
a social with a play environment
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That's great of you like clubs yes "
if not of |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I do.
I don't have a lot of free time but it's sometimes easier (& fun ) to squeeze a social in over a drink. Only with people I've chatted to though not randoms.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love them... Personally, I think that all couples should "date" other couples. Just meet up with strangers and get to know them.
Cal"
You think all couples should meet like this? What about those that don't want to? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not great in group situations with strangers at the best of times so the sound of a group social sounds awful. I'm only into one to one... I can't see the point of anything else as it'd just end up being a competition or something. I'd far rather just meet and flirt |
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Yep one on ones to see if there's mutual attraction, and went to the brum social which was fun being in a room full of horny sex oriented people
Quite happy to just go for it on a first meet too of course.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sure, a great way to relax and make new friends. Anything after that is a bonus...hope you get lucky! |
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sure why not, probably best way to ease the nerves for me and get acquainted a bit then just cover ground rules etc as to what the other person does and does not like then later move on and take things further...
or just general talk and banter about whatever strikes the mood. |
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No I don't enjoy meeting someone for a coffee or a drink or 2 down the pub, I find them like an uncomfortable interview.
But a social evening down my local swingers club I enjoy, less pressure to be on my best behavour I guess |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No I don't enjoy meeting someone for a coffee or a drink or 2 down the pub, I find them like an uncomfortable interview.
But a social evening down my local swingers club I enjoy, less pressure to be on my best behavour I guess "
Best behaviour whats that |
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By *tevelizCouple
over a year ago
northampton |
yes, we do. Nice to get to know others sometime. |
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Any excuse for a coffee
I love coffee....almost as much as...you know..the other stuff on here |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
Catthorpe |
Only ever done this once, we'd like more tbh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I enjoy social meetings |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love them... Personally, I think that all couples should "date" other couples. Just meet up with strangers and get to know them.
Cal
You think all couples should meet like this? What about those that don't want to?"
I can't think of anything worse ! |
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I enjoy an organised social and also a one to one coffee meet social very much. |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
Shrewsbury |
"I like them & have 1 lined up - if cake is involved it's a bonus "
Welcome back to ours anytime x |
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"I like them & have 1 lined up - if cake is involved it's a bonus
Welcome back to ours anytime x"
I may take you up on that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it wasn't for a forum social at cupids. I would never have plucked up the courage to go to a club. It was a fantastic experience for a newbie x |
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"No I don't enjoy meeting someone for a coffee or a drink or 2 down the pub, I find them like an uncomfortable interview.
But a social evening down my local swingers club I enjoy, less pressure to be on my best behavour I guess
Best behaviour whats that "
Well you know me..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I do.
I don't have a lot of free time but it's sometimes easier (& fun ) to squeeze a social in over a drink. Only with people I've chatted to though not randoms.. "
We were all randoms once...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, we do."
Noted.
Waves....... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love them... Personally, I think that all couples should "date" other couples. Just meet up with strangers and get to know them.
Cal
You think all couples should meet like this? What about those that don't want to?"
They will just do what we do , and not do socials |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love them... Personally, I think that all couples should "date" other couples. Just meet up with strangers and get to know them.
Cal
You think all couples should meet like this? What about those that don't want to?
They will just do what we do , and not do socials "
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Coffee and social meets are not my thing. If I want to meet you we fuck, I can drink coffee on my own.
Betty xxx |
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When it will definitely not lead to sex I don't leave the city. If it's pretty much a precursor to sex I may cross one county line. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The easiest question ever to answer. ...YUP!
It's not always about sex, a social at a club is great fun, and meeting new people along the way. |
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No I only meet for sex, I think I have only had 2 or 3 social meets in all the years I have been swinging |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep, I do enjoy a right good one on one social!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No I only meet for sex, I think I have only had 2 or 3 social meets in all the years I have been swinging "
What if there's no chemistry or you just don't fancy them ? |
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"No I only meet for sex, I think I have only had 2 or 3 social meets in all the years I have been swinging
What if there's no chemistry or you just don't fancy them ? "
It's not just men who think "Fuck it, I'm here, I might as well do it" |
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"Yes, we do.
Noted.
Waves......."
hello. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No I only meet for sex, I think I have only had 2 or 3 social meets in all the years I have been swinging
What if there's no chemistry or you just don't fancy them ?
It's not just men who think "Fuck it, I'm here, I might as well do it""
We see pics before meeting , and if we don't have an attraction we don't play .
What we do is make it clear we are meeting with the potential to have fun on the meet . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think its a bit pointless and possibly a bit detrimental to just have a social i.e. sit and talk about how you make lasagna or shit. I think socials should have a strong element of flirtation and possibly even a little bit of naughtiness. It's really all about seeing if there's chemistry there. I don't mind the idea of running off and having sex afterwards... or leaving it till another time... I think its important not to pressure people... but its also good to let passions take over the driving sometimes... but either way there needs to be some sparks or else its just gonna end up driving into a ditch. So social yes... but it's gotta have a naughty element to it... so not a social social... but a sexy social |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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things need to click for me..so a private meet then a no expectation to play meet, is a must, even if that goes on from there..
seeing a regular person for a drink when weve played before, can be torturous...lol
playing with couples i insist on a social.
at a club, the 'social' usually takes place before and in the hot tub...very civilised...hehehe
large get togethers...and parties..i go for the social, anything else that comes of it, is natural progression, and a bonus.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, we do.
Noted.
Waves.......
hello."
*Puts on Terry Thomas voice;
"Ding donggg" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I have a hoot its good to meet friends and talk |
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"Yes, we do.
Noted.
Waves.......
hello.
*Puts on Terry Thomas voice;
"Ding donggg""
Lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, we do.
Noted.
Waves.......
hello.
*Puts on Terry Thomas voice;
"Ding donggg"
Lol. "
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No, I have an active social life in the real world, I only intend to have socials on here if I am thinking of meeting someone for more, though I occasionally make exceptions (eg for sages or tit smugglers) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, always like a social meet, it seems more natural to me, you get to know people a bit better that way without unnecessary pressure. If there's a mental/physical attraction all well and good, if not, then enjoy it for what it is. I still meet some of these people now and then just for a coffee/drink, chat and laugh and nothing else.
Would like to get to some of the organised larger social but time and not finding out about them in time is a bit of a problemfor me (slap, ouch!!! Try harder man....) |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
Definitely not. We have real life for that. Swinging life is about swinging, sex and fulfilling our fantasies. |
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Love meeting other pervs. Doesn't always have to end up in a bonk.
Though went to a social recently that was insanely cliquey. Tried my best to be friendly and chatty but was snubbed, ach well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah I do good to know if there's a connection that can lead to playing x any one fancy a drink |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love the social side and enjoy meeting first to see if there's a spark. A lot of the time I have socials with previous meets as we've become good friends and enjoy each others company. Guess it depends how you want to use the site as to whether or not you do the whole social angle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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LOVE a good social!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes always good to meet fellow people |
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"No I only meet for sex, I think I have only had 2 or 3 social meets in all the years I have been swinging
What if there's no chemistry or you just don't fancy them ? "
I wouldn't arrange to meet anyone I wasn't going to fancy spending a few hours with |
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"No I only meet for sex, I think I have only had 2 or 3 social meets in all the years I have been swinging
What if there's no chemistry or you just don't fancy them ?
It's not just men who think "Fuck it, I'm here, I might as well do it""
I am not one of those people though |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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Tougher tis one .
A social with a few to more down the line yes .
A social event no I have male and female friends away from this site so I'd choose to spend what time I have socializing with them.
A social with a friends with benefits no sex involved yes .
A social with a ex friend with benefits yes as they are a friend . |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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Tougher tis one .
A social with a few to more down the line yes .
A social event no I have male and female friends away from this site so I'd choose to spend what time I have socializing with them.
A social with a friends with benefits no sex involved yes .
A social with a ex friend with benefits yes as they are a friend . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We love it. We attend an organised one every 2 months. We have made such good friends that we go out outside of fab as well to pubs and to watch bands or even just for a cuppa lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we used to do socials when we started out over 15 years ago but found them very boring and time consuming so now we don't do them just meet n play so much better for us ..but as in life we are all different so you should do what suits you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yea me now, I like mingling with like minded kinksters "
fancy a cuppa in brum- daytime in a few weeks ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes socials get the up, like minded kinky fuckers all having a chat x |
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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago
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I've had a few purely social meets and really enjoy them.
The first time I ever met someone from here was a social meet and it was a nice, relaxed way to get going. It also gave me lots of insights into the experience (good and bad) of ad woman on here!
Been to one formal social too - they're good fun.
I've met a "proper" long-term friend from being here, so I'm grateful there can be a social element |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes and if it goes well then there is that excitement of knowing next time you meet there will be naughty fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes definitely, it's as exciting and fun.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Social meet..only to see if there is chemistry to go further. But no not looking for friends"
I think some people are looking for friends. That's all good, but definitely not for me.
We've had one 'social' with another couple and it was just weird. It's as though they were on a date.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I went to a club last night and spent the whole time chatting and getting to know people... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love meeting other pervs. Doesn't always have to end up in a bonk.
Though went to a social recently that was insanely cliquey. Tried my best to be friendly and chatty but was snubbed, ach well."
A Fab social? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes we do.it's lovely meeting new people |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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ooooh.... i never knew these types of fab socials existed ... must put my name down for 1 in the future..... people might think i am actually real then.....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Meeting people for a chat and coffee is perfectly ok, you get an insight of what the person is like, what they are looking for and also if their is any attractions.
I like to meet new people socially, if we all get along then there's the possibility of more, if not then it's a friendly chat.
There's more to swinging than sex all the time, some very good friends made whilst being social, and also a good night out away from the usual nightclubs where you have to shout to get yourself heard.
Big from me.
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