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over a year ago
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Ive seen alot of women's profiles on here saying that they want guys to mail them something different than the usual "hi how are you" or "hey what are you doing" and was just curious to know what sort of stuff do you actually want guys to mail you that's so different |
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"Ive seen alot of women's profiles on here saying that they want guys to mail them something different than the usual "hi how are you" or "hey what are you doing" and was just curious to know what sort of stuff do you actually want guys to mail you that's so different "
That's cheating - you're meant to come up with your own ideas!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ive seen alot of women's profiles on here saying that they want guys to mail them something different than the usual "hi how are you" or "hey what are you doing" and was just curious to know what sort of stuff do you actually want guys to mail you that's so different
That's cheating - you're meant to come up with your own ideas!
Mr ddc"
Or try the "I so want to fuck you" thread..... |
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"Ive seen alot of women's profiles on here saying that they want guys to mail them something different than the usual "hi how are you" or "hey what are you doing" and was just curious to know what sort of stuff do you actually want guys to mail you that's so different "
People tend to eant a message that get's their interest and gives a reason to reply. The examples toy gave are pretty much the polar opposite of that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"trying thinking with your mind and not your cock  "
Yeah but if you send a nice mail not even mentioning anything about sex ive noticed it just goes unnoticed |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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Well I would hope they had move than just a cock pic....Unless they are a cock of course then just leave things how they are!
Also my current bugbear is men messaging me saying how much they love my profile and pics and they have SFA themselves......so uninspiring and guaranteed to be ignored. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Well I would hope they had move than just a cock pic....Unless they are a cock of course then just leave things how they are!
Also my current bugbear is men messaging me saying how much they love my profile and pics and they have SFA themselves......so uninspiring and guaranteed to be ignored."
See I do have a face pic but I don't like putting it up for all to see I wait till I talk to someone and feel comfortable with them then send it |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Well I would hope they had move than just a cock pic....Unless they are a cock of course then just leave things how they are!
Also my current bugbear is men messaging me saying how much they love my profile and pics and they have SFA themselves......so uninspiring and guaranteed to be ignored.
See I do have a face pic but I don't like putting it up for all to see I wait till I talk to someone and feel comfortable with them then send it "
I have my face pic in private also, but I have plenty of other pics for men to choose whether to contact me or not do I not?
Is your cock the only thing that represents you as a man? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Well I would hope they had move than just a cock pic....Unless they are a cock of course then just leave things how they are!
Also my current bugbear is men messaging me saying how much they love my profile and pics and they have SFA themselves......so uninspiring and guaranteed to be ignored.
See I do have a face pic but I don't like putting it up for all to see I wait till I talk to someone and feel comfortable with them then send it
I have my face pic in private also, but I have plenty of other pics for men to choose whether to contact me or not do I not?
Is your cock the only thing that represents you as a man?"
Fair point but as a lady you have other things to show that looks nice without showing your race example boobs, bum, legs for some people feet guys only really have there body really |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"trying thinking with your mind and not your cock
Yeah but if you send a nice mail not even mentioning anything about sex ive noticed it just goes unnoticed "
not by every1 tbh if ive seen 1 cock pic ive seen the lot yawn |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Well I would hope they had move than just a cock pic....Unless they are a cock of course then just leave things how they are!
Also my current bugbear is men messaging me saying how much they love my profile and pics and they have SFA themselves......so uninspiring and guaranteed to be ignored.
See I do have a face pic but I don't like putting it up for all to see I wait till I talk to someone and feel comfortable with them then send it
I have my face pic in private also, but I have plenty of other pics for men to choose whether to contact me or not do I not?
Is your cock the only thing that represents you as a man?
Fair point but as a lady you have other things to show that looks nice without showing your race example boobs, bum, legs for some people feet guys only really have there body really "
So you don't have a torso? Bum? Legs?
Oh and I don't even have my boobs on my profile, so stop making excuses and get some bloody decent pics Unless as I said before, all you are is a cock. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not everybody wants or needs interesting first messages so if the profile you are looking at does nothing to inspire you into writing a decent message then they probably aren't for you anyway. Plenty of people base their initial attraction to someone based on their profile rather than message. |
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"Not everybody wants or needs interesting first messages so if the profile you are looking at does nothing to inspire you into writing a decent message then they probably aren't for you anyway. Plenty of people base their initial attraction to someone based on their profile rather than message."
nothing to do with the thread but what an awesome avatar .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive seen alot of women's profiles on here saying that they want guys to mail them something different than the usual "hi how are you" or "hey what are you doing" and was just curious to know what sort of stuff do you actually want guys to mail you that's so different "
It's all a load of old bollocks mate, you won't get anymore sex out of writing a long message so don't waste your time.
Put effort in your photos and profile, and write a simple polite message with a little clue that shows you read there profile.
Simples
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ive seen alot of women's profiles on here saying that they want guys to mail them something different than the usual "hi how are you" or "hey what are you doing" and was just curious to know what sort of stuff do you actually want guys to mail you that's so different
It's all a load of old bollocks mate, you won't get anymore sex out of writing a long message so don't waste your time.
Put effort in your photos and profile, and write a simple polite message with a little clue that shows you read there profile.
Simples
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Cheers mate someone with actual advice and not being snide |
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"Ive seen alot of women's profiles on here saying that they want guys to mail them something different than the usual "hi how are you" or "hey what are you doing" and was just curious to know what sort of stuff do you actually want guys to mail you that's so different "
Don't bother, you'll be shot down in flames |
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"Ive seen alot of women's profiles on here saying that they want guys to mail them something different than the usual "hi how are you" or "hey what are you doing" and was just curious to know what sort of stuff do you actually want guys to mail you that's so different
It's all a load of old bollocks mate, you won't get anymore sex out of writing a long message so don't waste your time.
Put effort in your photos and profile, and write a simple polite message with a little clue that shows you read there profile.
Simples
Cheers mate someone with actual advice and not being snide"
Sorry *embarrassed* it was juvenile toilet humour  |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Ive seen alot of women's profiles on here saying that they want guys to mail them something different than the usual "hi how are you" or "hey what are you doing" and was just curious to know what sort of stuff do you actually want guys to mail you that's so different
It's all a load of old bollocks mate, you won't get anymore sex out of writing a long message so don't waste your time.
Put effort in your photos and profile, and write a simple polite message with a little clue that shows you read there profile.
Simples
Cheers mate someone with actual advice and not being snide"
I gave you advice, you chose to take it as a snide comment! Update your profile and your first message doesn't have to be a novel, as the females or whoever your contacting can judge by that...god some people need to be handfed on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ive seen alot of women's profiles on here saying that they want guys to mail them something different than the usual "hi how are you" or "hey what are you doing" and was just curious to know what sort of stuff do you actually want guys to mail you that's so different
It's all a load of old bollocks mate, you won't get anymore sex out of writing a long message so don't waste your time.
Put effort in your photos and profile, and write a simple polite message with a little clue that shows you read there profile.
Simples
Cheers mate someone with actual advice and not being snide"
I thought i was giving advice and not being snide  ....i won't bother in future. Snidey is the way forward |
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"Ive seen alot of women's profiles on here saying that they want guys to mail them something different than the usual "hi how are you" or "hey what are you doing" and was just curious to know what sort of stuff do you actually want guys to mail you that's so different
It's all a load of old bollocks mate, you won't get anymore sex out of writing a long message so don't waste your time.
Put effort in your photos and profile, and write a simple polite message with a little clue that shows you read there profile.
Simples
Cheers mate someone with actual advice and not being snide
Sorry *embarrassed* it was juvenile toilet humour "
Check out the to short thread if you want juvenile humour!
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"Ive seen alot of women's profiles on here saying that they want guys to mail them something different than the usual "hi how are you" or "hey what are you doing" and was just curious to know what sort of stuff do you actually want guys to mail you that's so different
It's all a load of old bollocks mate, you won't get anymore sex out of writing a long message so don't waste your time.
Put effort in your photos and profile, and write a simple polite message with a little clue that shows you read there profile.
Simples
Cheers mate someone with actual advice and not being snide
Sorry *embarrassed* it was juvenile toilet humour
Check out the to short thread if you want juvenile humour!
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I saw that. I thought it was the height of bad manners. |
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"Ive seen alot of women's profiles on here saying that they want guys to mail them something different than the usual "hi how are you" or "hey what are you doing" and was just curious to know what sort of stuff do you actually want guys to mail you that's so different
It's all a load of old bollocks mate, you won't get anymore sex out of writing a long message so don't waste your time.
Put effort in your photos and profile, and write a simple polite message with a little clue that shows you read there profile.
Simples
Cheers mate someone with actual advice and not being snide"
a sense of humour will also stand you in good stead..
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"Ive seen alot of women's profiles on here saying that they want guys to mail them something different than the usual "hi how are you" or "hey what are you doing" and was just curious to know what sort of stuff do you actually want guys to mail you that's so different
It's all a load of old bollocks mate, you won't get anymore sex out of writing a long message so don't waste your time.
Put effort in your photos and profile, and write a simple polite message with a little clue that shows you read there profile.
Simples
Cheers mate someone with actual advice and not being snide
Sorry *embarrassed* it was juvenile toilet humour
Check out the to short thread if you want juvenile humour!
I saw that. I thought it was the height of bad manners. "
I know I'm an arsehole!
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"Ive seen alot of women's profiles on here saying that they want guys to mail them something different than the usual "hi how are you" or "hey what are you doing" and was just curious to know what sort of stuff do you actually want guys to mail you that's so different
It's all a load of old bollocks mate, you won't get anymore sex out of writing a long message so don't waste your time.
Put effort in your photos and profile, and write a simple polite message with a little clue that shows you read there profile.
Simples
Cheers mate someone with actual advice and not being snide
Sorry *embarrassed* it was juvenile toilet humour
Check out the to short thread if you want juvenile humour!
I saw that. I thought it was the height of bad manners.
I know I'm an arsehole!
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"height" of bad manners......so am I |
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"Ive seen alot of women's profiles on here saying that they want guys to mail them something different than the usual "hi how are you" or "hey what are you doing" and was just curious to know what sort of stuff do you actually want guys to mail you that's so different
It's all a load of old bollocks mate, you won't get anymore sex out of writing a long message so don't waste your time.
Put effort in your photos and profile, and write a simple polite message with a little clue that shows you read there profile.
Simples
Cheers mate someone with actual advice and not being snide
Sorry *embarrassed* it was juvenile toilet humour
Check out the to short thread if you want juvenile humour!
I saw that. I thought it was the height of bad manners.
I know I'm an arsehole!
"height" of bad manners......so am I "
Sorry Steve I forgot to laugh the first time you said that! Hahahaha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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What's the point in saying hi how are you? How many times in 25 years have you asked a stranger that and they've said something other than I'm fine/ok/good? You'd get a shock asking a stranger that and they told you all the problems on their mind. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"trying thinking with your mind and not your cock
Yeah but if you send a nice mail not even mentioning anything about sex ive noticed it just goes unnoticed "
Most women look at profiles before reading messages. If I looked at your profile it wouldn't interest me so I wouldn't reply. |
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By *essiCouple
over a year ago
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"Ive seen alot of women's profiles on here saying that they want guys to mail them something different than the usual "hi how are you" or "hey what are you doing" and was just curious to know what sort of stuff do you actually want guys to mail you that's so different
It's all a load of old bollocks mate, you won't get anymore sex out of writing a long message so don't waste your time.
Put effort in your photos and profile, and write a simple polite message with a little clue that shows you read there profile.
Simples
Cheers mate someone with actual advice and not being snide
a sense of humour will also stand you in good stead..
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This is so true, making a woman giggle goes a long way.... |
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"Ive seen alot of women's profiles on here saying that they want guys to mail them something different than the usual "hi how are you" or "hey what are you doing" and was just curious to know what sort of stuff do you actually want guys to mail you that's so different "
How about a suggestion of a fantasy you think they might enjoy helping you fullfill or a scenario you would enjoy playing in. Without being crude though. Prick their interest rather than show your prick! |
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I like something original, something that shows my profile has been looked at properly.
I tend to avoid guys with profiles full of clichés.
69? Could have thrown 007 in just for good measure
"I dont bite.......unless you want" seriously 
I don't like the great big long ones that start "You've had a hard day at work..." either. |
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"trying thinking with your mind and not your cock
Yeah but if you send a nice mail not even mentioning anything about sex ive noticed it just goes unnoticed "
If you've ever set your sights on achieving something and would be deterred by some failures, would you assume it's not worth trying?
You could send 100 crap messages and 100 good ones. None may receive an answer but the good messages are more likely to. It's probably better to write 5 good messages than 100 crap ones, but the choice is yours.
Just using the internet to get to know and meet others isn't as likely effective as pursuing other routes too, such as socials and clubs.
If you're communicating with someone then speak directly to that individual person, not a generic partner you'd like to shag. No one can tell you what to say, as it would not be your self expression nor related to each unique recipient.
Swinging can be hard for single guys. You need tenacity, flexibility and effort, as well as attractive traits that others like. |
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Your profile is very sparse and doesn't give me anything to go on so I wouldn't reply if you sent me a message.
Work on your profile and if you don't know what to put, read some of the other successful guys' profiles for inspiration.
You have to remember we get bombarded by messages, so make your profile stand out! |
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