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over a year ago
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That I have chosen not to meet anyone until my divorce is finalised?. I have been wondering whether to post this for days but hey, sod it right?.
I have accepted and boy am I happy my marriage is over but I just still get that moral sense of the fact that I am still legally married so to play away now would make me somehow be cheating, something which I hasten to add I would never do.
I am sure I will get mixed responses to this email but I just need to see whether I am just being a twat or not!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That I have chosen not to meet anyone until my divorce is finalised?. I have been wondering whether to post this for days but hey, sod it right?.
I have accepted and boy am I happy my marriage is over but I just still get that moral sense of the fact that I am still legally married so to play away now would make me somehow be cheating, something which I hasten to add I would never do.
I am sure I will get mixed responses to this email but I just need to see whether I am just being a twat or not!! "
Nothing wrong with that at all! It's up to you when you decide to meet. It's about what you are happy With!
Claire
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Fair play
Personally I see it as a good thing"
Thanks. The way I see it is that men here who are married get a bad wrap for being here and cheating. If I were to meet, that would make me no different. xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I admire your morals. I am happily married yet happily shagging someone on here. Go figure because I'm damned if I can!!
Do what feels right for you x"
I would like to point out that I am not by any means questioning anyone elses reasons for being here. xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I admire your morals. I am happily married yet happily shagging someone on here. Go figure because I'm damned if I can!!
Do what feels right for you x
I would like to point out that I am not by any means questioning anyone elses reasons for being here. xx"
Crikey, didn't think that for one minute. It takes all sorts! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fair play
Personally I see it as a good thing
Thanks. The way I see it is that men here who are married get a bad wrap for being here and cheating. If I were to meet, that would make me no different. xx"
It does make you different, I thoroughly understand and respect your stance, its about what makes you comfortable, but your marriage is over in all but name. You're not cheating on your partner as they're no longer your partner, you're not creeping out or covering up any meets.
I respect your choice but its not the same |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think you do what's good for you. 
I can't help but wonder about your profile pic though...
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I was about to say the same!! So is that soon to be ex hubby's cock in your mouth?!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think you do what's good for you.
I can't help but wonder about your profile pic though...
I was about to say the same!! So is that soon to be ex hubby's cock in your mouth?! "
Yes it is his cock lol. Wouldnt be brave enough to let anyone else photograph me xx |
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"Fair play
Personally I see it as a good thing
Thanks. The way I see it is that men here who are married get a bad wrap for being here and cheating. If I were to meet, that would make me no different. xx
It does make you different, I thoroughly understand and respect your stance, its about what makes you comfortable, but your marriage is over in all but name. You're not cheating on your partner as they're no longer your partner, you're not creeping out or covering up any meets.
I respect your choice but its not the same"
I agree,if it's just the paperwork you're waiting for in no way will you be cheating if you meet before it arrives on your doorstep. Move on your marriage has ended,time to enjoy yourself... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been there hun, you probably just need to seperate yourself a little...
I was happy when I left my marriage, but focused on getting my life together and yes even tho I left it was still to a point emotional ...
Be strong and be happy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Gosh I haven't even started divorce proceedings yet However, ex and I are good friends and he dates and I fab. We compare notes regularly....
Do what you're comfortable with, only you know what's right for you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"guess youve got lots of heavy shit on your mind so not really thinking about sex with strangers"
I am also going through menopause after radical surgery for cervical, womb and ovarian cancer so kinda feel defeminised too. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"guess youve got lots of heavy shit on your mind so not really thinking about sex with strangers
I am also going through menopause after radical surgery for cervical, womb and ovarian cancer so kinda feel defeminised too. Xx"
Your gender is not defined by your body parts hun. Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As your getting divorced I don't think it matters, however quite a good moral attitude too have."
I agree and good on ya!
Without sounding negative....I do hope you get your divorce fairly soon though!!
Mine took 8 months, and my otherhalfs took 4 and a half years! That's an awful long time to remain faithful! |
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"guess youve got lots of heavy shit on your mind so not really thinking about sex with strangers
I am also going through menopause after radical surgery for cervical, womb and ovarian cancer so kinda feel defeminised too. Xx"
We pray you a full recovery and happier times to come
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"Fair play
Personally I see it as a good thing
Thanks. The way I see it is that men here who are married get a bad wrap for being here and cheating. If I were to meet, that would make me no different. xx"
I wouldnt go so far as saying it's cheating but understand where u coming from
Main thing is it's time you did what's right for you, not your ex not for me not for anyone on here etc etc but you
If it's right for you
Go for it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You've got two verifications though which say you've met?
One sounds like friends who are on the site, the other says met many years ago...  "
That's true!! I'm tired  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You've got two verifications though which say you've met?
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Both of my verificatuons are from people that I have met some yrears ago and the couple have been personal friends now for some years. Xx |
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