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over a year ago
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When my nephew and his gf were having their baby went into to vist them .was talking to the midwife and when she reliesed I didn't have children she actually told me to have one then I'd be a real woman !!!!
I told her to bite me ..Not my proudest moment |
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over a year ago
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"When my nephew and his gf were having their baby went into to vist them .was talking to the midwife and when she reliesed I didn't have children she actually told me to have one then I'd be a real woman !!!!
I told her to bite me ..Not my proudest moment "
Well said  
The bite me comment I mean. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My ex hated it. She's a size 8 and would often be told by others who are larger she's not a real women.
It's like saying a skinny bloke ain't manly enough cause he's not got a stocky frame.
It's pathetic.
and this might piss a few off but I don't care..
Imo All this real talk and other bollox about larger girls being not a bag of bones and such is just an excuse for over weight people to stay overweight.
Some try and use that to justify being fat.
On a side note I was 21st and I was not fucking happy, No idea how people could be at such a weight I was lazy. I'm far happier now I fluctuate around 15-17St and able to do far more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've had it said to me because I'm thin, I've had it said to me because I don't have children, I've had it said to me because I don't want children, and I've had it said to me because I like watching sports and don't like makeup.
I just laugh when people say it to me now. 
-Courtney |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When my nephew and his gf were having their baby went into to vist them .was talking to the midwife and when she reliesed I didn't have children she actually told me to have one then I'd be a real woman !!!!
I told her to bite me ..Not my proudest moment
Well said
The bite me comment I mean."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My ex hated it. She's a size 8 and would often be told by others who are larger she's not a real women.
It's like saying a skinny bloke ain't manly enough cause he's not got a stocky frame.
It's pathetic.
and this might piss a few off but I don't care..
Imo All this real talk and other bollox about larger girls being not a bag of bones and such is just an excuse for over weight people to stay overweight.
Some try and use that to justify being fat.
On a side note I was 21st and I was not fucking happy, No idea how people could be at such a weight I was lazy. I'm far happier now I fluctuate around 15-17St and able to do far more. "
It does tend to be men calling fat women real women to be fair. |
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"When my nephew and his gf were having their baby went into to vist them .was talking to the midwife and when she reliesed I didn't have children she actually told me to have one then I'd be a real woman !!!!
I told her to bite me ..Not my proudest moment "
 Wow! Simply wow! What an imbecile! I admire you if your only response was to tell her to bite you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've had it said to me because I'm thin, I've had it said to me because I don't have children, I've had it said to me because I don't want children, and I've had it said to me because I like watching sports and don't like makeup.
I just laugh when people say it to me now.
-Courtney"
I thought you were very feminine!
I've been told I'm not girlie enough as I'm a massive geek and a scruffy little tomboy. I like how I am so it matters not what they say. |
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over a year ago
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Being slightly rough n ready and quite outdoorsy I prefer my women to be similar to me. I have little time for princesses who are afraid of a little bit of dirt under their nails.
Come and help me fix a car then watch Avengers with me and then fuck like animals. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The term "Real Woman" does sound a bit dated......like it belongs in an early carry-on movie or on a "saucy" sea-side postcard , which in itself sounds a tad naff .....
But I suppose there are people who still enjoy terms of flirtatious titillation.......
I'm a real-man don't ya know....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When my nephew and his gf were having their baby went into to vist them .was talking to the midwife and when she reliesed I didn't have children she actually told me to have one then I'd be a real woman !!!!
I told her to bite me ..Not my proudest moment
Wow! Simply wow! What an imbecile! I admire you if your only response was to tell her to bite you! "
Had to be as stood by my great neice and her mum. ..got plenty of time to corrupt her when's she's older |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being slightly rough n ready and quite outdoorsy I prefer my women to be similar to me. I have little time for princesses who are afraid of a little bit of dirt under their nails.
Come and help me fix a car then watch Avengers with me and then fuck like animals."
Marry me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being slightly rough n ready and quite outdoorsy I prefer my women to be similar to me. I have little time for princesses who are afraid of a little bit of dirt under their nails.
Come and help me fix a car then watch Avengers with me and then fuck like animals."
Does it have to be Avengers? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd never really come across the term before using fabs.
It's just another phrase used by people to put others down whilst trying to appeal to others ~ there's a lot of that on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not a real woman apparently because I'm not curvy "
Having recently had the pleasure of browsing your photos Leggy you certainly look real to me, you look gorgeous.  |
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
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"I'd never really come across the term before using fabs.
It's just another phrase used by people to put others down whilst trying to appeal to others ~ there's a lot of that on here."
Imagine if the fellas on here were to go around shouting about being 'a real man'...lmao...  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If this is all about body shape, then may I suggest you are more curvy, leggy, than a lot of women who call themselves 'curvy'.
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Lol I'd never describe myself as curvy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being slightly rough n ready and quite outdoorsy I prefer my women to be similar to me. I have little time for princesses who are afraid of a little bit of dirt under their nails.
Come and help me fix a car then watch Avengers with me and then fuck like animals.
Marry me!"
Meet me at Gretna Green...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being slightly rough n ready and quite outdoorsy I prefer my women to be similar to me. I have little time for princesses who are afraid of a little bit of dirt under their nails.
Come and help me fix a car then watch Avengers with me and then fuck like animals.
Marry me!
Meet me at Gretna Green... "
There's the small matter of a divorce that needs attending to first........but you're on  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being slightly rough n ready and quite outdoorsy I prefer my women to be similar to me. I have little time for princesses who are afraid of a little bit of dirt under their nails.
Come and help me fix a car then watch Avengers with me and then fuck like animals.
Marry me!
Meet me at Gretna Green...
There's the small matter of a divorce that needs attending to first........but you're on "
Who needs divorce when there's a drawer full of knives in the kitchen...  |
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"I'd never really come across the term before using fabs.
It's just another phrase used by people to put others down whilst trying to appeal to others ~ there's a lot of that on here."
See the phrase all the time, usually on fashion pages of newspapers/magazines. Unfortunately, the term is often used by a female fashion journalist. |
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All women are real. The description is frankly ridiculous.
People like different physical attributes. What turns one person on may not turn on another.
The I love real women threads are usually, not exclusively , started by men who like larger women, or, men who are trying to ingratiate themselves with larger women as they perceive that they will get more sex.
We all have our own view of what constitutes curvy, often the word is a euphemism for the "F" word that we dare not use. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yes it's offensive, and misused. I do think if someone ever actually feels bothered by it though, they can pick up any mainstream magazine, go to a bar or club or watch the TV for five minutes and be reminded that outside of the Fab bubble, thin is still the name of the game in terms of desirability. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes it's offensive, and misused. I do think if someone ever actually feels bothered by it though, they can pick up any mainstream magazine, go to a bar or club or watch the TV for five minutes and be reminded that outside of the Fab bubble, thin is still the name of the game in terms of desirability. "
I understand where you're coming from, but each instances described happened outside of fab. It is becoming the norm in everyday life as well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes it's offensive, and misused. I do think if someone ever actually feels bothered by it though, they can pick up any mainstream magazine, go to a bar or club or watch the TV for five minutes and be reminded that outside of the Fab bubble, thin is still the name of the game in terms of desirability.
I understand where you're coming from, but each instances described happened outside of fab. It is becoming the norm in everyday life as well. "
I'm sorry to hear that, but I think we probably pick up on what we are individually sensitive to. Certainly it's not what I see in everyday life at all. Slim is still king, pretty much everywhere in the mainstream media and among the population at large. For example I got told to "wind my fat neck in" last night by someone who disagreed with what I posted. I can't imagine anyone ever being told to wind their thin neck in. None of this makes saying someone is "not a real woman" ok, I'm just trying to put it in perspective.
Would be better if perhaps everyone could just stop commenting on each other's appearance full stop. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yes it's offensive, and misused. I do think if someone ever actually feels bothered by it though, they can pick up any mainstream magazine, go to a bar or club or watch the TV for five minutes and be reminded that outside of the Fab bubble, thin is still the name of the game in terms of desirability.
I understand where you're coming from, but each instances described happened outside of fab. It is becoming the norm in everyday life as well. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes it's offensive, and misused. I do think if someone ever actually feels bothered by it though, they can pick up any mainstream magazine, go to a bar or club or watch the TV for five minutes and be reminded that outside of the Fab bubble, thin is still the name of the game in terms of desirability.
I understand where you're coming from, but each instances described happened outside of fab. It is becoming the norm in everyday life as well.
I'm sorry to hear that, but I think we probably pick up on what we are individually sensitive to. Certainly it's not what I see in everyday life at all. Slim is still king, pretty much everywhere in the mainstream media and among the population at large. For example I got told to "wind my fat neck in" last night by someone who disagreed with what I posted. I can't imagine anyone ever being told to wind their thin neck in. None of this makes saying someone is "not a real woman" ok, I'm just trying to put it in perspective.
Would be better if perhaps everyone could just stop commenting on each other's appearance full stop."
Agreed
And fuck whoever said that to you.
-Courtney |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes it's offensive, and misused. I do think if someone ever actually feels bothered by it though, they can pick up any mainstream magazine, go to a bar or club or watch the TV for five minutes and be reminded that outside of the Fab bubble, thin is still the name of the game in terms of desirability.
I understand where you're coming from, but each instances described happened outside of fab. It is becoming the norm in everyday life as well.
I'm sorry to hear that, but I think we probably pick up on what we are individually sensitive to. Certainly it's not what I see in everyday life at all. Slim is still king, pretty much everywhere in the mainstream media and among the population at large. For example I got told to "wind my fat neck in" last night by someone who disagreed with what I posted. I can't imagine anyone ever being told to wind their thin neck in. None of this makes saying someone is "not a real woman" ok, I'm just trying to put it in perspective.
Would be better if perhaps everyone could just stop commenting on each other's appearance full stop.
Agreed
And fuck whoever said that to you.
-Courtney"
I know, it's pretty much the only part of me that isn't fat |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes it's offensive, and misused. I do think if someone ever actually feels bothered by it though, they can pick up any mainstream magazine, go to a bar or club or watch the TV for five minutes and be reminded that outside of the Fab bubble, thin is still the name of the game in terms of desirability.
I understand where you're coming from, but each instances described happened outside of fab. It is becoming the norm in everyday life as well.
I'm sorry to hear that, but I think we probably pick up on what we are individually sensitive to. Certainly it's not what I see in everyday life at all. Slim is still king, pretty much everywhere in the mainstream media and among the population at large. For example I got told to "wind my fat neck in" last night by someone who disagreed with what I posted. I can't imagine anyone ever being told to wind their thin neck in. None of this makes saying someone is "not a real woman" ok, I'm just trying to put it in perspective.
Would be better if perhaps everyone could just stop commenting on each other's appearance full stop.
Agreed
And fuck whoever said that to you.
-Courtney
I know, it's pretty much the only part of me that isn't fat "
Off topic I know, but I love that red dress of yours.
Where did you buy it? |
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"When my nephew and his gf were having their baby went into to vist them .was talking to the midwife and when she reliesed I didn't have children she actually told me to have one then I'd be a real woman !!!!
I told her to bite me ..Not my proudest moment "
I would have gone nuclear on her if she had said that to me. I once had a colleague that called me selfish for not having kids. Said your not a "real woman" till you have experienced child birth. Omg I was fuming.. However last laugh when I told her why I don't have kids.. |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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When I hear the term 'real women' I always do a quick left right look, check the coast is clear, and then make sure my wig is on straight before trying to brazen it out. Luckily I'm very brazen, unlike my tea, which is very braising. |
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"When my nephew and his gf were having their baby went into to vist them .was talking to the midwife and when she reliesed I didn't have children she actually told me to have one then I'd be a real woman !!!!
I told her to bite me ..Not my proudest moment
I would have gone nuclear on her if she had said that to me. I once had a colleague that called me selfish for not having kids. Said your not a "real woman" till you have experienced child birth. Omg I was fuming.. However last laugh when I told her why I don't have kids.. "
I read an article written by a midwife about how childbirth is when women "realise their true potential". It was obviously supposed to be a celebration of motherhood or something but Jesus Christ what a terrible way to put it, by basically saying any women who can't or wont have children, and even adoptive mothers, are never achieving what they should be in life. Horrible.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes it's offensive, and misused. I do think if someone ever actually feels bothered by it though, they can pick up any mainstream magazine, go to a bar or club or watch the TV for five minutes and be reminded that outside of the Fab bubble, thin is still the name of the game in terms of desirability. "
As is being physically beautiful, or youthful. We can all get our knickers in a twist over any one of the ideal physical traits if we wanted. |
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"When my nephew and his gf were having their baby went into to vist them .was talking to the midwife and when she reliesed I didn't have children she actually told me to have one then I'd be a real woman !!!!
I told her to bite me ..Not my proudest moment
I would have gone nuclear on her if she had said that to me. I once had a colleague that called me selfish for not having kids. Said your not a "real woman" till you have experienced child birth. Omg I was fuming.. However last laugh when I told her why I don't have kids..
I read an article written by a midwife about how childbirth is when women "realise their true potential". It was obviously supposed to be a celebration of motherhood or something but Jesus Christ what a terrible way to put it, by basically saying any women who can't or wont have children, and even adoptive mothers, are never achieving what they should be in life. Horrible. "
This attitude is damaging not only to women who are child free, by choice or not, but also to women who find parenthood a struggle. Having children has taken everything out of me and my mental health has suffered terribly. I love my children and I do my best to give them a safe loving upbringing, but the cost to myself is high and it has not been a route to releasing my 'true potential'. |
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"When my nephew and his gf were having their baby went into to vist them .was talking to the midwife and when she reliesed I didn't have children she actually told me to have one then I'd be a real woman !!!!
I told her to bite me ..Not my proudest moment
I would have gone nuclear on her if she had said that to me. I once had a colleague that called me selfish for not having kids. Said your not a "real woman" till you have experienced child birth. Omg I was fuming.. However last laugh when I told her why I don't have kids..
I read an article written by a midwife about how childbirth is when women "realise their true potential". It was obviously supposed to be a celebration of motherhood or something but Jesus Christ what a terrible way to put it, by basically saying any women who can't or wont have children, and even adoptive mothers, are never achieving what they should be in life. Horrible. "
Whenever I hear this stuff it makes me think of 1950s housewives in the US, with a white picket fence and dinner on the table by 5pm. What people don't know is that many of them regularly took tranquilizers and other drugs to stay motivated.
Everyone is different. If that is the life you want, then you'll thrive. If it isn't, you'll destroy yourself just because it's someone else's idea of perfect.
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I love my son but I really struggled with my loss of identity when I first had him.
I was no longer "me" but a mum. It took me a while to come to terms with that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love my son but I really struggled with my loss of identity when I first had him.
I was no longer "me" but a mum. It took me a while to come to terms with that."
I felt exactly the same. |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"I despise this term, who's with me?"
I can only imagine this is or was said as a reason for not meeting you .
Who cares what a stranger thinks based off of the most shallowest way of judging a person their appearance.
It is what it is so much of this world is about fantasy fulfilment so the shallowest thing of all how someone looks with their clothes on and off is to going to play a massive role in how people pick for their fantasy .
You don't fit the vision in their fantasy minds eye that doesn't mean in the flesh that they would not find you attractive or when it come to mental stimulation a turn on .
It just means you don't fit the vision in their fantasy of what the other person should look like,
Just smile and move on its not such a big deal in the grand scene of life i.
Its hardly life and death being called not a real woman based on your body shape its just one persons opinion their entitled to it it doesn't mean their right or wrong it just means your not fitting the vision in their fantasy that's all.
I would say having a vision of what a person should look like for the rule you want them to fill is a recipe for lots of disappointing sexual encounters because your forgetting about how much someones personality plays in sex but hay I would say that being only 5 8" and far from tall dark and handsome .
Like I said it is what it is just a part of this crazy mad world that is sex meets .
I'm sure you in box is full of messages saying you look great ( which you do by the way ) and dare I add the idea real woman for a lot of peoples fantasy meet out their .
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"I despise this term, who's with me?
I can only imagine this is or was said as a reason for not meeting you .
Who cares what a stranger thinks based off of the most shallowest way of judging a person their appearance.
It is what it is so much of this world is about fantasy fulfilment so the shallowest thing of all how someone looks with their clothes on and off is to going to play a massive role in how people pick for their fantasy .
You don't fit the vision in their fantasy minds eye that doesn't mean in the flesh that they would not find you attractive or when it come to mental stimulation a turn on .
It just means you don't fit the vision in their fantasy of what the other person should look like,
Just smile and move on its not such a big deal in the grand scene of life i.
Its hardly life and death being called not a real woman based on your body shape its just one persons opinion their entitled to it it doesn't mean their right or wrong it just means your not fitting the vision in their fantasy that's all.
I would say having a vision of what a person should look like for the rule you want them to fill is a recipe for lots of disappointing sexual encounters because your forgetting about how much someones personality plays in sex but hay I would say that being only 5 8" and far from tall dark and handsome .
Like I said it is what it is just a part of this crazy mad world that is sex meets .
I'm sure you in box is full of messages saying you look great ( which you do by the way ) and dare I add the idea real woman for a lot of peoples fantasy meet out their .
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No it wasn't said as a reason for not meeting. Just a general irk of mine. I never message guys first so that wouldn't happen lol |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"I despise this term, who's with me?
I can only imagine this is or was said as a reason for not meeting you .
Who cares what a stranger thinks based off of the most shallowest way of judging a person their appearance.
It is what it is so much of this world is about fantasy fulfilment so the shallowest thing of all how someone looks with their clothes on and off is to going to play a massive role in how people pick for their fantasy .
You don't fit the vision in their fantasy minds eye that doesn't mean in the flesh that they would not find you attractive or when it come to mental stimulation a turn on .
It just means you don't fit the vision in their fantasy of what the other person should look like,
Just smile and move on its not such a big deal in the grand scene of life i.
Its hardly life and death being called not a real woman based on your body shape its just one persons opinion their entitled to it it doesn't mean their right or wrong it just means your not fitting the vision in their fantasy that's all.
I would say having a vision of what a person should look like for the rule you want them to fill is a recipe for lots of disappointing sexual encounters because your forgetting about how much someones personality plays in sex but hay I would say that being only 5 8" and far from tall dark and handsome .
Like I said it is what it is just a part of this crazy mad world that is sex meets .
I'm sure you in box is full of messages saying you look great ( which you do by the way ) and dare I add the idea real woman for a lot of peoples fantasy meet out their .
No it wasn't said as a reason for not meeting. Just a general irk of mine. I never message guys first so that wouldn't happen lol"
Oh sorry you mean the media's attempts to pigeon whole what a woman should be or guys using their mothers as a template for how a real woman should be .
Yes i can see how that can be annoying for a woman but its the same for us guys .
I say sod them all and be yourself individuality show be encouraged in my opinion instead of conformity that society preachers in a attempt to control the human condition . |
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