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"Only been here a short while, but because we have an opinion that may dis-agree with others we have had abuse.
Thoughts please...............
what kind of thing have you fallen out with people over ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Only been here a short while, but because we have an opinion that may dis-agree with others we have had abuse.
Thoughts please...............
what kind of thing have you fallen out with people over ?
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Things that are little more than equivalent of "play yard jelousy" |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"thats fair enough but dont see how people can have on going arguments when you could block and move on, you look great and must get inundated with offers"
Thank you. I dont block because people are entitled to opinions if we dis-agree.
Hayley |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"thats fair enough but dont see how people can have on going arguments when you could block and move on, you look great and must get inundated with offers
Thank you. I dont block because people are entitled to opinions if we dis-agree.
Hayley"
he is right, you look great.
just block like i do.
truth is they are likely to be up their own arses and a shit fuck so no loss.
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"Only been here a short while, but because we have an opinion that may dis-agree with others we have had abuse.
Thoughts please...............
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secret is to not give a shit.. where is lisvane ? xx |
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"thats fair enough but dont see how people can have on going arguments when you could block and move on, you look great and must get inundated with offers
Thank you. I dont block because people are entitled to opinions if we dis-agree.
Hayley"
big difference between people having opinions and giving you abuse though, no one is entitled to that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i've never had any abuse for opinions...thankfully any differing of opinion i've had has tended to keep to the thread.
some people do get emotive and some of the topics are particularly so.
wouldn't prevent me from airing mine though. Keep doing what you're doing....and if you get abuse, as the others have said, report....and don't be afraid to use the block button! better than the alternative in that case |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"wish a nice woman would abuse me :P"
Thats easy....
be in morrisons the next time in a fooking great big big long queue and then come and tell me as i get there that the till is closing.
And watch me kick seven lots of s*** out of ya.  
simples |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only been here a short while, but because we have an opinion that may dis-agree with others we have had abuse.
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welcome to fab lol |
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"Only been here a short while, but because we have an opinion that may dis-agree with others we have had abuse.
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I have been here ages and have an opinion on just about everything which rubs at least someone up the wrong way... yet I feel left out.... I don't get hate mail 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only been here a short while, but because we have an opinion that may dis-agree with others we have had abuse.
Thoughts please...............
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Nice tits is my immediate thought.  |
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Tell a lie someone did give me a gob full about something in the forum once.... then they realised they had misread it and apologised, so I don't think that counts.
I recon you just have to be better at pissing people off so they don't bother you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been here ages and have an opinion on just about everything which rubs at least someone up the wrong way... yet I feel left out.... I don't get hate mail
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Same here, however, I don't feel left out! 
Perhaps we give out some kind of vibe that says "mess with me and you'll be in for a rough ride" etc...   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only been here a short while, but because we have an opinion that may dis-agree with others we have had abuse.
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Been here a while and never get abuse.
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stop bliddy whinging!!!! |
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"Only been here a short while, but because we have an opinion that may dis-agree with others we have had abuse.
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Been here a while and never get abuse.
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I have had my falangie abused a few times... but I am certainly not complaining about that! |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Only been here a short while, but because we have an opinion that may dis-agree with others we have had abuse.
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Been here a while and never get abuse.
stop bliddy whinging!!!!"
Don't see why all you lot should get the abuse and we don't. we pay our money too !! |
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"Only been here a short while, but because we have an opinion that may dis-agree with others we have had abuse.
Thoughts please...............
Been here a while and never get abuse.
stop bliddy whinging!!!!
Don't see why all you lot should get the abuse and we don't. we pay our money too !!"
Don't worry about it Rugby... you know what these feckin' cliques are like! |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"Only been here a short while, but because we have an opinion that may dis-agree with others we have had abuse.
Thoughts please...............
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water off a ducks back to me....
as for opinions.. i don't mind then, as long as people can back up what they write one way or anyone that is cool.... I might not agree with it, but I'll certainly respect it...
the other side of the coin is that it seems to be in vogue at the moment to reach for the "victim card" rather quickly at the moment.... not saying you are, but some people are happy to say "oh woe is me" if a discussion doesn't go there way...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"the other side of the coin is that it seems to be in vogue at the moment to reach for the "victim card" rather quickly at the moment.... not saying you are, but some people are happy to say "oh woe is me" if a discussion doesn't go there way...
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Really? I must be living in a cloud! |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"Only been here a short while, but because we have an opinion that may dis-agree with others we have had abuse.
Thoughts please...............
water off a ducks back to me....
as for opinions.. i don't mind then, as long as people can back up what they write one way or anyone that is cool.... I might not agree with it, but I'll certainly respect it...
the other side of the coin is that it seems to be in vogue at the moment to reach for the "victim card" rather quickly at the moment.... not saying you are, but some people are happy to say "oh woe is me" if a discussion doesn't go there way...
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*nods in agreement* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I enjoy discussion and the differing opinions. If I dont agree with something I will say. I dont mind people disagreeing with me.
I am definitely a read a post wrong and blow up quickly, fingers type, then read it again and realise Im wrong and go back and apologise type of girl. I do need to leave something a few moments and then go back and read it before responding. Im not one of those who wont admit she's wrong.
I dont like it when people will go off track and pick at any slight thing to try just to disagree. It becomes something else then, its not about discussion, its about point scoring. I dont like that and will always respond to it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Only been here a short while, but because we have an opinion that may dis-agree with others we have had abuse.
Thoughts please...............
water off a ducks back to me....
as for opinions.. i don't mind then, as long as people can back up what they write one way or anyone that is cool.... I might not agree with it, but I'll certainly respect it...
the other side of the coin is that it seems to be in vogue at the moment to reach for the "victim card" rather quickly at the moment.... not saying you are, but some people are happy to say "oh woe is me" if a discussion doesn't go there way...
*nods in agreement*"
*Nods in agreement with Fab and Femme* |
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You will get differences of opinion on the forum, it's one of the few things we all agree on!!
But sometimes there are a few who take it too far with offensive point scoring and uncalled for 'profile analysis'the kind of thing where people say "...you must be a right slag because your profile says blah and you have had a meet with blah who does blah and I know for a fact that blah..." (see, their even too lazy to use proper words!)
Most of the serious offenders, in my opinion, are not the regular daily posters (although we all get it wrong or have a bad day sometimes) but the types who log on once a day for 10 minutes, slag everything off in every thread and then disappear again.
I rarely get involved in anything too inflammatory or political but I do enjoy the debates about things.
The only thing that really gets to me is when an obvious newbie, typically posting for the first time in the introductions forum, is ripped to shreds...then they never post again. 
Just try and be thick skinned and use the block and report if someone does send you ant abuse.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You will get differences of opinion on the forum, it's one of the few things we all agree on!!
But sometimes there are a few who take it too far with offensive point scoring and uncalled for 'profile analysis'the kind of thing where people say "...you must be a right slag because your profile says blah and you have had a meet with blah who does blah and I know for a fact that blah..." (see, their even too lazy to use proper words!)
Most of the serious offenders, in my opinion, are not the regular daily posters (although we all get it wrong or have a bad day sometimes) but the types who log on once a day for 10 minutes, slag everything off in every thread and then disappear again.
I rarely get involved in anything too inflammatory or political but I do enjoy the debates about things.
The only thing that really gets to me is when an obvious newbie, typically posting for the first time in the introductions forum, is ripped to shreds...then they never post again.
Just try and be thick skinned and use the block and report if someone does send you ant abuse. "
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"You will get differences of opinion on the forum, it's one of the few things we all agree on!!
But sometimes there are a few who take it too far with offensive point scoring and uncalled for 'profile analysis'the kind of thing where people say "...you must be a right slag because your profile says blah and you have had a meet with blah who does blah and I know for a fact that blah..." (see, their even too lazy to use proper words!)
Most of the serious offenders, in my opinion, are not the regular daily posters (although we all get it wrong or have a bad day sometimes) but the types who log on once a day for 10 minutes, slag everything off in every thread and then disappear again.
I rarely get involved in anything too inflammatory or political but I do enjoy the debates about things.
The only thing that really gets to me is when an obvious newbie, typically posting for the first time in the introductions forum, is ripped to shreds...then they never post again.
Just try and be thick skinned and use the block and report if someone does send you ant abuse.
Agreed xx "
In that case, I disagree |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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will be the demise of the forums if everyone agrees.....
too much ass kissing ....
too many times people wait till their pals post to see if they share their _iew... ffs, if you can't be yourself.. who is going to shag your potential meets, your pals!!!
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"I'll backstab Cliff anyday...pass the knife... il hold your coat  "
oi!!!!! its still the season of CLIFFmas you know!!!
January the 1st is open season on him - only please dont kill him as we will need him for next CLIFFmas!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only been here a short while, but because we have an opinion that may dis-agree with others we have had abuse.
Thoughts please...............
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In what ways ? I have been on other sites had alot of this ... woman most the time hating me chating to there men friends in the chat rooms . I would get singled out saying i need my own room just for me i would get all sorts my list could go on and on and thats with out even meeting them. lol But all i new in my head i would not become a victim of them as i know what we think about ourselfs become true to us. Some of the people here on fab other sites have some real problems in there lifes and heads and can go around taking it out on others Fab i have never had people nasty, there are some lovely caring people on here. When i see posts like this. You think the site is full of bad people its not its full of lovely lovely people. Block people who in your eyes are nasty dont give them the time of the day as not worth it.... and not worth you worring yourself.. Its just a Site on the net not your life .. thats whats real x jo xx |
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"I'll backstab Cliff anyday...pass the knife... il hold your coat
oi!!!!! its still the season of CLIFFmas you know!!!
January the 1st is open season on him - only please dont kill him as we will need him for next CLIFFmas!!!!"
See, we can even agree on a suitable compromise for murdering someone.
How nice we all are!! |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"I'll backstab Cliff anyday...pass the knife... il hold your coat
oi!!!!! its still the season of CLIFFmas you know!!!
January the 1st is open season on him - only please dont kill him as we will need him for next CLIFFmas!!!!
See, we can even agree on a suitable compromise for murdering someone.
How nice we all are!! "
hes a tad creepy and needs to be put in room 101 |
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"I'll backstab Cliff anyday...pass the knife... il hold your coat
oi!!!!! its still the season of CLIFFmas you know!!!
January the 1st is open season on him - only please dont kill him as we will need him for next CLIFFmas!!!!
See, we can even agree on a suitable compromise for murdering someone.
How nice we all are!! hes a tad creepy and needs to be put in room 101 "
ahhhhh Invictus isnt that bad - play nice!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We've been posting here on more or less daily basis for about 15 months now. I post on most subjects, sometimes with a jokey slant or sometimes serious.
Can't really remember getting any abuse from anyone though. Loads of people have disagreed with some of my comments, just as I have with some of thiers.
Sometimes people can get a little sensitive about other peoples reactions to thier comments. Sometimes the written word is interpreted in a way it wasn't intended to be. A lot of the times, the way we express ourselves leaves us open to unwelcome comments.
Just let it blow over you. Not everyone can ignore everything. Maybe I'm just too thick to realise I'm getting verbally abused sometimes, but do you know what? I don't give a fuck... sometimes you've got to see things from that point of _iew |
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"We've been posting here on more or less daily basis for about 15 months now. I post on most subjects, sometimes with a jokey slant or sometimes serious.
Can't really remember getting any abuse from anyone though. Loads of people have disagreed with some of my comments, just as I have with some of thiers.
Sometimes people can get a little sensitive about other peoples reactions to thier comments. Sometimes the written word is interpreted in a way it wasn't intended to be. A lot of the times, the way we express ourselves leaves us open to unwelcome comments.
Just let it blow over you. Not everyone can ignore everything. Maybe I'm just too thick to realise I'm getting verbally abused sometimes, but do you know what? I don't give a fuck... sometimes you've got to see things from that point of _iew "
shut up knob... just thought ur first ever abuse... merry xmas lol xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe I'm just too thick to realise I'm getting verbally abused sometimes, but do you know what? I don't give a fuck... sometimes you've got to see things from that point of _iew
shut up knob... just thought ur first ever abuse... merry xmas lol xx"
aww thanks |
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Coward!
was only finger trouble lol.. "
Hmpf! And yet your profile doesn't mention fingers and there are people on your friends list who quite clearly have fingers! I rest my case!!
Er...I think it's time for my medication now doctor!  |
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"[Removed by poster at 23/12/10 10:49:50]
Coward!
was only finger trouble lol..
Hmpf! And yet your profile doesn't mention fingers and there are people on your friends list who quite clearly have fingers! I rest my case!!
Er...I think it's time for my medication now doctor! "
quite right most of my friends do have fingers.. here have two of mine and fu**
off to the docs and get ur medication lol... |
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"Good point raised by Euro there, sort of..
I normally hate the use of text speech but a well placed lol or pmsl can often spell out the fact you're having a joke or speaking tongue in cheek. I used to think smileys were good until Granny confused me totally! pmsl lol pmsl lol lol lo..ho ho"
yes just a bit of fun.. merry xmas |
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By (user no longer on site)
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All I Do is report it if its abusive. It don't bother me, like this morning got two nasty message's from one guy because my personal sexual preference is white men only.
Got rather personal.. but I just reported the abuse and that's it done.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Only been here a short while, but because we have an opinion that may dis-agree with others we have had abuse.
Thoughts please...............
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Just agree with everybody and you'll be OK
Just fucking with you .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All I Do is report it if its abusive. It don't bother me, like this morning got two nasty message's from one guy because my personal sexual preference is white men only.
Got rather personal.. but I just reported the abuse and that's it done.."
Sigh...I used to get that too as my personal preference is also white men only. Until they realised what I liked to do with these men! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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USUALLY !the bitchiness is because you wont meet someone ! or have met someone and dont want to see them again ,IGNORE !move on !and enjoy yourselves ,NOW THAT PISSES EM RIGHT OFF ! FRANKIE XX |
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