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Would you meet someone if they wouldn't perform certain sexual acts?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just following on from another thread... would you still meet a person if they wouldn't or couldn't perform a sex act? Such as oral, anal or even if they only wanted soft play? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just following on from another thread... would you still meet a person if they wouldn't or couldn't perform a sex act? Such as oral, anal or even if they only wanted soft play?"
Yes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes if there were other things bringing us together like laughter, good craic and company and other social or sexual similarities.
No one person can provide everything; hence we swing. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would still meet, there's a few things I won't do and the guy have always been accepting of that x"
Yeah, I'm the same. Men I meet are very respectful of my restrictions when I explain about them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be totally honest.....
My motivation is based on my needs at any given time, so I meet whoever matches those needs at that time and I have no reason to compromise...... so I don't....  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There's a few things I'd insist on. Kissing for a start...
I can cope with that
Cool. Then straight to bareback anal...   "
You know what... coming from you I'm not sure if that's a joke or not 
Just lube up first pls. |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"Just following on from another thread... would you still meet a person if they wouldn't or couldn't perform a sex act? Such as oral, anal or even if they only wanted soft play?"
The short answer is yes .
The long answer is this if I enjoy your personality I'm going to want to meet you regardless so it would be a case of I want to meet you you set the rules and I'll gladly adhere to them so I can meet you in person or play with you in person .
As a guy I can't see any other way of playing in this world at the end of the day i'd want the person i'm meeting to trust me be relaxed in my company at ease with me .
Because if their not I'm not going to enjoy the meet nor are they .
That goes for a social or a sex meet it matters not I want to feel comfortable on the meet i also want my partner to feel comfortable on the meet.
I find having clear guide lines helps me feel that way as I'm not second guessing trying to work out what's expected of me instead I know so I can relax and just enjoy the meet
This also means the person I'm meeting can relax to as they know I know what's expected of me and that I'm OK to play with in their rules or guide lines what ever you want to call them .
I love role play meets for the reasons above it just easier to do a role play meet because its clear what's expected from both parties so both parties can just relax into their roles and enjoy themselves .  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have but doubt I will again. I won't meet anyone who doesn't kiss. Oral I'm sat on the fence about at the moment because,even though I'm not that bothered about receiving it, I find it hypocritical that men won't perform it but want to receive it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just following on from another thread... would you still meet a person if they wouldn't or couldn't perform a sex act? Such as oral, anal or even if they only wanted soft play?"
yes it wouldn't bother me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We respect all boundaries , and meet all sorts in different scenarios .
Would we meet someone who had a massive list of do's and dont's ? Probably not if we were chatting on here beforehand .
But when we have met those with strict rules , it's always worked out well .... |
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"Just following on from another thread... would you still meet a person if they wouldn't or couldn't perform a sex act? Such as oral, anal or even if they only wanted soft play?"
I'd meet them even if they just wanted a coffee and might consider it if they just wanted to put my cock in their cappuccino  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get asked to go to meets. Just for sucking and wanking fun. They get turned down, purely on the basis of. If I'm going to the time and effort of getting ready and traveling to meet someone, I want sex. Simple as that. Kissing is also a must! As others have already said. Also, as much as I love receiving oral. Some guys won't give, that's fine, and I accept that.
Claire
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Id want to be kissed. Oral isn't a problem if they don't want to but I'd need sex definitely and I do like to snuggle afterwards "
I'd happily do all of those. Why don't some guys give oral. Its amazing!!!
Claire
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Id want to be kissed. Oral isn't a problem if they don't want to but I'd need sex definitely and I do like to snuggle afterwards
I'd happily do all of those. Why don't some guys give oral. Its amazing!!!
Claire
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I haven't had a guy who hasn't but there is a first time for everything I guess |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We meet people because we like them. All boundaries are respected always and we expect the same in return.
We would never want anyone to do something they aren't happy with. This is about fun and pleasure after all.
Mrs x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Quite a few say they won't do certain acts or will do certain acts and then either do or don't on meeting.I tend now take alot of what people say with a pinch of salt. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes.
Was in a relationship for over 10 years where I was given no oral 
However I would not meet someone who wants a certain body type (Muscle/Ripped) but makes no effort themselves to look after themselves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep. There are quite a few people on here I'd be happy to just meet for a coffee and catch up - and nothing else.
If it's a definite play meet then I'm quite vanilla anyway but probably the thing I'd miss the most (but not a deal breaker) would be oral on her |
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