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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why so much hate poured on woman who like hung men ?? Everything from I'm immature, shallow, a whore (??!), I'll grow out of it (??!!!)
Now I know it's about the whole package ( oops) but surly on a sex site woman should be able to cherry pick from their list of preferred requirements...or are we still living in the 50s and should be greatful that we get laid and actually enjoy it in the first place?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Who gives U hate ?? Guys who aren't vwe I presume ? Each to their own we say. Everyone has their likes and dislikes and like U said its a sex site so surely this is the one place you can be specific about such things |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you want the deep dark male truth it's an inferiority complex on the part of men.
Ask most normally hung men if they would take ten points off their IQ for a 9 inch dick they would take the dick and run!
I've seen men with serious leg wounds and limbs missing and they all say "Is my cock/dick still there!" and I'd be the same  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have to say I did a simular thread and the discussion started to turn to me being young, and it was a young and inexperienced person who would "think" that's what I wanted as apparently we are conditioned to think like this as we have been fed a diet of porn since the event of the digital age. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You're not alone - I've been called some foul names just because I've very politely turned somebody down over size...
Can't help feeling that some men must be so desperately insecure - plus, of course, there's the old double standards...
For as long as I can remember, men have gone on and on about the size of our breasts - big is wonderful and small is inadequate and somehow our fault! But if we dare to apply the same standards the other way and we get lambasted!!!
Fortunately, not all men are so demeaning - but the ones that do can be utterly horrible about it!
We are all different sizes in one way or another - why is there so much chritisism about simply wanting to get things that match up???
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why so much hate poured on woman who like hung men ?? Everything from I'm immature, shallow, a whore (??!), I'll grow out of it (??!!!)
Now I know it's about the whole package ( oops) but surly on a sex site woman should be able to cherry pick from their list of preferred requirements...or are we still living in the 50s and should be greatful that we get laid and actually enjoy it in the first place?
Thoughts please?"
If that's what you enjoy then who are others to judge?
You don't owe anyone an explanation on what you like and want you want.. It's your life live it on your terms. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you want the deep dark male truth it's an inferiority complex on the part of men.
Ask most normally hung men if they would take ten points off their IQ for a 9 inch dick they would take the dick and run!
I've seen men with serious leg wounds and limbs missing and they all say "Is my cock/dick still there!" and I'd be the same "
Speaking for yourself fella  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You're not alone - I've been called some foul names just because I've very politely turned somebody down over size...
Can't help feeling that some men must be so desperately insecure - plus, of course, there's the old double standards...
For as long as I can remember, men have gone on and on about the size of our breasts - big is wonderful and small is inadequate and somehow our fault! But if we dare to apply the same standards the other way and we get lambasted!!!
Fortunately, not all men are so demeaning - but the ones that do can be utterly horrible about it!
We are all different sizes in one way or another - why is there so much chritisism about simply wanting to get things that match up???
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Wholeheartedly agree...I happen to be the owner of small boobs not all men like it but lots do . It's what makes the world go round |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There will always be haters .
Whenever the cock size , does it matter ? Threads run , we say yes it does . Sabrina prefers large cocks and I prefer to see her with that too .
Ignore those who criticise you for your choices , and carry on enjoying what does it for you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not nice when it becomes seriously abusive and is aimed at you personally!!!
Yes, you can delete it etc - but you've still ended up reading some horrible hate and venom that has it's effect, and isn't easily forgotten...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just remember that it is their issue to deal with, not yours.
Unfortunately many people will throw stuff at you online that they would never dare say to your face.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not going to defend people for being abusive because it's not on at all. However think how you'd feel if you sent a message to a guy and he replied with no I don't want to meet you as your tits are too small or I think your arse is too big. It'd hurt I bet. So perhaps it's not exactly what you want but how you turn the guys down. Just saying |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I suspect the OP is referring to some of the threads on the forums with reference to her opening post. I too have seen threads where anyone saying size matters has been shallow etc.
Interesting that now advice is to enjoy whatever you like |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why so much hate poured on woman who like hung men ?? Everything from I'm immature, shallow, a whore (??!), I'll grow out of it (??!!!)
Now I know it's about the whole package ( oops) but surly on a sex site woman should be able to cherry pick from their list of preferred requirements...or are we still living in the 50s and should be greatful that we get laid and actually enjoy it in the first place?
Thoughts please?"
hey you like what you like bollocks to the small minded individuals we all have one preferance or another go for it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why so much hate poured on woman who like hung men ?? Everything from I'm immature, shallow, a whore (??!), I'll grow out of it (??!!!)
Now I know it's about the whole package ( oops) but surly on a sex site woman should be able to cherry pick from their list of preferred requirements...or are we still living in the 50s and should be greatful that we get laid and actually enjoy it in the first place?
Thoughts please?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lot of people need to grow up
I'm not fussed if people don't like the fact that I'm less than 6', that I'm not packing a huge tool, that I have a beard, that I wear glasses, that I'm ginger, that I'm older than they like
And if someone says 'thanks but no thanks' or deletes a message, life's too short to get upset or to send abuse, I move on and forget about it
If I'm not their type, then there are people who do like the package (thankfully) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not justifying any abuse you receive, but think of it this way, you are expressing a preference so inversely you are suggesting that a particular attribute is less attractive to you.
In essence you are saying guys with smaller penises arnt going to cut the mustard. That a less than large penis is unattractive.
Men in this society are defined by how manly they are. How big their muscles are, how much they earn how big thier dicks are. All these things are intimately linked to how men women and society perceive what it is to be a real man.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not justifying any abuse you receive, but think of it this way, you are expressing a preference so inversely you are suggesting that a particular attribute is less attractive to you.
In essence you are saying guys with smaller penises arnt going to cut the mustard. That a less than large penis is unattractive.
Men in this society are defined by how manly they are. How big their muscles are, how much they earn how big thier dicks are. All these things are intimately linked to how men women and society perceive what it is to be a real man.
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Whilst I don't disagree with you I think women have it MUCH worse in the real world with fat shaming, slut shaming, constant remarks about being a career woman (can't say I've ever heard the term career man used in a similar context) and various other times of pigeonholing.
I don't think it's wrong to think or express that one attribute, characteristic or dare I say is skin colour is preferable and we shouldn't feel bad for thinking it.
There are just as many people who wouldn't touch me with a barge pole because im black as would give me preference for that same reason. But there are far more people who wouldn't give me the time of day because once you get to know me I'm a bit of a dick |
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
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Many people take a degree of risk coming on this site (being found out by there non swinging friends, family, work...); so joining Fab has to be worthwhile for them, so yes, they have the right to choose and to be fussy.
Otherwise they may as well just take pot-luck in the bars and clubs (non sex/swinging). What's the point of Fab if its not to offer those things that satisfy you sexually? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not justifying any abuse you receive, but think of it this way, you are expressing a preference so inversely you are suggesting that a particular attribute is less attractive to you.
In essence you are saying guys with smaller penises arnt going to cut the mustard. That a less than large penis is unattractive.
Men in this society are defined by how manly they are. How big their muscles are, how much they earn how big thier dicks are. All these things are intimately linked to how men women and society perceive what it is to be a real man.
Whilst I don't disagree with you I think women have it MUCH worse in the real world with fat shaming, slut shaming, constant remarks about being a career woman (can't say I've ever heard the term career man used in a similar context) and various other times of pigeonholing.
I don't think it's wrong to think or express that one attribute, characteristic or dare I say is skin colour is preferable and we shouldn't feel bad for thinking it.
There are just as many people who wouldn't touch me with a barge pole because im black as would give me preference for that same reason. But there are far more people who wouldn't give me the time of day because once you get to know me I'm a bit of a dick "
I never said women have it easier, but there is a lot more discussion about how hard it is for women and how thier body difines them.
But in reality men feel a lot of pressure too, it's just considered unmanly to talk about it.
It's perfectly OK to make a selection based on some ones physical attributes, it's just that it feels shitty of your attributes arnt what's considered attractive;-)
I'm sure you don't have a monopoly on being a dick |
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